Wife's sexual experience prior to marriage

[isinlarsa]

In the film "American Pie," one of the actors repeated the old rule of thumb -If a woman admits to having sex with others, ADD three to the number she claims. But if a man claims a number of women he has fucked, SUBTRACT three for the probable truth.

I think HOTWIVES are more likely to admit to their husbands the right number. That assumes they can remember them all.

Thought it was THREE TIMES.

[Hot Wife Lois and Me]

In the film "American Pie," one of the actors repeated the old rule of thumb -If a woman admits to having sex with others, ADD three to the number she claims. But if a man claims a number of women he has fucked, SUBTRACT three for the probable truth.

I think HOTWIVES are more likely to admit to their husbands the right number. That assumes they can remember them all.

Thought it was THREE TIMES.

You may be right about three times instead of three partners. My wife held back telling me about one guy until she got around to fucking others, but I'm pretty sure I now have the right number. Either way, I like hearing about each of the ones I know about. Hers were longer term boy friends except for one married guy who still works at the same publisher she works for. That married man was just a couple of times but it got her a promotion.

[betaboy]

My wife falls into the "slept around" category. We dated throughout her four undergraduate years and for most of that time
I was merely one of her "fuckbuddies," which was fine with me. At the university we attended this type of relationship was
pretty much the standard and I believe still is. We didn't speak about it or concern ourselves with what we knew were other
sexual partners. Most students proceeded on a kind of "don't ask, don't tell" basis, knowing full well that almost everyone was
getting it on with multiple partners.

[dickiea584]

My wife told me she didn't let her Ex to fuck her pussy but rather her mouth while they dated due to concerned about being pregnant so I was her first in her pussy.

[Mrhotwifeplusone]

I was her 2nd, been together 21yrs married 20yrs
And she has had 3 more since we got married working on more

[SRKnight]

We married when she was in her late 30s, her first marriage. So knew I wasn't the first and knew her boyfriend before me was married when she was having an affair with him. Later she admitted to me that she had been in 11 relationships before marriage where she was the "other woman".

[Parsifal]

My wife's number before me was 7. She was 37 when we married. All her guys before were boyfriends of at least a few months. Her number's now 20. Short term flings were a new experience. Now she's back to long term lovers, but 3 plus me, her longest term.

[trecital]

We had sex long before we were married. In fact we fucked the same day we met. But we were both virgins when we met. Maybe that's why we were so keen to get screwing!
I was 19, she 18, and met at University in the UK. This was our first time away from home, so finally had the freedom to do what we wanted, with our own accomodation available.

[Tryagain]

My wife had only one other guy. The office romeo who was married and very good-looking and 28 yo when she was 19 yo. it was my luck - to miss taking her virginity.

And I was always a bit insecure. I resolved never to ask her anything about " how it was". But she volunteered how she did not like it at all, and that it hurt her every time that they did it ( 3 x). Great, right? Although it raised my suspicion as to how well hung he was.

Anyway, we soon discovered her hymen was sort of ripped - a piece was left sort of hanging. So...she volunteers that maybe because he was so big he ripped it. Gulp...well ...how big? She says only a little longer than you but very fat. Now i am hooked on obtaining information. How fat? She then made a motion a circle with her fingers saying and showing that she could barely get her fingers around it. holy shit! I did not like hearing that for sure.

Much later after more and more and more questioning - you know...with the hot lights shining in her face and me pounding the table like in the movies when interrogating the witness :-) she confessed ...she minimized the length because she did not want to hurt me but figured it was ok to tell me how fat it was !

And in an interesting twist, she turns out to be a size queen after all :-)

[cpl4sumrfn]

I do not know if there is a correlation between before and after marriage sex drive. It seems that it is very much an individual thing, at least based on comments here and talking with others. I do wonder if they age they become sexually active matters. My wife's first sexual experience was at 13 and had 14 sexual encounters (2 were only BJ's) before her first marriage at 20. While she was married she had sex with 2 other men. During our marriage including while we dated the wife has had 23 sexual encounters with others. So based on what happened during our relationship it seems at least part of it was who she was with (me) and her level of confidence, comfort, and desire to pursue different partners.

[Des 31]

My wife confided to me before we married other men had fucked her before meeting me. She's smoking hot, so her revelation didn't surprise me. When she got around to telling me more about those episodes, I found it exciting and fucked her each time she admitted the details. She was then, and still is, a church-going woman and I'm sure none would now believe she has sex with men outside our marriage.

I was the first to encourage her to sleep with any men to who she found herself attracted. About a year after our first discussion, she was all in and now says she wishes she had more seriously acted on my encouragement at the outset. She says that would now be difficult to give up, but she would if I wanted that. I don't. I love that she fucks other men.

[Viewer]

My wife is highly sexual with a very strong libido (she has often said it’s stronger than any guy she’s let)

I know she has slept around a lot before me. Often jokes that she slept with half of New York while living there

She has had mfm, been with a couple girls, and all types of guys

In passing she’s mentioned being with exceptionally hung men, men who have amazing stamina and some who have made here squirt. She’s fucked some guys before me that are our friends as well

As a rather small man with terrible stamina it turns me on a lot to hear these

[WrldTvlr]

Before I met my wife she was very sexually active. She is a looker and had no problems attracting men. Unfortunately she chose partners after alcohol and the evening ending in bars. So there was plenty of quantity without quality.

Her stories included much older men to guys a few years older than herself. To my surprise it was more of a sport for her than actual sexual pleasure. The “wham / bam / thank you ma’am” was constant.

Her last boyfriend before I entered her life finally took the time to sexually please her. Fortunately or fortunate for myself he turned into a douche and slept with a couple of her family members and that relationship ended bitterly.

Right place and right time I got her at her “awakening” and haven’t looked back. Let’s say I’m batting way above my average!

[WPBCouplex]

My wife was married prior to marrying me. We’re both in our 40s she’s 43 and I’m 49. She was with her ex husband for 20 years. She told me at the beginning of our relationship that she had been with 7 guys prior to her husband, so 8 in total. One was just “fooling around”, whatever that means lol. But, if you ask me she was a slut and loved to fuck and I’m ok with that. She loves being my little whore now and owns that shit.

[Suchagoodgirl]

I believe I was Candy's 10th guy but she was not easy to get in bed....like she is now.

[oldwood4u]

Are there wives in the group that had some of their fun in Adult Theaters?

[Johnann2227]

We started dating when I was 19 and she was 18. We both had previous lovers. When we were 21 and 20 we started swinging with friends and then going to swing clubs. We got married when we were 25 and 24. So when we married we both had fucked dozens of other partners. Ann used to keep a diary where she would include any lovers she had been with but gave that up in her late 20s.

[Tank Turner]

I was told during my high school years to not ask a girl about her sexual history. I never have. A man can tell when he fucks a woman for the first time whether she's sexually experienced.

The first time I fucked the woman who's now my wife, I knew she was sexually experienced. She exuded sexual confidence that I admired and loved. To this day, her sexual confidence gets me hard as granite. She knew from her college years what her naked body does to men.

College students learn academic disciplines and life. Students learn how to enjoy sex while they're in college. They learn valuable knowledge about what they like and don't like.

My wife was flaming hot during her college years with a perfect body. I've read her college yearbooks. I'd bet I could tell with a high degree of accuracy which yearbook signers fucked her by what they wrote. I've seen photos of her in a bikini while she was in college. She was naturally beautiful. She's more beautiful as she's matured. She had and still has large, natural tits. She also had a endocrine abnormality that caused an abundance of testosterone to be released within her body causing her to become insatiably horny. She still has that condition. When her endocrine system is out of balance, she can fuck nonstop all day. So I can imagine what she did between classes while she was in college.

My wife and I clicked on our first official date. Some call it chemistry. I call it a mystical connection that binds us. We can finish each other's sentences. We know what the other is thinking. I've never knew what deep and authentic love was until I fell in love with my wife. I assumed I had been in love before I fell in love with my wife. In retrospect, I was in love with sex. I'm in love with everything about my wife.

I couldn't care less about how many men my wife fucked before I met her. I've never asked her. She'll tell me about her former boyfriends. She'll often tell me about sex she had with former boyfriends.

I'd much rather marry a sexually experienced woman than a frigid virgin. In fact, it was around my freshman year of college that I began telling my friends that I was going to marry a porn star. Years ago, my wife asked me about my sexual fantasies. I told her that when I was younger, I fantasized about marrying a porn star. Without missing a breath she fired back, "You did!" My wife is my porn star fantasy, yet she has never done a porn film. I have a lot of porn videos of her. If she had done porn, she would have been a huge star.

Does anyone care about how many men a woman has fucked? Would a man reject a woman who was meant for him because she acquired sexual experience before he met her? Sex is a tiny albeit important component of marriage. What couples do together when they're not fucking accentuates the comparatively small percentage of time that they fuck.

[Reaper34]

My wife fucked a lot before we were married. She started early around age 15, and has told me about several. Once getting fucked in a cornfield, one guy where when she walked into his place and their clothes came off immediately, one guy had this huge cock according to her that was almost too much.

She never gave a number, but I’d estimate before we married at age 21 she’d probably fucked 30-50 guys in that span. She was a wild girl that came from a strict upbringing (probably rebelling).

When we met, we were both in the Air Force. I remember we fucked on the third date. After marriage, we had 2 kids within four years. Around marriage year 8 I found a site whose focus was on wives that fucked with hubby’s knowledge. It turned me in so much I jerked off all the time thinking about a MFM.

Fast forward to about a year later, she was working at a company where a group of folks would go clubbing on the weekends. Sometimes I’d go, sometimes I’d watch the kids. In this group of friends was this guy, also in the Air Force, that she really got along with on the dance floor (she loved to dance). I found out later that they’d kiss while dancing…probably felt each other up too.

So I planted the seed that she should fuck him. We had the hottest sex talking about her fucking him. Also in the group of friends was a couple that were “swingers”. More on that later.

I was getting close to separating from the Air Force, so about a month before I separated and we were to move, I told her to invite him over. He comes over, it’s a little awkward, she leaves the room for a bit and I ask him if he wanted to have a threesome. Of course he was all in, and I didn’t know they had fooled around a bit before.

Eventually we all make it to the bedroom where I start kissing her and get her shirt and bra off. When she was kissing me, he was sucking on her tits and when she was kissing him, I was sucking on her tits.

This progressed to her blowing me then him, then taking her pants off. I fucked her first doggy while she sucked his cock. In hindsight, I should’ve let him fuck her first.

When it was his turn, I was laying beside her and he was in front and between her legs (no condom). I remember he was spreading her legs and I was also pulling them apart and back…she kinda grunted and said “ that’s as far as they go”…LOL. So he’s holding onto her ankles and rocking her back to where he could put his cock in without using his hands.

Once he’s inside her, I go around to the front of the bed to watch from behind. It was strange to see her pussy from that viewpoint as he fucked her. He leans in to where his weight is on her legs and her ankles are by his ears. I wish I could say I remember the size of his cock and the sounds they made, but it’s all just bits and pieces in my memory. I do know he did have a good size cock.

They eventually get into doggy, and at that point I handed him a condom package. I remember he just held it between his fingers while his hands grabbed her ass while fucking her. He pounded her like this until he pulled out and jerked below her pussy. Immediately after that, my wife went to suck his cock, something she’d never done with me. He was so sensitive still he pulled away. Funny thing is I never found a wet spot after he left, so I’m not sure where he came.

The next day we talked a little about it, and I asked “what if you get pregnant?”. She just kinda shrugged with an expression that said both “no big deal” and “I don’t know”. She didn’t get pregnant, but I sweated it till she got her period.

Back to that swinger couple, apparently this guy was also fucking the couples wife. It wasn’t a big secret, but my wife knew. So the next day my wife calls her and tells her about fucking him. They invite us over and we have our first foursome. And btw, the other hubby only had a 4 inch cock but could eat pussy like a master. Yes, he fucked my wife and I fucked his, in the same bed. But what my wife enjoyed the most was him eating her. Another fantastic night!

A few days later, we’re in temporary lodging as I’m out-processing. She calls the wife and they talk a bit, then she tells me she’s going over there to talk more to make sure they don’t tell any of our other friends about what happend. What I later find out is she wanted to hookup with the husband again.

So I’m in the military motel, and the other wife comes in (my wife gave her the key). Kids are sleeping in the other room. She strips and we fuck pretty hard. After maybe 2-3 hours, she needs to leave and heads out. When my wife returns, apparently toward the end she was getting bored with him eating her or whatever, but was glad when the other wife showed back up. He did fuck her in the ass, as apparently his wife didn’t like anal. My wife has to be in the mood, and I think his cock size was perfect for her ass. His wife was a little mad when she found out about that…LOL.

So in the span of less than a week, we had a MFM, MFMF, and separate wife swap.

I think back of all the things I would’ve done more of or differently. We were young and inexperienced in that way (both 29 at the time). I wish I’d gotten under my wife during the MFM while he was fucking her to get an up close view. I wish I’d have eaten my wife’s pussy after her getting fucked. I wish I would’ve tried to fuck the other wife in the ass. I wish we had more time before we had to move out of state (started earlier).

It’s now been over 23 years since all that happened, and nothing like that has happened since. We still sometimes talk dirty during sex about her getting fucked by another guy, but she says she’ll never do it. I still jerk off to memories of watching her getting fucked back then. How crazy is that?!

[chard]

I was her first when we were courting, she was quite naïve, but, she sure has made up for lost time since we married. She learned a lot from her lovers and I got to reap the benefit.

[Smit_hd]

Anyone else Love hearing about their wifes sexual past more than anything?

[Allinfun]

Interesting poll. If the last 2 don't overlap, it kind of matches my theory that this lifestyle appeals most to women who feel confined in monogamy.

[Smit_hd]

Had about a dozen sexual partners. Wish she had more or pictures/vids with some of them

[Luv2SucknSwallowFEM]

I'm wondering if there is any correlation between a woman's sexual experience, or lack thereof, before marriage and her desire to engage in hotwife activities. For instance, a woman is very sexually active in her youth, enjoys the variety and desires to relive those experiences with her husband's permission/participation. Or perhaps a wife was very inexperienced before marriage, few or no other lovers, and wants to see if she missed out on something. Of course, I understand that we never really know whether we have heard the full story of all her expeiences.Your thoughts?

Digging up and old post, but wanted comment.

Yes, my previous sex life had a huge influence on my desire to explore.
I started having sex young, went through a slut phase, ran away and got involved in sex work.
It was off and on through most of my later teens, but then in my early 20's the club scene got me into drugs, partying and a lot of very casual free fucking. That was hooking up with 3-4 guys a week sometimes.
I then had some long term relationships and there was cheating, but from 27-37 I was fairly straight.
Met husband at 38 and he re-opened the floodgates. It was always there, I just never thought I could enjoy what I always fantasized about with the guys I was with.
I was fascinated with the swinging lifestyle and fetish scene. He introduced me to it all.

[Tryagain]

Well...My wife only fucked one other a guy one time before we met. But when i asked her how big he was - my unluck -she said he was longer and way fatter!