My wife introduces me to hotwifing.

[isinlarsa]

Would you say that a man's complete focus on his partner's enjoyment with other men is a sign of a cuckold? I am really not a fan of labels but just asing your view,

"Cuckold" has a negative connotation. However, it is the short definition for a man whose wife is unfaithful, and I'm happy to have it applied to me. Perhaps wittol or wittold is a better word, meaning a husband who is aware of and tolerates his wife's infidelity. Although again, technically the wife is unfaithful, that seems to be a harsh way to describe it when both husband and wife desire for her to have sex with other men.

[airhorn]

Would you say that a man's complete focus on his partner's enjoyment with other men is a sign of a cuckold? I am really not a fan of labels but just asing your view,

"Cuckold" has a negative connotation. However, it is the short definition for a man whose wife is unfaithful, and I'm happy to have it applied to me. Perhaps wittol or wittold is a better word, meaning a husband who is aware of and tolerates his wife's infidelity. Although again, technically the wife is unfaithful, that seems to be a harsh way to describe it when both husband and wife desire for her to have sex with other men.

As far as I'm concerned, 'unfaithful' is about deception, lying, and other forms of deceit and betrayal.

Simply fucking someone else, as long as it's open, above board, and accepted by all involved, is not 'unfaithful'.

[venus-can99]

Agreed much like "slut" I dislike the word applied to a woman it has a negative connotation but a man who fucks around is considered a stud and a positive thing. I think compersion might be another word that could be applied to these situations IMO

[Late]

I'm with airhorn. It ain't cheating if she is doing something you both agree to.

Late

[JeffBingham]

Agreed much like "slut" I dislike the word applied to a woman it has a negative connotation but a man who fucks around is considered a stud and a positive thing. I think compersion might be another word that could be applied to these situations IMO

This used to be true, but my kids (in their 30’s now) say that dudes who sleep around a lot are called fuck boys. That’s all they have ever known- they never encountered the double standard you mentioned. Both men and women of their generation use the term fuck boy very derisively.

[venus-can99]

This used to be true, but my kids (in their 30’s now) say that dudes who sleep around a lot are called fuck boys. That’s all they have ever known- they never encountered the double standard you mentioned. Both men and women of their generation use the term fuck boy very derisively.

Just shows my age eh ?

[isinlarsa]

I am going to skip a lot of events relating to Linda and my participating in the swinger scene. (Probably not actuate to say swinger scene, because we really never swapped, but ether we attended sex parties or Linda went solo.)

Gary faded from the scene, so I was Linda’s “main man.”

Then a new lawyer was hired into my office. I had been the most junior lawyer in the office, so Frank took my place as the newest lawyer, although he was a bit older than me.

He and I bonded because of our junior positions. He felt more comfortable asking me the ropes, and I could give him the perspective as someone who had recently been in his position.

It was natural for us to spend time talking, and taking lunch together. That, of course, progressed to us socializing after work and bringing his wife Carol and Linda along.

The women liked each other, which meant we often went out for dinner together and the like.

One night we were sitting on sofas in a bar lounge after dinner, and started talking about personal things. Gradually, we opened up to each other and acknowledged that we were not completely monogamous.

That led us into sharing a bit about our sex lives. Carol revealed that she and Frank’s first time together was in a threesome with another woman. Linda topped that with the story of us with Karen. Other stories were shared as the evening went along.

Because of Frank’s and my professional relationship, this did not immediately lead to us entering into a sexual relationship. It’s normally better to keep those separate.

Then Carol invited us to dinner at their apartment in celebration of Frank’s 40th birthday. We had a pleasant dinner followed by Frank’s birthday cake as desert.

Then, Carol announced that she had a special surprise birthday present for Frank. After the drama built a bit, she proclaimed that Frank’s birthday present was Linda!.

The girls had gotten together and contrived this surprise for Frank. Linda had said nothing to me about it, so I was equally shocked and surprised.

That introduced a lot of sexual tension to the evening. Frank and Linda were sitting together trying to decide the next move; while Carol and I enjoyed their discomposure.

I don’t remember the exact sequence of events, but Linda let him know the invitation was for real. That led them to making out in front of Carol and I. Then they adjured to their bedroom and closed the door.

I wasn’t sure if Carol’s gift of Linda to her husband came with a reciprocal gift to me. After all, it wasn’t my birthday. But Carol acted warmly to me, so I began kissing her. That naturally led to more intimate touching and the shedding of our cloths. She had a nice firm little body, very different from Linda’s. Linda was tall and slim. Carol was short but with soft curves.

We coupled and had enjoyable sex, but without mad passion. I did have to work to get my cock inside her. She was really tight.

After a couple of hours Linda came out from the bedroom completely nude, and said we should join her and Frank in their kingsized bed for the night. Frank had already fallen asleep. So the four of us shared their bed. Linda slept between Frank and I, while Carol slept on the other side of Frank. That made Linda available to Frank, but I didn’t have access to Carol. It was his birthday, after all.

The next morning, we individually took bathroom breaks, and returned to bed. Linda then got up to take a shower and prepare for the day.

That left me in bed with Frank and Carol, with her on his other side. Then I watched while Frank somewhat roughly took his wife.

She was laying on her stomach, and he rolled on top of her, forcing her legs apart, as he entered her and mercilessly began to pound in to her. Was this his way of reclaiming her? Was he making a statement to me?

It excited me to watch our friends fucking; but Linda was ready to get on with the morning, so I didn’t get the chance to reclaim her until later.

This turned out to not be a “one-off”. The four of us got together on a regular basis. As it turned out, Frank got totally hooked on Linda. He wanted to fuck her any chance he got. For her part, Linda enjoyed his attention, but not with the same passion that she exhibited with Higgie. I did fuck Carol, but not as often as Frank fucked Linda; and I only did it when Frank was with Linda. Even as I fucked Carol, my thoughts were focused on Linda getting fucked.

That’s not the end of the story.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for this update. Curious how you deal with the fact Linda is having a sexual relationship with a colleague? Was it awkward, stilted or were you able to compartmentalize the two aspects?

[isinlarsa]

Thanks for this update. Curious how you deal with the fact Linda is having a sexual relationship with a colleague? Was it awkward, stilted or were you able to compartmentalize the two aspects?

It actually felt quite comfortable. Perhaps because I had access to his wife as well, although the primary attraction was him for Linda. Linda and I joked about how he couldn't keep his hands off her (or his cock out of her). Sometimes his wife and I would just watch them fuck.

It didn't affect our work relationship. A few times Linda would come into the office (since she worked only a few blocks from us). She enjoyed bantering with us.

[black75]

This is great stuff. Did Linda fuck many of her colleagues, or just yours?

[isinlarsa]

This is great stuff. Did Linda fuck many of her colleagues, or just yours?

Nope. At her work she was the head supervisor and never messed with her underlings.

[Lensman2000]

Did you have any inclination or opportunity to eat her creampies during this period?

[isinlarsa]

Did you have any inclination or opportunity to eat her creampies during this period?

Many opportunities. My first wife actually got off on me eating her lover's cum out of her pussy. Linda seemed to just indulge me by letting me eat her out after she had been fucked one or more times bareback. So I think you can say that I had a strong inclination to eating her creampies.

[isinlarsa]

This is great stuff. Did Linda fuck many of her colleagues, or just yours?

Nope. At her work she was the head supervisor and never messed with her underlings. However, when on business conferences she would sometime hook up with someone who didn't work for her organization. Those were fun stories to hear from her.

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

Would love to read the next instalment! There is interest...

[isinlarsa]

I don’t remember the details of every encounter Linda and I had with Frank and Carol. Some have blended together with the passage of time. But some have been fixed in my memory — probably because they were ones that I have replayed over and over in my mind over the years. This is one.

Linda and I had a cabin in the mountains. One weekend we had Frank and Carol as guests. Obviously lots of sex was on the agenda.

The second morning we were all in the loft bed together. Frank proposed a game.

He would set his watch’s timer feature for five minute, and have it set to repeat. He and I would start fucking our own woman. Then when the watch chimed, we would switch women. The winner would be the last man to cum.

I was somewhat surprised by the women’s casual attitude about taking a man’s cock wet with another woman’s pussy juice when we would be switching, but they didn’t seem have reservations, and agreed to the game.

So we began with me fucking Linda and Frank fucking Carol. Then, the watch chimed, and we switched. Frank took over fucking Linda, and I slid my wet cock into Carol’s tight pussy.

After I had fucked Carol for several minute, her tight twat coupled with the sex sounds coming from Frank and Linda started pushing me toward orgasm. I tried to hold back, but I lost control and ejaculated deep in Carol’s married pussy.

When the watch chimed, Carol turned it off, because the contest was over. But Frank wasn’t finished fucking Linda.

I have read on the OHW site how many men loose urge to have their wives fucked after they cum. I was still fascinated by watching another man fucking my woman.

Carol and I lay together on the bed feasting our eyes on the pornographic scene in front of us. Carol seemed to enjoy it as much as me.

Linda glanced over at me over Frank’s shoulder and smiled to let me know she was having a good time.

Frank continued to pound into Linda. I was amazed that he could hold off cumming in her.

Finally his fucking took on a sense of urgency, and he picked up the pace of pounding into Linda’s cunt.

There is a feeling I can’t put into words when I see another man cum inside my woman. It is addictive. Frank fed that addiction as he flooded Linda’s love channel with his cum.

After they lay there for a while in post-colloidal haze, Carol slapped his ass, and said “You’re finished.”

No one teased me about my lack of endurance.

[isinlarsa]

I'm not sure if there is anyone still interested in my story. I see the count of hits on it continue to go up, but I never get any comments. Having said that, I thought I would try one more story.

I mentioned the restaurant in downtown DC that hosted swinger parties one Saturday a month. The rest of the time it was a normal restaurant. I went there for lunch several times, thinking that my work colleagues would be amazed about its transformation on those Saturday nights.

Although the party was primarily for couples to make arrangements to hook up at a future date, there was a large third floor room covered in mattresses where the more adventurous couples could indulge in on-site sex.

Several times, Frank and I took Carol and Linda to these Saturday night parties. The unspoken intent of these forays was to get the ladies laid.

The restaurant serve only light fair and drinks on swinger nights. The four of us would get a table, and await for things to happen.

Inevitably men would approach our table and engage in conversation. If there was an attraction, the man would invite either Linda or Carol to accompany him to the third floor. I don’t recall any evening where both woman didn’t accept such an invitation.

That would leave Frank and I alone, sitting in a restaurant full of swinger couples. I did wonder what thoughts went through their heads about two men whose women had obviously been taken away to be fucked.

Neither Frank nor I ever made any attempt to approach other women. It was understood that we had taken our women there to have other men fuck them.

Our conversation was about anything else, except what was occurring on the third floor. In retrospect, I wish we had been more relaxed, and talked about what was happening to our women.

Sometimes after Linda returned from the third floor, she would take me up there for sloppy seconds. In addition to the intensity of reclaiming her, it was quite an exhibition to see all the sexual activity going on in the room. It was a voyeur’s dream.

One time when we were up on the third floor we ran into Carol. Poor Frank was sitting by himself in the restaurant.

(The restaurant actually got written up in The Washington Post. I would love to research the Post’s articles so I could provide some documentation to confirm to you my stories.)

[subtoall]

I love your posts. Please don't stop writing. I wish I knew about this restaurant when I was living in DC in the 1980s.

[isinlarsa]

I love your posts. Please don't stop writing. I wish I knew about this restaurant when I was living in DC in the 1980s.

Not sure if it was still hosting swinger parties by 1980. I think I can name the restaurant, since it got written up in The Washington Post. It was called Marigolds. It was funny to talk to work colleagues about the rumors about Marigolds, when we had lunch there. I could have verified them.

[Clement99]

Great stuff! Really enjoying this thread

[Clement99]

Great stuff! Really enjoying this thread

[isinlarsa]

Great stuff! Really enjoying this thread

I appreciate it.

[sandy691196]

I don’t remember the details of every encounter Linda and I had with Frank and Carol. Some have blended together with the passage of time. But some have been fixed in my memory — probably because they were ones that I have replayed over and over in my mind over the years. This is one.

Linda and I had a cabin in the mountains. One weekend we had Frank and Carol as guests. Obviously lots of sex was on the agenda.

The second morning we were all in the loft bed together. Frank proposed a game.

He would set his watch’s timer feature for five minute, and have it set to repeat. He and I would start fucking our own woman. Then when the watch chimed, we would switch women. The winner would be the last man to cum.

I was somewhat surprised by the women’s casual attitude about taking a man’s cock wet with another woman’s pussy juice when we would be switching, but they didn’t seem have reservations, and agreed to the game.

So we began with me fucking Linda and Frank fucking Carol. Then, the watch chimed, and we switched. Frank took over fucking Linda, and I slid my wet cock into Carol’s tight pussy.

After I had fucked Carol for several minute, her tight twat coupled with the sex sounds coming from Frank and Linda started pushing me toward orgasm. I tried to hold back, but I lost control and ejaculated deep in Carol’s married pussy.

When the watch chimed, Carol turned it off, because the contest was over. But Frank wasn’t finished fucking Linda.

I have read on the OHW site how many men loose urge to have their wives fucked after they cum. I was still fascinated by watching another man fucking my woman.

Carol and I lay together on the bed feasting our eyes on the pornographic scene in front of us. Carol seemed to enjoy it as much as me.

Linda glanced over at me over Frank’s shoulder and smiled to let me know she was having a good time.

Frank continued to pound into Linda. I was amazed that he could hold off cumming in her.

Finally his fucking took on a sense of urgency, and he picked up the pace of pounding into Linda’s cunt.

There is a feeling I can’t put into words when I see another man cum inside my woman. It is addictive. Frank fed that addiction as he flooded Linda’s love channel with his cum.

After they lay there for a while in post-colloidal haze, Carol slapped his ass, and said “You’re finished.”

No one teased me about my lack of endurance.

This is so cool and sweet! The entire set up..

[tosaintsfan]

I really enjoy your stories and I hope you continue. I know the work,effort that goes into writing the posts and it is a turn off when you don't get the interaction you anticipate and deserve.

Believe me, I am talking from experience. I have a few threads on OHW's over the years that made me question why I bother, and some I just give up on. But your experiences need to be heard, so please continue.

TO

[isinlarsa]

I really enjoy your stories and I hope you continue. I know the work,effort that goes into writing the posts and it is a turn off when you don't get the interaction you anticipate and deserve.

Believe me, I am talking from experience. I have a few threads on OHW's over the years that made me question why I bother, and some I just give up on. But your experiences need to be heard, so please continue.

TO

Thanks for the comment. Almost 20,000 views and only a few dozen comments is discouraging. I can understand your frustration and just giving up on a thread. I always try to leave some kind of comment, or question on interesting posts; being careful not to hijack the thread.