Poll: What do women find hot about hotwifing?

[Farmgirl]

I agree. I find the word "mansplaining" to be horribly sexist and feminist inspired. Why is there not a word "womansplaining"? Do women not explain things?

Mansplaining is a misandrist word invented by the Feminist Mafia and normalized by woke men. This forum and others like this, which are all about celebrating male - female mating should be kept free from any divisive ideology.
These ideologies seek to bring in gender apartheid by poisoning the minds of men and women against the "other"..
Sex is a beautiful bridge between the two genders. Sex can't remain healthy and pleasurable with hatred, paranoia and resentment in the heart.

This is eloquently stated. And you are so correct. A war between the sexes is to be avoided at all costs. And while some conflict seems endemic to all social connections of any kind, mutual respect and also learning the art of exhibiting mutual respect are the grounding for spanning that beautiful bridge connecting us.

Its about individuals. Not about generic men or women broad-brushed! Conflict is between individuals. Rotten apples are individuals. The moment we generalise and project virtues / vices on entire groups viz., gender/race/religion- we are setting ourselves up for ghettoisation and apartheid. We can't change the world. Let's at least keep this forum free of identity politics and all that it implies

My goodness! I leave for a couple of days and it devolves into a discussion of woke politics. Really, guys .

[Parsifal]

Mansplaining is a misandrist word invented by the Feminist Mafia and normalized by woke men. This forum and others like this, which are all about celebrating male - female mating should be kept free from any divisive ideology.
These ideologies seek to bring in gender apartheid by poisoning the minds of men and women against the "other"..
Sex is a beautiful bridge between the two genders. Sex can't remain healthy and pleasurable with hatred, paranoia and resentment in the heart.

This is eloquently stated. And you are so correct. A war between the sexes is to be avoided at all costs. And while some conflict seems endemic to all social connections of any kind, mutual respect and also learning the art of exhibiting mutual respect are the grounding for spanning that beautiful bridge connecting us.

Its about individuals. Not about generic men or women broad-brushed! Conflict is between individuals. Rotten apples are individuals. The moment we generalise and project virtues / vices on entire groups viz., gender/race/religion- we are setting ourselves up for ghettoisation and apartheid. We can't change the world. Let's at least keep this forum free of identity politics and all that it implies

My goodness! I leave for a couple of days and it devolves into a discussion of woke politics. Really, guys .

I agree. All I did was drop the word "mansplain" into the dialogue and all hell broke loose! Please keep us on message!!

[Suchagoodgirl]

I think the only reason my wife does hotwifing is because she likes the experience. It gets her more sexual. It helps her enjoy sex more. She knows it turns me on but she never does it for me and nor should she. Sometimes she feels like playing with boys. Sometimes she doesn't. A lot of times she'd rather go have wine with a girlfriend than deal with guys. I get it. Guys can be annoying.

[Suchagoodgirl]

I didn't vote because every answer is all about the husband and I don't think I am the reason she does it other than she knows she is allowed to in our marriage. It doesn't have much to do with me to be honest.

[dinoo]

What do I find most attractive about my husband when it comes to hotwifing?
It is the same answer I would give if you insert anything else in that question. The fact that he is my rock, my biggest supporter and the one who I choose and who chooses me everyday to walk beside. That is our foundation, everything else is just a bonus.

I didn't vote as the choices seemed to be based on sexual answers. Hotwifing has highlighted our love for each other in a unique way that I cherish.

[54321]

We get less participation from actual Hotwives here because men talk over us.

Dear Farmgirl,

Although I'm a huge fan of yours, I have to disagree here.

1. In a written forum such as this, it is impossible for anyone to talk over anyone.
2. I would LOVE to hear more from the female perspective (which is why I follow your comments so closely).
I think most men on OHW think similarly. Perhaps I should create a poll! lol!

I do hope that the current fashion of victimhood does not take root in this usually rather enlightened forum.
After all, hotwives are the most privileged group of women on the planet.

54321