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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by zorro » Sun Mar 05, 2023 2:45 pm

muchred wrote:
Sun Mar 05, 2023 11:58 am
It's been a long time but I have an update.
Yesterday we were having a bed talk and we talked about enjoying professional massages, I've never had one but she has. She asked me out of the blue if I would want to receive an happy ending if the masseuse would have proposed one, I was taken by surprise and I said that probably I would have refused, but it would have depended on the mood and the relationship with the other person. I asked her the same question and she said that if she found the masseur attractive she would have agreed. I was speechless, she teased me a little and asked if I would be jealous, I was horny to be honest and she noticed that. We talked about it a little bit and then we changed subject.
I didn't bring it up when we had sex today because I didn't feel it was the right time but I'm already thinking about bringing it up the next time I give her a massage.
I have to echo Farmgirl's sage advice: Ask her how she would want it to go. Get curious. Ask questions. Learn what she thinks might be exciting for her. Make the experience about her. That shows you are tuned into her thoughts and feelings and not imposing them on her.
It's actually hotter this way!
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by robzig » Sun Mar 05, 2023 11:08 pm

Book the massage for her. Your audience awaits the update. We hope she has a wonderful fulfilling experience.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by Ijustloveher » Thu Mar 09, 2023 4:53 pm

Give her a massage ad offer her to think about the other guy while you are on it. Ask her to cum on him (thinking about him).

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by Tank Turner » Thu Mar 09, 2023 6:03 pm

Hi muchred,

Multiple partner sex is an extremely common and normal women's fantasy. I'd be surprised if most women haven't at least thought about it and they probably have fantasized about it. Surveys indicated that over 30% of woman have done multiple partner sex at least once. My wife swears that that percentage in much higher than 30%. She has married and single girlfriends who do multiple partner sex. My wife thinks that multiple partner sex isn't a big deal. She does not think it should be taboo.

Your wife appears to have fantasized about multiple partner sex.

I know that my wife had fantasized about MFM sex years before she told me that she was going to seduce a man. She would have told me about her fantasy long before she did, but she wasn't 100% certain that I'd support her. I did ask her a few years ago how certain she was that I'd agree to do MFM sex with her when she told me about her plan to seduce a man. She immediately replied that she was 99% certain that I'd support her and participate with her.

My advice is take your wife out to dinner at a quiet restaurant. After a few drinks, ask her how she envisions fucking two guys. Do not say a word until she finishes talking. Do not interrupt her. Listen closely to her intonation. Listen for words she emphasizes. Watch how she says watch she says. Body language often reveals truth. When she's done explaining how she'd fuck two guys, you'll have a good idea of whether she wants to do it.

Based on your posts, I'd guess she's at least 80% on board. I wouldn't be surprised that she's 100% on board.

Sexually uninhibited and liberated women in their sexual prime can take care of two men without breaking a sweat. I've been told that women are built for threesomes and moresomes.
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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by zorro » Thu Mar 09, 2023 6:24 pm

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Thu Mar 09, 2023 6:03 pm
Sexually uninhibited and liberated women in their sexual prime can take care of two men without breaking a sweat. I've been told that women are built for threesomes and moresomes.
I agree. The main limiting factor is social conditioning.
Left to their own biology, women can be outstandingly sexy.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by Tank Turner » Fri Mar 10, 2023 3:48 pm

zorro wrote:
Thu Mar 09, 2023 6:24 pm
Tank Turner wrote:
Thu Mar 09, 2023 6:03 pm
Sexually uninhibited and liberated women in their sexual prime can take care of two men without breaking a sweat. I've been told that women are built for threesomes and moresomes.
I agree. The main limiting factor is social conditioning.
Left to their own biology, women can be outstandingly sexy.
Hi zorro,

You've written it perfectly.

My wife is legitimately beautiful. She turns heads wherever we go, She was born with an abnormal hormone condition a symptom of which is elevated libido to nymphomania. She has an incredibly beautiful, sparkling, golden glow on her face when she's playfully enjoying sex with a young stud who's intimidated by her hot & sexy naked body. I marvel at her beautiful facial expressions and sweet melody of her voice while she's playfully enjoying sex with a sexually inexperienced young stud.

A sexually confident woman is alluring and most desirable. There's a damned good reason most men wish they could marry porn stars.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by wannabecUKold » Fri Mar 10, 2023 10:42 pm

Preparation is all.
Go and meet the masseur you have identified. Have a massage and get to know the guy and explain what she wants.
Book a swanky hotel room
Take champagne candles and a playlist as well as lube and condoms.
Arrive early with her. Get naked Have a shower. Climb into bed. open the fizz.
Then the masseur arrives. Strips to his T shirt and shorts. Starts her massage with her face down naked on the bed.
When she is relaxed he strips naked.
Finally he turns her over and her pussy is inches from his cock. He continues to massage her and it progresses to sex. His cock enters her. In front of you.
He doesn’t stay long. You get your reclaiming sex.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Mar 11, 2023 9:47 am

muchred wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 8:00 am
Hello guys, I've been a lurker for a while now. Sorry for my english, I'm not a native english speaker. Anyway last weekend I finally had the opportunity and the courage to tell her about my fantasy.

It's been three days and we haven't talked about it, I learned from you guys to not be pushy but I would be happy if you could give me some advise on how to proceed.
Our advice is to begin with placing an ad at one of the better married-but-dating sites like Madison Ashley. Most prefer not to post her face photo to avoid potential identification by anyone either of you know. She should first meet with any guys who respond to her ad at a neutral location like a lounge or a coffeeshop. It's best not to give respondents her full name, address, or phone number until she feels comfortable he's the right guy.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by zorro » Sat Mar 11, 2023 4:30 pm

Tank Turner wrote:
Fri Mar 10, 2023 3:48 pm
My wife is legitimately beautiful. She turns heads wherever we go, She was born with an abnormal hormone condition a symptom of which is elevated libido to nymphomania. She has an incredibly beautiful, sparkling, golden glow on her face when she's playfully enjoying sex with a young stud who's intimidated by her hot & sexy naked body. I marvel at her beautiful facial expressions and sweet melody of her voice while she's playfully enjoying sex with a sexually inexperienced young stud.
She -- and you -- are terrifically fortunate for this biological gift. It can afford her enormous pleasure. And she is very fortunate to have you as her husband, a loving man not threatened by her being true to her own nature.
Keep us informed, please.
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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by Tank Turner » Sun Mar 12, 2023 1:29 pm

Hi zorro,

Thank you so much for your kind words.

My wife's hormonal condition is not unusual. Many of her endocrinologist's patients have the identical condition. If it's not detected early, it could become serious. Many women have much more severe cases of it. In extreme cases, women can appear masculine and grow facial hair. An elongated clit can be an indicator of a hyperactive adrenal gland.

You can do a 'net sex of, "Women elevated testosterone levels," for medical info on the condition and symptons of it.

My wife has thick hair that other women would pay a fortune of have. She can grow a thick bush. She usually keeps it trimmed, groomed, and sexy. She does not have prominent symptoms of a hyperactive adrenal gland that many women have. She has big, natural tits. Women with extreme cases of hyperactive adrenal glands have small tits. My wife's parents caught her condition while she was in puberty and immediately sought medical care for her. If they hadn't, her condition might have become more severe.

Hyperactive libido is a common symptom of my wife's hormonal condition. Her endocrinologist told her that he could medicate her to moderate her libido. She declined his offer. She was honest with him. She told him that she loved sex.

I knew when I was dating her that I couldn't keep up with her sexual desires. I used to fuck her at least three times a night and twice more in the morning. It wasn't enough to satisfy her. When her adrenal gland is hyperactive, she can fuck for hours with rest breaks. I stopped counting after she had a dozen explosive orgasms. She's told me that she doesn't know how many orgasms she's had from a single sex session. She can cum until she's exhausted.

After a few years into our marriage, I knew I was sexually over-matched.

I've never felt jealous or threatened by her fucking other guys. I've always participated. She loves MFM sex and moresomes. She has a gang bang fantasy. If I knew how to arrange one, she'd get gang banged.

With very few exceptions, we always fall asleep in bed together alone. Unless she's exhausted from fucking for hours, she'll take a shower or rinse off cum from her body before falling asleep next to me.

While we were dating and during an all night sex session, she told me that some men liked to cum on her body and admire it. She didn't care. Some of the guys she's fucked have dumped loads on her body. She likes warm cum on her tits. She'll always rinse it off before coming to bed unless she's too exhausted. She does not like dried, caked cum on her body.

I thought I was in love before I met my wife. After I fell in love with her, I realized that she's the only woman I have ever truly loved. We're best friends and in love with each other. We have no secrets between us. However, I've never asked her about her sexual activity before she met me. She has volunteered a lot of information about her sexual experiences knowing that I'd never, ever judge her. Both of us know the difference between sex for physical euphoria and sex as an expression of love and bonding.

I'll love and support her sexual excursions for as long as she desires.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by whosbeensleeping » Sun Mar 12, 2023 6:16 pm

Maybe ask her if she wants to try to find someone to perform that service?

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Unread post by muchred » Thu Jun 01, 2023 1:43 am

Sorry if I didn't answer to the people here but I feel we are still a bit behind what you guys think, I don't want to push her to meet or even talk to someone right now and I don't want to keep asking questions outside the bed. I know she is more receptive when I tell her during sex if she would like my fingers that she's sucking to be another man's cock or something like that so I tried to lean to the roleplay approach.

Some days ago I gave my gf a massage. I asked her to put the blindfold on and she accepted, she teased a little because at that point she was sure we were going to have some sexy times. I started massaging her back focusing on her shoulders then on lower back. I moved down to her butt and I massaged it for a while but I didn't go near her pussy. I then focused on her legs, from the feet all the way up her thighs. I went back to her ass and when she spread her legs I started touching lightly her lips while moving my hands on her butt, after a bit I asked:
Me: "How are you, enjoying the massage? Are you getting excited?"
Her: "Yes"
Me: "Do you think you would be excited if a hot massage therapist was massaging you like this?"
Her: "Yes I think so"
Me: "Would you stop him if he touched your pussy "by accident" like this?"
Her: "No"
I know my girlfriend is not very talkative during sex but I took as good sign that at this point she opened her legs even more, her pussy was fully exposed. I repeated the same motions with my hands for a few times and the I touched a little more her lips and just once her clit. I could feel she was starting to get wet and so I said:
Me: "He would notice that you opened your legs for him."
She moaned, I touched inside her pussy and she was indeed very wet and I started caressing her clit with my middle finger.
Me: "And he would notice that you are getting very wet."
She moaned another time
Me: "Are you thinking about it?"
Again another moan.
I decided it was time to talk less and I gently kissed her butthole and I started rimming her and then I put first one and the two fingers in her pussy. At this point she started to moan continously and she was completely soaked. After some minutes she begged me to take her vibrator, I didn't talk, I just took the toy and gave it to her. She rolled on her back and she turned on her toy and started to use it. I fingered her again but I couldn't rim her anymore so I just caressed her other hole and then I put the tip of my finger in and the I took the buttplug and caressed her hole with it, she gasped but I kissed her thighs, she calmed down and I inserted the plug. After just a couple of minutes she stopped using her toy, started again after a few seconds and then stopped another time. She took the blindfold off, looked at me and said:
Her: "I'm going to cum soon I need you inside me"
She went straight to cowgirl, which is the only position that make her come, and came in like 10 seconds.
I didn't want to push it too far and keeping on talking about the fantasy and honestly I also wanted to gave her a good primal fucking and that's what I did, I fucked her hard in her pussy and she came again using her toy while I was banging her doggystyle. I took the plug out and I started to put my cock in her ass, I waited a bit to make her get used to it and then I started fucking her ass.
Her: "I want you to come"
Me: "No, I want to pound you asshole really hard today, put your hands behind your back and take it"
She did just that, I grapped her hands so she couldn't move and I pounded her fast for some minutes. She screamed and took it like a champ until I came in her ass.
She was shaking like a leaf but when she calmed down she just said:
Her: "It was awesome."
We cleaned and then cuddled for a while, I said:
Me: "I really liked that we were both into it, you liked the massage fantasy don't you?"
Her: "Yes I liked it, you know massages get me very wet."
Me: "I know and you know I have this fantasy to see you with other people and I was blown away to see you getting so excited by this fantasy."
Her: "It's just a fantasy though, I just want you."
Me: "I know but you were so hot, thinking about you with him drove me crazy, I'm not asking you to do it but sometimes fantasies become reality."
Her: "Sometimes."
We cuddled some more and then we slept.
We haven't talked about it since, let's see next time, if the setting is right I will bring it up again but I feel like that she is far more receptive now that I bring up this fantasy just from time to time, way less often than at the beginning when I told her about it for the first time.
Thanks for reading this, it's a step forward, let's see.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by Wantsomefunto » Thu Jun 01, 2023 6:48 am

Maybe get a dildo bigger than you and extend the fantasy to another guy penetrating her during the next massage

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by muchred » Fri Jun 02, 2023 1:32 am

Wantsomefunto wrote:
Thu Jun 01, 2023 6:48 am
Maybe get a dildo bigger than you and extend the fantasy to another guy penetrating her during the next massage
I was thinking about buying a big dildo, before we met she told me she slept with at least two guys who were very big, one of whom was a bbc and her fwb in highschool. I've been able to fist her a couple of times so I'm quite sure she's a size queen!
Maybe I should also take the courage to ask her directly how it is to take a very big dick and if she can remember some of her past experiences.

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Unread post by Wantsomefunto » Fri Jun 02, 2023 3:56 am

Yes ask her for sure and ask her if she misses that full feeling and wants to try it again

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Unread post by muchred » Sun Jun 04, 2023 10:50 pm

Another update, I bought her a dildo and she really liked it. It is 7" long and 2" diameter.
Yesterday we fooled around and I showed her the new toy, she was a bit taken aback at first but I reassured her that I wasn't going to use it hard and fast and that she could sto me whenever she wanted. Butterflies started to fly when she told me she was also worried to get her pussy stretched out and that she was going to feel my dick less. That was unexpected but I reassured her again saying that I found very exciting to see her stretched out with a bigger dick. She just smiled and said "ok then".
As usual I massaged her and then I rimmed her from behind. I fingered her a little bit and then I lubed the dildo up. First I just put the tip and then more and more until it was all the way inside her. That's when things got interesting.
Me: "Does it hurt?"
Her: "No! It feels amazing!"
Me: "Does it fill you up more than me?"
Her: "Babe, it's bigger, obviously it fills me up more than you!"
Me: "And do you like it?
Her: "Yes, a lot."
I wasn't hard but I got to another level of excitement hearing her saying that while I was rimming her and slowly fucking her with the dildo. At one point she asked me to stop moving the dildo and she started to move and fuck the dildo rocking her hips back and forward. She then asked for her vibrator and I started to use it on her. I was fully dedicated to her, my tongue in her ass, vibrator in one hand, dildo in the other hand and she was fucking it faster and faster.
Her: "Please stop, I don't want to come already, please fuck me and make me cum"
Me: "Baby I think it's very hot to see you like this, I would love to see you cum on this big dick."
She smiled and said: "ok then, give me the vibrator."
She turned around and started using the vibrator while I was fucking her with the dildo and caressing her body. When she was about to come I pushed the dildo all the way inside her and I slipped a finger in her ass, she came very very hard.
I let her rest for a moment and then we started fucking. Her pussy was very stretched out but actually I really loved the feeling, I would say that it was warmer than usual.
I fucked her passionately first and then very hard, she usually asks me to slow down when I start to give it to her hard but this time she was into it and asking for more. We fucked in front of the mirror and I busted a huge load on her back, a drop of cum even reached her hair, she was a bit pissed but we had a laugh at the end. Then we cleaned up from the sweat, the lube and the cum.
I wanted to ask her how the dildo felt and maybe about her past big dicks experiences but when I was about to talk about it she introduced another subject and then we fall asleep. I'm planning to ask these questions soon though, probably outside the bedroom so she can talk more extensively about it.
I'm planning to do a little roleplay with the dildo the next time we fool around.
I can already tell she really likes big dicks and it drives me wild.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by muchred » Wed Jun 07, 2023 7:49 am

We talked a bit and she admitted it. I asked her if she misses the sensation of a big cock inside her pussy and she said yes.

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Unread post by BT2 » Fri Jun 09, 2023 5:31 pm

Muchred, my wife and I started out with a massage. No professional masseuse would dare go over the line, but there were men who posted that they would give a woman a bodyrub, with her limits observed.. Her first visit she was naked, and it was she who started the action by inducing him to strip down towards the end of the massage, and he gave her an orgasm. The second visit, also a massage, ended with mutual oral. The third visit culminated with intercourse. I was present and watched all three visits. If your wife is still interested i massages, I highly recommend it.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by muchred » Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:17 pm

I ask my girlfriend about her kinkiest fuck she has ever had, she said it was with her bbc fwb in highschool.He used to fuck her almost everyday, literally everywhere, at school, in the car, outside.She told me once during winter they fucked on the hood of her car and since there was snow outside he couldn't cum so he fucked for a really long time, it was her longest fuck ever and it was the only time she came more the once during the same session. She couldn't refuse to fuck him every time he asked.

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by ddriver86 » Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:11 pm

Name brand of dildo please? Link? Sounds like a good recommendation.

Thanks

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Re: I told her and she said "we can do it if you want"

Unread post by muchred » Thu Jun 15, 2023 1:19 am

ddriver86 wrote:
Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:11 pm
Name brand of dildo please? Link? Sounds like a good recommendation.

Thanks
It's a local brand from my country, it's made of silexpan sylicon.


She told me another hot story, it's about her ex bf best friend, she fucked him after the breakup and he was the biggest she ever had, long and thick. They matched on tinder, got drunk in a reserved bar and then they fucked like crazy at his place, she forgot her underwear there and the day after her ass was super red

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