Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[mrs_reese]

What items will you be packing in hubby’s care package to tide him over while Jake’s packing his package into you?

For hubby…. The usual recipe to jack off five times a day., my panties that I’ve worn, panties that I’ve put on after sex with Jake, my silk stockings that I have worn, and my heels as hubbys gets off hard and often by my scent. What can I say?

[Open2it]

I figured panties would top the list but I thought you might also include a quality lube, pocket pussy, and incredibly erotic, illustrated note about Jake reclaiming “his” pussy for the weekend (because men are so visually oriented).

[mrs_reese]

I figured panties would top the list but I thought you might also include a quality lube, pocket pussy, and incredibly erotic, illustrated note about Jake reclaiming “his” pussy for the weekend (because men are so visually oriented).

I like your ideas, I think I’ll print out some of our recent text messages that I’m sure will
Make him pre cum.

[Open2it]

I figured panties would top the list but I thought you might also include a quality lube, pocket pussy, and incredibly erotic, illustrated note about Jake reclaiming “his” pussy for the weekend (because men are so visually oriented).

I like your ideas, I think I’ll print out some of our recent text messages that I’m sure will
Make him pre cum.

Oh, I like that idea! Naughty sext messages between you and Jake will definitely keep him on edge for your return.

[mrs_reese]

I figured panties would top the list but I thought you might also include a quality lube, pocket pussy, and incredibly erotic, illustrated note about Jake reclaiming “his” pussy for the weekend (because men are so visually oriented).

I like your ideas, I think I’ll print out some of our recent text messages that I’m sure will
Make him pre cum.

Oh, I like that idea! Naughty sext messages between you and Jake will definitely keep him on edge for your return.

[mrs_reese]

So Jake wants to take me away to Aruba- I that’s way too much and too long away from hubby.
I told him no.
Places like that are too exclusive for me and hubby.

He mentioned the swinger place in Mexico
I forgot the name. It may be called Temptations.
I wonder if hubby would like to hear stories about me with Jake at a place like that?

[mrs_reese]

So Jake wants to take me away to Aruba- I told him that’s way too much and too long away from hubby.
I told him no.
Places like that are too exclusive for me and hubby.

He mentioned the swinger place in Mexico for a long weekend.
I forgot the name. It may be called Temptations.
I wonder if hubby would like to hear stories about me with Jake at a place like that?

[veub]

Sounds like it is going to be longer than a weekend if you are looking for a place with a 3 (or more) flight time.

[BallSpanking]

Aruba ...
That's pretty serious, Mrs Reese ...
Temptations is not really much closer.
Are you ready to push for so much time away from hubby and playing with your BF?
I know you'll be leaving a care package for Mr Reese, but that is not much of a substitute for your sweet pussy.

[zoe]

He mentioned the swinger place in Mexico
I forgot the name. It may be called Temptations.

Probably Desire which is also full nude and allows public play

[BallSpanking]

Temptations is in Cancun.

[Open2it]

So Jake wants to take me away to Aruba- I that’s way too much and too long away from hubby.
I told him no.
Places like that are too exclusive for me and hubby.

He mentioned the swinger place in Mexico
I forgot the name. It may be called Temptations.
I wonder if hubby would like to hear stories about me with Jake at a place like that?

I think you need some serious input from Mr Reese for those options. They’re exciting to think about but this is still new territory for you both (with LV being your first real experience traveling with Jake). If he agrees, go and have a blast. If he’s on the fence, shelve and revisit it after you’ve had a few more weekends with Jake. You might offer to go with Jake to one location and hubby to the other.

[mrs_reese]

Thanks for the advice open2it.
Hubby and I spoke last night, he and I are not ready for me to go to a swinger resort with my bf.
So next weekend, Jake and I are going Miami Florida for a long weekend.
Jake is really excited.
Hubby is a little apprehensive only because it takes a lot of patience that he doesn’t have with me being gone for more than 1 day.
I’m trying to balance all this.
Lots of attention and sex with hubby before I leave next week. Jake will have to wait his turn I told him.
But this girl loves the attention,
Everything is amazing right now for me.
A tinge of jealousy and feeling left out I sense from hubby makes me realize I have some work to do this weekend

[BallSpanking]

Not an easy thing, keeping two Alpha men satisfied ... Thankfully you've learned from experience how to handle these things, and my guess is you will have a very nice time and multiple orgasms doing so ...

[ugcp]

It may help Mr. Reese, and certainly the rest of us lol, to hear the advantages of why Mrs. Reese would want to be away for more than 1 day. Certainly we know the downside... the emotional discomfort for Mr. Reese... but is there an upside for anyone? Can we hear it?

[mrs_reese]

It may help Mr. Reese, and certainly the rest of us lol, to hear the advantages of why Mrs. Reese would want to be away for more than 1 day. Certainly we know the downside... the emotional discomfort for Mr. Reese... but is there an upside for anyone? Can we hear it?

That’s a a great question to ask and it definitely made me pause for a moment to think hard about my answer.
But it’s a simple answer I do believe.
The upside is that I am having amazing sex with my husband and my boyfriend. They both have me.

One owns my heart and the other I feel a strong infatuation and love that’s developing.
Hubby suffers the torment of the most selfish part of his life, and that is wanting me as his wife!
A hotwife that has his permission to share myself with another Man!
As long as hubby loves this torment and allows me to share myself with another man, I will grant him his wish!

[Open2it]

Thanks for the advice open2it.
Hubby and I spoke last night, he and I are not ready for me to go to a swinger resort with my bf.
So next weekend, Jake and I are going Miami Florida for a long weekend.
Jake is really excited.
Hubby is a little apprehensive only because it takes a lot of patience that he doesn’t have with me being gone for more than 1 day.
I’m trying to balance all this.
Lots of attention and sex with hubby before I leave next week. Jake will have to wait his turn I told him.
But this girl loves the attention,
Everything is amazing right now for me.
A tinge of jealousy and feeling left out I sense from hubby makes me realize I have some work to do this weekend

You might also give Mr R some “work” to do as well by having him write out what turns him on, what are his fantasies, and what concerns him about you traveling with Jake. Only well thought out and detailed answers accepted and be careful not to judge any of his answers. This could help provide you with a better blue print on how to mitigate his fears and maximize the pleasure for all three of you. He obviously loves you being a hotwife just as you enjoy the attention of two men. Over time his lists will change and he should update them for you. Take the time to discuss the items in detail and look for ways to move items of concern to turn ons.

[mrs_reese]

Thanks for the advice open2it.
Hubby and I spoke last night, he and I are not ready for me to go to a swinger resort with my bf.
So next weekend, Jake and I are going Miami Florida for a long weekend.
Jake is really excited.
Hubby is a little apprehensive only because it takes a lot of patience that he doesn’t have with me being gone for more than 1 day.
I’m trying to balance all this.
Lots of attention and sex with hubby before I leave next week. Jake will have to wait his turn I told him.
But this girl loves the attention,
Everything is amazing right now for me.
A tinge of jealousy and feeling left out I sense from hubby makes me realize I have some work to do this weekend

You might also give Mr R some “work” to do as well by having him write out what turns him on, what are his fantasies, and what concerns him about you traveling with Jake. Only well thought out and detailed answers accepted and be careful not to judge any of his answers. This could help provide you with a better blue print on how to mitigate his fears and maximize the pleasure for all three of you. He obviously loves you being a hotwife just as you enjoy the attention of two men. Over time his lists will change and he should update them for you. Take the time to discuss the items in detail and look for ways to move items of concern to turn ons.

I love this idea

[mrs_reese]

This afternoon I am meeting with Jake to spend some intimate moments with him while hubby works out and meets up with friends.
I promised hubby to come home to be reclaimed nice and wet I can’t wait to see Jake.

[Open2it]

This afternoon I am meeting with Jake to spend some intimate moments with him while hubby works out and meets up with friends.
I promised hubby to come home to be reclaimed nice and wet I can’t wait to see Jake.

It sounds as if hubby is more content with you and Jake when he’s also busy. He knows when you’ll be fucking and when you’ll be returning and he’s okay with that. Your return after a few stolen hours with your BF also allow him to enjoy the still semi-fresh creampie. That doesn’t happen when you’re out of town with Jake. At the same time Jake seems to feel the same way when you’re with hubby.

So, the question is how can the three of you communicate so neither one feels left out when you’re with the other? A possibility might be a three-way chat on something like WhatsApp.

[mrs_reese]

I’m back home.
When I arrived at Jake’s house, it was maybe a matter of
Minutes before we were in bed making love.
Did I tell you that I love him deep inside of me.
It can be confusing at times because I feel such deep feelings for him.
When he cums in me, it makes me so complete.
It’s time for hubby to take me.
He’s very horny.
I know he wants to lick my pussy.
Words can’t explain how wet that makes me.

Open2it, I read your post.
I want to try to respond later to it.
I’m a little tired, excited to give my hubby myself but I need to rest soon.

[mrs_reese]

So I decided to put off a trip, things are not going to work.
I’m annoyed at both men in my life.
Fighting over time with me.

[mrs_reese]

So I decided to put off a trip, things are not going to work.
I’m annoyed at both men in my life.
Fighting over time with me.
So annoying right now.
I’ll get over it.

[whosbeensleeping]

Time for some ass-whooping? Lol

[Butterfly411980]

I often read people make the argument that its ok to love more than one person as love is an infinite thing and in a vacuum that is correct. But life is not infinite, time is not infinite and thus a person must ultimately choose who they love the most and allocate their time accordingly. And yes, people could then say time could be divided equally amongst those they love, but then that assumes those that they love are willing to have the person they love equally shared. I don't see Mr Reese being the type who is willing to share his love equally. He seems willing to share only so far as it meets the needs of the game Mr and Mrs Reese have chosen to play together. So though love can be infinite in theory, in true practice, it's just not that simple. I think that is the problem Mrs Reese is running straight into. She seemingly has two men she has now professed to love and need. Ultimately the choices made in life always prove out who and what you love the most. That's what makes affairs of the heart so difficult and scary. You just simply cannot hide behind "I'll love everyone equally" because someone is eventually going to make you choose.

Mrs Reese- unfortunately I think your situation was always headed for this. Viewing it from afar, I think in your effort to make Jake feel comfortable with things you lead him to believe he was somewhat on par with Mr Reese in terms of your priorities. And so with two men believing they're deserving of more of your time and affection, one is going to have to be willing to accept a lesser role or walk away if unwilling. Life's choices are never easy.