can we go to a swingers club/sex club as a HW couple?

[BD8280]

Hi again everyone… I know this question been asked before and I apologise for this but whats it like for us to go to a swingers club or sex club as a hotwife couple? I know my wife will be fine but what does the husband say if approached by a woman or a couple? Could people get annoyed with us? Any advice much appreciated:)

[luvwives999]

Wife and I went to swing clubs every saturday night for about 5 years. We went with the idea of her having sex with other men and maybe a woman. There was never a thought of me and other women, yet I did get many offers and opportunities that I did not take advantage of. The clubs were fun, and very erotic, and all these years later, I still am friends with many I interacted with. However, the dynamics of 4 people clicking is a challenge, and on more than one occasion, I mentioned to my wife it was easier for her to find a man on the side on her own.

[Wife4Guys]

No worries in a good club, "thank you but no thank you" means no, even to a lady, no harm, no foul, no offense. This is a cornerstone of swing clubs and parties. Go do your thing

[isinlarsa]

It's much easier for a woman to get laid at a swingers club than a man to begin with. Also most of the time it is the man who approaches the woman -- less likely for a woman to approach a man. A nicely said "No thank you" can handle those times a woman might approach you. They would probably be more subtle in asking you than a man would anyway, giving you the chance to deflect any request she might make.

My buddy and I would take his wife and my girlfriend to the local swingers club with the unspoken understanding it was for them to get laid, not we males. It always worked out well. They would invariably be approached and taken away to be fucked at least once; while my buddy and I sat and waited for their return.

[Mgcouplemn]

Of course, I met my wife at a swinger party, she was dating a married guy and attending the parties with him while he cheated on his wife. We hooked up and she dumped the married guy. We continued swinging, we married and continued, had kids which slowed us down for a while but we continued swinging whenever possible, when the kid moved out on their own we got more active again. Don't know why I became less interested in having sex with other guys wives but it really excited me to be watching them have sex with my wife. In a probably some kinky way I was proud to have a wife the so many men wanted to have sex with. I learned that I loved watching my wife having sex and sitting next to her stroking my cock, something exotic about it for me. My wife actually say it makes her experience more arousing when I am doing that. She say she likes seeing me so excited while watching her.

We still go to swing parties, I rarely have sex with anyone there, but enjoy watching my wife being passed around having random sex. Nobody has a problem with me just watching and masturbating, they are just glad that my wife is there and available.