bella-joy wrote: ↑Tue Apr 30, 2024 4:51 pm
As a hotwife, I enjoy reading these so much! I had always felt all of these things that everyone is naming about myself subconsciously, but now I'm totally owning it and loving my life. It's so sexy and powerful to read these reasons.
Dearest Bella-Joy
I think you have discovered the holy-grail of cuckolding.
Being a HotWife or Cuckoldress allows the Lady to experience multiple males attraction and strong desires for Her,
This fuels the Lady's self confidence,
This again makes the Lady behave in a more self-confident way which just further fuels Her cucks and lovers infatuation with Her and for Her.
In particular, feeling how Her now cuck-husband becomes even more in love and infatuated with Her, his willingness to do whatever it take to stimulate Her to enjoy Herself so that He can experience a Happy and Sexy wife who is attractive to many males.....
It can become a selfstimulating feedback loop. To keep it that way, the key is that both you and your husband derrives some kind of joy from it. The paradox is that for a cuck, especially a submissive cuck, being sexually denied and kept chaste can often be the most stimulating part of the exercise; "Males wants what they cannot have", so by carefully playing with denial, demanding Her husband only cums when given permission, locking Her cuck in a cage while She has sex with selected lovers, will stimulate both parties emotions for each other.
Maybe I am running a little ahead of myself here and maybe you are not quite where I describe yet. I saw you husband introduced himself in your thread and was very pleased to see him report that the two of you were having good conversations leading to better understanding of what both of you want. You have the foundation to move forward in a good way.
Sincerely
elina