When did you know you could handle seeing your wife have ( better) sex in front of you?
What baby steps did you take to get over those insecurities ?
Can any husband or wife chat. Wife is on bored with a mfm
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When did you know
Re: When did you know
In real ? I would say some hours after it actually happened and everything settled.
We talked a LOT beforehand about it and I was willing to give it a try, but it was her idea and is much more her thing than my. You could say I am just running along...
We talked a LOT beforehand about it and I was willing to give it a try, but it was her idea and is much more her thing than my. You could say I am just running along...
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There are two kinds of power: the power to strip away another's soul bare, and the power to stand naked
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SilverStag
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Re: When did you know
My then GF and I were exploring swinger clubs. We went a few times and just watched, then later, we would touch and fondle each other while watching others (which meant they could watch us too). As time went by we got to the point that we would have sex in a room where other people were having sex. Then it progressed to mutual touching with other couples and eventually full swap sex. It was a slow build up, but I already knew that she loved giving head, and it made her happy to have a dick in her mouth, first only mine, later many others. So it was really compersion (I enjoyed seeing her happy), but I learned it a step at a time.
Re: When did you know
When we first met and hooked up. My now wife....had a long term bf...and I was basically the side piece. I knew she was still fucking him, and it turned me on beyond belief
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Re: When did you know
SilverStag wrote: ↑Sat Jun 01, 2024 9:36 amMy then GF and I were exploring swinger clubs. We went a few times and just watched, then later, we would touch and fondle each other while watching others (which meant they could watch us too). As time went by we got to the point that we would have sex in a room where other people were having sex. Then it progressed to mutual touching with other couples and eventually full swap sex. It was a slow build up, but I already knew that she loved giving head, and it made her happy to have a dick in her mouth, first only mine, later many others. So it was really compersion (I enjoyed seeing her happy), but I learned it a step at a time.
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Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
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Bridget_Joshua
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Re: When did you know
Whenever we were with hanging out with friends Bri used to be touchy with other men and that gave me a very unique feeling inside later on it went to do these experiments in bars/clubs where she would flirt with strangers in front of me and gradually it led to watching them kiss and now iam a cuck who loves watching my wife's guts adjusted by big fat cocks.
The only insecurity i had was she leaving me for another guy which we talked about and she assured me of the love she has for me and she would never leave me for some guy with a bigger dick and once a guy she was fucking asked her to leave men for him, she immediately cut contacts with him and never saw him again.
The only insecurity i had was she leaving me for another guy which we talked about and she assured me of the love she has for me and she would never leave me for some guy with a bigger dick and once a guy she was fucking asked her to leave men for him, she immediately cut contacts with him and never saw him again.
Re: When did you know
NOT at the beginning.
We had a mutually agreed "no kissing" rule at the very start - more, but not all, her wish. The first time she had intercourse, I found right when they first started to fuck that I was uncomfortable, but thought I would get over it in a few days. Then they broke "the rule" and started kissing. That did it, and broke the trust. It took a lot of discussion and several months me to get over it and for us to try her being a hotwife again.
That was quite a number of years ago. She has been a hotwife for several decades now, I've visited hotwives myself, recreational kissing we find is an essential part of a hotwife experience, and my biggest turn now on is getting up close (but not intrusive), seeing his cock enter her body, and then watch him cum bareback deep inside her.
We had a mutually agreed "no kissing" rule at the very start - more, but not all, her wish. The first time she had intercourse, I found right when they first started to fuck that I was uncomfortable, but thought I would get over it in a few days. Then they broke "the rule" and started kissing. That did it, and broke the trust. It took a lot of discussion and several months me to get over it and for us to try her being a hotwife again.
That was quite a number of years ago. She has been a hotwife for several decades now, I've visited hotwives myself, recreational kissing we find is an essential part of a hotwife experience, and my biggest turn now on is getting up close (but not intrusive), seeing his cock enter her body, and then watch him cum bareback deep inside her.
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Johnann2227
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Re: When did you know
We were camping with my mate and his girlfriend and, being drunk and playing strip poker, things happened. We did full swap and my then girlfriend now wife even ate my mate's girlfriend while I fucked her. I thought it was hot seeing my mate fuck Ann and told him what she liked.
We had never discussed swinging before this and didn't really know much about it. For us it was just hot.
Later discussing it with my mate they told us that they had been swinging for a year. We continued weekly playdates with them before expanding our swinging to clubs.
But right from the first time I saw a cock that wasn't mine push into her pussy, I was hooked.
We had never discussed swinging before this and didn't really know much about it. For us it was just hot.
Later discussing it with my mate they told us that they had been swinging for a year. We continued weekly playdates with them before expanding our swinging to clubs.
But right from the first time I saw a cock that wasn't mine push into her pussy, I was hooked.