Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!
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irishstag41
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Hi beautiful hotwives.
My wife and her boyfriend broke up a few months ago. It was nothing toxic. He moved again to Germany and he is looking for a wife tbh to have kids. They still talk all the time. However our love life has dried up and she has stopped talking to her other lovers who she did see occasionally. We have spoken about her feelings but she just brushes it off. I dont pester her as I know that's the wrong thing to do. Its been a few months of bare intimacy.
Am I being selfish. What should I do.
Im not trying to get her into seeing other guys . That's her decision. Im just wondering have you beautiful hotwives been through something similar.
I know she was in love with him we spoke openly about it
Thanks
My wife and her boyfriend broke up a few months ago. It was nothing toxic. He moved again to Germany and he is looking for a wife tbh to have kids. They still talk all the time. However our love life has dried up and she has stopped talking to her other lovers who she did see occasionally. We have spoken about her feelings but she just brushes it off. I dont pester her as I know that's the wrong thing to do. Its been a few months of bare intimacy.
Am I being selfish. What should I do.
Im not trying to get her into seeing other guys . That's her decision. Im just wondering have you beautiful hotwives been through something similar.
I know she was in love with him we spoke openly about it
Thanks
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Give her time to process the situation. She had an emotional connection as well as a sexual one with him. None of those other guys can fill those shoes. So for the time being just be there for her. And yes I've been through it.irishstag41 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 24, 2025 12:40 pmHi beautiful hotwives.
My wife and her boyfriend broke up a few months ago. It was nothing toxic. He moved again to Germany and he is looking for a wife tbh to have kids. They still talk all the time. However our love life has dried up and she has stopped talking to her other lovers who she did see occasionally. We have spoken about her feelings but she just brushes it off. I dont pester her as I know that's the wrong thing to do. Its been a few months of bare intimacy.
Am I being selfish. What should I do.
Im not trying to get her into seeing other guys . That's her decision. Im just wondering have you beautiful hotwives been through something similar.
I know she was in love with him we spoke openly about it
Thanks
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My wife went to church without me this past weekend, and I noticed that she brought an extra pair of panties with her.
And am wondering if this is a normal thing (she has never done this before (for 20 plus years)
She did tell me a couple months back, that a gentleman (a deacon of the church) has been flirting with her
And am wondering if this is a normal thing (she has never done this before (for 20 plus years)
She did tell me a couple months back, that a gentleman (a deacon of the church) has been flirting with her
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How did you notice she took an extra pair of panties? Is she on her period?
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I walked in the bathroom before she left and saw them with her stuff, and she put them in her purse
No , she is not on her her period
No , she is not on her her period
Re: Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!
When I have been out and observed a Right Anklet on a Wife I wonder if she is a HW or just enjoys the anklet on her right ankle.
If we make eye contact I will compliment her on the anklet. Most of the time I get some body language read giving me a good guess, I don't want to be rude though.
My question is would you enjoy the compliment ?
If we make eye contact I will compliment her on the anklet. Most of the time I get some body language read giving me a good guess, I don't want to be rude though.
My question is would you enjoy the compliment ?
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It seems like any time I go to the "Board Index" I rarely see any verified hot wives online. I understand that some have moved on from circumstances or some other reason. I also realize that people are busy with their life and lifestyle and I'm sure that has something to do with their participation. A lot of people will point to the "holiday season" as a reason for seeing less posts but even in the months prior I don't see many posts from verified hot wives.
Is there a "changing of guard" going on? What is the attendance/participation like in the restricted "Ladies Lounge"? Is it just me or do you see the same thing?
Is there a "changing of guard" going on? What is the attendance/participation like in the restricted "Ladies Lounge"? Is it just me or do you see the same thing?
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
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I would not typically enjoy the compliment, but it would depend on the circumstances.Bryce 69 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 22, 2025 9:18 amWhen I have been out and observed a Right Anklet on a Wife I wonder if she is a HW or just enjoys the anklet on her right ankle.
If we make eye contact I will compliment her on the anklet. Most of the time I get some body language read giving me a good guess, I don't want to be rude though.
My question is would you enjoy the compliment ?
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What happens in the Ladies area stays in the Ladies area,coastalkid wrote: ↑Mon Nov 24, 2025 8:09 amIt seems like any time I go to the "Board Index" I rarely see any verified hot wives online. I understand that some have moved on from circumstances or some other reason. I also realize that people are busy with their life and lifestyle and I'm sure that has something to do with their participation. A lot of people will point to the "holiday season" as a reason for seeing less posts but even in the months prior I don't see many posts from verified hot wives.
Is there a "changing of guard" going on? What is the attendance/participation like in the restricted "Ladies Lounge"? Is it just me or do you see the same thing?
The world changes. When I first joined here, the lifestyle was taboo, nowadays it's more in the open and a lot of us in the older generation have aged out. A lot of us take breaks and some of us have moved on or had other personal developments that take precedence. This forum has always been run by people with a passion but it is a lot of work and a lot of money to maintain. But it is my home for this lifestyle. I maintain a very private existence and had to delete all of my posts at one time due to work. But this is the place I feel comfortable sharing my experiences, and if it goes away so will I and my stories I have written.
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Thanks for your reply. I totally get your point.HotwifeBabs wrote: ↑Mon Nov 24, 2025 4:43 pmWhat happens in the Ladies area stays in the Ladies area,coastalkid wrote: ↑Mon Nov 24, 2025 8:09 amIt seems like any time I go to the "Board Index" I rarely see any verified hot wives online. I understand that some have moved on from circumstances or some other reason. I also realize that people are busy with their life and lifestyle and I'm sure that has something to do with their participation. A lot of people will point to the "holiday season" as a reason for seeing less posts but even in the months prior I don't see many posts from verified hot wives.
Is there a "changing of guard" going on? What is the attendance/participation like in the restricted "Ladies Lounge"? Is it just me or do you see the same thing?![]()
The world changes. When I first joined here, the lifestyle was taboo, nowadays it's more in the open and a lot of us in the older generation have aged out. A lot of us take breaks and some of us have moved on or had other personal developments that take precedence. This forum has always been run by people with a passion but it is a lot of work and a lot of money to maintain. But it is my home for this lifestyle. I maintain a very private existence and had to delete all of my posts at one time due to work. But this is the place I feel comfortable sharing my experiences, and if it goes away so will I and my stories I have written.
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
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Just to make sure if you misunderstood me, I was NOT wanting to know what goes on in the "Ladies Lounge". I was asking about the attendance in it. Only a verified hot wife could answer that. I understand if revealing the attendance/frequency is too much of an intrusion of privacy.HotwifeBabs wrote: ↑Mon Nov 24, 2025 4:43 pmWhat happens in the Ladies area stays in the Ladies area,coastalkid wrote: ↑Mon Nov 24, 2025 8:09 amIt seems like any time I go to the "Board Index" I rarely see any verified hot wives online. I understand that some have moved on from circumstances or some other reason. I also realize that people are busy with their life and lifestyle and I'm sure that has something to do with their participation. A lot of people will point to the "holiday season" as a reason for seeing less posts but even in the months prior I don't see many posts from verified hot wives.
Is there a "changing of guard" going on? What is the attendance/participation like in the restricted "Ladies Lounge"? Is it just me or do you see the same thing?![]()
Thank you for you participation on this website, sincerely and respectfully.
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
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