My wife’s partner wants to eat her ass out

[leo-cpl]

Wow so much discussion about this . For sure eating ass is the first step to getting her to be comfy, moving forward anal would be her personal choice or should be between you n your wife (if that's off the table).

My wife's open to anal given the guy (we have the occasional anal too) , she's only let one of the guys fucked her ass a cpl of times, we have met him around 7-8 times over a cpl of years. I love eating her ass (and pussy) out so as such she's comfy with it, this same guy has licked her ass a cpl of times but just a few seconds every now n then while eating her pussy out.

We did experience something new.....we met a new guy for the first time (after meeting 2-3 times casually) and while fucking her doggy he asks if its ok for him to finger her ass while fucking her pussy doggy and she readily agreed :-D was a lil surprising.....she had fun that evening.

[zorro]

It may happen. That will be up to your wife if your guy is an ass guy.

[parklife]

My wife’s last regular FWB really wanted to fuck her ass. We had done so a few times back when we were dating but it’s been off the table for penetration for decades. She does enjoy analingus and everything short of actual penetration but she really wanted to do this for him. (She also let him cum in her mouth which is something I’ve never done, so clearly she was into him)

Anyway, she told me about it, asked my opinion and like most limits, I told her it was her body and I had no issues if she was doing something she wanted. Long story short, one night, we were in bed having sex. She wanted me to eat her ass out and I happily obliged (it’s few and far between as we’ve gotten older). Then she wanted to go further and asked me to put the head of my cock on her hole and press but not fully enter her. Maybe she wasn’t warmed up enough, maybe I pressed too quick or hard but she quickly was like “nope!” And that was when she decided neither he nor I would get anal sex. She later explained it has been so long, she wanted to test the waters with me knowing if she backed out, it’s no big deal and don’t want to start then stop with him.

Maybe he wants it, maybe he just like going down on her ass. Either way, it’s her body and should be her choice as far as I’m concerned. And she should feel comfortable with whatever she chooses.

[Treat yourself girl]

Treat yourself. Mind giving me some pointers how to eat a pussy that’ll have her gushing? And how long do you work on it?

Man... just get down there. Start licking that honey pot gently. She'll relax, start moaning, you'll start loving it and you'll soon be licking like your mad for it.

If you want her to have a gushing orgasm gently lick her clitoris while at the same time, slip your middle and index fingers into her and gently tickle her just behind the clit (so your stimulating it from the front and behind) and keep doing this while she orgasms.

Be careful she doesn't crush your skull with her thighs when she comes.

[BrunetteLover]

About the submissive thing: my wife is submissive to no one. She is an alpha female (yet incredibly feminine in appearance and mannerisms) so much that many love her and some hate her. Very little in between. No incoming bullshit tolerated.

Being married to an alpha male just makes her more of an alpha female, not less. Yet the sex she is having at the moment has no bearing on the above.

She has straddled a guy and assertively slid his cock into her, riding to orgasm, and she has had her head and face buried between a guy's legs as he rides her face and fills her mouth with cum, her swallowing every drop.

What she really loves is the badass-ness that comes with switching off between the two and everything in between.

[mjar65]

Treat yourself. Mind giving me some pointers how to eat a pussy that’ll have her gushing? And how long do you work on it?

Ha ha - no-one seemed to answer this in the frenzy of debate. If you're not eating your wife's pussy then why not? Get down there and enjoy it. Sh will love you for it. Start gentle, take your time and have fun exploring. Between you both you'll develop the best technique in term of licking, sucking and probing.

[C+DofNJ]

Always on the top of my list is eating my wife's beautiful tight holes! ALL OF THEM! so the thought of a date of hers wanting to enjoy her asshole makes total sense to me!

[DaveS]

I love going down on women, front and back. I've rimmed at least a dozen women (some of them many times), but rimming has never led directly to anal sex, although I have had anal sex with half a dozen of those women that I rimmed (just not always directly after rimming). The point is that I love to rim women and will happily do so with absolutely no expectation that it will lead to anal sex. And, I'm sure that I am not alone in this philosophy - so we can't assume that the wife's lover necessarily has anal sex as his goal just because he loves eating ass.

I would certainly encourage your wife to allow her lover to rim her if he so desires - she will most likely love it (every woman that I've rimmed absolutely loved it). I would also encourage you to make a habit of going down on your lady (instead of rarely) - licking a lady's clit virtually guarantees an orgasm for them in most cases. Some women cum quickly and some take a while so be patient and enjoy the taste and aroma and the knowledge that you are pleasuring your woman. Ask your lady for feedback on your technique - women vary in how much direct contact (tongue on clit) they prefer. I would also encourage you to regularly (or at least occasionally) rim your wife as well. Many women enjoy having their clit rubbed as they are being rimmed, and some will orgasm this way.

I just noticed that the original post was almost 3 months ago. Did she allow her lover to rim her? Did he eventually ask for anal sex? If so, did they have anal sex?