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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Feb 19, 2020 9:10 am

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I was interested on the first time you posted, as this thread started on April 2018 has some of your writing on HW fell off a cliff? Although you have sometimes dipped into the earlier days often as a result of questions.
This first recount of an incident before Gigi became a HW is a gem, whilst the sex was cunningly instigated by the guy, even at this earlier time your wife was audacious enough to follow his lead. It just took a subtle glance between you, and you were off to the races. And on this occasion you were allowed to spectate.
You said she subsequently entertained you with graphic descriptions of the night: was this the first time she told you of her "conquests".
That break here is a result of my transferring several separate postings to this ongoing thread and renaming it "History." At one time, I wrote separate stories in single installments until some members wrote they would prefer my contributions be in a single thread. I didn't transfer all of those, so that might be the cause of the break in time you mentioned. I didn't think some were that interesting; some of the comments and events in this thread probably are lacking that way. so those left out were more like that.

The first few years, I felt she was going overboard with her successive hookups, and certainly some of those were left out here. I even encouraged her to see a psychologist to determine whether she might be developing nymphomania. I didn't care for the psychologist she chose, but his opinion was that her increased desires and activities were normal for a newly sexually-liberated woman. Two I wished I had brought here had to do with a business trip with her boss and a five-day stay at his place when his family was out of town. I hadn't kept a record of that for myself. All the previous, separate posts were deleted by the monitors at this website at the time I transferred the other stories. I recall the events but not in sufficient detail to now include.

As to your question, that wasn't exactly the first time she told me about her sexual experiences. She admitted those before we married but not in the detail she now narrates to me. The only part I hadn't heard about before we married was that of her membership in the high school FLAG Bunch club. When she began opening up with graphic detail, I learned about that in bits and pieces until I had a rather full picture of that time. I liked that a lot and eventually got around to including the more interesting parts in this thread.
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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Feb 19, 2020 9:46 am

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Wed Feb 19, 2020 6:36 am
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I hope there is a story coming soon of your recent visit to Mr Boss man's cottage: I hadn't realized that in the US the term cottage was used for the weekend second home.
Solstice,

I'm not sure that the term "cottage" is widespread for a second home here in the U.S., but it is a term that is used. Here in the U.S. the term "cottage" typically implies a small, modest and quaint home that we might see in a Disney cartoon feature of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. Most of the time second homes are located near resorts for a nice get-a-way from a person's usual surroundings of their primary residence. If that is in the mountains, the term "cabin" may be used to refer to that location, or if at the shoreline of a large body of water the term "beach house" is also common. Regardless of which term is used, the concept is clear using either and of course Des' way with words relates that to us using the term "cottage" which conveys the thought clearly to all. I, however, get the feeling the dwelling he refers to in this case, the 2nd home of a bank president, is not a small simple structure, but a sizeable building that has many, if not all, of the conveniences of their primary home. Just my thoughts on your comment to add a little clarity to your thought.

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That's a good explanation actually. "Cottage" is the term he and his wife refer to for their second, three-bedroom, two-bath home in the mountains. Few have seen it and neither he nor his wife talk to most about it. It's nowhere near the size of their home in town but probably the size of an average home. The term fits in that it reminds me of a seashore cottage at, say, Cape Cod, white with colonial blue trim. But the quaint way it's designed makes the exterior appear smaller. Their town home has five bedrooms, four baths and a half bath along with other amenities; he picked that one up at a repossessed bargain during the 2008-2009 financial crisis; nowadays, he could afford its current value, but that original deal adds to his net worth. We too got a bargain at a later time on our home, but it's nothing like his. Their stone back patio and pool look like something at a resort hotel. One of their two downstairs bedrooms, just off their entryway foyer, is rather large and used as a room for entertaining guests. (I won't mention this again in the future, but there's my clarity on those comments for any who cared.)

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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Feb 19, 2020 11:42 am

The contractual nanny working for Gigi’s boss and his family is returning to her home country on the last Thursday of this month. On Saturday evening, my wife and I joined them for an appreciation dinner for the woman and the five of us stayed overnight at the family’s mountain cottage. It’s still cold here and a light snow had fallen on parts of the mountains two days before.

We were the last to arrive and they met us where we parked beneath the trees alongside their home. Her boss, his wife and nanny were standing alongside the lake and greeted us as we got out of the car. Her boss kissed my wife and the two women took turns planting their lips on mine for a lengthy time. His wife, who a year ago I had nicknamed as Lorri for a reason that has nothing to do with her real name, held the kiss the longest, which I think was a private competition with her husband and my wife.

The nanny’s three-syllable Scandinavian forename was more common sometime around the ninth century than now. Gigi’s boss says she prefers those in the U.S. – as did others in Canada where she once temporarily worked - use her middle name, Emma. That’s more comfortable for me than when I had called her by her first name when we initially met.

We handed the women our parkas, set our bags in a guest bedroom and joined them for an early dinner in their kitchen. Her boss placed more logs in the fire and said, “That should do it for most of the night.” Their cottage has a central heat system, but the lit fireplace was a pleasant mood-setter. After the nanny and my wife placed the dinnerware in their dishwater, Lorri took my hand and led me to the hallway, She swiveled her head around and said, “C’mon gang, let’s go to bed.” I laughed at that because it’s an unusual variation from her more common, elegant expressions.

All stripped down and chatted as if getting naked in a group was an everyday happening.

My wife had previously given me her rare permission for sex with the woman and that acquiescence was still valid for the five-way at the couple’s cottage. There’s no way she or her boss would allow me having intercourse with his wife, just as she and he can’t handle their spouses having sex with others. The only times she had little or no problem with that were a couple of times I was unlikely to again encounter the women. His wife and I understand those restrictions, and neither of us would cross that line of resistance.

Seeing all these women nude and together brought about a prompt erection. My wife’s boss is always readily stiff when the right occasions arise. Each woman’s physique and personality are different from the other but I think any normal male would consider any as hot. His wife knelt alongside their king-sized bed and took my dick in her mouth. He urged my wife and Emma onto their backs on the bed and first went down on the nanny. Gigi lay on her side, propped up on an elbow and watched. She gazed into Emma’s eyes and Emma reached a hand to my wife’s neck, pulling her face close to hers. Gigi kissed her and stroked her breasts.

Lorri led me to the adjoining guest room. She said, “It’s been too long since you and I have been together. I was thrilled when my husband said you and your wife were joining us for Emma’s farewell party.” I responded this was the most unique good-bye party I could imagine. She giggled and said, “It’s nice isn’t it?”

We plopped on to the double bed. I spread her legs and mouthed her clitoris. She was coming in a screaming orgasm within minutes. We aren’t allowed to fuck but our spouses don’t complain about anything else. She sat up, grasped my dick and jerked me off as we kissed. I soon groaned and spurted high as she smiled and said, “That was nice.” She suggested we rejoin the others.

Her husband was fucking their nanny when we entered the room. The woman wailed how much she loved his “massive cock.” Gigi watched alongside and said, “Maybe you should have been doing this when you first went to work for them.” Emma grinned and said, “That wouldn’t work. The kids would have figured it out. I did that just once when a husband seduced me, and it didn’t work out well for the family. They got over it before I left, but that was for a while an unpleasant episode.” No one asked her to elaborate during the time we were there.

When Emma climaxed, he crawled between my wife’s long legs. Lorri and I were leaning our butts against the dresser. She smiled and whispered to me, “This is like my husband’s dream. And, by the way, Emma wants to fuck you, so I hope you recover soon.”

Gigi rotated her hips as her boss screwed her. She moaned, “Oh, oh!” repeatedly but without her typical wild comments as he fucked her. Perhaps the other three of us in the room had something to do with that. She too was soon cumming with a wail like a triumphal coyote atop a high mesa.

Emma crawled from bed to approach Lorri and me and said to her, “Can I borrow him for a while?” Lorri said, “He’s all yours. He and I are good for now.” We walked to the guest bedroom where Lorri and I had occupied. I lay on my back and her mouth expertly worked on me until I was again fully erect. She said, “Fuck me.” She braced herself on her hands with her rear to me and I entered her from behind. She fingered herself as I bumped against her and came twice before my semen rocketed through my cock into her warm tunnel.

We lay and talked for an hour, our time punctuated by cries of passion from the master bedroom, but neither of us were certain which of the women’s voices was my wife’s or Lorri’s. Emma grinned and said, “I think it’s both at once. I have no idea what the hell they’re doing down there.” I would later learn that most of the screams were those of Lorri, who was being fucked by him at the time my wife’s tongue swapped time between his shaft and Lorri’s clitoris. Lorri had been told by her husband of my wife’s high school lesbian adventures and the couple had discussed whether Lorri would be interested in sex with her. Over time, the idea became appealing, but this encounter was their first time together. When her boss had cum inside his wife, he left the room with Emma and me, leaving Lorri and Gigi to do whatever they wished. We sat naked in the living room until our wives joined us an hour later.

We dressed and went out for beers and wine at the cabin restaurant halfway down the mountain. The student waiter had seen him at separate times with my wife and his and mostly like has figured out the relationships. No more than eight others were in the restaurant at the time and the waiter chatted amiably with us for minutes at a time between his duties.

We returned to the cottage around ten. Everyone was bushed and Lorri suggested we get some sleep. All five of us lay naked on the king size bed, the guys on the outside and three women snuggled together between us. My wife has the ability to take two or three deep breaths and fall asleep with ten seconds flat. Emma asked me if that’s common for her. I told her she learned that from an ex-Army sniper who was once her firearms instructor. I can do it too but it takes anywhere from a half minute to a minute. When anyone takes in all the air possible through their nostrils and exhales completely, all thoughts automatically escape in a cloud. Thoughts of the day, after all, are what keep most people (without painful disabilities) awake at bedtime.

Emma tried it and was slumbering within a minute. Lorri looked at me and said, “That was interesting, but I’d like a drink. Let’s go to the kitchen.” We returned to the guest room instead of to the crowded master bed and fell asleep promptly, our arms and legs enwined.

* * * * *
Lorri and I were standing at the master bedroom door when, one by one, the other three woke to the glare of the morning sun streaming through the blinds. Emma looked over to my wife and their boss and said, “I need this at times. I don’t understand how priests stay focused without sex in their lives.”

My wife sat up, leaned her back to the headboard, and joked, “Some can’t. I was told of a priest who found his bicycle missing from his garage. He suspected the assumed thief might be in the congregation. At the next Sunday’s sermon, he preached from the Book of Exodus, ‘Thou shalt not steal.’ He glanced down to the next commandment, ‘Thou shalt not commit adultery.’ Then, he remembered where he left his bicycle.” All were still giggling about that in the shower. Just to be sure, Emma asked my wife if that’s a true story. Of course it isn’t, just another of my wife’s seemingly bottomless bag of jokes.

The morning was cool but nowhere near as cold as the local weather channel had predicted. Gigi suggested the five of us take a hike further up the mountain. Her boss’ wife filled a picnic basket with sandwiches and two wine bottles and we pulled on our gloves and parkas. Gigi stuffed the picnic basket and wine into a cloth bag and draped it over a shoulder. The five of us walked from the cottage’s side door up foot-spaced, stone steps and another mile up the inclining, dusty path to a wide flat rock jutting out from the mountain’s rim. Gigi, her boss and his wife had been here before, but Emma and I had not. By then, the morning fog had mostly dissipated, leaving us a clear view in all directions.

Standing alongside us on the stone ledge, Emma pointed out the cottage far below and the large lake behind it. Five homes are visible among tree lines on the lake’s far side, which can’t be seen from their cottage. All else is forested mountains in a glory of green, red and gold amid scattered patches of snow.

We sat in a circle and talked as the nanny laid out a table cloth onto the flat rock. My wife‘s boss opened two wine bottles and he and Gigi set out sandwiches and plastic drinking glasses. Emma asked Gigi, “Do you have a private term, like ‘stud,’ for your boss?” He and my wife grinned. My wife occasionally uses a joke terminology between them. She said, “Because he supplements in a singular way for my husband, I call him ‘LRS.’ That’s short for Libido Replacement Specialist.” Emma and his wife leaned shoulder to shoulder in laughter.

He chuckled and confessed that often, when sending her emails, he signs off as ‘LRS.” Gigi added, “I’m a different sort of traveler’ than my husband. I enjoy riding but like it better with different drivers.” We all laughed at that.

We were bushed when returning to the cottage and slept until around two p.m. With the exception of me not having intercourse with Lorri, everyone fucked everyone. I was surprised at how quickly Lorri had become accustomed to sex with the other two women. I asked her privately as we were leaving that afternoon if she had felt uncomfortable with that at first. She said, “Not at all. I had been thinking about it for at least a month. I now understand why your wife fell into it so easily.”

We drove away before the other three but talked that night on the phone about our weekend. Emma was on another phone with the other four of us and thanked all of us for her “best farewell ever.” She promised to keep in touch by phone and email.

Gigi said in bed that night this was one of her best evening ever. I admitted, “Yeah, me too.”

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This thread always delivers!!

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Unread post by yielding william » Wed Feb 19, 2020 12:39 pm

Every time I think everything has been said that could be said, you come up with something entirely new. That was amazing.

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Unread post by solstice » Wed Feb 19, 2020 3:04 pm

So you can do anything with Lorri except fuck her? It's gratifying that Gigi and her boss are quite relaxed with what you do: the feeling of not being entirely excluded from the fun and games must mean a great deal to you, and the nanny seems quite assertive as an employee, good for her. was Gigi ready for you to fuck her when you arrived home? as she normally has energy to spare, even for both you and your wife's sublime relationship, the cottage trip must surely go down as memorable experience.

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Unread post by Scotch98 » Thu Feb 20, 2020 2:13 am

Thanks Des, what a great update and what a wonderful time you all had. you are definitely living the dream..... I always look forward to hearing about your adventures. Cheers

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Feb 20, 2020 6:07 am

Thanks to all for your remarks. . .

My wife’s favorite snack is a banana. When at the local supermarket, she most often picks the largest in the bin. She had one in her mouth and hand while we were talking last night in our kitchen. I mentioned the length and girth looked like her boss’ big dick. She laughed and said that occurs to her now and then. She said when alone at times, she sucks it and thinks of it as a penis, not always necessarily that of her boss. It’s most often a faceless fantasy.

I asked whether I might take a pic of her comparing his cock to the banana by holding it alongside his length. She grinned and said, “Maybe. If you won’t take a pic of his face, I could ask the next time he’s at our home. He has said he would be more comfortable now if you’re sometimes in the same room.” That conversation between them came about while both were in his office two days after our five-way orgy with him, his wife and their kids’ nanny. That may have had something to do with his newly found comfort about that. I’ll put that up for a while as an avatar if it comes about but I'm unsure whether it will actually happen. He really is that large, and his eight-and-a half-inches is unique in her experience..
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Unread post by solstice » Thu Feb 20, 2020 8:14 am

Bananas are considered a healthy food and they are reputed to lower blood pressure, I was asked to cut back on them as my potasium levels were considered to be on the high side. I would imagine that Gigi is as healthy as a butchers dog, and it helps with the exercise she gets, that well known saying "A fuck a day keeps the doctor away"!
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Unread post by solstice » Thu Feb 20, 2020 9:27 am

Thank you Des for your description of Mr Bosses cottage and for Rascals use of cottage in the US:
Now I am a somewhat trivia bore, and I hope you don't mind if I list what is thought of as a cottage in the UK.
Cottages are widespread in the countryside, and were largely built by landowners and were more often than not occupied by estate/ farm workers free of rent: not out of the generosity of the landed gentry, but if the farm labourer left his job he lost his home. In Scotland it was known as a "but and ben" a 2 room very basic cottage: An outer larger room, with the inner room used as kitchen.
Nowadays they may knock two or three that are attached into one home and are sold as a desirable and chic dwelling finished to a high spec. or used as holiday homes.
In Scotland the workers who dwelt in them were known as cotters. and what is considered to be a fine poem by Robert Burns is called "A Cotters Saturday Night" I have included an extract hopefully it can be understood:

November chill blaws loud wi angry sugh;
The short'ning winter-day is near a close;
The miry beasts retreating frae the pleugh;
The black'ning trains o craws to their repose:
The toil-worn Cotter frae his labor goes,
This night his weekly moil is at an end,
Collects his spades, his mattocks, and his hoes,
Hoping the morn in ease and rest to spend,
And weary, o'er the moor, his course does hameward be

There is another twenty verses of this moving poem (if it can be understood)

I hope I will not be drummed out of this forum for introducing a bit of culture. :roll:
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Unread post by samlowen » Thu Feb 20, 2020 9:31 am

A trivia terrorist? I've never heard of this before and I think I like it. Ty Solstice.

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Unread post by solstice » Thu Feb 20, 2020 9:49 am

I changed it, as I'm not sure if the word terrorist is acceptable in this troubled world.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Feb 20, 2020 1:30 pm

solstice wrote:
Thu Feb 20, 2020 9:27 am
Thank you Des for your description of Mr Bosses cottage and for Rascals use of cottage in the US:
Now I am a somewhat trivia bore, and I hope you don't mind if I list what is thought of as a cottage in the UK.
Cottages are widespread in the countryside, and were largely built by landowners and were more often than not occupied by estate/ farm workers free of rent: not out of the generosity of the landed gentry, but if the farm labourer left his job he lost his home. In Scotland it was known as a "but and ben" a 2 room very basic cottage: An outer larger room, with the inner room used as kitchen.
Nowadays they may knock two or three that are attached into one home and are sold as a desirable and chic dwelling finished to a high spec. or used as holiday homes.
In Scotland the workers who dwelt in them were known as cotters. and what is considered to be a fine poem by Robert Burns is called "A Cotters Saturday Night" I have included an extract hopefully it can be understood:

November chill blaws loud wi angry sugh;
The short'ning winter-day is near a close;
The miry beasts retreating frae the pleugh;
The black'ning trains o craws to their repose:
The toil-worn Cotter frae his labor goes,
This night his weekly moil is at an end,
Collects his spades, his mattocks, and his hoes,
Hoping the morn in ease and rest to spend,
And weary, o'er the moor, his course does hameward be

There is another twenty verses of this moving poem (if it can be understood). I hope I will not be drummed out of this forum for introducing a bit of culture. :roll:
I understood it all, Solstice. Nice poem, thanks. :up:
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Unread post by solstice » Fri Feb 21, 2020 12:59 am

This newer innovation to your thread of changing her avatar to sundry periods of Gigi life, adds an enjoyable aspect to this journal. especially with this larger photo.

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I wrote about a coming event for Gigi Feb. 9 and tonight's the night. We were home Thursday evening when Beau phoned. After about a half-hour, Gigi told him she would call him back, turned to me and said Friday night’s plans had changed a bit. On Sunday night of the previous week, she had reluctantly agreed to being Beau’s date at a house party at the home of a student at the school Beau and Jack attend. She asked if I minded if she should return Saturday morning. I shrugged and said, “Okay with me. What’s the change?”

When the guys first urged her to go, it was to be with the two of them. Recently, Jack has begun dating an older student and will be taking her. Beau and Gigi will go with them. Beau had told her over the phone the woman’s married to a trucker who is most often on the road now on a trip to Oregon. The couple owns a recreational vehicle and the woman will be driving them in that to the party, then the four of them would be spending the rest of the night in the RV. The “where” wasn’t clear but presumably off-road somewhere in the area.

I said, “So it’s a four-way thing tomorrow night,” and added that if that’s okay with her, I’m fine with it. She said, “You’re the best,” and phoned Beau back to say, “Okay, I’m down with that. You can drive me in my car to their place if you want.” She reminded him not to identify her to any at the school party by name, where she works or offer other personal information about her. He assured her he never talks to anyone about her or their relationship. Beau is picking her up at our home and from there they’ll drive to the woman’s home before going on to the party.

She didn’t seem uncomfortable with attending but I suspected she was concerned someone among the 20 or so attending might know her. She says that’s unlikely but that won’t matter because she would be doing nothing to cause anyone to think she and Beau were no more than friends. She almost never removes her wedding ring and doesn’t intend to take it off this time. We don’t know whether the woman’s husband is aware she is dating others while he’s on the road, but Gigi said she will ask Jack about that when the opportunity comes about. She’s unsure just how the night may turn out but is always amenable to new adventures.

Later in bed as I was fucking her, she told me, “I’ll phone whenever I can to keep you in the loop. Maybe I can send you some cell phone pics tomorrow night.” She doesn’t usually text me or anyone else with the exception of work-related matters, and I like that. I prefer her voice to digital communication. Tonight might be a different experience for her. :up:

~ Des
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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Fri Feb 21, 2020 5:15 am

Oh, MY!!! More exciting time in your life with your Hottie!!!! Lots of possibilities may play out tonight!! Sounds like a swingers dream, switching men during the night and maybe a little WW fun for a break from the guys!! Des, I get the feeling you will be quite excited tonight. I hope it is all that you can stand!!! hehehe Have fun and enjoy the entertainment your imagination and her texts will provide to you!!!!!

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Unread post by pixmangurn » Fri Feb 21, 2020 8:28 am

Another amazing adventure for Des and GiGi, can't wait for the updates!

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Unread post by solstice » Fri Feb 21, 2020 8:53 am

It's reward that Gigi is eager to return to share with you her experiences of the date, hope she will not be too exhausted to fuck you royally on her return.

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Unread post by Asterix42 » Fri Feb 21, 2020 5:49 pm

Hey Des
Love following your story. Back in December you quoted Gigi wife as saying "I love Beau and Jack as much as I love my boss. It's not quite the same as with you and me, but there's a strong depth of feeling between them and me." Those words "not quite" didn't seem to call her love for you out as being that much different from the love she feels for her other men. Is that right, that Gigi loves all her men pretty much equally?

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Unread post by anonymister1948 » Fri Feb 21, 2020 7:28 pm

I’ve read your entire thread with fascination. The past two months, in particular, have been hot. One topic that has been a recurring back and forth with your readers are your sexual extracurricular restrictions with other women. I don’t have an opinion either way on that because it seems to work so well for you.

On February 8th Gigi says, “What I really know from experience it’s easy to get too deeply involved when the sex is hot.” Her view summarized is that hot intercourse can lead to strong emotional feelings. When thinking of her view along with the observation made by the psychologist, that she needed many partners because of reactance, it occurred to me that perhaps her restrictions on you are more due to the way control manifests within her than jealousy or fear of losing you to a romantic rival. Both married men and women have emotional affairs where no sex is involved at all and many of those marriages end in divorce. As one woman put it, “I could deal with his fucking around on me but when I found out he thought he loved her, it was over.”

If it’s not too personal a question, I’d love to know what your take is. Is it reactance or is it fear that once you fuck another woman a few times you’ll get too far in over your head?

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Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Feb 22, 2020 6:57 am

Asterix42 wrote:
Fri Feb 21, 2020 5:49 pm
Hey Des
Love following your story. Back in December you quoted Gigi wife as saying "I love Beau and Jack as much as I love my boss. It's not quite the same as with you and me, but there's a strong depth of feeling between them and me." Those words "not quite" didn't seem to call her love for you out as being that much different from the love she feels for her other men. Is that right, that Gigi loves all her men pretty much equally?
That was once a common conversation between us. Essentially, her explanation is that she loves most people but it isn't the same as being "in love" as in the committed relationship of marriage. I wouldn't say she loves all her men equally but she has generally felt emotionally bonded to some in varying degrees when in a few longer-term relationships.
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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Feb 22, 2020 7:10 am

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Fri Feb 21, 2020 7:28 pm
I’ve read your entire thread with fascination. The past two months, in particular, have been hot. One topic that has been a recurring back and forth with your readers are your sexual extracurricular restrictions with other women. I don’t have an opinion either way on that because it seems to work so well for you.

On February 8th Gigi says, “What I really know from experience it’s easy to get too deeply involved when the sex is hot.” Her view summarized is that hot intercourse can lead to strong emotional feelings. When thinking of her view along with the observation made by the psychologist, that she needed many partners because of reactance, it occurred to me that perhaps her restrictions on you are more due to the way control manifests within her than jealousy or fear of losing you to a romantic rival. Both married men and women have emotional affairs where no sex is involved at all and many of those marriages end in divorce. As one woman put it, “I could deal with his fucking around on me but when I found out he thought he loved her, it was over.”

If it’s not too personal a question, I’d love to know what your take is. Is it reactance or is it fear that once you fuck another woman a few times you’ll get too far in over your head?
I once thought her mental process was complex about that but came to understand over time it's actually rather simple. We each know couples whose marital breakups came about following affairs. In truth, I wouldn't leave her for an A-list movie star under any circumstances, but her reasoning is that most men and women lack common sense when it comes to sex. Our one-time conversations over that issue usually turned funny - meaning humorous - when she didn't completely agree that she, and now her boss, are not the only two people on the planet who could have an ongoing sexual relationship and not fall in love. She knows literally that her conviction about that isn't universal, but that's perhaps her only unbending belief that facts won't change. I'm fine with that. I like it this way.

When I first encouraged her to have sex with other men, I wasn't out to trick her into allowing me the same sexual freedom and, like her, I'm pleased with things as they now are. It works for us but we know this wouldn't work for all couples. She has never expressed any concern that I might also follow the typical behavior of reactance. Even if I had sex with other women, the nature of my personality doesn't bend that way.
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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by curiouscouple122 » Sat Feb 22, 2020 7:30 am

Des 31 wrote:
Sat Feb 22, 2020 7:10 am

When I first encouraged her to have sex with other men, I wasn't out to trick her into allowing me the same sexual freedom and, like her, I'm pleased with things as they now are. It works for us but we know this wouldn't work for all couples. She has never expressed any concern that I might also follow the typical behavior of reactance.
I agree with you completely. I think every person is different with what they enjoy, what turns them on, and how they want to live their lives.

You and Gigi are so lucky to have found each other because you each are exactly what you both need from a SO. So many people marry someone who wants to be a hotwife, but the husband doesn't want that. So she may cheat and the husband is angry and it ends in divorce.

I think there are men who are perfect for a woman that has an inclination to be a hotwife and enjoy more than one man. It's unfortunate that society looks down on this kind of lifestyle because I think relationships overall, divorce rates and sexually unhappiness later in marriage would go down if people found the right person for them sexually. Of course its made harder by the fact that some people don't realize they need that different kind of person until later in life, after marriage. I was lucky in the fact that my wife after 16 years of marriage and being in our mid 40's has embraced the lifestyle with me and we love it and it has strengthened our marriage and our bond has never been closer.

Thanks Des for sharing your experiences. It really helps all of us understand that life isn't black and white, and there is so much to enjoy and live for beyond the cookie cutter monotony that society says we should do.

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by solstice » Sat Feb 22, 2020 8:02 am

Des writes:
We each know couples whose marital breakups came about following affairs.

Married couple having sex with others, are often walking an emotional tightrope, what can be considered an enjoyable sexual relationship can tip over into deep and uncontrollable love: I believe that Des and Gigi are an intelligent couple who express their feelings clearly and frequently to each other, and convey what each of them want in their marriage.

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by anonymister1948 » Sat Feb 22, 2020 9:17 am

She knows literally that her conviction about that isn't universal, but that's perhaps her only unbending belief that facts won't change.
Thanks for your thoughtful response! Emotions sometimes are completely devoid of facts. I know this first-hand when my wife asked me to listen in on a conversation with her sister who she was convinced was up to no good. I listened in and heard them trade pleasantries for about five minutes. After the call, she said, "Did you hear that? What a bitch!" She then went on to explain how her sister said this and that which didn't jibe at all with what I heard. :lol:

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