Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[solstice]

"don't ask-don't tell" attitudes.

I can only hope she will one day soon tell all to you and discover that it is sexually stimulating, and results in drawing you closer together.

[afagehi7]

"don't ask-don't tell" attitudes.

I can only hope she will one day soon tell all to you and discover that it is sexually stimulating, and results in drawing you closer together.

That's the whole point. Otherwise why go through all the hassle and emotional rollercoaster of hotwifing

[BallSpanking]

Any chance of a generic update to find out what's going on in sexy SW's head?

[slenderfish]

Good morning. I'll post an update sometime today.

[Whosbeensleeping]

Good morning. I'll post an update sometime today.

Much appreciated! Cheers.

[2inUPMichigan]

I read the last couple of updates quickly and it sounds like the two of you are doing that dance that a lot of couples find themselves doing as they attempt to find their groove (for a lack of a better description).

It isn't always an easy transition from monogamy to non-monogamy. Adding this new dynamic to a relationship can be awesome but it can also be stressful as you navigate those beginning stages and figure out exactly how each of you can feel most comfortable in your new roles. This is why it is so important to check in with each other and "tweak things" until you figure out what will work for both of you.

The ideas that you both went into this with may not be the way your journey together looks as it progresses, and that really is okay!

FYI - make sure to spend time as a couple away from the subject of hotwifing, just the two of you strengthening that bond that you will need to get you over the bumps in the road.

[slenderfish]

I read the last couple of updates quickly and it sounds like the two of you are doing that dance that a lot of couples find themselves doing as they attempt to find their groove (for a lack of a better description).

It isn't always an easy transition from monogamy to non-monogamy. Adding this new dynamic to a relationship can be awesome but it can also be stressful as you navigate those beginning stages and figure out exactly how each of you can feel most comfortable in your new roles. This is why it is so important to check in with each other and "tweak things" until you figure out what will work for both of you.

The ideas that you both went into this with may not be the way your journey together looks as it progresses, and that really is okay!

FYI - make sure to spend time as a couple away from the subject of hotwifing, just the two of you strengthening that bond that you will need to get you over the bumps in the road.

Thanks for the advice and (what I'll take as) encouragement. We've been living normal lives by and large since early December. As usual, Mr. S has dropped out of the picture in between encounters with Pinky. Given that there is nothing planned with them for the foreseeable calendar, we're back just being a married couple with the hotwife being in the background except when we do talk about it. It's been nice in some ways because the lack of pressure to resolve or revise right before an encounter. We can take it all very slowly right now.

[slenderfish]

Good morning. I'll post an update sometime today.

Much appreciated! Cheers.

Okay, so it's a day later. To be honest, I've been away skiing. Flew up to one ski resort area with one buddy Fri-Sun nights and then left for another ski trip to another major ski area (think Colorado or Utah) early Wed morning (skied Wed and today and will also tomorrow) and will return home late Friday night.

Pinky has been getting stir crazy with this Covid environment, and wants to take a trip "back home" when we can arrange it perhaps in late February. We are doing a birthday party for her on Feb 6. I've already noted that.

A week or so ago someone asked about any changes in Pinky since she became a hotwife. I overlooked one thing that has become even more apparent just this week. She has started to dress more provocatively when going to her personal training sessions.

To set the scenario: She has sessions twice a week, privates now, because where we live it's not permitted to have workout studios open as normal to customers. At this point in all the Covid situation, her trainer has agreed to take certain clients "private" which means that Pinky drives to the studio and parks around the corner (not in front of it) and she sends a text that she's arrived. Her trainer Mr. G unlocks the door and she slinks inside. This on Wed and Fri each week around noon. She also has special permission from Mr. G to go over there on Mondays around noon to use the treadmill while Mr. G is doing his own workout; that is, there is no other client present. His wife is never present any more.

So back to her dress. I've made it a point to have a look at Pinky to see what she is wearing either as she leaves, or as she returns, from the workouts. She generally has on some spandex workout-style pants (capri cut) and a sports bra/top and then a light pullover or similar. I always wonder if she takes off the pullover during her workout. I have to believe she does so.

On Friday as she was leaving for the noon workout, she asked me what time I was leaving to the airport and I told her 1:45. She said she wouldn't be back by the time I left so she gave me a goodbye kiss, etc. While she was away, my friend said he needed an extra hour (we were flying in his plane) so I just accepted the gift of the time and got more work done. Pinky came home around 2:15 and came in without any awareness that I was still there. I came out of my office and she was sitting in a chair eating lunch that she'd picked up. I caught an almost imperceptible adjustment in her body language when I came in and saw that she was not wearing the pullover. She had on a white sports top/bra without any under support. She was ever so carefully and subtly blocking my view of her nipples which were quite apparent through the top.

I moved my position in the room and she subtly adjusted her arms while she was eating and looking at my eyes to see where they were looking. Again, blocked the view of her top.

I didn't have the time or interest in going further with this and continued to explain to her the extra time needed by my buddy, etc. I finished getting my stuff together and got out of there at 2:45. I filed this behavior for future reference and analysis.

I'll add also that she did pick up over the Christmas period a lot of new workout items, including the spandex bottoms, which I have noticed and complimented her on, they are a bit thinner vs. what she generally wears and they show off her ass just a bit more. I had, some years ago, suggested to her that she stop wearing underwear under her sports spandex bottoms because of the lines that show, and encouraged her to buy and wear some that have more crease in the backside. These new ones are just like that, and yes, she no longer wears underwear. I've joked to her that she needs to be sure to keep her pussy shaved clean, lest someone see the profile of her pubic hair in the front of her spandex.

One of the newer ones stretches tight over her legs and ass, and forms a slight camel toe in front. When it stretches over her ass, it gets a bit more shear to the point that in certain lighting and angles, you can see her cheeks through the material.

I previously also suggested that she take her trainer to help her with her ongoing challenge of sore lower back due to hip imbalance, by assisting her with stretching on the floor. She said that he would never consider getting that close to her, that he's nothing but respectful. But that was then and this is now.

She let slip last week that he helps her with the hip situation by pulling her legs. I have to believe that can only happen when she is laying on the floor and he grips her ankles one or both at a time, and pulls long-wise. I'll have to ask her if helps her with any other stretches.

I promised myself to keep an eye on this and to perhaps look closer upon my return from skiing.

[superb101]

Curious if there is ANY chance of them being walked in on while at the studio?

[slenderfish]

Curious if there is ANY chance of them being walked in on while at the studio?

No, the door is locked and there are coverings on the windows to keep from being busted by county health people for operating against the rules.

I know this because we stopped by there to drop off a bottle of wine as her holiday gift to him, a few weeks ago. She had to send a text message once we arrived, and he was working out by himself that day, at that time (or perhaps that's his cover story in case anyone from the health department somehow looks in on him). We parked around the corner and then he quickly unlocked the door, invited us in, we presented him the wine and he showed me around for just a moment before we departed, and he locked the door behind us.

If I add her peculiar behavior last Friday on top of his unexpected and unannounced drop-in visit to our house a few Sundays ago (on his motorcycle, all decked out in his black leather riding outfit) it starts pulling more of my attention. Again, subtle and little things, but let's see if it becomes a pattern.

She knows I would love for her to start "a thing" with him and has consistently rejected and ruled that out.

[superb101]

She knows I would love for her to start "a thing" with him and has consistently rejected and ruled that out.
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Yeah, just like she consistently said nothing happened with Mr. B (I think is who that was?)

[afagehi7]

Curious if there is ANY chance of them being walked in on while at the studio?

No, the door is locked and there are coverings on the windows to keep from being busted by county health people for operating against the rules.

I know this because we stopped by there to drop off a bottle of wine as her holiday gift to him, a few weeks ago. She had to send a text message once we arrived, and he was working out by himself that day, at that time (or perhaps that's his cover story in case anyone from the health department somehow looks in on him). We parked around the corner and then he quickly unlocked the door, invited us in, we presented him the wine and he showed me around for just a moment before we departed, and he locked the door behind us.

If I add her peculiar behavior last Friday on top of his unexpected and unannounced drop-in visit to our house a few Sundays ago (on his motorcycle, all decked out in his black leather riding outfit) it starts pulling more of my attention. Again, subtle and little things, but let's see if it becomes a pattern.

She knows I would love for her to start "a thing" with him and has consistently rejected and ruled that out.

Don't start something new with a local until you have ironed out your boundaries and agreements.

[TheHammer]

Maybe shift gears a bit, buy a new dildo, blindfold her and use it on her playing the role of a stranger she just met. Handyman, poolboy, etc.

[BallSpanking]

Thx for the update, SF, it is very interesting.

HW husbands tend to look for meaning in their wives' behavior, hoping for the desired HW outcome, and sometimes read meaning into an innocuous circumstance. I don't think that is the case here.

You know how teenagers are completely different in the presence of their parents than they are away from it?
Well, you caught SW in a casual behavior she assumes when not in your presence. Flirty, somewhat defensive, and turned-on (judging by her pert nipples).

I think these are all worth noting as descriptive of her state of mind, or state of being, and her foray into new workout wear was likely done by extensive searching for the items that fulfilled her needs. Specifically. Not an accidental purchase.

Her increasing familiarity with her trainer and access to his facility, is as positive as the absence of his wife from the studio. Also positive that he is 'assisting' SW with her hip stretching, etc. That most likely places SW in a spread-eagle position, her trainer holding her legs open by the ankles/calves, etc. Not much imagination is needed to intuit what could develop from that scenario ...

Perhaps, as SW is shrewd, you might introduce a little fantasy play for her wherein, as a HW, she developed an 'intellectual curiosity' as to how it would be to be with a black man, etc., and develop a hot scenario from there wherein SW would be very thoroughly and happily seduced, fucked, and filled by a BBC.

You mentioned at some point how SW would only play along to the BBC scenario once she is really wet and about to climax. I suspect that, as a HW, her willingness to countenance such an experience could be a consideration in her new role as a sexy, independent HW.

SW would quickly fill in the blanks for herself in any such fantasy, and the wetness of her pussy will tell you whether such an event would turn her on. I think her willingness to experience that will be in evidence.

[Rockhard70]

After reading all of your posts I’m convinced there are things she keeps to herself and a lot of the things she’s kept from you that you’ve discovered along this journey are all very suspect. I think she enjoys the hwifing but also likes something for herself. You’ve caught her too many times in sketchy situations to think otherwise. Just my opinion but I’d bet money she’s been with Mr B and the trainer. Again, just my opinion. Always remember where there’s smoke there’s fire...

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Rockhard70.

[slenderfish]

I'm presently sitting at the airport lounge readying to board the flight home. I'll arrive after she's asleep.

She did have her regular training session with Mr. G today. I wonder if I might be able to discover what she wore today, giving that I wasn't there to see her on the way out or on the way home. Perhaps her outfit will be on top of her clothes hamper.

[8toplaywith]

Let us know what you find.

[superb101]

Those leggings might have a story to tell!

[slenderfish]

I gotta remind myself not to let my "hope" run amok against reality. But it's really fun to hope.

[solstice]

It is sad when you have to do your Sherlock Holmes impression, of examining the evidence, when in the long run you want the same thing, SW royally fucked, and a joyful account of the deed by your beautiful wife.

[2inUPMichigan]

HW husbands tend to look for meaning in their wives' behavior, hoping for the desired HW outcome, and sometimes read meaning into an innocuous circumstance.

This part of your post made me smile because it seems that many times readers look for those same outcomes and can sometimes read things that may not be there.

[2inUPMichigan]

FYI - it's not really that sexy of a situation having your hips out of alignment and can lead to a lot of pain.

Slenderfish - does your wife know the shotgun exercise? That can be very helpful and one that you can also help her with to correct alignment

[XYAlpha]

Curious if there is ANY chance of them being walked in on while at the studio?

No, the door is locked and there are coverings on the windows to keep from being busted by county health people for operating against the rules.

I know this because we stopped by there to drop off a bottle of wine as her holiday gift to him, a few weeks ago. She had to send a text message once we arrived, and he was working out by himself that day, at that time (or perhaps that's his cover story in case anyone from the health department somehow looks in on him). We parked around the corner and then he quickly unlocked the door, invited us in, we presented him the wine and he showed me around for just a moment before we departed, and he locked the door behind us.

If I add her peculiar behavior last Friday on top of his unexpected and unannounced drop-in visit to our house a few Sundays ago (on his motorcycle, all decked out in his black leather riding outfit) it starts pulling more of my attention. Again, subtle and little things, but let's see if it becomes a pattern.

She knows I would love for her to start "a thing" with him and has consistently rejected and ruled that out.

Don't start something new with a local until you have ironed out your boundaries and agreements.

[JeffBingham]

I'm presently sitting at the airport lounge readying to board the flight home. I'll arrive after she's asleep.

She did have her regular training session with Mr. G today. I wonder if I might be able to discover what she wore today, giving that I wasn't there to see her on the way out or on the way home. Perhaps her outfit will be on top of her clothes hamper.

Can't you review the video from your home security cameras?