Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[hornedhubby]

Hoping that Reese and the lovely Mrs. R are having a great summer.

And a hot one, too.

[L4+]

Wow. Just wow! Your epic HW saga has had me aroused and enthralled. There were times when I literally lost sleep because I worried that your HW activities would harm your marriage. Happily, your love and commitment to each other prevailed. There were times when Mrs. R was so into horny HW mode that I was in awe. I could only dream of having such a HW.
It seems to me that the source of some of your occasional problems is a fundamental mismatch in your sexuality. Yes you both love sex w/ each other, but Mrs. would be satisfied w/ vanilla while Mr. craves the jealousy and angst of hotwifing to ramp up the intensity of their sex lives. This inevitably leads to conflict, burnout, and exhaustion. I wonder if you could meet halfway and each have most of what you want: Ditch the cheating wife scenario. Periodically go to swingers clubs to play. Go on a greedy girls night where Mrs. could have her pick of hunky dudes and Mr. could watch her play. Try a swinger resort, convention, or cruise. Just my thoughts. What I found most meaningful in your story was your abiding love for each other. I hope you can find a HW system that mostly meets both of your needs. Again, thanks so much for sharing your story. Best wishes for HEA. L.

[mjb0007bond]

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[BallSpanking]

For any who are wondering, last I heard from Mrs Reese (around Feb), she seemed happy living the vanilla life with Mr Reese, finding closeness and intimacy in her marriage, and as such was disinclined to start playing again. She did not rule it out, if Mr Reese asks her to, she loves to drive him crazy.
Cheers!

[mjb0007bond]

Over 16 years! What an awesome thread.

[leander99]

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[mrs_reese]

Hello everyone!
I want to thank Ballspanking for being so kind and persistent as he messages me from time to time.
I thought I’d check in with all my friends.
Life has been really busy but I’m happy.
I’ve stopped HW play for now and I am 100% happy with that!
I know, so boring.
My sex with hubby is really good!
He finds way to fantasize about our HW lifestyle I’m sure but we’ve settled in a nice place.
I flirt from time to time in front of hubby, or go out w the girls and dress sexy, hubby won’t talk about his feelings but he knows and I know this is our foreplay now.

We really have good sex!
He loves making me cum- lots of oral everywhere!
This guy can still come twice a day if I let him lol!
If I don’t, he’ll find a way🫣

Other than that, i don’t know if and when I’ll play with others but if I do, I’ll be sure to let you all know!

I love you all!
Xoxo
Mrs Reese

[BallSpanking]

Love seeing you back, darling!
I'll keep hoping that on one of those girls nights out, dressed all sexy, you stumble and fall,
impaled on a thick, hard cock that touches you deeply.
Happy holidays, darling, to you and Mr Reese.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update mrs_reese. Your happiness matters regardless of hw "status" so its great to hear that you have found happiness with hubby.

[54321]

Life has been really busy but I’m happy.
I’ve stopped HW play for now and I am 100% happy with that!
I know, so boring.

Not a bit! So happy to know you guys are happy. You're my all time fave hotwife couple.

My sex with hubby is really good!
He finds way to fantasize about our HW lifestyle I’m sure but we’ve settled in a nice place.

He certainly has a wealth of hot, exciting memories to draw on!

I flirt from time to time in front of hubby, or go out w the girls and dress sexy, hubby won’t talk about his feelings but he knows and I know this is our foreplay now.

I always think that the flirting and teasing between a loving husband and wife is the true essence of hotwifing.

We really have good sex!
He loves making me cum- lots of oral everywhere!
This guy can still come twice a day if I let him lol!

I don't doubt it when you are his inspiration!

Other than that, i don’t know if and when I’ll play with others but if I do, I’ll be sure to let you all know!

Please do! Keep well and happy, both of you, and thank you for the greatest OHW thread ever (and it's a high bar!)

Every good wish,

54321

[mrs_reese]

L4+ that’s so sweet
Thanks for the bumps Ballspanking, leander99 mjb007bond, horned hubby, Venus-
The comments BS and 54321

I’m checking in.
Hubby has been driving me crazy .
I mentioned that I checked in with OHW and so many of our friends missed us and wished us best.
Of course this just activated his insane sex drive.

He’s been subtly asking me to have a brief affair.
Anything to challenge him.

I’ve resisted.

But feeling naughty right now after a brunch with my girlfriend.
One of them informed us that she and her hubby does not ever have sex and she’s been encouraged to find something on the side to keep her satisfied as he’s just not interested anymore.

She believes he has a low testosterone issue.

This has me thinking
What shall I do?

Any advice?

Please share

[hornedhubby]

LOL.

Offer to demonstrate best practices, my dear.



Does your horny friend know about your backstory and (ahem) extraordinary expertise?

From her perspective, this is like musing about how to become famous and then finding out you're brunching with Taylor Swift.

[BallSpanking]

Hello, Darling!
Always lovely to see you around ...
What should you do?
What would you like to do?
Encourage her to look outside their home?
Is she wanting a Wing-Girl? That could be fun for you!
If you think you can encourage her by sharing some of your experiences with her, then that would be interesting.
But, if Mr Reese is hinting maybe you need to share yourself with an attractive guy, or maybe a more imposing sugar daddy ...
Well, that's all up to you.
Unexpected outcomes can be good or bad, but the heat comes from rolling the dice, and when a possibility bears fruit ... 🥵
Have fun darling, however you decide to deal with Mr Reese's encouragement.

Please let him know we ALL share his enjoyment ...
But more importantly, have a blast!

Kisses, Baby!

[54321]

What shall I do?

Oh dear! What is a girl to do?

I'm sure you could educate her on the possibilities.
If she became a hotwife, her husband's testosterone level might suddenly recover or even exceed expectations.
A miracle cure indeed!

Will you just advise or will the two of you go out on the hunt together so you can give her the benefit of 'Tell, Show, Try, Do"?

Could Mr Reese help out with her dilemma? That would be a new twist.

Decisions, decisions. Erm... Am I helping?