Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

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Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by pmate » Sun Jul 07, 2024 11:06 am

Hi - can anyone recommend a thread from a couple that starts with the husband telling about the fantasy, the wife rejecting it, then slowly working into it? My wife has known about my fantasy for years but is just starting to ask more questions, and I told our experience is quite normal. I'd like to show her what others have experienced.

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Sun Jul 07, 2024 4:47 pm

pmate wrote:
Sun Jul 07, 2024 11:06 am
Hi - can anyone recommend a thread from a couple that starts with the husband telling about the fantasy, the wife rejecting it, then slowly working into it? My wife has known about my fantasy for years but is just starting to ask more questions, and I told our experience is quite normal. I'd like to show her what others have experienced.
PM - They may not entirely fit your criteria, but three of my favourites are posters, LookingForAdventure, AnonymousRob, Ocean. :D :D
- Have fun with your journey and lots and lots of communication. :up: :up:

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Parsifal » Sun Jul 07, 2024 8:30 pm

pmate wrote:
Sun Jul 07, 2024 11:06 am
Hi - can anyone recommend a thread from a couple that starts with the husband telling about the fantasy, the wife rejecting it, then slowly working into it? My wife has known about my fantasy for years but is just starting to ask more questions, and I told our experience is quite normal. I'd like to show her what others have experienced.
The scenario you want related for you would describe the way my own marriage evolved. Sadly I can't point you to a thread of my own that explicates that long, tortuous, sometimes and even often frustrating process.

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Cdncuck » Mon Jul 08, 2024 12:30 pm

Try the library. There may be something in there that will be of help to you

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by leggysman » Mon Jul 08, 2024 1:50 pm

The ultimate in my time here, IMO, was PlayboyFan's Hotties thread. Now sadly deleted, but the journey from 'no way' to happy hotwife took a good 2-3 years and ~130 pages, IIRC, with lots of sweet pics of her to keep us tuned in along the way.
our hotwife story: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=67232
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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Jul 08, 2024 4:26 pm

Yep, Playboyfan's Hottie was first to my mind also.

If I'd documented my own experience over the first five years (or more) as it went along, then the splash into the water, and if SW would have continued like PBF, I'd say have a look at mine. But sadly I lingered in the background for those early years and then the hotwife experience for SW was more of a flash in the pan (when looking at it from this vantage point in time).

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by AstaSilva » Tue Jul 09, 2024 1:34 am

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Treat yourself girl » Tue Jul 09, 2024 2:41 am

It's good to read how others got into it, but what works for one couple probably won't work for you. We all find our own way into it.

With us Amy was always a bit of a flirt. I found myself getting hot at the attention she received, so I encouraged her flirting. I told her I'd love to watch her fuck another guy. She wasn't into that but she did enjoy the obvious effect she had on other men. But I kept working on this, telling her she was always free to enjoy herself as long as she remained my hunny. If we went out I'd give her the freedom to go off and prick tease. I'd watch her from a distance, see these guys getting hot for her, then I'd take her home and fuck her brains out.

The emotions you'll feel watching your girl interact with other guys will tell you if you really want the Hotwife lifestyle. If you're enraged with jealousy then it ain't for you.

Amy's flirting gradually progressed to disappearing off into quiet corners for a bit of kissing and wandering hands. All harmless stuff. On our way home she'd tell me what she'd been up to. It was so arousing for me. Once a guy ripped off her G-string and kept it as a souvenir, so she had to spend the rest of the night in just a short white mini-skirt.

Amy finally became a Hotwife after a party. We gave a buddy a lift home, Amy got in the back of my Cadillac with him, and I drove us home while Amy straddled him and rode his cock for the whole journey. I did not drive home quickly.

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by MarknSusan » Tue Jul 09, 2024 3:56 am

Pmate, If I were you I’d be looking for a thread for a “short quick entry into the lifestyle”. Just sayin’..LOL

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Jamesparistoo » Tue Jul 09, 2024 12:19 pm

leggysman wrote:
Mon Jul 08, 2024 1:50 pm
The ultimate in my time here, IMO, was PlayboyFan's Hotties thread. Now sadly deleted, but the journey from 'no way' to happy hotwife took a good 2-3 years and ~130 pages, IIRC, with lots of sweet pics of her to keep us tuned in along the way.
To be honest, I really think that Leggysandy’s adventures and Leggysandy’s and your own description and feedback thereof are absolutely #1, albeit that there could be more pictures of your goddess of course 😉). But PF’s thread was an amazing second place. I thought it had just been taken offline temporarily but I now understand it is deleted and will not come back… Too bad but glad we were able to enjoy that ride while it lasted.

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Anonymousrachel » Tue Jul 09, 2024 1:03 pm

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Sun Jul 07, 2024 4:47 pm
PM - They may not entirely fit your criteria, but three of my favourites are posters, LookingForAdventure, AnonymousRob, Ocean. :D :D
- Have fun with your journey and lots and lots of communication. :up: :up:
Not to “toot my own thread” but Rob (Anonymousrob) and I have basically had the same beginning that you speak of. Our OG posts were removed a while ago. But feel free to ask us anything. The thread from my perspective is the like “our journey” in my signature. Feel free to reach out to him as well.

To give you a bit of some background, he told me in 2018 and I literally flipped out! I thought he was insane and wanted to do couples counseling because I assumed he just wanted to be able to sleep with other women. I actually started off flirting with guys and stealing a lot of attention and loved it. That’s what made me more curious in to it all.
Married to Anonymousrob

Our story: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=71701

Our pictures: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=73304

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by A Perfect Match » Tue Jul 09, 2024 2:28 pm

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Don't know if that story still exists online (I saved it back in the day cause it was so good).

But if anyone is familiar with it or the poster and knows where I can get more of their stories please let me know.

For me it was best because it went from husband mentioning it, wife contemplating it with them considering different aspects, the hurdles of the first meeting, then how all three (husband, wife, lover) dealt with it the couple weeks after.

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Re: Best thread for long, slow entry into the lifestyle?

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Tue Jul 09, 2024 3:39 pm

Anonymousrachel wrote:
Tue Jul 09, 2024 1:03 pm
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Sun Jul 07, 2024 4:47 pm
PM - They may not entirely fit your criteria, but three of my favourites are posters, LookingForAdventure, AnonymousRob, Ocean. :D :D
- Have fun with your journey and lots and lots of communication. :up: :up:
Not to “toot my own thread” but Rob (Anonymousrob) and I have basically had the same beginning that you speak of. Our OG posts were removed a while ago. But feel free to ask us anything. The thread from my perspective is the like “our journey” in my signature. Feel free to reach out to him as well.

To give you a bit of some background, he told me in 2018 and I literally flipped out! I thought he was insane and wanted to do couples counseling because I assumed he just wanted to be able to sleep with other women. I actually started off flirting with guys and stealing a lot of attention and loved it. That’s what made me more curious in to it all.
ARach - I should have made that FIVE, yourself and InvisibleTwin. There just SO many good writers and interesting stories here. :up: :up: :D

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