What Excites You Most?

[Tank Turner]

What is most exciting to you about the hotwife lifestyle?

I've been thinking about this since my wife and her sister's fiancé began planning a nude resort trip for the four of us with the possibility of o plus one.

My wife and I had sex on the evening of our first date. I was instantly enamored of her confidence and ease at getting naked. Getting naked was easy, effortless, and completely natural for her. After she got naked, she knew how to use her flaming hot naked body for maximum effect. She was calm and sexually confident. She knew how to make me feel relaxed while simultaneously more sexually excited than I had ever been. She knew how to eliminate first-time-sex jotters. She told a few days later that sex was as normal and natural a human function as any other, and she would always be naked if she could. She's more comfortable and confident naked than she is in clothes. She learned at a young age that her naked body could make wimps out of the strongest men.

I get more excited watching her getting naked with dudes and using her naked body to bring men to the brink of begging her for release of their sexual tension than I do watching her performing sexual acts. She has an incredibly erotic and completely confident manner of getting naked and using her naked body to seize dudes' attention, captivating them, and entrancing them in sexual hypnosis.

I've watched my wife "unintentionally" brush her large natural tits across dudes' faces while feigning reaching for something. I've watched her stand completely naked and resolutely confident in front of seated dudes with her trimmed and groomed sexy black bush (she's brunette) inches from their faces, her feet normally spread apart, and engage them in mundane conversations unrelated to sex knowing that they craved her scorching hot, naked body. If she's resting on our bed after and exhausting porn star sessions, her legs will be open to give dudes a clear and unobstructed view of her perfectly beautiful pussy. She knows it's normal and natural for men to be unable to resist checking out her naked body.

Forsaking humility for clarity, my wife has above above-average intelligence. Learning has always been easy for her. She breezed through courses for highest IQ students. College was easy for her. She mastered the art of sex while she was in college. She applied her intelligence to learning about men and their sexual desires. She probably knows more about masculine sexuality than most men. She knows how to get men sexually excited and crave her scorching hot body. Watching her performances are more instant hard-on erotic and entertaining than watching any Academy Award winning movie.

My wife has a lot of nude beach experience. I have none. Next month will our first experience doing a nude resort, assuming I can escape work obligations. I'm anticipating her Academy Award winning naked performances.

What part of HW'ing does your wife have perfected and turns you on most?

What do hotwives have perfected to cause men to melt before them?

[Her number1]

It's my wife's confidence and sexual aura because of it. She knows who she is and what she wants. Be it sex, business, or a combination of both, she achieves what she wants.
That excites me, and the men that have a chance to know her.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Her number1,

I completely agree. There is no equal to a sexually confident woman.

[Tank Turner]

My wife was on her game. I was falling asleep on my side of the bed after she finished fucking a dude's brains out. She got up to get more margaritas. She returned about 10 minutes later. I was too tired to drink another. She was completely naked holding a pitcher of margaritas in one hand and her margarita glass in the other. The dude sat up on her side of the bed. She poured margarita in his glass. She sat the pitched down on her nightstand. She stood about a foot in front of him sipping her margarita while BS'ing with him. After a few minutes, I saw her shifting her weight from leg to leg. But that not what she was doing. She was drawing his attention to her pussy while continuing to BS with him.

After a few minutes, he reached for her pussy. She instinctively spread her legs to give his fingers access to her pussy. He rubbed her pussy and penetrated it with his finger. My wife softly moaned. She stopped talking. She made eye contact while he continued to bang her. She whispered to him, "Rub my clit." He did. She put her margarita glass on her nightstand. A few seconds later, she put her hands on her shoulders. She lifted her head to make eye contact with me. She rested her forearms on his shoulders. The magic look on orgasm was all over her beautiful face.

She bowed her head and rested it on his head. She said, "Oh my god," while pushing her hands against his chest to push her sensitive clit away from his hand. She had her adorable euphoric expression of orgasm on her face and in her glazed eyes. It was amazing.

[annsman]

The most exciting part for me is watching or her describing her boyfriend cumming inside her.

[hotfreaks]

My favorite part is watching my wife get from other men what she can't get from me....and the pleasure she receives from it

[Tryagain]

What excites me the most is the sounds she makes when fucking hung guys. The moans...and a sound she makes when she breathes in with her mouth open when the cock is hitting that farthest spot deep within her. And when she is on top and bends over to kiss him while he upthrusts into her and wraps his long arms around her tightly and she moans loudly.

Recently they used a dining room chair where he sat on it and she sat down on his cock and they looked into each others eyes while she squirmed all over his hard cock inside of her.

Also when they lay down side by side, looking into each others eyes, and he gropes her all over and she hold his cock and then he puts the tip of it in her so i can see his whole cock and her terrific ass at the same time.

[dinoo]

It's my wife's confidence and sexual aura because of it. She knows who she is and what she wants. Be it sex, business, or a combination of both, she achieves what she wants.
That excites me, and the men that have a chance to know her.

What an excellent description. I completely agree with this.
The only thing I would like to emphasize more is how my wife has embraced sex with other men (and women) as naturally.
As if she had been freed from all her unconscious inhibitions like being married to me.
One more reason why I was so proud of her for being able to behave like being a not married woman.

Dinoo

[Her number1]

It's my wife's confidence and sexual aura because of it. She knows who she is and what she wants. Be it sex, business, or a combination of both, she achieves what she wants.
That excites me, and the men that have a chance to know her.

What an excellent description. I completely agree with this.
The only thing I would like to emphasize more is how my wife has embraced sex with other men (and women) as naturally.
As if she had been freed from all her unconscious inhibitions like being married to me.
One more reason why I was so proud of her for being able to behave like being a not married woman.

Dinoo

Dinoo,
I very much agree with your additions to my comments! It is so wonderful to see them fully become themselves.

[Shadnaster]

We started out swinging but, ended up with cuckolding because it excited me more seeing her with other guys than me being with other women. I do enjoy watching her in action and hearing her grunt "Fuck me, fuck me" as she's getting pounded by another guy. But, there's something about her coming home from a date and telling me about it that is even hotter. Almost like she's confessing her infidelity to me. Plus, there's things she tells me that I would never know simply by watching. How she first started to feel her pussy tingle when she kissed him. How she first started feeling herself get wet when she started stroking him. Or that "I need his cock in my pussy right now" moment when she was on her knees sucking him. She'll tell me when and how many times she came. She has those big groaning orgasms that are obvious when you watch but, she also has a lot of mini orgasms too. Almost like she's just stopping for a second to catch her breath. I hear about all of those too.

[dinoo]

It's my wife's confidence and sexual aura because of it. She knows who she is and what she wants. Be it sex, business, or a combination of both, she achieves what she wants.
That excites me, and the men that have a chance to know her.

What an excellent description. I completely agree with this.
The only thing I would like to emphasize more is how my wife has embraced sex with other men (and women) as naturally.
As if she had been freed from all her unconscious inhibitions like being married to me.
One more reason why I was so proud of her for being able to behave like being a not married woman.

Dinoo

Dinoo,
I very much agree with your additions to my comments! It is so wonderful to see them fully become themselves.

I think, Number 1, that fully becoming themselves with other men is the best gift a wife can give her hubby.
At least, it was my experience.
My wife thought exact the same thing: it was the best gift I ever gave her.
Apparently giving each other the highest possible, is perhaps also the reason why our mutual relationship was so wonderfully beautiful. What more could a cuckold, or however one wants to describe it, wish for?
And Number 1, I stayed too HER number 1.....

[luvwives999]

Watching another man undress her and seeing her naked for the first time. It's like I am also seeing her naked for the first time, no matter how long we have been together.

[bltn1966]

I’ve watched my wife do this a few times . She and her FB was laying in bed. She held his hands to his chest and teasingly forbid him from touching her. She straddled him and for the next few minutes she rubbed her labia up, down and around his hard dick. She let the head of his cock barley enter for a few seconds before she go back to gyrating her bald pussy all around his hard dick. It usually ends up with the guy losing his mind and throwing her off of him. Then roughly fucking the hell out of her. The guy usually last two or three minutes before the shoot their load. Sometimes she loves it when she make a guy a minute man. She takes it as a compliment.

[isinlarsa]

We started out swinging but, ended up with cuckolding because it excited me more seeing her with other guys than me being with other women. I do enjoy watching her in action and hearing her grunt "Fuck me, fuck me" as she's getting pounded by another guy. But, there's something about her coming home from a date and telling me about it that is even hotter. Almost like she's confessing her infidelity to me. Plus, there's things she tells me that I would never know simply by watching. How she first started to feel her pussy tingle when she kissed him. How she first started feeling herself get wet when she started stroking him. Or that "I need his cock in my pussy right now" moment when she was on her knees sucking him. She'll tell me when and how many times she came. She has those big groaning orgasms that are obvious when you watch but, she also has a lot of mini orgasms too. Almost like she's just stopping for a second to catch her breath. I hear about all of those too.

My first wife had earth-shattering orgasms -- her entire body would quiver under me as I got her off. However she seldom had more than two in a session because she got so worn out. Since I had limited experience, I thought all women had such orgasms. Then when we started swinging I discovered how orgasms could be so different among women. The first woman we swapped with didn't have such obvious climaxes, but did have what you might describe as mini orgasms, and lots of them. One night I was fucking her, and she started counting each time she came. It was literally every few seconds. She got up to 17 before she stopped counting but she kept cumming.

[wordlover2000]

My wife was a "good" girl when we started our journey, and her/our friends would have been in disbelief at the sexual hunger that lurked inside of her, and to which she gave full vent. After a (very) brief period of warming to the idea, she held nothing at all back once we started. She abandoned herself to the entire experience: the nudity, kissing, caressing, cock worship, sucking, fucking, saying "yes" to pretty much whatever the other guys asked for. It was this "full commitment" and the thorough enjoyment, without hesitation, that left me in awe.

[BBCfan]

Some VERY hot answers.
Keep em coming!

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

We're only at the start of our journey and my wife hasn't slept with anyone other than me ever, but we've recently started attending LS clubs. It's been exciting seeing her take baby steps and growing her awareness, pushing her own boundaries and growing her confidence. Sometimes even over the course of a couple of hours.

The shy, timid, conservative girl I married would have been shocked to know that within a few short years she would be in a sex swing with her legs spread, while strange men and women watched her bring herself off in a massive orgasm with a magic wand.

It's like watching a beautiful flower blossom.

[Mgcouplemn]

The whole Hot-Wife experience excites me. Laurie and I always do the chase together, Getting her ready, shaving her body, bathing her, dressing her how I want, picking up the guy, undressing her in front of him, handing her to him, and watching them fuck. But if I needed to choose a moment it would be Laurie looking at me masturbating while she is having sex with a guy.

[Tank Turner]

My wife was a "good" girl when we started our journey, and her/our friends would have been in disbelief at the sexual hunger that lurked inside of her, and to which she gave full vent. After a (very) brief period of warming to the idea, she held nothing at all back once we started. She abandoned herself to the entire experience: the nudity, kissing, caressing, cock worship, sucking, fucking, saying "yes" to pretty much whatever the other guys asked for. It was this "full commitment" and the thorough enjoyment, without hesitation, that left me in awe.

Hi wordlover2000,

Your post was perfect. In order for women to experience intensive, mystical, euphoric orgasms, they must surrender 100% of themselves in pursuit of their sexual boundaries. Restraining their sexual desires prevent them from experiencing what only a small percentage of women have.

The word no one wants to hear is, "No." My has never nor will she ever engage in degrading or dehumanizing sex. If neither of those two eliminators apply, she has no sexual inhibitions. She's always believed that sex should be exciting and orgasmic for both people involved.

[Tank Turner]

I can get excited by watching my sexually confident wife walking around inside of her sister's home wearing the most risqué attire imaginable in front of her future brother-in-law as though it were completely normal. He knew within days of dating my sister-in-law that the sisters are most comfortable in their homes wearing as little as possible. The sisters believe that nudity is completely normal and natural where it's appropriate. What they were to church isn't what they wear inside of their homes.

[aracuckold]

The most exciting thing is to see her fucking and then she blows me a kiss and assures me in a sexy voice how much I love you baby
or sometimes when she sucks his cock she suddenly looks at me and winks at me and says one word "cuck"
Or she comes home and immediately takes off her panties and hands them to me

[dinoo]

It was this "full commitment" and the thorough enjoyment, without hesitation, that left me in awe.

I believe that my wife's "thorough enjoyment without hesitation" was the reason men were attracted by her and where she (and they) took advantage of.
Feeling completely free with other men, her "full commitment" was the best present she could give me, as hubby, too.

[silkyhw]

What excites me most is knowing that another man has ejaculated inside my wife - and that we both want this.