Watching or roleplaying wife in a bar or club?

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Watching or roleplaying wife in a bar or club?

Unread post by ddriver86 » Wed Oct 30, 2024 6:40 am

Hey,

First, not sure where I should ask this question, maybe it belongs here or in another section. Not sure. Anyway...

My wife brought up maybe going to a bar as strangers and watching her or she watching me flirt with others, etc.

So I am searching for experiences or stories about this. I have done some research and have found a few stories but it kind of makes me nervous to do this.

I almost want to stack the deck by being well prepared for this where I will not fail.

Thinking, worrying...example: she is talking to some guy and it gets going and then I have to come step in and be the alpha to sweep her away. And I actually have to do it. No awkward, low esteem. Got to have the confidence to pull it off and win her. I want her to know its a better choice to go with me than the other guy. Who is new and exciting.

Just asking. Anyone else get really nervous about this type of scenario if you have done it before or thinking about it?

Thank you for any feedback, etc.

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Wed Oct 30, 2024 8:03 am

We kinda did that one time and it wasn’t even planned. We were at a conference staying at a big hotel. My wife wanted “one more” drink at the bar and I declined because I had to get up early. She went down to the bar and about an hour and half later didn’t return and she did not have her phone with her, so I went down looking for her.

I found her sitting next to a guy that was running his hands through her hair. It was strange but it felt exciting watching. Then at one point he grabbed her hand and put it on his crotch, but she quickly pulled her hand back. Probably 15 minutes later they leave and I see him handing her his room key, which she declined.

But it was fun to observe! We tried the “bar game” after that few times more. You need a big hotel with a big bar with a lot of guys.

So, what did not work was a big hotel, near the airport (which we thought was perfect) but hardly anyone was there. My wife was approached quickly but the guy was a nerd. In hindsight she said I should have just moved to a different seat.

The absolute best way is to go to a lifestyle resort and have her dress very sexy. My wife has had several guys hit on her that way. She hit it off with guy in particular and they were all over each other. When I heard her ask him if he had condoms I knew it was game on! She gave him our room number and he was all excited…but never arrived because Susan had a few too many drinks and gave him the wrong room number!

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Unread post by ddriver86 » Thu Oct 31, 2024 7:23 am

Thank you MarkNSusan,

THis is the information I am looking for.

I am not feeling confident now in my fifties. When I was younger and better in shape I wouldn't have had a problem with it. Now I am not as sure as I was and feeling weird about it. Nervous and not comfortable.

I am waiting to see if she brings it up again.

Thank you again!

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Thu Oct 31, 2024 7:47 am

ddriver86 wrote:
Thu Oct 31, 2024 7:23 am
Thank you MarkNSusan,

THis is the information I am looking for.

I am not feeling confident now in my fifties. When I was younger and better in shape I wouldn't have had a problem with it. Now I am not as sure as I was and feeling weird about it. Nervous and not comfortable.

I am waiting to see if she brings it up again.

Thank you again!
50’s is a perfect age! We have another couple good friends, his hotwife is 53 and picks up guys non stop.

Susan is in her early sixties and still dresses sexy and gets it on in grocery stores, home improvement stores and bars. Age is just a number..So get out there and have fun!

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Unread post by JRE2 » Thu Oct 31, 2024 9:34 am

It was actually the first time we tried it. She went into an airport bar while I followed about 10 minutes later and she was already dancing with a younger man and then joined him at his table. I was sitting at the bar and less than a half-hour later she came over to me and said he was going to join us at my apartment. Since he was a traveler, I drove him from the airport to my apartment while they made out in the back seat. He was a great guy, but that didn't help his whiskey-dick problem. We had a semi successful threesome and then I drove him back to his hotel.

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Unread post by cuckhus15 » Thu Oct 31, 2024 10:35 am

We have done this a few times. A few she was our on dates with friends of mine and I watched from a distance. Other times we were apart but close enough to watch her in bars, clubs and a casino. Watched her flirt with guys and watched a guy or guys hit on here, etc. She had met and fucked 6 guys that way. Met, drank and hung out with 3 younger guys at a casino then fucked all 3 that night.

So exhilarating to watch her and others from first meeting to later on Fucking with the natural progression play out.

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Unread post by discreetlys husband » Thu Oct 31, 2024 10:49 am

Interesting

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Unread post by drj7070 » Sun Nov 10, 2024 8:05 am

We have been doing this for a while but nothing has led to a pickup and more activity back in the room. I always thought the airport hotels would be the best with business travelers but it is better to go a nice hotel bar, preferably the one you are staying in so it would be easy to progress in the room. She will dress sexy and show some cleavage and heels, but the smile to the gentleman is always the one to get their attention. If she gets up to go to the ladies room, it is perfect timing to show her assets and smile at the one she likes. I like to watch in the distance when I get up to go the men’s room. We have tried a remote vibrator which increases the excitement but doesn’t always work from a distance. I have teased about handing the remote to the guy giving her the most attention. That would be really hot.

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Unread post by drj7070 » Sun Nov 10, 2024 8:10 am

cuckhus15 wrote:
Thu Oct 31, 2024 10:35 am
We have done this a few times. A few she was our on dates with friends of mine and I watched from a distance. Other times we were apart but close enough to watch her in bars, clubs and a casino. Watched her flirt with guys and watched a guy or guys hit on here, etc. She had met and fucked 6 guys that way. Met, drank and hung out with 3 younger guys at a casino then fucked all 3 that night.

So exhilarating to watch her and others from first meeting to later on Fucking with the natural progression play out.
That is really hot and something we would like to get to in our scenario. She likes upper scale hotel bars, like the W or Ritz Carlton. They are expensive but have the most matches for her type.

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Unread post by bewareoflizzy » Mon Nov 11, 2024 2:32 pm

We stayed at a hotel/ night club several times for special occasions. Liz would check-in a few hours ahead of me and get all dolled-up. I would meet her at the hotel bar where she would be sitting by herself in a sultry, sexy dress looking divine. We would have dinner then head for dancing at the packed club. One time while we were dancing I dared her to dance with a young, black guy with dreadlocks. She moved right over and soon they were swaying with Liz grinding on his dick. I was so excited I had to move off the dance floor and watch from an elevated area. Another time, as soon as I took a trip to the men's room, I noticed a guy move right in on her. They were flirting but when I got back he was gone. She said he was good looking. We moved to the dance floor and there he was right next to us! I always regretted not asking him to step in.

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Unread post by ucaneffher » Mon Nov 11, 2024 3:19 pm

The few times that we have done this they have all been unplanned. the first time it happened she was dressed really provocative and revealing at a bar. I caught her smiling and signaling at a guy from across the bar. Her stance is that if a man makes eye contact or flirts with her, she engages. It was innocent but they were signaling each other all night and neither had regard that I was next to her. It was my first time feeling a bit of humiliation but I was so turned on by her behavior.

The following times she started splitting from me for small periods to either go to ladies room, order a drink at the bar, or altogether approach any single man who she has caught repeatedly checking her out. She is bold and approaches men who show interest. When she does split from me, she takes her time walking around and allows herself time to be noticed and approached and it has worked multiple times. She tends to stay with the guy talking at his table or bar the bar if he's sitting there and eventually brings him over and introduces me as her friend.

She has used the story that she is with me and a few other people and I'm waiting on them to meet us since they went to check out a neighboring bar or club but are on their way back. This excuse has gotten me some nice shows. My girlfriend flirting with her new friends in front of me and being touchy and very flirty and sitting on their lap while I watch from across our table.

Don't be scared man, just go out as her friend and let her get approached. It's the hottest thing you can witness. It will boost her confidence when she gets phone numbers and different men approaching her and she will want to do it more. Have a plan B with reasons to get out of situations in case you need to get you and her out of there. Good luck

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Tue Nov 12, 2024 5:00 am

Well here’s something that just happened that’s a slant to watching or role playing for us.

Susan has a guy that was hitting on her so after some vetting for safety reasons, she decided to meet him at one of our local bars that she and I go to. She got all dressed up wearing a sexy outfit and asked me to drive her to meet him, but wanted me to wait in the car.

He was already sitting at the bar when she came in and they met face to face for the first time. Right after she sat down, Deb, our favorite bartended says with a big smile says “hey there Susan, what are you having tonight?” Susan said Deb kept checking them out from time to time and she felt fine knowing Deb was wondering what was happening!

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Re: Watching or roleplaying wife in a bar or club?

Unread post by kort677 » Tue Nov 12, 2024 7:07 am

we play that game often. she will complain to me if when she wants to flirt a bit that guys won't approach her if I sit next to her so when she asks me to I give her space.

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