MFM with hubby, or Date alone?

[MarknSusan]

Susan and I are pretty much 50-50 on this and we have had many more MFM than one on one’s or a date. They both result in great experiences for both of us.

We were talking recently to another hotwife couple and they prefer one on one encounters, but he does not want her to go on a dinner date because he feels that’s a boundary they don’t cross. Susan told both of them that she loves it when it a date and the guy wines and dines her. So I guess the poll could have had a third choice separating a date from a one on one experience.

Let us know your feelings on the difference between a “date” and “one on one” sex please.

[curiouschattycouple]

We are trying to figure this out. I want MFM, she wants to play alone first until she is comfortable, then have me join in for subsequent dates. I do like both options although my preference is to be there, but this is about her.

[Natatude]

We both prefer grizz be there however I do have one lover that isn’t comfy getting naked in front of another man yet, but I WILL work him up to it!

[wifelver]

My wife always dates alone. It’s her prerogative and freedom to do whatever she’d like. She behaves as a single woman and dates whoever she wants. I prefer it that way myself. I don’t want her feeling that she has to put on a show for me and it’s far more natural for her to be one-on-one in her relationships with other men (or women). In this way she can be more spontaneous and simply go with the flow, while expressing her true inner self.

[luvwives999]

Can't pick just one, we have done both and like both equally. However, one on one is much easier to set up.

[snoogaloo82]

We both prefer grizz be there however I do have one lover that isn’t comfy getting naked in front of another man yet, but I WILL work him up to it!

by the way how do you work him up to that? i'm asking for my sweetie.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

It is better for both of us for my wife to play alone.
We tried a threesome a while back, but it made us both uncomfortable.
My imagination is much more of a turn on than being there myself. Didn't have any problems with jealousy. But nervousness and self conscious feelings got in my head a bit, and I didn't enjoy it. My wife said she was uncomfortable with me being there too. She perfers one on one interactions. She can let loose and enjoy herself when she is alone with other men.

Interesting that the poll seems to be an even split.

[snoogaloo82]

It is better for both of us for my wife to play alone.
We tried a threesome a while back, but it made us both uncomfortable.
My imagination is much more of a turn on than being there myself. Didn't have any problems with jealousy. But nervousness and self conscious feelings got in my head a bit, and I didn't enjoy it. My wife said she was uncomfortable with me being there too. She perfers one on one interactions. She can let loose and enjoy herself when she is alone with other men.

Interesting that the poll seems to be an even split.

Do you think that either of you would be comfortable with a threesome with your wife alone without you?

[ProfessorH]

When we started, she did solo. It felt less like performance. But after a few experiences, she realized she wants me there. Looking over and seeing me there enhanced it, reassured her that it was okay to enjoy herself.

It evolved from she would come home to a reclaim, to I was there watching (and documenting for later enjoyment), to I’ll be joining in (with her only) from time to time.

She still will do daytime/coffee meets alone. But night time meets, if there’s alcohol, or if she’s feeling like the tingle might be there…I’m present or very close by.

[snoogaloo82]

When we started, she did solo. It felt less like performance. But after a few experiences, she realized she wants me there. Looking over and seeing me there enhanced it, reassured her that it was okay to enjoy herself.

It evolved from she would come home to a reclaim, to I was there watching (and documenting for later enjoyment), to I’ll be joining in (with her only) from time to time.

She still will do daytime/coffee meets alone. But night time meets, if there’s alcohol, or if she’s feeling like the tingle might be there…I’m present or very close by.

Your logic makes total sense! It's cool to know not only what you guys do but the why behind it, too!

[DedicatedHubby2013]

Do you think that either of you would be comfortable with a threesome with your wife alone without you?

It wouldn't bother me, but my wife doesn't seem to be into multiple partners at the same time.

[snoogaloo82]

Do you think that either of you would be comfortable with a threesome with your wife alone without you?

It wouldn't bother me, but my wife doesn't seem to be into multiple partners at the same time.

that solves that riddle! lol

[leo-cpl]

Wife's been on a cpl of casual dates, just drinks but we play as a couple (meeting other cpls or single guys). However she has a cpl of regular guys we play with and with one of them she fancies meeting alone and seeing how it goes. Needless to say she find this guy very attractive shes comfy with him and has a lot of fun!

[snoogaloo82]

Wife's been on a cpl of casual dates, just drinks but we play as a couple (meeting other cpls or single guys). However she has a cpl of regular guys we play with and with one of them she fancies meeting alone and seeing how it goes. Needless to say she find this guy very attractive shes comfy with him and has a lot of fun!

i can't wait to hear how things go with you guys!!

[Natatude]

We both prefer grizz be there however I do have one lover that isn’t comfy getting naked in front of another man yet, but I WILL work him up to it!

by the way how do you work him up to that? i'm asking for my sweetie.

This is my first time having to coax someone to do it, grizz is well endowed , and I think it embarrassed him because he is much smaller. However, I have talked to him and let him know how good he makes me feel. I’m hoping our date this coming Saturday at our house will lead to a late night 3some, I will keep you updated! Is you wife on here as well?

[snoogaloo82]

We both prefer grizz be there however I do have one lover that isn’t comfy getting naked in front of another man yet, but I WILL work him up to it!

by the way how do you work him up to that? i'm asking for my sweetie.

This is my first time having to coax someone to do it, grizz is well endowed , and I think it embarrassed him because he is much smaller. However, I have talked to him and let him know how good he makes me feel. I’m hoping our date this coming Saturday at our house will lead to a late night 3some, I will keep you updated! Is you wife on here as well?

Unfortunately she's not on here yet. I've mentioned for her to come on, but she just hasn't yet, but who knows, she may be lurking. lol That's good information. I just want to be ready for when the time comes.

[Natatude]

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Unfortunately she's not on here yet. I've mentioned for her to come on, but she just hasn't yet, but who knows, she may be lurking. lol That's good information. I just want to be ready for when the time comes.
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Let her knows we have the ladies lounge she can join and the men can’t see us!!

[snoogaloo82]

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Unfortunately she's not on here yet. I've mentioned for her to come on, but she just hasn't yet, but who knows, she may be lurking. lol That's good information. I just want to be ready for when the time comes.

Let her knows we have the ladies lounge she can join and the men can’t see us!!
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sounds like a great idea!

[takemyhotwife80]

While I love the MFM and spit roasting her, I definitely prefer her going out and meeting her bull alone. Normally, we just book a hotel room and I meet the lucky young guy in the lobby and walk him up to the room to my waiting wife. After that, I leave and go home.

I get amazing texts and constant videos. From the start of them making out to the cumshots. She is a pro and seems to have a better vibe with the guys when I'm not there.

The best part is, I wait with Excitement. One time when she was on a trip to New York, she found this 23 year old on Tindr. They met the day before and he wanted to see her the next night where she was staying. She texted me, "He's here". I didn't get another text till the morning, but I got some great video.

I've also been with her on 3 MFM, but the best are definitely solo trips.