I need to write and hopefully get people to respond. Long Sorry.

[Hotwife_Stag]

Suchen, I couldn't agree more.

[Hotwife_Stag]

I want to also add something. I have been following this thread from the beginning. It started with the husband wanting to be cuckold and it was part of their fantasy for 5 or 6 years. Carrie was unsure if what this would lead to and how she would feel about her husband after being shared with other man.

Fast forward to later comments where Carrie tells us how promiscuous she was during her younger years and even had a rape fantasy where she placed herself in danger to act out said fantasy. I refrained from commenting on the fact that only a few mentioned how dangerous and potentially life ending that little walk could have been. I don't even believe it happened. Like many other over the top scenarios, Carrie is looking for a reaction and if she doesn't get it, she threatens to pull the plug on her story telling.

Did you ever wonder how someone that loves telling us her stories won't even post a picture of her feet? Someone who doesn't have an issue about discretion in her own community where her bulls have shared her with people she hasn't met prior, people she may know and won't find out until she arrives? Yet, when she describes herself it's always "my feet look like so and so," or "I look like this morning newsperson." Never were we shown a photo, even a photo where her own family would not be able to recognize her, from a person who throws caution to the wind.

I hope that I'm right calling BS on this whole thread instead of being wrong and this is true. It would be very sad reading this from a troubled woman in a forum filled with people rooting her on.

[sadie]

The only thing I'm wondering right now Carrie, do you have *Anthony's* permission to schedule an AC appointment? ;-)

[rascalnvixen]

Hotwife_stag,

I think I can speak for most of the members who follow this thread in this regard. Your comment is misplaced for a couple of reasons. We here have a pretty good nose for BS and I haven't seen ANYONE in the 18 months they have been posting that has ever called BS. A second reason is that if you don't like what you see then keep it to yourself and move on!! Thirdly, according to the rules of this board, if you think a thread is BS then the appropriate course is to notify a moderator or admin and they will take whatever action is deemed prudent. You would have probably learned that if you had been here for a while to understand our community better before you chose to take a shot like this. This is in my view inappropriate and I will be noting this to a moderator.

Carrie and Mike, Someone like this is bound to pop up from time to time and I would encourage you to disregard his comments.

Rascal

[subtoall]

I really wish judgmental ass holes were aware that they are judgmental ass holes.

Recent posts on this thread are perfect examples of the the types of posts that lead many prolific posters to stop sharing such amazing glimpses into their intimate lives.

Moderation is needed by the owners of this forum.

[Whosbeensleeping]

I really wish judgmental ass holes were aware that they are judgmental ass holes.

Recent posts on this thread are perfect examples of the the types of posts that lead many prolific posters to stop sharing such amazing glimpses into their intimate lives.

Moderation is needed by the owners of this forum.

Amen to that.

[Hotwife_Stag]

I knew I was going to catch grief but if I'm being called judgmental because someone is exercising bad judgment then it's true...I'm judgmental.

To those that think I'm an asshole, you find nothing wrong with a young woman putting herself in mortal danger acting out a rape fantasy? How many of you messaged her to continue with therapy? The rape scene that "Anthony" set up was in fact a rape. She was scared out of her wits and raped, forced to have sex against her will. I think she mentioned that she was left in the Florida Everglades where anything could have happened to her. "Good job, Carrie, how exciting it must have been for you. Can't wait to here more" was how many of the comments were written.

So before "Anthony," the rich muscular black man orchestrated her rape, he told her of his violent tendencies and his criminal rap sheet with domestic violence. Nice! Even though he was never convicted on any of them because charges were dropped he was able to prove that they were real. How does someone prove of a crime that was never brought forth in a court of law? Serious question, I'm not a lawyer and I would like to know. Also, nice touch on the CPR classes in case he actually comes close to killing Carrie.

Carrie was introduced to "Anthony," the rich black man, who fantasizes of hurting her, by his friend the rich white man who was equally as violent as "Anthony." Remember him? He was the villain who had his chauffeur rape Carrie after he abused her himself. At least the chauffeur gave Carrie a hug when he dropped her off at home.

Everyone loves how Carrie writes. She tells us that it takes 3, 4 or 5 hours to write her posts. Really? Other than telling us how she's being abused none of the characters have been fleshed out. What do these rich villains do for a living? Do they have family? Why didn't Mike demand his wife to press charges when the chauffeur raped her? Why would the chauffeur rape her on his bosses command? "Mr. Chauffeur, please prepare for a full and demanding schedule next Monday. After you drive me home from the office, please pick up my dry cleaning and be back at the mansion by seven to rape the girl with the pretty feet...bwahahaha."

Honestly, I hope this is all bs because by some small chance that there's some truth to this, it's not going to end well. I hope that the person who is author of this thread is writing fiction, bad fiction.

[rascalnvixen]

Ok HWS. I hope you feel better now that you have vented your concerns. For some reason, you find it necessary to attack the primary poster of this thread. Now that you have done that twice, I hope you can now move on to haunt some other website and leave these nice folks alone.

Rascal

[willingtoo]

I want to also add something. I have been following this thread from the beginning. It started with the husband wanting to be cuckold and it was part of their fantasy for 5 or 6 years. Carrie was unsure if what this would lead to and how she would feel about her husband after being shared with other man.

Fast forward to later comments where Carrie tells us how promiscuous she was during her younger years and even had a rape fantasy where she placed herself in danger to act out said fantasy. I refrained from commenting on the fact that only a few mentioned how dangerous and potentially life ending that little walk could have been. I don't even believe it happened. Like many other over the top scenarios, Carrie is looking for a reaction and if she doesn't get it, she threatens to pull the plug on her story telling.

Did you ever wonder how someone that loves telling us her stories won't even post a picture of her feet? Someone who doesn't have an issue about discretion in her own community where her bulls have shared her with people she hasn't met prior, people she may know and won't find out until she arrives? Yet, when she describes herself it's always "my feet look like so and so," or "I look like this morning newsperson." Never were we shown a photo, even a photo where her own family would not be able to recognize her, from a person who throws caution to the wind.

I hope that I'm right calling BS on this whole thread instead of being wrong and this is true. It would be very sad reading this from a troubled woman in a forum filled with people rooting her on.

Hotwife_stag and thisgirlwonders,

The underlying feeling I get from your two posts is Anger. I can only assume it's because I have decided to stop writing in great detail or because you feel you have been lied to. Maybe it's because I choose to engage in sex acts that you feel are putting my life in danger. Whatever it is there is certainly Anger beneath your accusations.

Why would you continue to read "Bad Fiction" for over 1.5 years?

I will not try to convince you that our story is real. Why should I? I have said several times that If I were reading this thread I would have trouble believing some of it was real myself. I respect your determination that it's not authentic because I can see how someone might question the credibility of our story. Certainly some of it is hard to believe.

I wrote extensively about Anthony's background from his childhood circumstances to College and beyond. Both of his marriages were discussed. There was information about his adult children and the fact that he owns a Small Business Investment firm.

Sexual assaults and abuse charges stay on your record for life even if charges are dropped. I have verified Anthony's felony charges. It's in the public records

Aaron's background was also discussed at some length. His marriage and that he owned, then sold a Software Company worth millions.

Why would I describe, "Flesh Out" any more? This isn't a Novel where characters need to be "Fleshed Out." These men have no interest in me other than using me for their sexual gratification. We

There are definitely loosely organized groups of wealthy men that work together to satisfy their mutual sexual Kinks. It's usually wealthy men because they have the means to be creative and have connections they have made over the years traveling for business. It was an accidental meeting at a Foot Night.

I mention my feet so much because it pleases Mike. My feet are integral to his enjoyment of me being with other men. When I include details about men using my feet, or my feet making me feel sexy, it's totally for Mike's benefit not anyone here.

Why would I write about my feet when there are zero men reading my posts interested in feet. Mike really gets off knowing that my feet are being used by other men and that my feet make me feel sexy. He has always wanted me to feel sexy about my feet and now I do.

I am now much more aware that the sexual appeal of my feet goes beyond Mike. Before our journey, I never met another man who was into female feet. That apparently my feet are exceptionally pretty to some men and that makes me feel sexy Just as girls who have Boob Jobs fall in love with their own Tits.

Not so hard to understand or believe men like Aaron and Anthony frequent Foot related functions to seek out certain women. There are Foot Night Parties all over the world. Look it up! There are also private "Foot" groups that meet here in South Florida like the group Anthony and Zach have loosely organized.

Other details I have given about my appearance were given because we thought it would be great for you to have at least an idea of what I look like. I have made it clear that posting pictures is risky because pictures can be traced to specific people and locations. I would love to post pictures.

Last Night ended earlier than I thought. It was very sexy and very exciting, but he picked me up at 4:00 and things lasted until about 11:00. I was so tired after almost 7 hours I asked Anthony if he minded taking me home. He knew I was totally exhausted and I was home before 12:00.

Carrie

[sadie]

Well said Carrie, thanks for weighing in <3 <3

[rickh57]

Thanks for reporting in, Carrie. I'm glad that you had another fun and exciting evening with Anthony, even if you ended up exhausted and tired.

Rick

[sadie]

I"m pretty sure that exhausted is a necessary consequence of sex with Anthony. I know I prefer that kind of sex myself ;-)

[couple_uk]

10/10 for the response, Carrie.

Glad the evening with Anthony went well.

[subtoall]

Carrie, That was a great reply to the negative nancys. You're far more charitable than I was.

I have no problem imagining that 7 hours with Anthony exhausted you. I would have expected you to sleep until noon today!

[solstice]

Well I think that Hotwife_Stag may have got what he wanted with your reply, your lifestyle may be different from many of the the other contributors, but it has truth stamped all the way through with it's consistency. although you have been dissatisfied by the response to your thread, and the numbers if compared to other threads are remarkably good.
I hope you can find the time to give a juicy summary of your latest night, even if you think it is not deserved

[conflictedhubby]

Was happy to see your response to those less than exemplary posts Carrie, very composed and well said

7 hours? Jeebus, were you able to walk straight today?

[Hotcplpec]

Carrie. I am likely part of the majority. I love reading your posts, you’re living life. Enjoying your fantasies as they become realities. I’m jealous. It doesn’t mean my fantasies are the same as yours, that’s not the point, I’m envious because you’re living it. Please keep enjoying and please keep sharing. I’m sorry I rarely comment but believe me I love reading whatever you care to share. Thank you.

[ckathrill]

Though I did not comment, I did enjoy your stories and found them so very hot!

[NewOldCuck]

Thisgirlwonders,

It’s hard to explain unless you have been in Carrie’s shoes but I’ll try and answer some of your concerns. I think a lot of your concerns were answered by some of Sadie’s posts. While I only know her from her posts, she offered some suggestions that were sane and logical. Most BDSM players believe in SSC (safe, sane, consensual) play and, if they don’t, you should avoid them like the plague. Similarly to the HW or Cuckold LS, constant, honest communication is the key. Carrie, IMHO, is like a moth drawn to the flame. The more you get, the more you want. It’s almost like an addiction. To properly give yourself up to someone, you have to trust them to keep you from going too far. She has placed her trust in Anthony and he has rewarded her by helping her live out some her darkest, deepest fantasies safely. As she discovered with her rape fantasy, sometimes fantasies can’t match up to real life so she checked that box and moved on. In that context, I don’t think she is feeding off anyone’s wishes but her own. Where she goes from here, only she knows. I don’t want to take up a lot of time or hijack this thread, so I’ll end it here. If I was unclear or you have other questions, please feel free to PM me.

New Old Cuck

[samlowen]

Thisgirlwonders,

It’s hard to explain unless you have been in Carrie’s shoes but I’ll try and answer some of your concerns. I think a lot of your concerns were answered by some of Sadie’s posts. While I only know her from her posts, she offered some suggestions that were sane and logical. Most BDSM players believe in SSC (safe, sane, consensual) play and, if they don’t, you should avoid them like the plague. Similarly to the HW or Cuckold LS, constant, honest communication is the key. Carrie, IMHO, is like a moth drawn to the flame. The more you get, the more you want. It’s almost like an addiction. To properly give yourself up to someone, you have to trust them to keep you from going too far. She has placed her trust in Anthony and he has rewarded her by helping her live out some her darkest, deepest fantasies safely. As she discovered with her rape fantasy, sometimes fantasies can’t match up to real life so she checked that box and moved on. In that context, I don’t think she is feeding off anyone’s wishes but her own. Where she goes from here, only she knows. I don’t want to take up a lot of time or hijack this thread, so I’ll end it here. If I was unclear or you have other questions, please feel free to PM me.

New Old Cuck

I like your response but politely disagree with one point. I do feel that Carrie feeds off some of the comments, especially those from the consistent cheerleaders. She has acknowledged that she seeks attention from men and wants to please them, and we’ve seen her back away when she isn’t getting the response she desires. I’d consider the comments here to be a supplement to her own desires and also somewhat of a validation of them.

[subtoall]

OK, you asked.

I have a serious question: Are there any limits to BDSM? If a person gives consent to trust someone that is not worthy of trust there is nothing preventing a tragedy, right? Am I mistaken, or have there not been instances where people have died from this sort of play?

I think you are being presumptuous in suggesting that Anthony is "not worthy of trust." It appears that the only two intelligent adults on this thread who have met Anthony (Carrie and Mike) have judged him to be trustworthy. Are you suggesting that YOUR opinion of Anthony should supercede their experience of him?

It seems to me that Carrie is being encouraged by people that are 'getting off' on her adventures, without really considering the person Carrie and the real life that lives beyond this story. It's easy to get turned on and forget about the fact that Carrie is feeding off the responses she gets from us. At what point is caution rather than enthusiasm, the best approach to a thread like this?

It takes willful blindness to ignore the caution that many of Carrie and Mike's most frequent (and I presume, valued) commenters have offered throughout their journey on this thread.

Question: "At what point is caution rather than enthusiasm, the best approach to a thread like this?"
Answer: When you are certain you know better than the person chronicling her life here what is best for her.

Humility. It's a thing.

[NewOldCuck]

Samlowen,

Point well taken,

New Old Cuck

[solstice]

It is not easy to know how many deaths are caused by sex games strangling gone wrong, It is a growing practice and it is estimated that in the US there is as many as ten deaths a week, If you Google there is a Guardian article about a case in Britain that the guy got 17 years in prison, and there is a link to a petition warning of the practice.
You would think this Forum would discourage those "games"

[sadie]

I don't waive concerns, immediately or otherwise and my posts in the thread have always tried to walk the line if supportive *and* offering the best feedback and where appropriate, advice I can manage.

Your questions make it clear you don't know much about BDSM. I do. I can't respond at length, however I will say I know Carrie pretty well at this point and if I felt she were in actual danger (as opposed the having her limits seriously pushed which has been clear about wanting), I would be saying so.

I understood your prior comment, and to some extent this one as offering your evaluation or judgment as superior to her own. That feels intrusive, maybe not as respectful a tone as you'd intended to convey.

[sadie]

Hi New Old,
I have watched and read Sadie's comments and, maybe it's just me, but, she has not really answered some of my basic concerns through her responses. She seems abundantly confident in her experience and advice, but, I can't shake the feeling that we are feeding into what Carrie wants and she is looking for encouragement. If you consider the title of this feed, 'I need to write and hopefully get people to respond. Long Sorry.' I think it's clear she has wanted feedback and guidance all along. Hasn't she asked, 'am I crazy?' more than once? Ah well, I guess I am in the minority, but, thanks for your reasonable response.
Thisgirl

Thanks (I think) for addressing me specifically (if indirectly).

I'm not spending time here to provide you with individualized instruction in the ins and outs of leathersex. I've been involved in same for 23 years now, I suggest if you want to know, go and research, there's more than adequate resources. My personal preference is "Flogging" by Joseph W Bean.