How did you feel the first time you saw another man make her cum

[Mad Dog65]

Trecital - What an incredible story. I enjoy reading the stories of long time 3 way relationships. I feel somewhat similar in that it is nearly impossible for me to give my wife an orgasm through penetration only. Toys work well and this is OK. I am sure if you shared your full story there would be alot of interest! Thanks again for sharing.

[54321]

Great thread!

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[adamgunnauthor]

For me, this is a somewhat complicated topic. But, I’ve never been anything but happy that Mary has orgasms with other men - I mean, isn’t that the whole point of the exercise?

The first time she orgasmed with another man was the first time we swung. We were at another couples house (we met them our first night at a swing club,) and we got talked into separate rooms. So, I didn’t get to see my wife have an orgasm, but I heard her shrieks through the hallway. I had typical newbie problems getting it up, but the wife gave me a nice blow job.

The second time she orgasmed we were playing with a couple at the swing club. I had a great time with the wife. Unfortunately, the other husband couldn’t get it up, he could have really used the little blue pill I’d taken. However, he did have some skills at oral, so I saw him give Mary a nice orgasm that way.

Finally, the third time we swung, the guy was hard and had no difficulty giving her a great ride.

Mary trained herself to be multi-orgasmic when she was in college. In the twenty years or so we've been screwing around, I wouldn't be surprised if the number of times she's been boinked by other guys is 750. And I doubt that she hasn't come in more than twenty of those fuckings. The fact that my wife comes so easily makes both her and me happy.

[mandl4fun]

I found her first bull on a bulletin board in an adult store. We had played with other couples single men and women but nothing compared to the first time she came on a huge cock.
My wife and I were in our late 30s. This bull was young bwc of 21. His card said he was 9.5 inch and very thick. I meet him at a near by bar before I would let him be with her.
We had a beer or two when I asked him if he wanted to go out to my van and let me see his cock. He said yes of course. When in the van he sat in the back seat me up front. He was eager to show me. When he did all I could say was yep you are hung. His cock wasn’t even hard yet and it was bigger than mine. I told him my wife had never been with anyone his size. He said that was what he wanted. A milf to cum on his cock.
I called my wife and asked her if she was ready. When she said yes I told him to follow me to our house but before we went. I told him I would take him in the house lead him to the bedroom where my wife would be waiting. He was to get undressed stand in front of her and let her play with his cock. He just said ok.
I took him home and we went to the bedroom he undressed and when she saw his cock she gasped. She just looked at him and said you are very young and really hung. I told them to have fun and walked out shit the door and went around to the outside window so I could watch.
It was very exciting my cock was rock hard as I watched my with get him hard then lay back so he could eat her I heard her cum. He asked if she was ready for his cock she shock her head yes. He slid between her legs sat up on his knees and I could see his huge cock. Without thinking and not willing to stop him he slipped the head of his cock in my with bareback. She moaned out that the head of his cock was very thick. I watch as he worked it in slowly and her her say she could feel every ridge of his cock. Then he just started thrusting and she whined out loud like never before. She said yes over and over again the omg I’m cumming. I’m cumming all over your cock. And he told her to cum all over it. I came all over the wall as I watched. It was incredible to watch he fucked her through at least 10 orgasms before he said he was going to cum. She just yelled out for him to cum in her. As she did I came again.
After he left I asked her if she wanted to do it again. She asked me if I wanted to let him. I could only say yes

[leo-cpl]

We had been married for over 15 years (she was a virgin when we met) before another guy joined us. We have had a good sex life she'd climax regularly with us fucking and my tongue.....I never realized she wouldn't cum easy until she played with another guy LOL.

The first couple of guys she played with, they could not make her cum, she enjoyed it the whole experience, but somewhere I felt that disappointed, mind you these guys were above average cock wise/looks wise and even suave but I realized that she was very anxious and nervous and maybe me being in the same room might have not helped. The first guy to make her cum was the MOST unlikely guy lol but then I realized we were into it having met 4 guys and she was less anxious and this guy fucked similar to me (when inside her) and that was something she was used to, other than the fact that this was gentle and she was very comfortable with him.

Long story short I loved the expression on her face and the content of cumming.....was just super!!!! Since then she's been cumming more or less in all our play meets..... now even enjoys the occasional hung guy......she's enjoying the play meets.

Women being less anxious/nervous and the guy doing something they are used to and enjoy helps I feel.

[BT2]

The first time I saw another man make her cum was on our very first "extra curricular" sex experience. She had yet to become a hotwife. In fact, we had never heard of the word. This was a second (common law) marriage for us both and we were still turning each other on with nude play, stories, fantasies, etc. We had heard of bodyrubs and thought it would be a turn on for us if she tried one. We found a guy who gave massages to women. He was nice, polite, met her wishes, etc. The massage started off normal enough, him fully clothed, her under a towel. It eventually ended with them both naked and him fondling her to orgasm.

How did I feel? It was a long time ago, but I remember being very turned on by it, and was more than happy she wanted to and was able to cum. And I wanted her to have another session with the guy.

[Tryagain]

Early in our marriage, I suspected that my wife was not really enjoying fucking, although she had great reactions to oral pleasure. Our first time was with a very hung guy because I wanted to know if bigger was really better so I searched for one. I did not think through what may happen and how I would react.

I invited a hung guy over and we all got into bed together. After a while my wife and he kissed a bit and he went down on her for a very short while. Then he knelt up to fuck her and I thought “this guy does not know what he is doing. There was not enough foreplay”. As soon as he puts it in, she gasps and starts to breathe heavily – in a way she never did with me. He then fucks the shit out of her and she is moaning loudly. She finally tells him she is not going to cum so he should cum. He does and we all laid naked on the bed for a cigarette. I looked at his plumped up flaccid cock –about 5-6 in and very thick and mine about 2.0 thin inches - and thought "what the hell am I doing this for!" I had the idea that we all three would be involved – a 3 some - but when he started in with her, I knew there was no place for me – they were so enthralled with each other, I could not even begin to compete with him for her attention.

As soon as the cigarettes were finished, my wife grabbed his cock and looked him in the eyes. They kissed and he then fucked her again for a long time. At one point she was on top moaning like crazy and finally came. She had never came from me fucking her. He then finished up.
Another cigarette and I am thinking “when is this going to be over?” I wanted it to stop very badly. But once again she grabs his cock and they start fucking yet again. I am aghast ! Again! She wants it again!

After a short while she says she is getting sore and he should cum. Like a gentleman he immediately pulls out – god it was big! BUT now she motions for him to straddle her head and she sucks him off. He then jerks off to finish and she lets him shoot it onto her face which had a look of gratitude.

After he leaves –thank god – I am shaken by the experience. But I have to ask her “so how as it”. She smirks and says “do you really want to know? I do not want to hurt you”. My stomach was churning. She said “it was like I was fucked for the first time. Now I know why people fuck for hours”.
I almost died hearing that and that was the end of threesomes for a long time. And that was when I knew I could never satisfy her.

[Parsifal]

I couldn't believe my reaction to the situation. My consciousness, though rooted in my own sense of Being, transmigrated into his and hers. I felt myself as him and her, wanting her and, in turn, him to reach orgasm - because I myself needed to feel that release as my own! And so when it happened, it was as if the release was my own.

[BBCfan]

What a super hot thread. Thanks to all who shared.

[AusLibrarianSharer]

I was honestly a bit apprehensive about it like I knew she was having sex with the guy and I knew he was making her cum but wasn't quite sure how I'd handle it the first time I saw it.

I could tell she was close and I got quite nervous until it finally happened and it was this rush and I was so turned on by it.

Went through a similar thing as well with her FWB last year who was quite large and I figured she was going to cum considerably harder on his cock and she absolutely did. Was rolling eyes and everything. Again it was amazing

[emca753]

I couldn't believe my reaction to the situation. My consciousness, though rooted in my own sense of Being, transmigrated into his and hers. I felt myself as him and her, wanting her and, in turn, him to reach orgasm - because I myself needed to feel that release as my own! And so when it happened, it was as if the release was my own.

I was both aroused and jealous, later after subsequent viewings more aroused, although if I released I was jealous and envious 20 seconds later

[C+DofNJ]

Was one of the most incredible turn on moments of my life! I watched it on live video! followed by the most incredible session when she got home an hour later!

[Gazmo]

How did I feel?

That I'd done the right thing by bringing the concept of consensual non-monogamy with her.

The fact that she was able to orgasm (multiple times, and extremely easily) and not feel guilty left me absolutely justified.

And happy!

And very, very turned on

[UkCuckHubby]

Only ever seen through another licking her clit and it was hot and made me happy that she was feeling pleasure.

I have never seen her virginally orgasm whilst been penetrated, as I am rarely there when she meets guys. However she and some of them have assured me that it has happened countless times and on rare occasions they have cum together.

My wife explains a virginal orgasm as a really deep feeling which builds up and releases in waves of immense pleasure that she has never felt with me (she says I simply aren't long or girthy enough) and that it makes her feel a unique closness, lust and bond to the lover in question, she added its always made her want the lovers cum more too. Knowing that she has never felt this when we have had sex her explanation makes me horny, happy, excited and jealous all rolled into one.

[WatchinginNJ]

First time I ever saw another dude make my girl cum? I high fived him because we were spit roasting her.

[subcuck93]

At the first 2-3 years, she cannot or dont want to get orgasm from other man. After their sex, I lick the and make her cum, at the same time I wank and get orgasm. It was our kind of ritual. After years goes on she get orgasm when she have penetrative sex, it was so strong orgasm. She never orgasm from me with penetrative sex, it's just licking orgasm. First time I saw that, I feel really strong mixed feelings.

For now, if she doesn't have orgasm on her sex with other guy, our ritual continue. If she got orgasm, I just jerk in front of her and she humiliates me on that time.

[Thebestdays1]

I was with her in a threesome with her boyfriend. I knew he'd made her cum several times during their get togethers so I knew to expect it and was looking forward to it. I'd already sucked him off a few times when I gave him a lift home after fucking her all night. When I saw her reach her orgasm and saw how powerful it was I felt happy for her and proud when he immediately came in her.
As soon as he pulled out I had an urge to thank him by taking his penis in my mouth and clean their juices from him. I then went down on her and cleaned her up before kissing her passionately. She wanted to kiss him so he took my place in her arms and she told me to get him ready to fuck her again so I had to fondle and suck him. I actually felt in awe of his large penis and how it had given her the sort of powerful orgasm that I'd never been able to give her. I wanted to see her cum again so I fondled, licked and sucked him until he was rock hard and she was ready for him.

[Sanman]

The first time I was incredibly turned on, excited, mixed with jealousy and somewhat upset, not with my wife but the boyfriend doing her. My wife had been having sex with this guy for some months but this was the first time they let me watch. It was at a hotel. We met up at the hotel bar and right away he was handsy with my wife. I shouldn't have been surprised, of course, but it still naturally bothered me. She gave me an extra key and told me to come up to the room in a bit so they could get started. When I got to the room, wife was down to her bra and panties, standing before him by the bed. Soon, he had taken everything off, and laid my wife down on the bed and started eating her pussy. She pushed his face into her and began gasping and I was so turned on mixed with jealousy.
When he got up over her and I saw how big he was for my wife, then plunge it into her, it was exhilarating but then he began talking to her really dirty and that bothered me, like I wasn't even there. In truth, she had hardly looked my way the whole time. When the whole messy, hot, wet hotel room episode was over, she was like, oh yeah, my husband is here too, hi honey.

[subguy80]

The first time I saw her orgasm with another guy was in the initial phase of our dating in college. I was crazy about her and although I wouldn't say we were in a "relationship" yet, I considered us a "thing." We had never discussed exclusivity, but I was still pretty shocked when she said she wanted me to know she was going to have sex with a fuck buddy she knew before me. I was devastated and it was our first major bump in our dating. On the one hand, I was glad she was honest and up front telling me, but also completely deflated by thinking I apparently wasn't satisfying her sexually. She assured me she loved sex with me, but she didn't want monogamy and that it was just sex, nothing more. She then suggested that we have a 3-way and maybe I could see that it was just sex and I'd have an easier time of it. I wasn't sure about that but agreed to a 3-way.

I thought the guy would be some jock with a big cock and I was prepared for the whole thing to be a big disaster. But, the guy was just an average guy. He had a different body type than I had/have. He was stocky and hairy and when we all got naked I was relieved to see that his dick was just average and maybe even smaller than mine. So, to the question of how I felt. First, I remember feeling that the two of them connected to each other so "easily." They were clearly very familiar with each other's bodies and knew immediately what the other liked. To be honest, I learned a lot from him. He was more aggressive in bed than I had been, pumping his dick into her much harder. He moved her around to find positions where his dick would hit spots that he knew she liked. She had her first orgasm within about 10 minutes. I always had to go about a half an hour before she would orgasm and even then, sometimes I wondered if she was faking it. He pinched her nipples with just the right amount of pressure without hurting her. He was more aggressive in giving her oral. When he shot his load in her, they both orgasmed together. She and I had never orgasmed together.

The impressions (and lessons) I took away from that experience were: 1) Sex can be just sex 2) I learned some techniques from this guy and I needed to up my game with her 3) She doesn't need a big penis to orgasm and that was a relief and 4) I learned some things about Sarah that were wonderful. Even though she was having great sex with this guy, she often checked in with me by asking "Are you alright?" She would kiss me and hold my hand while he was fucking her. Things like that. In other words, she could have sex with someone else and even bring that sexual activity into our relationship in a loving way. It was her way of giving me a tutorial. When I think back on it now, some 20 years later, I think her suggestion of a 3-way was her way of showing me what she needed. We had already had some conversations about pleasing each other sexually, but I have to admit that there was nothing more powerful that seeing another guy getting her off for the lesson to sink in.

So, despite the initial concerns and anxiety, it ended up being a positive experience and the beginning of a long pattern of sexual exploration.

[Drew2]

It was amazing and I was so happy and proud. She gave into her lust and let herself be pleasured completely. She was nervous but then she looked at me, I nodded my approval. She pulled him in for a kiss, wrapped her legs around him, and orgasmed as hard as I've ever seen her orgasm. At that point, I knew this would be the first of many men that she would use for her pleasure.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

How did you feel the first time you saw another man make her cum?

I felt a multitude of emotions having just watched another man riding my beautiful blonde wife to a highly satisfying orgasm that put a huge smile on her face!

I felt happiness, relief that she was comfortable in doing it, satisfaction for both of us, a sense of accomplishment, pride and joy, and knowing that the Hotwife Lifestyle was ideal for us, and this aspect was very important that she was very comfortable with having another man cum inside her bare pussy !!

[Restarting]

It was exhilarating the first time I saw her alone with another man. He was a long-time friend that I trusted. I felt no panic. I think it made it easier for me to see her with other men later. Overcoming the urge to join them was the toughest part.

She smiled as she faced him, wearing just her panties. Her confidence was sexy as hell. It was all so natural. When she came, it sealed an already amazing experience.

Afterward, she was still smiling. I loved it, still do.

[WatchinginNJ]

When I think back on it now, some 20 years later, I think her suggestion of a 3-way was her way of showing me what she needed. We had already had some conversations about pleasing each other sexually, but I have to admit that there was nothing more powerful that seeing another guy getting her off for the lesson to sink in.

So, despite the initial concerns and anxiety, it ended up being a positive experience and the beginning of a long pattern of sexual exploration.

Before I even got to this statement that was what I was thinking. I've been with enough women where getting it out of them what they like sexually was hard enough, but to just put in a whole demo course? It's a bold strategy cotton. Good for her.

[carolinacuck]

C's first hotwife experience wasn't very successful. The guy was a big well hung man we met on AFF, but he had a difficult time maintaining an erection. He fucked her really well while he was hard but he couldn't quite sustain it.

The second guy was a tall, well endowed ex military officer we met on vacation who had no such difficulties. After she gave him a scorching hot blowjob, he mounted her in the missionary position with his 7"x 6" cock and within a few minutes she loudly announced her first hotwife orgasm with "I'm cumming on your big dick." As I watched and played with my 5" cock, I remember thinking Don had given her more sexual pleasure in five minutes than I had been able to provide in all the years of our marriage. I felt incredibly turned on, while at the same time humiliated by her obvious desire for him and his sexual prowess. I distinctly remember thinking at the time that our sex life would be changed forever by this encounter. C had been a little leery of the HW lifestyle, but Don changed all that and opened her up to exploring the possibilities with other men.

[Tryagain]

C's first hotwife experience wasn't very successful. The guy was a big well hung man we met on AFF, but he had a difficult time maintaining an erection. He fucked her really well while he was hard but he couldn't quite sustain it.

The second guy was a tall, well endowed ex military officer we met on vacation who had no such difficulties. After she gave him a scorching hot blowjob, he mounted her in the missionary position with his 7"x 6" cock and within a few minutes she loudly announced her first hotwife orgasm with "I'm cumming on your big dick." As I watched and played with my 5" cock, I remember thinking Don had given her more sexual pleasure in five minutes than I had been able to provide in all the years of our marriage. I felt incredibly turned on, while at the same time humiliated by her obvious desire for him and his sexual prowess. I distinctly remember thinking at the time that our sex life would be changed forever by this encounter. C had been a little leery of the HW lifestyle, but Don changed all that and opened her up to exploring the possibilities with other men.

I remember the same thing happening to me. The guy drove her nuts. She was gasping and moaning and had a look of astonishment on her face. She was never that interested in sex but after he fucked her about 20 minutes, they rested but she then grabbed his cock for more. Again a marathon fucking with her on top and she finally came. Phew, I was blown away and thought it was finally over. But she grabbed his cock again! I could not believe it. After a short while she said she was getting sore. He pulled out right away but she motioned for him to straddle her head and sucked him off again!

She Later said she never thought she could enjoy sex with a guy she was not attracted to. So yes....he gave her more pleasure then ever did or could.