What Do You Consider More Intimate? A Blowjob Or Intercourse

[BCiym]

I don’t remember.

[Ringo Rectangle]

Few years ago when me and wife discussed this (as i suggested dipping her foot into the lifestyle with a blowjob) she said that to her a blowjob is more intimate because of the potential smells and tastes. Yes i always thought penetration was a step up rather than down.

[Wifewithothers]

With me and my wife together , just ourselves I would say intercourse, definitely more of an emotional connection for us.

With others definitely situational. Often sexual encounters with others have little to nothing to do with intimacy it's just sucking and or fucking for pleasure.

[BT2]

I agree.

[DaveS]

I talked about the intimacy of passionate kissing as being more intimate than either of these in a previous comment. However, in a choice between these two, I find bareback piv that ends with him cumming inside her to be the more intimate - much less so with a condom (in which case, I might vote for the blow job with no condom).

[carolinacuck]

Just stumbled across this thread. I would have considered intercourse as more intimate, but then I thought back to something C said before we started the cuckold lifestyle. She told me that she wasn't sure about kissing and giving head to her sexual partners....I think she thought it was more intimate than actual intercourse. That went out the window early on with a guy she was very turned on by. Fast forward a few months later, when we met an out of town married guy via AFF. She was very attracted to Rick and we wound up meeting him for drinks and ultimately went back to his hotel room. He fucked her incredibly well to a couple of thunderous orgasms and he was so long lasting she got sore and told him she needed to stop. She then proceeded to give him an incredible BJ to completion. I remember thinking what a transformation from initial reluctance to giving a guy she just met great head that included swallowing.

[namitha157]

I actually don't like sucking penis. Don't do it often, so it need to be something specialm

Sucking a pussy is even worse... errr.
I dont mind getting mine sucked. But not with everyone.

Getting my ass fucked is fine though.
Enjoy this a lot.

[namitha157]

My main bf has never sucked me, had his penis touched by me or had my ass. Or seen my pussy for that matter

Id say in order.. Id give him a hand job, let him have my ass, Maybe pussy sex (if ive had it by then), and last would be a blowjob.

[John Ryan]

From the view of the watcher I believe seeing the wife giving head is much more intimate you can watch her tease, lick, polish and take her friend deep. Lick his balls, edge him till he can't stand it anymore. Seeing her swish and swirl his come and finally swallow. Granted intercourse is intimate between each for the person watching she see thrusting in and out, moaning but there is nothing like a wife that is a master of oral work another's head to fulfillment. IMHO

[HotwifeforBBC]

Definitely intercourse. Especially when my lover cums inside me while we're kissing deeply!!!

[UkCuckHubby]

Wife says a blowjob can be intimate and she enjoys cock worshipping her regulars huge cock, but she says to make love with him and feel him fill her with cum is the ultimate intimicy.

[zorro]

Fun re-reading some of the posts over the years, including my own from a long time ago.
At this point in our journey, now that we have had a LTR with the same guy for 8 years, I would say that the greatest intimacy comes with R fucking him bareback after and during deep, sensuous kissing and loving on each other. When he cums in her, it seems more primal and connecting. She occasionally still gives him a BJ, but her orgasms come from his fingering and fucking her. But the kissing is more important to her than the cumming. She is one of those lucky ladies who can cum just from kissing, so that makes huge difference.

R has evolved in a demisexual, so she welcomes him because of her solid fondness for him and the trust that has built over the years. That gives it the intimate component. She has lost interest in just fucking another guy because she often -- but not always -- finds the experience "mediocre." It is the feelings she has with the guy that makes the sex intimate.

So, the intimacy may have less to do with the sex act than it does with the emotional connection between the wife and her extra guy.

[dinoo]

There is indeed nothing more intimate than watching your wife enjoying her steady lover while surrendering herself completely to him.
In our situation my wife had two regular lovers with whom she behaved like this.
The pictures I took with her black lover seems to be a proof but she didn't fall in love with him.
However, she fell in love with her white lover. How they experienced sex was of the highest order.
Beautiful, very surprising, sometimes gentle, sometimes rough. As if they invented sex as it should be.

It pleased me how she didn't hide her fullest enjoyment to me.
And she?
"I'm the happiest woman on earth. Being able to love two men at the same time. One for having unbelievable sex with, the other the man of my life. Because how many men will even support their wife so strongly when she fell in love with another man? I love you even more than you can imagine."

[dinoo]

There is indeed nothing more intimate than watching your wife enjoying her steady lover while surrendering herself completely to him.
In our situation my wife had two regular lovers with whom she behaved like this.
The pictures I took with her black lover seems to be a proof but she didn't fall in love with him.
However, she fell in love with her white lover. How they experienced sex was of the highest order.
Beautiful, very surprising, sometimes gentle, sometimes rough. As if they invented sex as it should be.

It pleased me how she didn't hide her fullest enjoyment to me.
And she?
"I'm the happiest woman on earth. Being able to love two men at the same time. One for having unbelievable sex with, the other the man of my life. Because how many men will even support their wife so strongly when she fell in love with another man? I love you more than you can imagine."

[SRKnight]

Deep kissing during intercourse would be my vote.