D_LitedHubWife and SexiLexi - The Beginning

[Sexilexi]

So, JA.

As stated, C met him on a LS site, they messaged some and seemed to hit off so we set up a meet and greet at a local speakeasy. That was a first experience for me, going to speakeasy. Was fun to say the least.

JA got us a small little private area so we could chat and get to know each other better. I did have a drink and got a little tipsy off of it, for the record I was very new to drinking still - as stated in earlier posts lol.

I wore a little black dress and some heels. JA loved my outfit and enjoyed sitting next to me. We all laughed and joked and had a great time. My tipsy self was even more flirty than my sober self but it didn’t help that JA kept touching my thigh.

C was sitting next to me to my left and was enjoying his view as JA and I kept flirting with eachother. After about an hour or so of continuous conversation and giggles, we agreed to have some playtime.

Again…. I was failing at “no play first date” but to my justification this time - C, my hubs, was there and up to this point he has never seen me actually get fucked.

Every experience prior was just fingers or licking. We knew JA would be a good fit for us, he was so cute and so sweet. We all mixed well and felt comfortable so off to a hotel room we went.

-Lexi

[Sexilexi]

I remember I told C I was gonna ride with JA and I did! Ha It was a short ride to a nearby hotel. I personally enjoyed walking in through the lobby with both of them… that was sexy because no one knew what we were about to do!

We got into the room and I was a little nervous ….actually I was A LOT nervous….I knew everything would work out and I knew C was on the moon finally being able to watch me, his wife, get fucked! A lot was playing through my head so I tried to slow it all down and be in the moment.

I believe JA and I started kissing at the edge of the bed. His hands started roaming and so did mine. I felt for his dick as he slowly pulled it out of his jeans.

Despite being new to this, and nervous, natural instincts kicked in and down I went to start giving JA head. I honestly don’t remember all the details to be honest, all I know is at one point JA was on top of me and I looked over at my handsome perverted husband and smiled so big. He smiled back and was in aweee.

This is our life now. This is it! Those were my thoughts as JA was pounding me while my husband stared in amazement.

Please read my recap and my fresh thoughts on our thread in the hotties form. This particular experience with JA is found on page 8:

viewtopic.php?f=9&t=50563&start=175

Ten months into this journey and C finally witnessed another man fuck his wife. He shared a little about it too on our thread!

……Later that same week I did something I’ve never done before… and that was fuck a man without hubs knowing prior…. It was JA….I shared about it on our hotties thread (page 9).

-Lexi

[Sexilexi]

Beginning of October 2018, we saw JA on a Monday for the first time…..and as stated, that Friday (later in the week) I hooked up with JA after a vanilla girl’s event. I was only like ten minutes away from JA and he was free so we met on the stop of a staircase in a parking garage!

I didn’t inform C or S prior… I was dabbling in seeing if we liked the whole “surprise I fucked someone” dynamic….

I shared some details of the fuck on the hotties thread.

viewtopic.php?f=9&t=50563&start=175 (page 9)

When JA and I were finished, I sent a pic to C and S of JA behind me fucking me, and they both were shocked. I felt sexy and proud of myself for surprising them. It was taboo and slightly fun.

They found me hot as well. I mean, who doesn’t love seeing a hotwife get fucked!?! Hehe

However, we did all learn a lesson from that experience…we discussed and shared our thoughts and sorted the pros and cons, what we liked and didn’t like and came to the conclusion that it’s best for the three of us, for me to not spring up surprises like that to them.

It works for some couples but for us it is best/most fun when everyone is involved through the whole process. That’s the beauty of this lifestyle, that there’s so many different ways to participate in it.

I am also a very lucky woman to have the guidance of C&S to be able to explore freely my limits, our limits, and find a solution, a path we all can be happy on!

It was sexy, but the more I thought about it, it is more sexy and more fun to plan these dates and meet ups than to spontaneously take matters into my own hands. I am happy we were able to come to an agreement after exploring different avenues!

Of course, there were still mistakes and lessons to be made from those mistakes, even now in 2024, mistakes are still made. I won’t lie though, I don’t make as many mistakes now as I did while we were starting off… but I’m human and still work through things.

One thing I’m confident of though, is I ALWAYS keep C(&S) open to my heart and mind and they always know how I feel and we communicate often. That is always KEY to success…I’ve said it over and over again, but I truly believe that.

-Lexi

[Sexilexi]

Not much more happened in the Fall/Winter of 2018 as far seeing new guys. It’s always classic that when the holidays hit, play dates slow down.

We did see JA again once more. That recap is on our hotties thread. Basically he was on a business trip and invited me over for one night…. Two rounds of sex and some alone time was great! Enjoy reading it:

viewtopic.php?f=9&t=50563&start=200 (page 9)

I was scrolling through our hotties thread and came across some fun posts when we hit our year ish mark. (Page 10 is a fun one) It’s been fun rereading my thoughts on my posts from the early days and comparing them now that it’s been six years, 2024.

I’m thankful for OHW, it’s a nice place!

We don’t share every sexual experience here. It’s just the way we do things. However, it’s been fun reading back on the ones we have shared.

Going down memory lane is…exciting ha!

At the beginning of this thread, I said I would share our experiences from our first year, well we have made it through the first year. 🤍

I will plan to answer questions here if anyone has any, but I won’t be updating(past play dates) here, anymore as of now.

You can continue reading on our hotties thread. I do share play dates there when I feel like it!

Thank you for reading! I do hope inspiration was taken! This LS is fun and wild and hard but worth it!

-Lexi

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the sexy and onest recap Lexi. I admire how you are so open about the mistakes and the lessons you learn from them.

[SKhw68]

Are there any fantasy you want to try? How about hubby's fantasy?

[Fox]

I don’t post much on OHW since we had to stop with the LS last summer but I do check in most every day. I was really missing your posts. Love your whole attitude about the LS and you’re very sexy. I hope you do continue with updates when you feel like it.

I would also love to keep reading more of the continuation of your journey if you change your mind too

Now If I could just get my wife back in the mood for it. I miss it.

[Sexilexi]

Thanks for the sexy and onest recap Lexi. I admire how you are so open about the mistakes and the lessons you learn from them.

I think it’s important for others to be aware that the LS isn’t always this perfect experience. We are proof. Thank you!

I don’t post much on OHW since we had to stop with the LS last summer but I do check in most every day. I was really missing your posts. Love your whole attitude about the LS and you’re very sexy. I hope you do continue with updates when you feel like it.

I would also love to keep reading more of the continuation of your journey if you change your mind too

Now If I could just get my wife back in the mood for it. I miss it.

Thank you! I’m going to be typing up some past play dates with one of our friends I’ve shared about on our hotties thread in the next little bit. I enjoy typing it up and sharing. It’s fun for me!

I hope your wife gets back in the mood but even if she doesn’t I’m sure you and her can find some fun things to do together that bring you both pleasure!

-Lexi

[Sexilexi]

Are there any fantasy you want to try? How about hubby's fantasy?

Hey there!
We all have some fantasies we would love to try. Hahaha
As far as hubby, (C), he’s living his fantasy with me! We are doing it together and it’s so rewarding. Me banging other men has been his fantasy forever!

I have a few fantasies tho that hopefully one day they’ll happen. But if not, it’s ok. We take it day by day and that’s the fun of it!

-Lexi

[elina]

Dearest Sexilexi

It is so good to see that You are back posting.
I am really sorry to hear that you have been going through some struggles lately, but very encouraged to see how your appreciation of life and what appears to be an optimistic and positive attitude appears to help you to overcome these obstacles.

Enjoy life to the fullest with your lovers and take good care of your adoring cuckold hubby!!!

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

[Sexilexi]

Dearest Sexilexi

It is so good to see that You are back posting.
I am really sorry to hear that you have been going through some struggles lately, but very encouraged to see how your appreciation of life and what appears to be an optimistic and positive attitude appears to help you to overcome these obstacles.

Enjoy life to the fullest with your lovers and take good care of your adoring cuckold hubby!!!

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

Thank you so much elina! We are doing the best we can enjoying the most we can! I appreciate everyone’s words!

-Lexi

[Sexilexi]

Hello everyone!

This is a huge side note:

We LOVE OHW. It’s been an amazing site to share our pervy side on. Everyone genuinely is always so supportive and welcoming and it’s been lovely.

I have known for a little bit that this site runs on donations to keep big ad companies out of our space… but it always slips my mind that donations are needed monthly and I really don’t like taking advantage of something that is so beneficial to so many people - that is OHW.

Please consider donating: any amount is appreciated.

I WAS NOT asked to share this link or anything, I just am trying to spread the word because some members might not be aware the behind the scenes aspect of this site.

Everyone is awesome and I love how tidy the admins keep this site. Seriously, amazing!

Donate here: it’s simple and easy and discrete.
Let’s keep this site running pure!

viewtopic.php?f=23&t=60970


-Lexi

[Sexilexi]

I’m only bumping because I don’t want to lose it

-Lexi

[Farmerj]

I will bump you Lexi! I also donated! I like getting Lexi fixes they make my days better!

[elina]

I agree,
We should all follow Lexi's request to donate,
I did last week.

Sincerely
elina

[Hawthorne34]

I just read this whole thread and love it!
I am going to read the hotties one next. Thank you for sharing.

[Seekingmore12]

Great amazing journey….thanks so much for sharing with us, s sounds like an amazing person enhancing your life and your marriage!

G

[Sexilexi]

I just read this whole thread and love it!
I am going to read the hotties one next. Thank you for sharing.

I’m hopeful it brings inspiration. Thank you Hawthorne!

Great amazing journey….thanks so much for sharing with us, s sounds like an amazing person enhancing your life and your marriage!

G

It’s so difficult not to talk about my S. HE IS INCREDIBLE. I am so thankful his life crossed paths with my husband and I’s life. I truly am grateful and amazed at how I am privileged to have two men in my life that pour so much peace and joy and sexiness within my soul. C is amazing, and S is incredible. Thank you G!

-Lexi

[craven mohr]

Hello everyone!

This is a huge side note:

We LOVE OHW. It’s been an amazing site to share our pervy side on. .....

I have known for a little bit that this site runs on donations .... donations are needed monthly.....

Please consider donating: any amount is appreciated.

....

Donate here: it’s simple and easy and discrete.
Let’s keep this site running pure!

viewtopic.php?f=23&t=60970


-Lexi

An excellent point, Lexi! I too have let things slide for a while. Just donated. Best day from FLA!~

[johnstevens555]

I just read this whole thread and love it!
I am going to read the hotties one next. Thank you for sharing.

I’m hopeful it brings inspiration. Thank you Hawthorne!

Great amazing journey….thanks so much for sharing with us, s sounds like an amazing person enhancing your life and your marriage!

G

It’s so difficult not to talk about my S. HE IS INCREDIBLE. I am so thankful his life crossed paths with my husband and I’s life. I truly am grateful and amazed at how I am privileged to have two men in my life that pour so much peace and joy and sexiness within my soul. C is amazing, and S is incredible. Thank you G!

-Lexi

I think you should relieve the burden and tell us all about it.

[Sexilexi]

I just read this whole thread and love it!
I am going to read the hotties one next. Thank you for sharing.

I’m hopeful it brings inspiration. Thank you Hawthorne!

Great amazing journey….thanks so much for sharing with us, s sounds like an amazing person enhancing your life and your marriage!

G

It’s so difficult not to talk about my S. HE IS INCREDIBLE. I am so thankful his life crossed paths with my husband and I’s life. I truly am grateful and amazed at how I am privileged to have two men in my life that pour so much peace and joy and sexiness within my soul. C is amazing, and S is incredible. Thank you G!

-Lexi

I think you should relieve the burden and tell us all about it.

Haha thanks!
Nah, it’s more of a discretion thing as well as one of those things that stays between the three of us. Just know S AND C are both so good to me. Thank you!

-Lexi

[TheRealMrs]

I didn’t even know I was suffering because I hid behind mommy status for so many years thinking and believing I was only a mom.

I’ve learned that I am a woman first, then a wife, then a mom. But finding who I was took a while for me.

Girl, preach!

[Sexilexi]

Girl, preach!

Thank you. It’s a shame it took so long but life is funny and weird and exciting! 🥰🥰🥰

-Lexi

[Hawthorne34]

Thank you again for sharing. I may have missed it but have you ever posted about how you guys handled things if/when your family or friends found out that you were in this lifestyle?

[Sexilexi]

Thank you again for sharing. I may have missed it but have you ever posted about how you guys handled things if/when your family or friends found out that you were in this lifestyle?

You’re very welcome!
My bestie knows (and her finance).
If anyone in our vanilla life found out… I guess it would depend on HOW they found out.

If they found me/us online then they were looking for hotwives haha. And what can we say then?

If I got caught in public… I probably would come up with an excuse. “Don’t tell C but I’m planning on doing some photos for him and this is the photographer…” or something like that haha.

If I was actually caught kissing… I’m not sure. We always thought maybe it would be easier for vanilla people to understand that I was cheating and we worked through it as opposed to “yes my husband loves me fucking other men” hahahaha

Hopefully I never get caught… but if we do, then I guess we will handle the situation depending on the circumstances.

-Lexi