Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

We absolutely love your lust for life! Or should I say Hotwife Life. You're an amazing couple.

Thanks friend. We think you guys are great too.

[Lookingforadventure]

We are on vacation for the week with my parents, my siblings, and my neices and nephews. It has been great family time with lots of laughing as the cousins find new ways to entertain themselves (who knew that so many things could be turned into competitions).

I had a date with G the day before we left. Adventurer keeps finding little ways to remind me about it. A whispered comment, or secret text. It makes me smile.

Plus, G has continued his tradition of texting me every morning so we can have coffee together. I've sent him a bikini pic or two (and one with the ladies no longer contained by the bikini), but so far he hasn't been tempted to take a road trip to sneak off into the woods with me

Truthfully, I'm feeling very blessed this week....family, vacation, the most wonderful husband, and a boyfriend to boot. Life is good.

[Long Lurker 34]

We are on vacation for the week with my parents, my siblings, and my neices and nephews. It has been great family time with lots of laughing as the cousins find new ways to entertain themselves (who knew that so many things could be turned into competitions).

I had a date with G the day before we left. Adventurer keeps finding little ways to remind me about it. A whispered comment, or secret text. It makes me smile.

Plus, G has continued his tradition of texting me every morning so we can have coffee together. I've sent him a bikini pic or two (and one with the ladies no longer contained by the bikini), but so far he hasn't been tempted to take a road trip to sneak off into the woods with me

Truthfully, I'm feeling very blessed this week....family, vacation, the most wonderful husband, and a boyfriend to boot. Life is good.

LFA - You are in the rockin' chair.

[Farmerj]

Mrs LFA you are an amazing woman, I am constantly amazed with your story and the love you have with your husband. I wish I could have had 1/10 of some of the love and lust of your wonderful marriage. Long Lurker is right, You are in the rocking chair right now!

[Lookingforadventure]

Mrs LFA you are an amazing woman, I am constantly amazed with your story and the love you have with your husband. I wish I could have had 1/10 of some of the love and lust of your wonderful marriage. Long Lurker is right, You are in the rocking chair right now!

Thank you Farmer J and Long Lurker.

[Lookingforadventure]

I'm in a mood. It is my husband's fault because he woke me up this morning by rolling over to my side of the bed, spooning against my naked body, and whispering in my ear, "Can I go down on you before you get up?" How is a girl to refuse such an offer?

When I did get up 20 or so minutes later, I had a healthy glow on my face and a spring in my step...but I'm also feeling a hot wife itch that I just need to scratch. G reached out to me to say good morning while I was sitting at the car dealer waiting for my car to get serviced. I smiled naughtily as I pictured him naked and the things he could do to service me if he was there.

Alas. Today is too busy of a day with too many other responsibilities.

Adventurer better be prepared for this evening....

[submissivehusband]

would love to hear more!

[Adventurer]

I'm in a mood. It is my husband's fault because he woke me up this morning by rolling over to my side of the bed, spooning against my naked body, and whispering in my ear, "Can I go down on you before you get up?" How is a girl to refuse such an offer?

When I did get up 20 or so minutes later, I had a healthy glow on my face and a spring in my step...but I'm also feeling a hot wife itch that I just need to scratch. G reached out to me to say good morning while I was sitting at the car dealer waiting for my car to get serviced. I smiled naughtily as I pictured him naked and the things he could do to service me if he was there.

Alas. Today is too busy of a day with too many other responsibilities.

Adventurer better be prepared for this evening....

You are awesome and I love when you get that hot wife itch

[Lookingforadventure]

You are awesome and I love when you get that hot wife itch

Excellent, because this particular hot wife is rather in love with you. I can't wait to let you know when the itch has been scratched (likely tomorrow).

[Swe_male]

You are awesome and I love when you get that hot wife itch

Excellent, because this particular hot wife is rather in love with you. I can't wait to let you know when the itch has been scratched (likely tomorrow).

I saw your post at the beginning when you were struggling on how to behave and how you guys would name this "things". Now at side 60 I read that you have a boyfriend as well. How long time from post one in this forum to the actual first meet with a new man? How did it go and how does you feel about that your husband is letting other men satisfy you?

[Long Lurker 34]

You are awesome and I love when you get that hot wife itch

Excellent, because this particular hot wife is rather in love with you. I can't wait to let you know when the itch has been scratched (likely tomorrow).

LFA + A - Love how you two bat endearing comments back and forth. There is hope for humanity yet.

[Lookingforadventure]

The itch has been scratched!

But not completely. More like a tiny rub that has just left me wanting more.

I met G this morning in our parking lot. It was raining, but we didn't let that stop us from kissing outside for several minutes. Then we ducked into his car for shelter.

Much kissing and groping ensued...and we also got caught up on each other's lives. We steamed up the windows, and i got a mouthful of cum, but we saved full intercourse for the future....we have a special plan for Wednesday!

[Mlv3]

Amazingly hot story lfa. Read all 60 pages just today and loved switching over to your corresponding pics as needed. Maybe I missed it, but I’m just craving to read in one of your recaps with g as he cums deeply inside you while looking directly into your eyes for him to lean in close to your blissful face and while gently stroking your cheek, state without guilt or remorse, “I love you,” immediately followed by you saying, “I love you, too,” back to him.

[Lookingforadventure]

Amazingly hot story lfa. Read all 60 pages just today and loved switching over to your corresponding pics as needed. Maybe I missed it, but I’m just craving to read in one of your recaps with g as he cums deeply inside you while looking directly into your eyes for him to lean in close to your blissful face and while gently stroking your cheek, state without guilt or remorse, “I love you,” immediately followed by you saying, “I love you, too,” back to him.

You didn't miss it. I haven't written about it

For some reason, saying "I love you" has been a big deal for me. It isn't an issue in other parts of life. I regularly say it to my kids, parents and spouse. I say it to friends and colleagues (not all of them, but some, especially when they are in need of encouragement). But saying it to another man that I am having sex with, seems to cross a line.

There was a time...maybe a year into my relationship with G...when, in the midst of particularly intimate sex, I told G that I adored him. He responded with, "thank you." LOL. It reminded me of Princess Leia being told, "I know" by Hans Solo.

Another time, G texted in a group chat and said something like, "that's one of the things I love about you.". Adventurer teased me about it, but I said that loving attributes is different than loving a person. Adventurer said that he still knows G loves me, and that I love him, and he thinks it is awesome.

Then there was the time that G said, in the middle of sex, "I do really love you, you know." I kissed him. I may have said "me too." LOL. He added something like, "in a totally appropriate way of course".

Post sex, we discussed it and I told him that I felt weird about the word. I wish there were more options in the English language because I do really care about him, but don't want to cross lines by using the same words that I use with Adventuter. He totally got it.

I think that might have been the day that we decided that boyfriend/girlfriend language was appropriate for us. He even officially asked (with a twinkle on his eye) "will you be my girlfriend?"

Since then, we've been a bit careful about it. We will say what we love about each other, or that we've missed each other, but haven't really used the L word.

Last week, though, during a particularly intimate moment, it did feel right to me. So, as our bodies were intertwined, I moaned in his ear, "I do really love you." He paused, smiled down at me, and said he loved me too.

Afterwards, when I filled Adventurer in, he was really glad. It really has been my hang-up, not his. Adventurer knows my love for him is entirely different than anything I would feel for someone else. He likes that I've found someone special that I can love in another way.

[Mlv3]

Amazingly hot story lfa. Read all 60 pages just today and loved switching over to your corresponding pics as needed. Maybe I missed it, but I’m just craving to read in one of your recaps with g as he cums deeply inside you while looking directly into your eyes for him to lean in close to your blissful face and while gently stroking your cheek, state without guilt or remorse, “I love you,” immediately followed by you saying, “I love you, too,” back to him.

You didn't miss it. I haven't written about it

For some reason, saying "I love you" has been a big deal for me. It isn't an issue in other parts of life. I regularly say it to my kids, parents and spouse. I say it to friends and colleagues (not all of them, but some, especially when they are in need of encouragement). But saying it to another man that I am having sex with, seems to cross a line.

There was a time...maybe a year into my relationship with G...when, in the midst of particularly intimate sex, I told G that I adored him. He responded with, "thank you." LOL. It reminded me of Princess Leia being told, "I know" by Hans Solo.

Another time, G texted in a group chat and said something like, "that's one of the things I love about you.". Adventurer teased me about it, but I said that loving attributes is different than loving a person. Adventurer said that he still knows G loves me, and that I love him, and he thinks it is awesome.

Then there was the time that G said, in the middle of sex, "I do really love you, you know." I kissed him. I may have said "me too." LOL. He added something like, "in a totally appropriate way of course".

Post sex, we discussed it and I told him that I felt weird about the word. I wish there were more options in the English language because I do really care about him, but don't want to cross lines by using the same words that I use with Adventuter. He totally got it.

I think that might have been the day that we decided that boyfriend/girlfriend language was appropriate for us. He even officially asked (with a twinkle on his eye) "will you be my girlfriend?"

Since then, we've been a bit careful about it. We will say what we love about each other, or that we've missed each other, but haven't really used the L word.

Last week, though, during a particularly intimate moment, it did feel right to me. So, as our bodies were intertwined, I moaned in his ear, "I do really love you." He paused, smiled down at me, and said he loved me too.

Afterwards, when I filled Adventurer in, he was really glad. It really has been my hang-up, not his. Adventurer knows my love for him is entirely different than anything I would feel for someone else. He likes that I've found someone special that I can love in another way.

So fucking hot! If I were your hubby, I’d have stayed hard for a week after hearing you admit this to me!

[Farmgirl]

Last week, though, during a particularly intimate moment, it did feel right to me. So, as our bodies were intertwined, I moaned in his ear, "I do really love you." He paused, smiled down at me, and said he loved me too.

Afterwards, when I filled Adventurer in, he was really glad. It really has been my hang-up, not his. Adventurer knows my love for him is entirely different than anything I would feel for someone else. He likes that I've found someone special that I can love in another way.

I truly LOVE this !!

We have such awesome husbands, they are happy that we are happy having a boyfriend that we love. These words of yours really made me smile .
Like you with G, I struggled with admitting I loved Allen, while my Number1 is happy about it and already knew it.

[Lookingforadventure]

I truly LOVE this !!

We have such awesome husbands, they are happy that we are happy having a boyfriend that we love. These words of yours really made me smile .
Like you with G, I struggled with admitting I loved Allen, while my Number1 is happy about it and already knew it.

Thank you. I agree. We have the BEST husbands. And our boyfriends are pretty great too

What I especially appreciated was that no one rushed me. G heard me when I said it was a limit, and he respected that. Adventurer knew before I did, and teased me about it, but let me go at my pace.

There are probably some hot wife lessons in there. All I know is that I'm a happy one.

[regular3]

Yes I got rather excited about your love post too.
I guess it sits in between a really close friend that you share everything with and a life partner who is your soul mate.
Your having a very intimate relationship with someone who will always be a friend but a quantum leap away from anything more than that, especially with your best husband in the world holding your hand.

[Long Lurker 34]

I truly LOVE this !!

We have such awesome husbands, they are happy that we are happy having a boyfriend that we love. These words of yours really made me smile .
Like you with G, I struggled with admitting I loved Allen, while my Number1 is happy about it and already knew it.

Thank you. I agree. We have the BEST husbands. And our boyfriends are pretty great too

What I especially appreciated was that no one rushed me. G heard me when I said it was a limit, and he respected that. Adventurer knew before I did, and teased me about it, but let me go at my pace.

There are probably some hot wife lessons in there. All I know is that I'm a happy one.

LFA - Continuing to amaze with the width and breadth of your life and mind. Just WOW!!
You are just so lucky to have two fantastic guys in A&G, as they are you. Bravo.
And we here reading of your life's adventures are too, extremely lucky for you sharing with us. Thank You.

[Lookingforadventure]

Yes I got rather excited about your love post too.
I guess it sits in between a really close friend that you share everything with and a life partner who is your soul mate.
Your having a very intimate relationship with someone who will always be a friend but a quantum leap away from anything more than that, especially with your best husband in the world holding your hand.

That's it exactly!

And I feel very blessed to be in such a great situation.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Continuing to amaze with the width and breadth of your life and mind. Just WOW!!
You are just so lucky to have two fantastic guys in A&G, as they are you. Bravo.
And we here reading of your life's adventures are too, extremely lucky for you sharing with us. Thank You.

Thanks Long Lurker. Sometimes I'm a bit hesitant to share about my inner wrestling. They seem too personal to put out there in the world. Plus, I recognize that other people have different approaches to the hot wife lifestyle. For many people, the idea of a wife saying "I love you" to someone who is not her husband, would cross the lines they have for their hot wife experiences. I get that, but don't necessarily want to be judged for my decisions.

With that said, whenever I do allow myself to post my thoughts, worries, inner struggles, and anxieties, the OHWs community has been really great. I think that

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Continuing to amaze with the width and breadth of your life and mind. Just WOW!!
You are just so lucky to have two fantastic guys in A&G, as they are you. Bravo.
And we here reading of your life's adventures are too, extremely lucky for you sharing with us. Thank You.

Thanks Long Lurker. Sometimes I'm a bit hesitant to share about my inner wrestling. They seem too personal to put out there in the world. Plus, I recognize that other people have different approaches to the hot wife lifestyle. For many people, the idea of a wife saying "I love you" to someone who is not her husband, would cross the lines they have for their hot wife experiences. I get that, but don't necessarily want to be judged for my decisions.

With that said, whenever I do allow myself to post my thoughts, worries, inner struggles, and anxieties, the OHWs community has been really great. I think that

LFA - I actually had something all written out and lost it as it timed out. Drat.
From my perspective you (or the three of you) seem to have good approach, that clearly must have gone through some evolution to get to where you are. Perhaps by sharing what you go through and how you resolve that inner dilemma (I understand writing it down can be helpful) can provide insight to others trying to work their way through the minefields of the lifestyle.
As for the ILU. Can't one say that with the understanding that it means different things depending on who you say it too and on circumstance? Children to parents and the reverse. Sibling to sibling. Friend to friend. Wife to husband. HW to Lover and reverse. Some of these to be sure can be tricky and there has to be an understanding of rank and standing and that even with the saying they don't all mean exactly the samething with the same priority.
And now I'm repeating myself.

[Lookingforadventure]

Last night was epic...at least in my opinion.

Adventurer and I have a sex club that we enjoy visiting in Toronto. I had it in my head that it would be fun to invite G to go there with us. Earlier this summer, we looked at calendars and invited him to attend with us on August 2 when the club was having a "hot wife/cuckold" theme night. I was grinning in anticipation for weeks.

In my mind, I'd walk in with both men. Introduce them as my husband and my boyfriend. Take turns kissing them. Walk off with one to go have some fun, then return and take the other for a spin.

We also talked about maybe pushing the cuckold dynamic a bit if that's what everyone was feeling. Maybe Adventurer could introduce G to others as my boyfriend, or watch G and I have sex as he told spectators how much I love fucking him.

Things didn't go exactly as planned, but sometimes reality is even better than the fantasy

Adventurer and I didn't leave for the city quite as early as we had hoped. Work and life just got in the way. Then Toronto traffic was an issue. We texted G that we'd probably be a bit late. We were going to grab a bite to eat and then head to the club. He said he'd meet us there...but then he popped by the restaurant to give me a quick kiss hello first. I didn't really think about it, but the vanilla folks in the room probably wondered what was up that I walked in with one man, then stood up to kiss another (quite passionately) when he arrived. Oh well. I don't know any of those people and being the center of someone's fun story for the evening is not something I mind.

G said that he'd meet us by the pool at the club. We arrived maybe 20 minutes later. There was a couple outside the doors that seemed to be waiting for someone, and I figured that they might be another triad coming for some fun on hot wife night (This proved to be true as we witnessed later in the pool). We said hello, went inside, paid our fee, left our clothes in the locker, and went outside to find G.

I am going to save other details for my next post...nice to savor them in small doses today.

[regular3]

You tease....

[Lookingforadventure]

You tease....

Guilty as charged

If you want a real tease, you can go to my Hotties thread and see the lingerie I wore for the occasion. It was a lavender corset top and matching thong panties. I wore them under a light summer sundress. In my mind, my husband, boyfriend, and I would arrive at the club together. While they waited at the bar to get drinks, I'd remove my dress and reveal the surprise underneath. I would then proceed to put on a little show with the stripper pole that is beside the bar. It has been two months since I last took a pole class, but I think I could have still demonstrated enough sexy moves to get everyone in the mood.

Alas, we were late. So G arrived first and went to the pool with his drink. When Adventurer and I arrived, we decided to strip down and just wear towels out to the pool as well (it is what most people do there). So the lingerie was shoved in a locker and didn't come out again until I left.

There are about 20 hook and eye clasps on that corset and I had a bit of an audience when I put it back on at the end of the evening. I think they enjoyed the overall effect once the lingerie was on, but it wasn't the same as my fantasy pole show. I guess I'll have to do that next time