"Maybe one day", one day at a time.

[Pufferfish]

Your lifestyle seems enjoyable but it seems your lady has feelings for her lovers. Like a poly relationship. Is that something you guys expected in the beginning?
I tease my wife about having a boyfriend, but it's really just a FWB type of thing and not a whole relationship.
Always on the lookout for more pics of your lady here. I hope things get better.

Yes and no. I won't get into my whole belief structure about poly relationships, except to say I don't agree with most of them. Love is something that I believe most people don't understand very well. There are very different types of love. You love your wife differently than you love your children, which is different from how you love your sister, which is different than how you love your dog, which is different than how you love your friends... It's all different. So no, it was not unexpected for me that she would develop feelings for someone she spent over 2 years having sex with. I tease my wife too about having a boyfriend, and she tries very hard to try to keep the mindset of a FWB instead of a boyfriend and keeping expectations in check. She doesn't have the same jealousy or commitment. She's done very well trying to regulate her emotions.

[Pufferfish]

A few days after the breakup with N, my wife was very disappointed in herself. She said she felt ridiculous that she loved him that much. She regretted that she broke things off too soon because there were things she wanted to do. She was embarrassed for crying in front of him and making a big deal out of it... She just had a hard time. But she dealt with it fairly well.

She has started updating her dating profile and begun looking for a new one, but she's not really that serious about it yet. She did go on another date with the cop that she went out with several months ago when N got a girlfriend. She said it went better than the first time but isn't sure if she likes him or not. So she's still processing things. But at least she's taking steps and making progress again. I did kind of rain on her parade with some of the pics that she was uploading to the site. I told her they were way too heavily filtered and didn't make her look as good as she looks. I think the filters made her look ridiculous. We had to have a talk about women using snap chat filters and what and why men don't like about them. She then picked out a few really good pics for her profile that weren't so heavily filtered. She wasn't happy about that discovery, but seemed to understand why it was a problem.

[Pufferfish]

I should probably wait to update until Wed, when I know how things turn out, but thought I would share now what's been going on and what hopefully happens soon.

She went out again with the cop guy, but isn't really into him much. I'm not sure anything is going to happen there. But she got all excited last week when she was talking to this new guy. I don't think she's said what his name is yet, so I don't have a letter to call him yet... But she got excited because he likes a lot of the same music she likes, has the same working schedule she does, and he sent pics of his dick and videos of him stroking it. And they made her mouth water. He looks to be probably about 9 inches and uncircumsized, which she's never had an uncircumsized one before. She got all ready and went to the bar they were going to meet... and he never showed up. She called him a piece of shit and a coward for not showing up and wasting her time. Cut to today, and she messaged him again, saying how she's still drooling about his cock and wanted to give him one more chance and to come to our house and fuck her if he isn't a pussy. The plan is currently, he's supposed to come over tomorrow night around midnight and they are going to fuck. Unfortunately that's beyond my bedtime, but he's being a pussy about me being there and watching so I'll let her have some privacy, and it's still going to be on camera hopefully. I told her to please come wake me up by sitting on my face afterwards... assuming he actually shows up, which neither of us is truly expecting. But hopeful.

Tonight my wife is out with another new guy on a date at a bar. Don't know this guy's name either, yet. He's an Asian guy, which is the first potentially interracial scenario she's wanted to set up. We'll see how she feels about him after tonight. I think he looks a little short for her from his pics but he's got big muscles and is pretty ripped and she likes that. Don't know what he's packing though. But I dropped her off a little bit ago and I'll go pick her up when she texts.

Overall, I'm just super happy that she's just out and about trying to get dicked. She had trouble sleeping today because she was drooling and hungry for that large cock and is just super horny for being a hotwife again and getting fucked... and I'm super excited that she is so wet for it and excited. I just hope it works out this time...

[Pufferfish]

Her date with the Asian guy went ok, he was nice... but he wasn't as big in person as she thought, muscles wise or height. So she wasn't that into him. She still made out with him a bit and let him grope her tits. But she doesn't think she's going to see him again. And upon reading her conversation with Flakey (I'll call him for now), I couldn't tell if he meant tomorrow around midnight, or tonight around midnight. So she asked him to clearify, and he wants to come fuck her tonight around midnight.

So that's the new hopeful plan. Flakey is coming over to our house, to fuck my wife, even though they have never met in person and even she doesn't know his name. Which I thought was hilarious and sexy as hell. I told her I would love nothing more than for her to get fucked by this guy and not even know his name. We still don't know if he's actually going to show up, or flake out... but I guess we'll find out soon. And I hope he comes fuck the living hell out of my wife tonight.

[Pufferfish]

I am probably too deliriously tired to be writing... but oh well. "Why so tired?" you ask dear reader? That's a great question.

I got ready for bed last night as my wife cleaned the house a bit just in case Flakey showed up at midnight like he had claimed he would. I laid down at 11 and figured I would struggle to fall asleep, hopeful that Flakey would indeed show up to fuck my wife like she hoped. I dozed off around 11:30 and woke up again around 12:20. I didn't hear anyone talking or anything in the living room next to our bedroom. I looked at the clock and thought "Damn, didn't hear the door bell." But I said he could have just knocked I suppose. I grabbed my phone and logged into my camera system. The image on the living room camera said it all, my wife was riding up and down on a guy's 9+ inch uncut cock on the couch. I guy who's name I didn't know. A guy who's name she didn't even know (or at least remember). A guy who she had never met in person before just a couple minutes ago.

I watched on my small phone screen for nearly 30 minutes as my wife fucked this guy before he unloaded his cum into her pussy. She rolled off of him exhausted with his cum leaking out of her pussy. I then set my phone down and waited for my wife to come wake me up and sit on my face as she had promised she would. A few minutes later she appeared and straddled my face. She whispered to me that she kind of likes him, but also kind of doesn't like him. But she said "His dick is so hard and big though, and he lasts a long time." She said "He said he's ready to go again, and I'm already a bit sore" as she rushed out not even a minute later. I picked up my phone and saw her return to Flakey, (who will henceforth be named "Pornstar") and start sucking his cock. I unloaded really fast while watching as he began fucking her doggy style. Nearly an hour later... after several positions, ass slaps, and several of my wife's orgasms later, he unloaded again into her pussy. I then set my phone down and tried to go to sleep.

I heard a noise outside and picked up my phone again to check the back yard camera. I saw them getting into the hot tub... Pornstar's dick still hard. I watched for a few minutes then set my phone down to sleep. After 30 minutes or so they returned to the livingroom and a few after that I heard another ass slap. I picked up my phone and checked the camera. My wife once again riding his cock fucking him. And again, I watched for an hour and a half straight as he fucked my wife every which way, and once again cumming inside of her. As she climbed off of Pornstar's dick she started laughing... his dick was STILL FUCKING HARD. They laid there watching a movie, with his hard dick still throbbing up and down and my wife played with it a little as they watched the movie. At this point, it was after 4 am and I needed to sleep, so I tried to sleep.

One hour later... I wake up to the sounds of more ass slapping. I grab my phone again and once again see that lovely sight, my wife bouncing up and down on his large hard cock. I watched for over an hour, again, before he came inside of her once again. The time was now 6:20, ten minutes before I had to wake up for work. I got up and got dressed and walked out of the bedroom. Pornstar was extremely startled and "afraid" of me as her husband walked out to the 2 of them naked and her pussy dripping cum, not really trusting that I was ok with all this or maybe not even home at all. I wished them both a good morning and asked if they had a good night. My wife laughed and said "Oh yes, I'll say". I signaled my wife to come into the bedroom and I licked her pussy for my breakfast as she talked about what a great night she had. How "HE'S ALWAYS FUCKING HARD!" "HE FUCKED ME FOR HOURS!". Again she didn't stay long and as we walked out he was dressed and about to leave. She walked him to the door thanking him for coming over. I told him "Nice to meet you. Thanks for cumming... in my wife... all night long." And they laughed and my wife yelled at me for saying that. He said "You're welcome" and I shook his hand before he left.

After he left my wife talked about the amazing night. How he is constantly fucking hard. How he would cum inside her and just keep fucking her. How her pussy was killing her it was soooo sore, how tired and weak and shaky her legs and muscles were. And laughing about what a great night she had. I told her how I didn't fucking sleep at all, was watching all night, masturbated 3 times and was going to be so fucking tired today. She laughed and went on talking how he was a fucking pornstar who just wouldn't stop fucking her. Every time his dick was hard it was her mission to bring it down... and she failed... she gave up before he did. And neither of us could believe it.

She said physically, she's not super into him. Especially compared to N. There are some things about what he looks like that just make her say "Ick". But his dick... she LOVES that dick. And we're all REALLY hoping this will become a regular thing. Although as she told both me and him "We aren't going to fuck like this ALL NIGHT, EVERY TIME!" But I suppose time will tell. I told her how this was the sluttiest night she's ever had. She kissed and got groped by 3 guys (myself included) and got her brains fucked out literally ALL NIGHT LONG. And she said "Yeah it was... and it was great."

So, it was totally worth the 1 hour of sleep I got last night. And I still haven't even seen everything. It'll take me a whole day to go through all the video of it this weekend. And I can't wait. But for now, my tired ass is going to bed, all my coffee has worn off.

[leggysman]

Fantastic, I'm so happy for you two. Even if she doesn't continue with him, a hot night of relentless fucking with a new, big-dicked fuckbuddy was probably just what the doctor ordered, no?

Thanks for taking the time to write it up for us, despite your condition

[Her number1]

Outstanding write up, Pufferfish!! I do so enjoy your wife's naughty adventures!

[Pufferfish]

My wife and Pornstar have been sexy chatting every night since tuesday morning. He's excited to come over again (although he's still scared and uncertain of "the Husband" thing.) She's getting him a collar which he's excited about, he's given her control over when he's allowed to cum and whatnot. He's sending her dick pic/video after dick pic/video. And they're totally enjoying fucking each other and looking forward to it being a regular thing hopefully. (Hopefully I learn to sleep lol)

He works about 15 minutes from our house and today he told my wife to come to his work and suck his cock in his car during his lunch break... so, my wife just left to go be a little slut and suck his cock in his car in the parking lot lol. She said she likes him and me calling her a little slut as long as she also gets told she's a good girl, so we've been enjoying that, and she's DEFINITELY been enjoying being a little slut. I mostly expect her to be getting fucked in the car right now, but we'll see. I get to reclaim her and have sex tonight finally since I didn't get to have sex with her on Monday because he was coming over.

They've also been talking A LOT about cum, and how it's both of their favorite thing/fantasy (mine too) and how they want to cum all over her face and just go right back to fucking. And cumming inside her, and swallowing. And how he wants to clean her afterwards (That's my job though asshole). But she's loved talking about what a little cumslut she is going to be. It's going to be phenomenal. Sounds like he's planning on sticking around and them fucking each other's brains out for a while. So that's exciting.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the superb write up of the interaction between Pornstar and your lovely wife.

[Rogueuser1]

Love these updates and your entire journey - thanks for sharing!
I saw in the past she let a guy play with her ass and put his thumb up there - has she had anything more than his thumb up her ass yet?

[ChokeMe92]

Just finished reading your journey. Your wife seems awesome! We share the same love for cum, so I'm happy for her. From one hotwife to another: keep up the great sex!

[Pufferfish]

Just finished reading your journey. Your wife seems awesome! We share the same love for cum, so I'm happy for her. From one hotwife to another: keep up the great sex!

Thank you. I do love that my wife and I share so many of the same fantasies and have been absolutely loving her new Hotwife life. Hope your journey as as wonderful as ours is.

Love these updates and your entire journey - thanks for sharing!
I saw in the past she let a guy play with her ass and put his thumb up there - has she had anything more than his thumb up her ass yet?

The thing about my wife, is she tries to please her lovers, so she's willing to subject herself to things they want to do even if she doesn't really want to do it. And anal is something she doesn't want, so that's usually a rule she puts out there early that it's off the table. But if she forgets or if they bring up really wanting to do something she's willing to consider it. She actually didn't mind the thumb... but it wasn't something she's excited or wants specifically to explore.

[Pufferfish]

For a little catch up, going over the 6+ hours of footage from last week, and saving all of it, I did in fact miss some of the action live. His dick spent almost 5 hours out of the 6 and a half hours total he was here balls deep in my wife. 5 total orgasms for him, and I don't know how many my wife had. His first creampie is one of my favorite clips now, as my wife slid off of his still rock hard cock, she squirted out the most cum I've ever seen which I didn't see so well on my small phone screen. I would say it was over 2 full shot glasses full of cum at once. While it was glorious to see, I told her how it was so wasteful for her to waste all of that cum. And she said she would try to keep it inside of her this time.

Last night was the 2nd visit for Pornstar and my wife. In an attempt to get more sleep I said he couldn't come over at midnight and had to either come in the evening, or early morning. He chose early morning. So the plan was to go to bed early and wake up early for the good stuff. Everything was going well, except my wife decided she was going to try to sleep a little with me and set an alarm for midnight... So when that alarm went off I was awake too, and stayed awake until Pornstar showed up at 3 am. So that didn't go according to plan.

But he came over and my wife had ordered a dog collar for him and he was excited to wear it. The collar had a handle on it which my wife turned around so the handle was on his throat and she held onto that while she rode up and down on his dick like a cowgirl. She fucked him for about 45 minutes before he unloaded a huge load inside of her. My wife slid off of his rock hard cock and spilled a bit again, but looked to be about a normal load worth for me. She then came into the bedroom and sat on my face and as I licked her delicious pussy, she said she was going to squirt it in my mouth... and when she did it literally filled my entire mouth with his cum. I've never seen someone have so much cum from a single orgasm in my life. I thanked my wife and we said how much we loved each other before she returned to him and I had to cum by myself.

About a half hour later my wife was riding him again, and he lasted a little over an hour before filling her again. As I was cumming again, my wife showed up in the bedroom again and said she brought me another treat. She mounted my face again, but accidently squirted his cum all over my neck and chest as she did, and it was sooo much again. I cleaned her up good again before she returned again.

He left shortly after that, so only 2 intense sessions this time which was just enough for my wife to be very happy and fulfilled. Still sore today and last night, but not in as much pain after the fact that she was the first time. She knows she got carried away last time, but was afraid it would be a one time thing, and wanted to ride him as long as she could. Now that it looks like this will hopefully last a while she's trying to keep things to just a few hours.

After he left she came back to bed with me to cuddle and get some more sleep. I decided it would be best to call in sick today rather than have another painful day of practically no sleep. They actually have plans to watch a movie at 6 and then come home to fuck for a few hours on Wednesday night this week, so it should be a lot better with me being able to sleep for a change after he leaves. And hopefully after that we can ask him to come by in the evenings instead and stay till around midnight then leave. But like I told my wife, if I have to choose between losing my job, or her losing this, I'd rather lose my job. I'd be happier working at McDonalds and having her be able to live a hotwife life like this rather than lose this for my job. If I had a better job, which there are some pending possibilities of getting, that may be a different story, but we'll see how things develop here in the coming weeks. So far, life is good. And my wife is loving her hotwife life. She definitely prefers this to her experience with N, even though she misses aspects of that. But THIS is what I've wanted for her all along, and now we know this is exactly what she wants too.

[Pufferfish]

Just a quick update. Wednesday night Pornstar did flake out again. And pretty much ever since he has been acting in ways that I pretty much predicted/assumed based on my first impressions of his personality/behavior/perceived politics. Basically, I thought he would bring a lot of emotional baggage, medical/mental diagnosis, selfishness, excuses, irrationality, and general lack of responsibility/accountability, and so far I haven't been wrong.

My wife is wondering if he's going to show up this week, and I pretty much know he isn't going to. He's putting some distance in as he self sabotages with some weak mental issue excuses, and soon he'll start in with a whole pity party that won't have the effect he's probably expecting. Hopefully he pulls his shit together but could be heading down a road we won't go down.

In other news, I did get the promotion at my work I've been hoping for since I started. So I will soon have 3 days off a week including Tuesdays, which would be GREAT if Pornstar doesn't screw everything up. Then I won't have to worry about not getting any sleep. But we'll see how this plays out and whether he can pull his head out of his ass or not. But I bet he continues to screws thing up this week and doesn't come, hopefully he figures that out and cuts it out next week.

[Iamcurious22]

Appreciate your story!

[venus-can99]

Congrats on your promotion Pf...
Hopefully the Pornstar gets his head out of his ass and realizes what a gift he has been given by the two of you

[Pufferfish]

Time for some updates. So, a couple of weeks ago, I was convinced Pornstar wasn't going to come over. He was being a whiny bitch about his problems all that week. But my wife still asked if he was going to come over and fuck her, and he did. I did manage to actually get to sleep early and wake up around 3 am when he got here, and he stayed for about an hour and a half, fucked her twice for only about 20 - 30 minutes each and then left. It was nice, but fairly quick for him and it was the last time. He pretty much told her the next day that he was uncomfortable with this arrangement and needed someone who would care about his problems... and my wife told him "Well, I don't" lol and that was that.

But that being said, she didn't waste much time. She had already been talking to someone and showed me all the dick pics he had been sending her. His pictures were "older" according to him, he had long blonde hair, and now he had cut it short. But we had already named him "Targaryen" due to his long blonde hair. Targaryen's cock was just slightly shorter than N's, but thicker. Not as big as Pornstar though. She went on a first date with him, but wasn't sure if she really liked him or not, but still invited him over to the house on Monday. She still wasn't sure if she was going to let him fuck her (I was sure she would), but he came over on Monday and after I met him in the hallway and she showed him into the livingroom, he basically picked her up and carried her into the bedroom... where he took her clothes off and began to fuck her.

My wife loves to satisfy. So she doesn't like to say "no" in the moment. She'll tell you her rules if they ask, but he didn't ask. So he wanted to lick her pussy, which she usually doesn't like anyone to do but me (even with me she usually just puts up with it), he used her vibrator on her, he used his fingers (which she doesn't like any of that usually, she's not big on foreplay except sucking dick). He just used her however he wanted. He began fucking her, and she thinks he came quickly. But he tried not to let on that he did, and just kept fucking her. He fucked her for over an hour in our bed, and they quit when they were both exhausted, but he didn't cum (again). They took a little break and went out to the couch to recover and start a movie. And my wife mounted him and started fucking him again soon after, and they fucked for another hour. They took little 20-30 minute breaks, but he was here from 7 pm, until I told him it was time to leave at 2:30 am. And they fucked nearly the entire time. The only problem was he never came after that "maybe" cumshot within the first 10 minutes, never came again... at least that my wife or I could tell. Which is a bummer, we both love cum, so we were hoping for a cumshot at the end at least. But hopefully next time. I did get to reclaim her that night, and because of my promotion and new schedule, didn't even have to go to work with a lack of sleep the next day.

All in all, she had an amazing night again. And between that night and Pornstar's first night it was hard for my wife to say which one was the best sex she ever had. She did decide that Targaryen was the best sex, simply because Pornstar was so big that he would bottom out, and it would hurt. And he couldn't fuck her hard, and in fact she did most of the work. Targaryen fucked her HARD, all night, and it didn't hurt. At least until after he left, which it's been 3 days now and she's still sore and said she doesn't want to have sex with me tonight because she's still so sore. But she's looking forward to Monday assuming she's not still sore by then. But she definitely thinks he's weird and stupid. Which I agree with, he does sound stupid to me. He's big into conspiracy theories and is a "flat-earther" so we've been laughing about some of the seemingly wild tangents he told her about. Which is fine, he can think whatever he wants to.

But then last night was a surprise. She's also been talking with another guy, "H", who wanted to meet her last night, so she met him at the casino and they played Bingo, and gambled a little and stuff while I was at work. She said he told her how he "can last forever" too which made us laugh, because that would be 3 in a row if that was true. But she wasn't sure of his size. I told her "Well, you can always ask him to whip it out and show you..." So she did. She took him to her car and began to suck his cock in the parking lot. But she said some people were watching them, so she stopped and moved her car to a more discreet location, where she sucked him some more until he came in her mouth. He was extra sensitive I guess afterwards, and would twitch and freakout when my wife would lick and suck him after he came. So she enjoyed "torturing" him like that for a while afterward. She also let him finger her a little, although she was still sore. He unfortunately though has what she described as a "small pencil dick", so she doesn't want to actually fuck him. He just doesn't know that yet and she feels a little bad about him being let down. Then she came home and texted me about it and took the dog for a walk. When I got home right as she did from walking the dog, H had been blowing up her phone with an "unknown number". He was still at the casino because he left his phone in her car when he got sucked and was desperately trying to get her to come back. lol. So we got in the car and went to the casino. We texted the unknown number where we were sitting not knowing where he was. I told her how locked phones could still take pictures and teased that she should take a pic of her tits on his phone. She very surprisingly said yes lol. She was very nervous, but she pulled her tits out and I took a quick pic with his phone and she put the girls away. We sat there for a while with no response before we tried to find his car somewhere over where she thought he might have parked and eventually found him. He was very excited she came back with his phone and was a bit surprised to see me. But he nervously shook my hand and we parted ways. We ate some dinner and returned home.

So, it's been quite an adventure over the last couple weeks. My wife has certainly stepped up her "slut" game, and we're excited about where everything is going right now, and having a great time. Combined with my much better schedule, everything is going great.

[FNQLivin]

I love your updates!

[ChicagoBWC]

Love reading your updates. Glad she is out there having fun and that you are both enjoying yourselves. Thanks for sharing your adventures!

[Pufferfish]

Well my wife broke poor H's heart and told him that she couldn't sleep with him because she was "getting back together with her previous FWB" which of course was a lie because simply because she didn't want to crush his soul with the fact that he had a tiny penis. But he's still been absolutely begging her to give him a chance, but it's not going to work.

Targaryen came over on Monday and wasted no time stripping my wife and fucking her on the couch. I gave them privacy again because she said he's being a bitch about me watching them, so whatever, as long as it's on video so I can watch through that. Speaking of which... I was a dumbass, and didn't copy over their first nights adventures in time. My wife called in sick all weekend because she scratched her eye, and I didn't have an opportunity to save the videos before they were overwritten... so THAT SUCKS... DUMBASS... but oh well, my collection is bigger than I'd ever "need", it's just a greedy compulsion and souvenir collection at this point. Just sucks mostly because there were some great angles, and the fact she said it was the best sex she ever had... But I digress.

He fucked my wife on the couch for over an hour in many different positions before taking a break. They stayed on the couch all night for some reason and fucked 4 times lasting at least 30 minutes each, taking various breaks. Weirdly though, he didn't cum at all again we don't think. Unless she just can't tell and he doesn't stop. Don't know. But she was a very happy girl again and he was here for about 5 hours. They were probably fucking for 4 of them. I reclaimed her that night even though she was sore because she knew she'd be even more sore the next day, and she was, practically all week in fact, and once again I wasn't allowed to fuck her on Thursday night because she was still sore. It makes me worried she gets that sore, but she says it's worth it and looks forward to seeing him again. So I guess we'll just see how that goes.

She's also been chatting with another new guy lol. This guy is only 25 and makes her feel like an old cougar again. This guy "T" was a little hesitant to send her nudes, but eventually he did, and we were actually with her mom and grandma in a restaurant when she checked her phone and about had a panic attack as we were all standing around her. She closed that phone so fast and turned red as a tomato. I of course started laughing really hard, and made it even worse, but I think her mom and grandma just thought I was stupid or something and didn't see or catch on to anything. This guys isn't really that big. Bigger than me, but smaller than N or Pornstar, or Targaryen. I told her I don't know when she's going to fit this guy in with her being so sore all week, but she said she'll probably try this guy instead of Targaryen, and maybe switch to just this new guy instead since Targaryen is pretty weird and maybe a little sketchy. She's not super into Targaryen, but she loves the way he fucks her. So again, I guess we'll just wait and see how that goes. Not sure about next weeks plans just yet.

[CuriousHusband91941]

Great update. Thanks. You tease us with how much video you have knowing your lady never wants to share them.

[Pufferfish]

It's been a couple of weeks, and I got some updates to get to, so lets get into it...

We had a couple of weeks with Targaryen coming over on Monday. They were a far cry from the first couple weeks of him coming over, he started to "try" less hard I guess, don't know, but he didn't fuck my wife as long, as hard, or stay as late. Add to that, he was just weird, seemed dumb, and was pretty sketchy, we think he was probably into drugs. All that led to the fact that my wife was more turned off by him, than turned on. And so, she broke the news to him that he wouldn't be coming over any more.

She was saying that she wanted to take a break from hotwifing for a couple months and probably start again after the new year. But first, she wanted to go on a first date with a married guy she had been chatting with for a couple weeks. He cancelled their meet last week due to illness so they had a date scheduled for this week. She went to meet him on Tuesday at a bar, and that didn't go quite as expected. Turns out the guy she met at the bar was "Sir" a guy she met a year or 2 ago. At that time, she was super excited to meet him, but he didn't live up to the hype. She still ended up sucking his dick but didn't want to take things further... Then, she went on a 2nd date with him a short time after that, and again sucked his dick, but didn't want to go further. Then when N got a girlfriend and my wife and him called things off the first time, she went on a 3rd date with him... and this time just said no and didn't suck him or anything and stopped talking with him... Until she started talking to this "new" guy for a few weeks. With a different picture and met him on Tuesday. He catfished her. Whether he rememered her or not... COULD be debateable... I guess. But I doubt it. He knew, he tried to catfish her, and that didn't go well. She still had a drink with him, and went for a walk (Which she absolutely shouldn't have done... but it was fine) and then she came home. So, she was a little creeped out, and upset that he catfished her.

That night (Tuesday), she had been getting texted by N (who was a bit drunk) to see how she was doing. She told him how she was doing ok but got catfished that night. Who then proceeded to break the fuck down and start in with how much he missed her, still thought about her, "loved" her... and all that shit lol. The 2 of them texted a lot that night and the next day once he was sober about their feelings and how he wanted to get back together and start again. Which would be fine... if this didn't completely change the dynamic for me. Obviously, I knew she developed feelings for him over the years, and I was ok with that (mostly). I didn't think he felt quite as strongly as he claims, which makes me uncomfortable, and obviously I'm more uncomfortable with where this could go in the future. I don't worry, quite yet, about her choosing him over me, but I do think that possibility increases the longer this goes on. I told my wife my fears and thoughts on the matter, but ultimately I leave the decision to her and asked her to simply "not destroy me". Right now, she's pretty much decided to take N back for a while, at least a few months and see how things go. They have a date scheduled for next week to meet at a bar and walk and talk about things... so we'll see. He may come over that night, maybe not... but I fully suspect he'll be back in our house fucking her in 2 weeks at least. But we'll see soon...

[FNQLivin]

I’m not sure what to think or say. I’d say no to ‘N’ but she’ll see him anyway.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the updates PF. Hope N is better this time around in caring for her.

[Pufferfish]

For a bit of an update:
Wed night, my wife went to meet N at a bar and talk about things. I told her I'd be extremely surprised if that night didn't end with his dick in her mouth. She stayed with him a couple hours and came home. I asked if I was right and she said "Nope, nothing happened except making out." She said they had a good time though. She was disappointed he didn't grope her or make any moves on her beyond kissing, otherwise his dick would have been in her mouth... but she didn't want to make the first moves. I asked if he was going to come over next week, and she said she didn't know because it was Thanksgiving, but then she said "He's coming over tomorrow though..." She had invited him over to help her put up Xmas lights on the roof.

I had already decided I wanted to call in sick to work the next day anyway just to have the day off anyway, and so that worked out. My wife doesn't like me going on the roof because I have very bad balance. N came over about noon so they'd have plenty of time before it got dark. I held the ladder for them. N failed to mention until he was on the roof that he was afraid of heights lol. So I ended up doing most of it anyway and my wife just told me how she wanted it. Then we went out for food and came back home to watch some movies/TV. They ended up having sex on the couch right away and he didn't last long at all, which we knew would happen. We went into the other room to clean up and she sat on my face for a few minutes which was nice. She spent the whole evening making out with him and saying how much she missed him. She likes kissing him a lot more than me. They aggressively kiss and bite, I don't like it that rough. A little later they took things into the bedroom, and again he didn't last very long but better than the first time. He didn't stay the night and left shortly after. Ultimately, it was a little underwhelming but she missed him and she's happy to have him back.

Tomorrow we're going to have our Thanksgiving since we both have to work on Thursday. N got the day off too so he's going to come over and have Thanksgiving with us. She just started her period though, so she's probably just going to suck him, but we'll see. It's probably why she's been a bit grumpy and moody the last couple days, or at least that's what I'll attribute it to for now.