How did you first play, and how do you play now?

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How did you first play, and how do you play now? Pick 1 of the top 4 and 1 of the bottom 4!

First time together, it was hot!
22
27%
First time together, may have been better solo...
2
2%
First time solo, it was hot!
16
20%
First time solo, would have been better together...
3
4%
First time solo, second time solo
15
18%
First time solo, second time together
4
5%
First time together, second time together
14
17%
First time together, second time solo
6
7%
 
Total votes: 82
bguitar22
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How did you first play, and how do you play now?

Unread post by bguitar22 » Tue Dec 12, 2023 3:24 pm

Hey guys, here with another poll.

First, looking for some insight on how you first played, together or solo.

Second, did you stick with the same for her next date, or did you decide to try the other approach.

Very interested to hear of both approaches, especially if you planned out the encounter days/weeks/months in advance. For those who started with her playing solo: Was it easier to dip a toe into hotwifing without watching or do you think you would you have been less nervous being there? Or for those who started together with him watching: Was it easy to enjoy the show and rest assured you saw everything that happened or did you find any aspects overwhelming in the heat of the moment? Both ways seem like they have their advantages for giving things a go and other aspects that make them tough.

Personally, we talk about her playing solo the first time or two if it happens (obviously with some safety precautions). I like hearing her stories of past hookups and it removes some of the performance pressure for her, so it feels like a smaller step for us from a more vanilla background. I would guess people who ended up here with prior experience in group play feel differently, but let's discuss!
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Natatude
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Re: How did you first play, and how do you play now?

Unread post by Natatude » Tue Dec 12, 2023 6:34 pm

The first time we all 3 played together then second time just me and my lover. And it’s been the same with others as well. Of course of our get togethers, I spend an hour or so solo with the lover then hubby joins us. Is that what you’re asking?
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ProfessorH
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Re: How did you first play, and how do you play now?

Unread post by ProfessorH » Tue Dec 12, 2023 7:36 pm

First plays were solo for MH; now me in room and playing with her as well, when possible, is what she prefers.
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bguitar22
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Re: How did you first play, and how do you play now?

Unread post by bguitar22 » Thu Dec 14, 2023 5:27 am

Thanks for the replies to the poll so far! Natatude, you're right on with what I'm asking.

There are 38 responses this morning. So far, the only clear thing is that of people play together the first time (12) and about half (7) stick with it for the second second. Would anyone in that boat be up to say what changed? Just more comfortable with the idea?

Of course, still looking for more votes and comments are appreciated, too!
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