Hey there, been a lurker for a little bit but finally taking the plunge and making an account.
After discussion for a month we travelled to another town last night and met a stranger for my girl to play with. My girl is usually very shy, however I was quite surprised how eager she was to entertain this guy even though he presented as quite shy himself.
I handed her over to him, for which she stripped naked and made out with him, letting him massage her perfect D cup tits. She's quite the gorgeous girl, looking much younger than what she actually is and the girl was quite happy to get to enjoy her.
I'm curious on what other guys felt their first time. I thought I would have more butterflies, but this felt quite natural. I've known that I have had this fetish for a while and always communicated quite well with my girl. I'm glad she had fun, and im eager to see what she's willing to do next.
Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
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Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
Welcome to the forum Asdfgh997. Congratulations on your success.
Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
Hi Asdfgh997, and welcome to the forum.
If I take your thread title at face value, then obviously no one can tell you how you should feel.
But I assume you are asking how others have felt, in a similar situation, so as to compare your reaction.
You said " I thought I would have more butterflies, but this felt quite natural."
My response to that is that it's perhaps not the expected reaction, and not what most people report here. Your comment about "butterflies" is nearer the mark. But, if that's your reaction, then great.
The thought does enter my mind that your reaction seems a little too calm. Did the event not excite you that much?
You say that you've "had this fetish for a while". But don't sound overly aroused by things that happened. Also you stated "I handed her over to him". Sounds a bit like you were handing over an object, rather than sharing your girlfriend. Or perhaps that was just an unfortunate choice of words.
Interested to hear your reaction.
If I take your thread title at face value, then obviously no one can tell you how you should feel.
But I assume you are asking how others have felt, in a similar situation, so as to compare your reaction.
You said " I thought I would have more butterflies, but this felt quite natural."
My response to that is that it's perhaps not the expected reaction, and not what most people report here. Your comment about "butterflies" is nearer the mark. But, if that's your reaction, then great.
The thought does enter my mind that your reaction seems a little too calm. Did the event not excite you that much?
You say that you've "had this fetish for a while". But don't sound overly aroused by things that happened. Also you stated "I handed her over to him". Sounds a bit like you were handing over an object, rather than sharing your girlfriend. Or perhaps that was just an unfortunate choice of words.
Interested to hear your reaction.
Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
Hey trecital, it did excite me but just I guess not what I expected. From reading others experiences I guess I assumed that I would be more nervous.
Yes just an unfortunate choice of words. I shouldve just said sharing my girlfriend. She had both of us either side of her playing with her body.
Yes just an unfortunate choice of words. I shouldve just said sharing my girlfriend. She had both of us either side of her playing with her body.
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Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
Nobody ever really knows how they will feel immediately after. Or several days after that. Or even later after that. It's all a desire for a new and exciting experience. Both for you and for her. So just embrace that she enjoyed it, and be supportive of her, lest her emotions go negative. And just enjoy the ride!
Finally, let's also consider that this was a "first" time and you may have subconsciously had your guard up, etc. Stage fright? Could have been anything.
Finally, let's also consider that this was a "first" time and you may have subconsciously had your guard up, etc. Stage fright? Could have been anything.
Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
And think of how your experience may be different from what you’ve read from others describing butterflies for a first time.. I am in no way suggesting getting into a definition discussion, but your post is a bit vague… You met a stranger, they made out, he felt her perfect D cup breasts, you’re eager to see what she’s willing to do next…. Then we learn not only were you in the room but laying next to her with your hands also on her body.
Don’t mean to discount any of it and frankly, it’s amazing… I’ve never had that experience and I’d love it. But I have sat at home with two kids under 3 while my wife left to meet up with an old flame for our first time and I sat for 3.5 hours with no word aside from a “I’m here” text u til she was on her way home (30 min drive) and yes, I had wild butterflies the whole time.
Your feelings seem natural and appropriate and who knows what new scenarios will provide. My wife became a hotwife in 2014 and I’ve not once been in the same house let alone laying next to her…. I’m jealous. After all these years, I no longer get butterflies often but I do get a feeling on contentment and then giddiness when she returns home from a play date.
Things always change and evolve…. Just be ready for the rollercoaster if or when it happens.
Don’t mean to discount any of it and frankly, it’s amazing… I’ve never had that experience and I’d love it. But I have sat at home with two kids under 3 while my wife left to meet up with an old flame for our first time and I sat for 3.5 hours with no word aside from a “I’m here” text u til she was on her way home (30 min drive) and yes, I had wild butterflies the whole time.
Your feelings seem natural and appropriate and who knows what new scenarios will provide. My wife became a hotwife in 2014 and I’ve not once been in the same house let alone laying next to her…. I’m jealous. After all these years, I no longer get butterflies often but I do get a feeling on contentment and then giddiness when she returns home from a play date.
Things always change and evolve…. Just be ready for the rollercoaster if or when it happens.
Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
Since its happened I've noticed our sex drive has been way up. There hasn't been a moment this week where we haven't had our hands all over each other.
From discussion with her, she wants to make sure I'm there, and I watch. She says it makes her feel powerful being able to control me as she has fun.
I'm curious, does that feeling just leave you wanting to know every aspect of her evening? Seeing the actions is one thing, but hearing how she felt about it after the fact was so nice to hear.
From discussion with her, she wants to make sure I'm there, and I watch. She says it makes her feel powerful being able to control me as she has fun.
I'm curious, does that feeling just leave you wanting to know every aspect of her evening? Seeing the actions is one thing, but hearing how she felt about it after the fact was so nice to hear.
Re: Wife played with a stranger on the first time today, how should I feel?
For me, that feeling of wanting to know everything has never waned. Now, my wife and I have a particular dynamic and I don’t ever get every detail and sometime I get very little other than the knowledge that she was with him and they had sex.. details are her to share as and if she chooses on her schedule…. But, the wanting has never changed. I need to control myself when she returns and not act like a puppy happy to see it’s owner… (we don’t have, more does she want that dynamic)
And I’ll also say that the keeping your hands off each other is common as well.. it goes to that puppy aspect and I often am all over her for days after…. Granted, sometimes reclaimed didn’t happen for a week.. so my angst and desire truly burns. Despite the delay in our sex life, in general, the more play dates she has, the more sex I actually get as it lights her own sexual fires. Maybe not the night she returns, maybe not even the next day, but when she is actively involved with a FWB relationship, our sex life goes thru the roof. When she is on a break (as she currently is) our sex life dwindles in frequency.
And I’ll also say that the keeping your hands off each other is common as well.. it goes to that puppy aspect and I often am all over her for days after…. Granted, sometimes reclaimed didn’t happen for a week.. so my angst and desire truly burns. Despite the delay in our sex life, in general, the more play dates she has, the more sex I actually get as it lights her own sexual fires. Maybe not the night she returns, maybe not even the next day, but when she is actively involved with a FWB relationship, our sex life goes thru the roof. When she is on a break (as she currently is) our sex life dwindles in frequency.