Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

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Mr GILF

Thank you

[Long Lurker 34]

My husband isn't home and I just returned from a date with G. Want to be my sounding board?

Don't worry, I'll be sure to fill Adventurer in on all of the details once he's back from work. In the meantime, I wanted to gush and share my giddiness. I had such a good time.

G had expressed a desire to see me in my crotchless panties again. That was what I wore underneath my clothes for today's get together. They are blue and lacy with a matching bra. The bra has some side cut-outs that I'm not sure I'm crazy about, but the overall look is rather sexy.

I arrived early, checked in, then stripped down to my lingerie so that I could send Adventurer an, "I'm all alone in this big bed, waiting for my boyfriend" message with a pic. He enjoyed that.

Then G knocked on the door.

I am pleased to report that I was able to have self control. In the lead-up to today, I had been craving slow and sensual sex. In another thread, Jane had mentioned having sex with an ex boyfriend, and it reminded me of my exes and how we would make out for hours (kissing, petting, grinding, humping) without having sex because I was saving it for marriage. I kind of miss that long tease.

I helped G off with his sweater and t-shirt. I asked him to lay on the bed. I straddled him as I kissed him...his lips, his neck, his chest, his stomach. I returned to kissing his lips as my panty-clad pussy ground against his growing erection. He was fondling my breasts and undid my bra. Then his fingers and hands played some more.

I slid down again, rubbing against his skin as I kissed and licked him. Then I undid his belt, and removed his pants. His cock was straining against his boxer briefs. I gave it a lick over the fabric then returned to a teasing grind.

In the end, it was me who caved first. I pulled his cock out and took it in my mouth. Once I had satisfied that desire, I straddled him and slid him inside the convenient opening of my crotchless panties. He told me that I'd have to be careful...after all that teasing, he might cum quickly. I told him that I wasn't done teasing yet.

I moved slowly and sensuously. My clit ground against him as I circled my hips. Then I began to move up and down. He grabbed my breasts and played with them while I rode him. I told him I was going to cum. He had to use everything within him to keep himself from exploding, but he managed. Then we switched positions so that he could fuck me at his own pace.

My panties came off. He stood up and pulled me to the edge of the bed and continued with the slow and sensual theme. I felt every inch of him. Sometimes he'd pause and lean down to kiss me. Sometimes he'd pick up the pace until I was moaning in pleasure. Occasionally, he'd pull out all together and pleasure me with his tongue. It was all quite amazing.

When G did cum, he left his load inside me for Adventurer to discover later (he also left a second and a third load before we left the hotel room). And since I'm sharing details, I should also say that between the sexy times, there was wonderful conversation as we cuddled under the sheets. I'm a very lucky girl to have such wonderful men in my life.

LFA - What an incredible afternoon so thoroughly well described and written. Glad you had such a great end to the work week. So does this count as a long weekend?
I guess this post put's a kibosh on ever getting a novel published at Harlequin.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - What an incredible afternoon so thoroughly well described and written. Glad you had such a great end to the work week. So does this count as a long weekend?
I guess this post put's a kibosh on ever getting a novel published at Harlequin.

Thank you. I don't think it counts as a long weekend because I had to work in the afternoon after I got home. But it certainly made the work week more exciting!

And I still think I could publish a novel.... couldn't I?

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - What an incredible afternoon so thoroughly well described and written. Glad you had such a great end to the work week. So does this count as a long weekend?
I guess this post put's a kibosh on ever getting a novel published at Harlequin.

Thank you. I don't think it counts as a long weekend because I had to work in the afternoon after I got home. But it certainly made the work week more exciting!

And I still think I could publish a novel.... couldn't I?

LFA - I know Harlequin are classified as bodice rippers primarily by the covers, but with your reportage of events they would need to print them on fire proof paper.

[Lookingforadventure]

I posted this in another thread (about Turn Ons) but wanted to move it here as well so that I can refer back to it one day and remember how I was feeling about a certain sexy friend.

It also paves the way nicely for my next post
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I'm not sure if this counts as a turn on, but it seemed appropriate to add here...especially because Fox noted that sometimes it is hard to put a finger on exactly what it is that might make one guy stand out more than other, but it is there.

So here is a story. For those who haven't read my other thread, I have a Dom friend that I play with a couple of times a year. He's in his 50's, is handsome, intelligent, and charming. But he also plays things very cool. He's been a Dom for a few decades and typically he will meet a woman to help her explore a particular BDSM kink that she would like to try, or he will meet with couples where the guy wants to learn how to dominate and "train" his wife in BDSM activities. It sounds to me like it is almost a service for hire, except that there is no payment. My point is that he keeps himself emotionally distant. He's friendly and makes sure everyone is comfortable, but he doesn't get attached.

During COVID (and maybe for other reasons as well...he plays it cool, so he has never explained it to me), he stopped playing with people. However, he and I got connected on AFF and began texting. Then we got together for a g-rated (ok maybe PG-13) meet and greet, and since then we've played in person four times.

The "turn on" for me is when he let's down that guard and accidentally lets slip that he likes me It sounds silly, but it makes me smile in a school-girl way every time.

For example, once he and Adventurer were teasing me about some ridiculous sex toy that they threatened to use on me the next time we are together in person. I voted against it but "Sir" said, "Sorry, that's two votes against one. Poor wench, I guess you will always lose." I texted back to say that maybe he had some other subs that he plays with, and they could vote with me in solidarity (OK. I asked that question on purpose because I was curious if his busyness lately was because he has been meeting with other people once again). He responded, "Nope, there is no one else. Just the wench for me". (Cue the school girl smile and blush).

Another example was New Year's Eve. He texted in the late afternoon to wish Adventurer and I a happy new year. He was off to a party with friends that evening and wanted to say how much he enjoyed our times together and our chats in 2022. We texted for 30-40 minutes and then he went off to his party. I figured that was it, but seconds after midnight he reach out again. He was drunk at the party, and his drunk self thought of me right after the ball dropped

He finds the way that I blush "endearing"; he says that Adventurer struck the jackpot when he married me (and he jokes that he keeps offering Adventurer larger and larger sums of money to buy me, but so far Adventurer says I'm not for sale); he even texts me wine recommendations when he finds a good deal at the store and he knows it a bottle that I would enjoy.

I'm not sure if this post explains it well. Our relationship is not romantic (and I wouldn't want it to be)....it is more of a sexy friendship. Our virtual and in-person play times turn me on for all the obvious sexual reasons, but the fact that he genuinely cares for me (despite all his intentions otherwise) is also arousing.

[Lookingforadventure]

It has been 4 months since I saw "Sir" in person, and while we've chatted via text a couple of times a week since then, we've struggled to find time for even a virtual play date. I am excited to say, however, that we finally managed to make it work! I recognize that virtual play is not the same as hot wife activity in person, and that BDSM play is not everyone's cup of tea, but if you are interested in hearing about how this hot wife spent a sexy afternoon this week, read on.

Part of the problem with scheduling for Sir and I is that we keep different hours. He tends to sleep in and head to his office around 1 PM. He then works until 7 or 8, comes home, naps, gets up around 10 and then is awake until the wee hours of the morning. If I ever can't sleep, I know I can text him at 2 AM and he'll be up. LOL. I tease him about being a crypt keeper.

The best times for me to play virtually with him are when the kids are at school and I'm "working" from home. Unfortunately, he's sleeping in the morning, or at the office in the afternoon. We have managed it during his office hours a few times (I do like the thought of him sitting at his desk being aroused as he tells me what he wants me to do next), but his work has been too busy for that lately.

In any case, he reached out this week and we made a plan to play one afternoon for about an hour before my kids came home. I asked him if there was anything he wanted me to do to get ready for play time and he responded with, "Be naked, clamped, gagged, with the magic wand inserted". Nothing like jumping right to it!

The time came. I put down my special "squirt blanket" on the bed. I got naked, as per the request. I laid out all the toys that I know he likes me to use. I worked on the magic wand first because it does take a little bit of time and effort for me to get lubricated and aroused enough for the wand to slide in. Once that was done, I clamped my nipples, attached a ball gag and sent him a text.

"Hello Sir. I'm ready."

He sent me a smiley face and the game was on.

Most of our time was spent with me being told to turn the inserted magic wand on high, hold a second magic wand on my clit, and to orgasm repeatedly. Sometimes there would be breaks and he'd ask about the things I'd like to try the next time we are together in person. Or he'd tease me with information about new things he's purchased to use on me.

I mentioned in my last post that sometimes the things Sir says just make me smile irrationally. When I sent him a pic of my clamped nipple he told me it was art! He also commented on how much he enjoyed me drooling on his cock the last time we were together and that he looks forward to me doing it again. Neither of those comments are anything special, but for some reason they made me very happy.

Eventually, I needed to tap out. My nipples are not used to being clamped anymore (I'm out of practice). After 45 minutes I really needed them off! Plus my clit was sore from the magic wand. Sir agreed that I had done well.

Once the clamps were off and the wand was out, he suggested that I use my nJoy wand. It is made of curved stainless steel. The coolness of it actually felt very good sliding into my now very wet and stretched pussy. This particular toy always makes me squirt. Yesterday was no exception. I filmed it for him as the first stream of creamy liquid flowed out of my pussy. Then, I continued. In the end, the squirt blanked had quite a puddle on it.

I thanked him for the fun afternoon. He thanked me in return. He said that it really has been too long and that we should do a better job of finding time to make it work. He also wants to play in person again sometime soon

Adventurer was at work when all of this took place. The conversation took place via a group chat with him, but he tends to have his notifications turned off while he's at work. He got home and went up to our bedroom to change out of his work clothes. While there, he checked his phone. A text came to me seconds later, "Wow! You are so sexy!" Hee hee. I love surprising him like that.

[regular3]

All of your photo's are art. Would love to see this latest effort.

[Lookingforadventure]

All of your photo's are art. Would love to see this latest effort.

You are so sweet. Apparently I am vain, because your comment also made me smile. As a thank you, I posted a couple of pics in the hotties forum.

[regular3]

Thank you so much for posting those damn sexy images. Very delicious.
I believe you have the perfect body and mind for sexual pleasure.
I'm not sure if you've been asked this question but can I ask what is the favourite part of your body and why that over other parts? Maybe ask your men the same question.

[Seekingmore12]

Easy, lfa’s delicious smile knowing what’s going on in her mind behind it.

[Lookingforadventure]

Easy, lfa’s delicious smile knowing what’s going on in her mind behind it.

You might not ALWAYS know what's going on behind my smile. For example, I'm smiling right now and thinking about you. I bet you can't guess what I'm thinking about doing to you.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thank you so much for posting those damn sexy images. Very delicious.
I believe you have the perfect body and mind for sexual pleasure.
I'm not sure if you've been asked this question but can I ask what is the favourite part of your body and why that over other parts? Maybe ask your men the same question.

Thank you. And that is an interesting question. Adventurer will tell you that I have moods where I don't like anything about my body. But those usually pass quickly.

I've always liked my hair because I'd get complimented on it a lot as a kid (it was long and thick, and my mom was excellent at braiding in elaborate ways).

When I started sharing sexy pics on AFF, my butt and breasts were the most popular items. I suspect that's because I'm on the curvy end of body types, and sometimes guys enjoy round and firm.

If I had to pick something right now, I think I'd say my legs. They are long and are getting more toned. In pole dance class the other week, the instructor commented on how amazing my legs are (hers are shorter and long legs look better for some of the moves). Compliments like that, that are totally unsolicited and genuine, stick with me.

As for the men in my life, G has already weighed in. I guessed he would say smile. My guess is that Adventurer would say that he loves my sexy mind and my openness to adventurous ideas.....or he might say my butt, because he does enjoy spanking it. Lol

[Adventurer]

Thank you so much for posting those damn sexy images. Very delicious.
I believe you have the perfect body and mind for sexual pleasure.
I'm not sure if you've been asked this question but can I ask what is the favourite part of your body and why that over other parts? Maybe ask your men the same question.

Thank you. And that is an interesting question. Adventurer will tell you that I have moods where I don't like anything about my body. But those usually pass quickly.

I've always liked my hair because I'd get complimented on it a lot as a kid (it was long and thick, and my mom was excellent at braiding in elaborate ways).

When I started sharing sexy pics on AFF, my butt and breasts were the most popular items. I suspect that's because I'm on the curvy end of body types, and sometimes guys enjoy round and firm.

If I had to pick something right now, I think I'd say my legs. They are long and are getting more toned. In pole dance class the other week, the instructor commented on how amazing my legs are (hers are shorter and long legs look better for some of the moves). Compliments like that, that are totally unsolicited and genuine, stick with me.

As for the men in my life, G has already weighed in. I guessed he would say smile. My guess is that Adventurer would say that he loves my sexy mind and my openness to adventurous ideas.....or he might say my butt, because he does enjoy spanking it. Lol

You are absolutely correct that it is your sexy mind and your willingness to explore your sexuality that has always been present in our relationship. And of course your ass is amazing but don't undersell your breasts, especially as they bounce up and down on my - or another man's - cock.

[rascalnvixen]

You are absolutely correct that it is your sexy mind and your willingness to explore your sexuality that has always been present in our relationship. And of course your ass is amazing but don't undersell your breasts, especially as they bounce up and down on my - or another man's - cock.

I totally agree, Adventurer!!! I have fantasized about her riding me and being able to watch her fabulous breasts moving in front and above me, all with in grasp of my hands and lips!!!!! A very strong fantasy!!! Love her breasts, but in the heat of passion of our coupling I would be calling them her "tits"! She is an entire sex package, mind and body!!!!!

Rascal

[Lookingforadventure]

You are absolutely correct that it is your sexy mind and your willingness to explore your sexuality that has always been present in our relationship. And of course your ass is amazing but don't undersell your breasts, especially as they bounce up and down on my - or another man's - cock.

Thank you handsome husband! Although you didn't mention my pussy. Hmm....isn't that a part you also enjoy

[Lookingforadventure]

I totally agree, Adventurer!!! I have fantasized about her riding me and being able to watch her fabulous breasts moving in front and above me, all with in grasp of my hands and lips!!!!! A very strong fantasy!!! Love her breasts, but in the heat of passion of our coupling I would be calling them her "tits"! She is an entire sex package, mind and body!!!!!

Rascal

I think I like being a total sex package

[Lookingforadventure]

Here in the Greater Toronto area, the temperature has taken a plunge. If you, too, are feeling the chill of winter, I thought I'd share a quick post to warm you up

I saw G last night!

I could leave the story right there. Ha ha ha. But I will tell you a bit more. He had a work social engagement that was taking him about 20 minutes past my house in the evening. He suggested that maybe he could meet me along the way for a quick kiss. I thought that sounded like a lovely idea.

We agreed to meet at the park where I first gave him a blowjob two and a half years ago! I pulled in around 7pm. (Note for my future self: this particular park is completely deserted on a winter night at 7 pm!). He was already there.

We both got out of our cars and kissed for a bit in the parking lot. He was looking good -- casual enough to meet friends for a drink, dressy enough for networking and catching up with former colleagues. I was still wearing the outfit that I had worn to the office earlier that day. It was a black and grey, leopard print mini skirt (but a muted pattern), knee boots, black tights, and a charcoal turtleneck.

It was quite the sexy look and Adventurer had complimented me on it before I went to the office in the morning. I thought G would enjoy seeing it, which he did, but I had neglected to think through the limitations that tights entail.

After a few minutes of groping and kissing, we decided to move into his car.

He smelled good. His lips felt amazing against mine. His hands were doing wonderful things with my breasts.

I reached down and felt how hard he was through his jeans. He commented, "You've got some wandering hands over there". I asked if he minded. He didn't.

His hand reached under my skirt and that's when the full frustration of tights set in. I couldn't really take them off without taking off my boots too. And sitting on a car seat would have entailed too much wiggling awkwardly to get them down well enough for any sort of actual play. I told him that maybe we should just focus on him. He reluctantly agreed (reluctant because he believes that the woman should always cum first, but also very willing to let me unzip his pants).

I am happy to report that I returned home with a smile and the taste of his cum still in my throat. Since I had slipped out of the house unnoticed by my kids, I picked up a few donuts on my drive back and told them that I had gone out to get them exam studying snacks. They were very grateful. Adventurer just smiled.

Adventurer suggested that we "go to bed" early. Let's just say that those pesky tights came off quickly and I was very well satisfied. Thank you to both of my men for the wonderful evening.

[Seekingmore12]

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Adventurer and G are very fortunate chaps to have you in thier lives. And you my dear, appear to be quite happy!

[Lookingforadventure]

Adventurer and G are very fortunate chaps to have you in thier lives. And you my dear, appear to be quite happy!

I AM very happy! Thank you for noticing

[Lookingforadventure]

The sun is shining. The temperatures have warmed up after a cold spell. And I'm home all alone.

I should be working, but instead I'm day dreaming about sex. If only G lived closer and was available upon demand! LOL

I did reach out to Sir to say hello. He's at work right now. I found out that he was off sick on Friday and then spent the weekend being rather miserable with a cold/flu. Poor guy. He's in the middle of a boring phone meeting, so I sent him a picture to help him feel better

[IowaGent]

The sun is shining. The temperatures have warmed up after a cold spell. And I'm home all alone.

I should be working, but instead I'm day dreaming about sex. If only G lived closer and was available upon demand! LOL

I did reach out to Sir to say hello. He's at work right now. I found out that he was off sick on Friday and then spent the weekend being rather miserable with a cold/flu. Poor guy. He's in the middle of a boring phone meeting, so I sent him a picture to help him feel better

I'm sure all of us would feel better if you shared a picture with us. Please.

[Lookingforadventure]

I'm sure all of us would feel better if you shared a picture with us. Please.

But you aren't even sick Are you sure you need my nursing skills?

In all seriousness, that is an interesting idea for the next time I'm "in a mood".

[kaskap79]

I'm sure all of us would feel better if you shared a picture with us. Please.

But you aren't even sick Are you sure you need my nursing skills?

In all seriousness, that is an interesting idea for the next time I'm "in a mood".

I am sure I am not the only one who could need your nursing skills to take loving care of me and feel my temperature with your hand.

[IowaGent]

I'm sure all of us would feel better if you shared a picture with us. Please.

But you aren't even sick Are you sure you need my nursing skills?

In all seriousness, that is an interesting idea for the next time I'm "in a mood".

Without a doubt, I would benefit from your nursing skills. Even healthy people benefit from healing hands and touch. Moreover, I am certain that you would feel personally rewarded by seeing how quickly your care would result in my improved condition.