Hi guys
Depending on where you live it's not easy to get in touch with likeminded people. The websites out there are either very expensive or full of fake profiles. The ones where you can chat aren't filled with normal people either.
So I was thinking this is a void that can be filled! Isn't there any IT specialist or website designer out there that would be interested in creating the best swinger website ever?
For me it would have to be free but needing to fill in some form in order to register or be 'accepted'. A chat option/forum is also a requirement. And the possibility to send messages to other members.
For me personally, I don't want to pay for websites that have very few genuine people on it. I also dont wanna pay for messages you send as these have no guarantee to become anyhting real.
What's you opinion? In US there might be more options but in Europe there aren't.
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Re: better websites
The world is a big place...while there are a bunch of sites they all seem regional, we use SLS on a life time account $250, and Kasidie which is like $150/yr.
SLS is full of bottom of the barrel creeps, we legit get a ton of circus clowns on that site...BUT here comes the big BUTT a lot of people use this site all over the country, the UI is terrible the tools are terrible, you cant use certain words...its just bad but people flock there because it is cheap and you can find people in most areas.
Kasidie has a lot of good features and feels more like facebook, you can like pics, send flirts, chat, create groups. The UI is good and we enjoy using it, the downfall is it is pricey so each region has smaller amounts of people on the site, we probably have like 100 couples in the 30-100mile range from our small town...but our small town is like 40 miles from a major city so there should be a ton more. while smaller numbers does suck, you do have higher quality meetups...people pay for quality.
back to my regional comment...we travel a lot in this lifestyle and have found that there is no site that dominates the country/globe. A few years back we met a couple that was starting a new swinger site called Double Date Nation (DDN) we bought in on a lifetime account and while DDN looked good and had tons of Lifestyle "influencers" promoting it as a modern dating site for the whole country, it never took off and they shuddered the site. The issue is you need a critical mass to take off, DDN with all the cheerleaders in this lifestyle failed because people stay in their regional dating sites, and while we were willing to try out a new site for $250 lifetime most people tried a free account and never came back.
Another thing you mentioned creating a free site...I am the IT "specialist" (way beyond specialist) you were asking for... you have to understand that if you are not paying for a service...somebody is paying for your info. So if it is free, that means you are the product, I would rather pay my own way than have some unknown entity paying for my info...actually this site is free and I try and limit useful info on this site.
I 100% support the creation of a new modern lifestyle website that every freak in the US uses...I just do not see that happening anytime soon, most people are not long for this Lifestyle, we are pushing 10yrs and through that time we have seen a ton of couples test the water and bounce, so hard to establish a new way.
side note we have started to use FET recently, it is free, and while we havent met anyone there yet we have had some flirty discussions and Kay got rid of some panties there.
Good luck out there
D
SLS is full of bottom of the barrel creeps, we legit get a ton of circus clowns on that site...BUT here comes the big BUTT a lot of people use this site all over the country, the UI is terrible the tools are terrible, you cant use certain words...its just bad but people flock there because it is cheap and you can find people in most areas.
Kasidie has a lot of good features and feels more like facebook, you can like pics, send flirts, chat, create groups. The UI is good and we enjoy using it, the downfall is it is pricey so each region has smaller amounts of people on the site, we probably have like 100 couples in the 30-100mile range from our small town...but our small town is like 40 miles from a major city so there should be a ton more. while smaller numbers does suck, you do have higher quality meetups...people pay for quality.
back to my regional comment...we travel a lot in this lifestyle and have found that there is no site that dominates the country/globe. A few years back we met a couple that was starting a new swinger site called Double Date Nation (DDN) we bought in on a lifetime account and while DDN looked good and had tons of Lifestyle "influencers" promoting it as a modern dating site for the whole country, it never took off and they shuddered the site. The issue is you need a critical mass to take off, DDN with all the cheerleaders in this lifestyle failed because people stay in their regional dating sites, and while we were willing to try out a new site for $250 lifetime most people tried a free account and never came back.
Another thing you mentioned creating a free site...I am the IT "specialist" (way beyond specialist) you were asking for... you have to understand that if you are not paying for a service...somebody is paying for your info. So if it is free, that means you are the product, I would rather pay my own way than have some unknown entity paying for my info...actually this site is free and I try and limit useful info on this site.
I 100% support the creation of a new modern lifestyle website that every freak in the US uses...I just do not see that happening anytime soon, most people are not long for this Lifestyle, we are pushing 10yrs and through that time we have seen a ton of couples test the water and bounce, so hard to establish a new way.
side note we have started to use FET recently, it is free, and while we havent met anyone there yet we have had some flirty discussions and Kay got rid of some panties there.
Good luck out there
D
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Re: better websites
There are a few site out there that are free and have a nice interface. They are free. Some use to be linked from the link page which seams to be gone. Being free they do have a same problem with good contact to poor contact. In general they do not offer great searches that allow you to specify an area. Some only allow search by name and some will give you a long list of people in only your town. Really not much help. Not going to provide any link not sure admin want that.