Our Hotwives

early-kink wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 12, 2019 4:26 pm

As MS_2019 has asked, I have those same questions, plus a few more. We're both straight, and I have no interest in creampie clean-up. Other than that, by answering the questions posted by MS_2019 above, I'll get answers to those same questions.

My questions are these:

Is the hotwife life really sexy, romantic, & exciting?

Are you happier with your sex life - and life in general - now that you're a hotwife?

Are you and hubby/SO closer and stronger since becoming a hotwife?

Is it better, more romantic, hotter, more "experimental" with a steady FWB/boyfriend than having one - night stands?

Do you enjoy doing sexual things with your FWB/boyfriend that you don't or won't do with your hubby? (for a different thrill or just to be naughty)

Do you like to get all prettied and "glammed-up" for your dates with your boyfriend?

Do you wear hotter makeup, lipstick, lingerie, high heels, get killer manicures/pedicures for your boyfriend, and maybe don't do those things for your hubby? (as a special way to show your desire to be extra-hot & sexy for your boyfriend & make him drool when he sees you?)

Is the sex hotter with your play date guy?

Is the need for change/newness in your romantic life the biggest factor in deciding to become a hotwife?

I'm just wondering because our married sex life has become stale and we've talked slightly about the hotwife trend. I wonder if deep inside, she'd welcome this kind of change. If some of you REAL hotwives can answer these questions, it may give her some insight from ladies who've been there.

Thank-you in advance!

early-kink wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 13, 2019 8:05 am

Thank-you, Farmgirl for your response! I was asking some of those questions based on things I've read in articles, forum posts, blogs, etc. By asking any of you girls about getting "glammed up", I wasn't suggesting you ladies need to, in order to look desirable. It's just that a lot of what I've read seems to suggest that a good number of girls like to tease their husbands and boyfriends by taking the extra steps to visually "appear" as the hot, sensuous, sex-starved vixen so many men picture in their minds. I'm sure not all hotwives do that, but I've read TONS of hotwife/cuckolding literature for years and "maxing out the glam" seems to be fairly common. Maybe a lot of it has a two-fold purpose …….. to light the fire of horny expectation in her playdate, and also to tease/torment/mindfuck her husband so he sees what lengths she'll go to in order to be a hot, steamy temptress for her playdate. One "shot" fired - 2 men "dead" ……… slain by her evil, devious methodology. That's all.

The question of doing certain sex acts only with your playdate & not your husband is based on a mindfuck theme that appears in much, much hotwife/cuckold literature. Printed and electronic literature can't respond back to questions as you girls can, so it's really cool to hear answers right from you hotwife girls.

I'm also gathering info from actual hotwives for this reason: in case my wife ever decides she might like to try being a hotwife. So - I REALLY APPRECIATE any & all responses from you sexy girls in the hotwife dream-life !!! I'm looking to avoid the "stale rut" syndrome for my wife, so any input from you REAL hotwife girls is very much appreciated.

If any of you girls want to share info, positives gained & enjoyed by being a hotwife, - please do so !!! Looking forward to hearing lots more answers to my questions asked above.

MS_2019 wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 11, 2019 1:48 am

Greetings to all the beautiful, confident and powerful Hotwives. There's a few questions I have that could of course only be answered by hotwives themselves. These questions may or may not have been asked earlier in the thread so please don't be mad at me for raising them again.

Let's get into it. This is one concerning creampie clean-up (for those of you who engage in this). It was never something I even thought I'd do until I was doing it for my GF. We spoke about it afterwards that it was one of our most intimate acts ever. She hasn't been able to explain (she only said it makes her feel more loved and loves me more for it) it so I thought maybe I could get perspective from the hotwives here who can give me some idea of how you feel about it. What does it mean to you when he eats your creampie?

The next question concerns her behavior. Ever since diving into this lifestyle (which I can still say we are new to it), her self confidence has sky-rocketed and she's embraced herself more, it feels almost like she's become more possessive of me. I've picked up on subtle cues when we're at a social gathering and I'm conversing with female friends she'd be a bit off with me. I've brought it up and she says I'm imagining things but I'm a very perceptive and observant person so I know I'm not imagining things. Have any of you possibly experienced this at some point or another? If yes, could you explain maybe as to why you felt more protective/possessive over your significant other.

Being in this sort of lifestyle has major advantages but its certainly not easy especially in the beginning. But as a hotwife, having the freedom to bed who you want and having a solid stable relationship gives you a lot of power. My GF has never really been dominant but I see that the common thing in many hotwife/hot GF relationships is embracing that power and becoming dominant. I am not complaining at all I love that my GF is embracing her inner dom. But what about the lifestyle has brought that side out of you? What is it like to have that kind of power? I imagine its thrilling. At this point I see myself being in a FLR and I have no experience in it but I am very curious about it. For those in a FLR what are the key factors of living in that sort of arrangement?

Last question. Of course being in this lifestyle there's many changes (mostly for the better I hope), you start seeing yourself in a new light. With that, of course I imagine you'd see your SO/husband in a different light too. Would love to hear from you when you say you look at your husband differently now, what does that mean to you? How do you see him differently.

Thanking you for taking the time to read and get back to me on this. If I've been a bit vague with my questions let me know and I'll try to be more elaborative.

early-kink wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 13, 2019 8:05 am

Thank-you, Farmgirl for your response! I was asking some of those questions based on things I've read in articles, forum posts, blogs, etc. By asking any of you girls about getting "glammed up", I wasn't suggesting you ladies need to, in order to look desirable. It's just that a lot of what I've read seems to suggest that a good number of girls like to tease their husbands and boyfriends by taking the extra steps to visually "appear" as the hot, sensuous, sex-starved vixen so many men picture in their minds. I'm sure not all hotwives do that, but I've read TONS of hotwife/cuckolding literature for years and "maxing out the glam" seems to be fairly common. Maybe a lot of it has a two-fold purpose …….. to light the fire of horny expectation in her playdate, and also to tease/torment/mindfuck her husband so he sees what lengths she'll go to in order to be a hot, steamy temptress for her playdate. One "shot" fired - 2 men "dead" ……… slain by her evil, devious methodology. That's all.

The question of doing certain sex acts only with your playdate & not your husband is based on a mindfuck theme that appears in much, much hotwife/cuckold literature. Printed and electronic literature can't respond back to questions as you girls can, so it's really cool to hear answers right from you hotwife girls.

I'm also gathering info from actual hotwives for this reason: in case my wife ever decides she might like to try being a hotwife. So - I REALLY APPRECIATE any & all responses from you sexy girls in the hotwife dream-life !!! I'm looking to avoid the "stale rut" syndrome for my wife, so any input from you REAL hotwife girls is very much appreciated.

If any of you girls want to share info, positives gained & enjoyed by being a hotwife, - please do so !!! Looking forward to hearing lots more answers to my questions asked above.

SSQ wrote: ↑

Fri May 10, 2019 9:14 am

LouiseJohn wrote: ↑

Thu May 09, 2019 11:57 pm

Have you been on adult holiday on your own or with another woman? My wife is visiting Congo with one of her girl friends next month. I'm a bit nervous, if she is going to be safe and secure without me.

Wow, really? I assume your wife is an adult. Would you ask the same question about you traveling alone?

I'm pretty sure your wife is quite capable of taking care of herself

IndianLoverboy wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 23, 2019 6:17 am

Dear Hotwives,

This might sound absolutely stupid but I want to ask anyway. Do you find it fun to cuck your husband with a partner who has a smaller dick than your husband? Has anyone actually done this? Sometimes it could be a way to humiliate the husband or simply the other way round or could be various other reasons, but I just wanted to know your thoughts. It's the general understanding that guys with big package normally are into being called the bulls who'd cuck couples but this will also give me an idea if guys with average or normal size could also fantasize and have these kinks.

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 23, 2019 5:44 pm

IndianLoverboy wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 23, 2019 6:17 am

Dear Hotwives,

This might sound absolutely stupid but I want to ask anyway. Do you find it fun to cuck your husband with a partner who has a smaller dick than your husband? Has anyone actually done this? Sometimes it could be a way to humiliate the husband or simply the other way round or could be various other reasons, but I just wanted to know your thoughts. It's the general understanding that guys with big package normally are into being called the bulls who'd cuck couples but this will also give me an idea if guys with average or normal size could also fantasize and have these kinks.

Dick size matters much more to you than it does to me. I first want a guy that knows how to be a gentleman, be funny, have a great sense of humor, carry on a conversation. Can he make me feel special.
There is no reason a guy with a "average or normal", heck even a somewhat smaller dick, can't be a good third if he meets the important criteria.

early-kink wrote: ↑

Tue Sep 24, 2019 5:57 am

I have a broad question for you hotwives/hotgirlfriends. In your own words - and please be thorough - what are the positive things that you get from being a hotwife/hotgirlfriend?? I'm curious to know your emotions, feelings, thoughts, and the physical/sexual plusses. I'm looking to gather as much input as possible so my wife can read all of your words, in case she decides to take this route. If SHE would like to take the step, I want her to have as much positive reinforcement as she can get. She can't get into the VHW section - not a hotwife yet - so if you would, could you divulge your innermost thoughts and feelings about this lifestyle & all the good things you experience with it?? There's plenty of info on the possible negatives to be found all around - here & in other articles/places.

If this has been covered somewhere else, I apologize. I'm pretty new here. I have to say - this is a great resource!!!

Looking forward to hearing from a bunch of you ladies!!!

MODS: Should this be a separate thread topic??

early-kink wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 25, 2019 5:42 am

Trixkat - I asked for my own informative benefit. If I want to have hotwife conversations with my wife, I need some talking points and perspective so I don't sound like I'm sucking it out of my thumb!! I'd like to have INTELLIGENT conversations with her and I can't get on the ladies' forum, so I'm searching for answers and guidelines from you girls who know the ropes. What thoughts, feelings, needs, & wants any of you ladies might mention about being hotwives may hit on a "nerve" for her if I can ask her a relevant question or make a pertinent comment.

I'm looking for intelligent "ammunition" for my verbal gun-belt, so to speak!! I doubt she'd proceed toward taking the hotwife step unless she knows I'm on board and have some background on how you girls feel about the lifestyle.

I also want to know FOR ME. I love my wife very much and I'd like to know more about the ins & outs, & what the positives are for you girls. There's plenty of info out there on the negatives & cautions, but not nearly as much available info on the positives. If I'm going to support her in a move to become a hotwife, I need some positive "ammo" to share with her ….. from me - her husband. She needs to hear it from ME, that I'm aware and I support her. That's why I asked here as I did.

Thanks to all on here who share their stories and experiences. This forum is a treasure trove of info. With an increasingly popular wave of hotwifing/cuckolding rolling around the world, I can only wonder how many people lurk on here and gather info.

If SHE would like to take the step, I want her to have as much positive reinforcement as she can get. She can't get into the VHW section - not a hotwife yet -

Trixkat wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 25, 2019 12:34 pm

If SHE would like to take the step, I want her to have as much positive reinforcement as she can get. She can't get into the VHW section - not a hotwife yet -

early-kink, this is the part of your post I was replying to. if your wife wants to get verified for the Ladies Lounge, she doesn't have to be an actual hotwife yet. you need to realize that no matter how well versed you are in the topic of hotwifing, you will never, as not a wife, have the same perspective she will. the ladies who are VHWs have all kinds of levels of experience, from rookie/newbie to seasoned practitioner.

for yourself, please keep reading and asking questions. there are a number of lovely people here who legitimately want to be helpful.