Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

Awesome update LFA. Looking forward to your activities rest of the night and morning…

Thanks. There is plenty more to tell. I'll try to find some time to write later today.

[Lookingforadventure]

That was beautiful!

Aw. Thank you. I really, really loved my time away with G. I'm glad that is coming through. I know the sexy bits are appreciated by folks, but it is all the sweet, intimate, funny, caring things that I also love about it. It is important to me that that is communicated as well.

[Lookingforadventure]

After our "quickie", G and I got under the sheets for a bit of cuddle time. I am a huge fan of basking in the afterglow of great sex. I'm glad that he is too. We held each other for a bit. I gave him an anniversary card, and we also opened the card from Adventurer together. G took a photo of the two of us (I'm spooning him from behind, and we are both smiling at the camera) to send to Adventurer as a thank-you.

Then we discussed what we wanted to do for dinner. The room service menu was underwhelming. Google didn't reveal anything close by that really jumped out at us. Ultimately, we decided to get dressed, walk down the block and see what we could find.

I enjoyed holding G's hand as we walked through the hotel lobby. I liked how he'd pull me in for a quick kiss every time we had to wait to cross an intersection on the street. I laughed that he insisted on walking on the traffic side of me, because it was the "gentleman thing to do." I also liked that when we found a Japanese restaurant with a sample menu outside that I thought looked good, he agreed with my suggestion.

Our anniversary dinner was lovely, even if neither of us had actually planned the date in advance or put any special forethought into it. We had drinks (beer for him, a cocktail for me), good food, and excellent company. Sometimes we'd even hold hands across the table. I think that we probably looked like an old married couple to anyone who happened to look our way (although an old married couple that is very smitten with each other). I like that he's comfortable with public displays of affection, because they made the whole experience even better for me.

When the bill came, I was the first to make eye contact with the server and took the bill from her hand. G was a bit annoyed with me, but it is important to me that he doesn't feel like a sugar daddy that is being used for his money (and he had already paid for our room). I'm not looking for someone to spend lots of money on me. I'm looking for someone who wants to spend time with me. In any case, he eventually let me win this battle, but said that the rest of our expenses on our date would be on him. I could agree to those terms.

We held hands again as we walked back towards the hotel. (And he gently reprimanded me for being on the traffic side, and pulled me over so that I was "protected" once again). The original plan had been to visit a nearby sex club. Adventurer and I have been there a few times, and once I had gone with both Adventurer and G, but G and I have never been there with just the two of us. We had talked about making use of the sex swing, and I was maybe going to show him my pole dancing moves on the stripper pole. As we walked, however, we both agreed that we'd rather just go back to the hotel and spend time together.

So that's what we did

[Long Lurker 34]

After our "quickie", G and I got under the sheets for a bit of cuddle time. I am a huge fan of basking in the afterglow of great sex. I'm glad that he is too. We held each other for a bit. I gave him an anniversary card, and we also opened the card from Adventurer together. G took a photo of the two of us (I'm spooning him from behind, and we are both smiling at the camera) to send to Adventurer as a thank-you.

Then we discussed what we wanted to do for dinner. The room service menu was underwhelming. Google didn't reveal anything close by that really jumped out at us. Ultimately, we decided to get dressed, walk down the block and see what we could find.

I enjoyed holding G's hand as we walked through the hotel lobby. I liked how he'd pull me in for a quick kiss every time we had to wait to cross an intersection on the street. I laughed that he insisted on walking on the traffic side of me, because it was the "gentleman thing to do." I also liked that when we found a Japanese restaurant with a sample menu outside that I thought looked good, he agreed with my suggestion.

Our anniversary dinner was lovely, even if neither of us had actually planned the date in advance or put any special forethought into it. We had drinks (beer for him, a cocktail for me), good food, and excellent company. Sometimes we'd even hold hands across the table. I think that we probably looked like an old married couple to anyone who happened to look our way (although an old married couple that is very smitten with each other). I like that he's comfortable with public displays of affection, because they made the whole experience even better for me.

When the bill came, I was the first to make eye contact with the server and took the bill from her hand. G was a bit annoyed with me, but it is important to me that he doesn't feel like a sugar daddy that is being used for his money (and he had already paid for our room). I'm not looking for someone to spend lots of money on me. I'm looking for someone who wants to spend time with me. In any case, he eventually let me win this battle, but said that the rest of our expenses on our date would be on him. I could agree to those terms.

We held hands again as we walked back towards the hotel. (And he gently reprimanded me for being on the traffic side, and pulled me over so that I was "protected" once again). The original plan had been to visit a nearby sex club. Adventurer and I have been there a few times, and once I had gone with both Adventurer and G, but G and I have never been there with just the two of us. We had talked about making use of the sex swing, and I was maybe going to show him my pole dancing moves on the stripper pole. As we walked, however, we both agreed that we'd rather just go back to the hotel and spend time together.

So that's what we did

LFA - Very appropriate. After all even if unconventional, you and G are a couple, care and have feelings for one another. So PDA's are understood and it's awesome YOU allow them.
- Ah yes, the stripper pole. Hope you keeping up with practice and lessons.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Another lovely update. Thank you for sharing the details that make everything so special.
I get a chuckle when I read the parts about G being on the traffic side of the sidewalk because I do the exact same thing with Mrs Curious. I think she rolls her eyes most of the time, but it's just how I was raised.

[Seekingmore12]

Another lovely update. Thank you for sharing the details that make everything so special.
I get a chuckle when I read the parts about G being on the traffic side of the sidewalk because I do the exact same thing with Mrs Curious. I think she rolls her eyes most of the time, but it's just how I was raised.

Me too…..

[venus-can99]

Another lovely update. Thank you for sharing the details that make everything so special.
I get a chuckle when I read the parts about G being on the traffic side of the sidewalk because I do the exact same thing with Mrs Curious. I think she rolls her eyes most of the time, but it's just how I was raised.

Me too…..

Aw. That’s so sweet G

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Very appropriate. After all even if unconventional, you and G are a couple, care and have feelings for one another. So PDA's are understood and it's awesome YOU allow them.
- Ah yes, the stripper pole. Hope you keeping up with practice and lessons.

Thanks LongLurker. I took a break from pole dancing over the summer but signed up again for an 8 week stint this fall. It is fun to be back. I even bought some stripper shoes. They have taken some practice to be able to walk in.

[Lookingforadventure]

Another lovely update. Thank you for sharing the details that make everything so special.
I get a chuckle when I read the parts about G being on the traffic side of the sidewalk because I do the exact same thing with Mrs Curious. I think she rolls her eyes most of the time, but it's just how I was raised.

Thanks friend. I love that you found it special, and I love that you do the same thing for your beautiful wife. The funny thing was, when I saw this post from you, I was going to respond, "that's exactly what he says!". But then I saw that he said it for himself. LOL.

[Lookingforadventure]

Aw. That’s so sweet G

I think so too

[Her number1]

Another lovely update. Thank you for sharing the details that make everything so special.
I get a chuckle when I read the parts about G being on the traffic side of the sidewalk because I do the exact same thing with Mrs Curious. I think she rolls her eyes most of the time, but it's just how I was raised.

Me too…..

I'll have to join in with you guys on this, manners I was raised with.

[afagehi7]

Another lovely update. Thank you for sharing the details that make everything so special.
I get a chuckle when I read the parts about G being on the traffic side of the sidewalk because I do the exact same thing with Mrs Curious. I think she rolls her eyes most of the time, but it's just how I was raised.

Me too…..

I'll have to join in with you guys on this, manners I was raised with.

I heard an interesting take on this that it's actually supposed to be reversed with men on the inside closest to the buildings because back in the day people in cities tossed dirty water and trash out of the window... But another says it is to protect women from splashes from carriages so it should be on the outside. I always thought it was in case a car were to jump the curb.

I never knew this has handkerchiefs were before my time but supposedly the handkerchief is not for the men but they kept one in case a lady needed it.

[Lookingforadventure]

I'll have to join in with you guys on this, manners I was raised with.

I find it sweet.

How I was raised was the graciously accept acts of kindness when they are offered, and to also offer them in return. I would never feel it is sexist for someone to hold a door for me, give up their seat, let me go first, etc. I will always accept it in the spirit in which it was intended and say thank you. But I am also independent enough that I would never expect it.

When my dad would hold a door for me, and say, "ladies first," I'd thank them. Then I'd get the next door and hold it for him and say, "age before beauty." It always made him laugh...but he'd accept that as well

[Lookingforadventure]

I heard an interesting take on this that it's actually supposed to be reversed with men on the inside closest to the buildings because back in the day people in cities tossed dirty water and trash out of the window... But another says it is to protect women from splashes from carriages so it should be on the outside. I always thought it was in case a car were to jump the curb.

I never knew this has handkerchiefs were before my time but supposedly the handkerchief is not for the men but they kept one in case a lady needed it.

Fortunately, no dirty water or trash was tossed during our walk, and no carriage splashes either. At one point, the sidewalk was quite large and I told G that someone would have to be deliberately TRYING to hop the curb and hit me for his protection to be necessary...but I still let him walk roadside.

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Very appropriate. After all even if unconventional, you and G are a couple, care and have feelings for one another. So PDA's are understood and it's awesome YOU allow them.
- Ah yes, the stripper pole. Hope you keeping up with practice and lessons.

Thanks LongLurker. I took a break from pole dancing over the summer but signed up again for an 8 week stint this fall. It is fun to be back. I even bought some stripper shoes. They have taken some practice to be able to walk in.

LFA - Oh that's worthy of a picture. On your feet of course. And how does A like them?

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Oh that's worthy of a picture. On your feet of course. And how does A like them?

I'll see what I can do. I have a little pole dance outfit too that might be worth sharing. Let me think about it.

[Lookingforadventure]

After returning to the hotel room, we got back into bed. In fact, the rest of the evening was spent there.

I could pretend that we brought a bottle of wine and sat and sipped it on the couch, or that we watched a movie together on the hotel TV, lol, but the truth is that we spent a good 3 1/2 or 4 hours playing and talking under the sheets.

I had given G a cheesy Valentine's day gift back in February, with 52 sexy coupons for him to redeem. He had brought them with him, and I made him select a couple that he wanted to pursue. One was "sex position of your choice." He picked me on top...so I obliged. I recall taking him in my mouth first to make sure that he was really hard (it also gave me an opportunity to make a short blow job video to send to Adventurer). Then I climbed on top and enjoyed myself.

Another coupon involved "explore your fantasy". We talked about that one as he was recovering from his first orgasm of the evening. The fantasies he shared weren't ones we could do that night, but they are locked away in my brain and I will make sure they happen one day.

We spent a fair bit of time cuddling and talking. It is one of the things that I really enjoy about overnight dates with G. There is no rush to be anywhere else. We can just enjoy each other's company.

I can also report that he told me the reason that he pulled out and came on my stomach when we had our "quickie" before dinner, was that he wanted to spend some time going down on me when we got back to the hotel.

And he did.

I in no way want to imply that he has not been a generous lover in that department in the past, because he has, but on this particular date I think he performed more oral sex on me than usual. I will say this delicately because I don't want it to sound critical, but I am quite spoiled in that department.

Adventurer knows my body extremely well and uses his knowledge to my advantage. No one else has come close to orally pleasing me in the same way. Other people have gone down on me, and I like it -- it feels good, I enjoy it, I orgasm -- but it isn't the wow type of orgasm that Adventurer knows how to bring about. Even with G, my mind blowing sex has been more about piv (and sometimes his magic fingers) and not necessarily his tongue (which was always good, but not Adventurer good).

However, on this date I found myself thinking, "Wow. You can tell its been three years. He's becoming quite the expert down there".

It was probably around 11:30 when we were both lying in bed and started to drift off after several rounds of sex, that I texted Adventurer to wish him a good night. It had been an amazing evening...and when we woke up the next morning it would be the official three-year anniversary of the day that Adventurer and I met G in a park. Three years since I first kissed a man (after I was married) who wasn't my husband. And three years since I gave that man a blow job. It is crazy to think about how much has happened since then.

[regular3]

Well happy anniversary to you two love birds and to Adventurer for making it all happen.

[Lookingforadventure]

Well happy anniversary to you two love birds and to Adventurer for making it all happen.

Thank you Regular3.

[Lookingforadventure]

One last report from my overnight date with G. Then I'll move on to something new (there have been a few rendezvous since then).

I tend to be a morning person and I woke up in the hotel before G. I quietly slipped out of bed, trying not to wake him. I went to the bathroom, brushed my teeth (to try to avoid morning breath), splashed some water on my face, then tiptoed back to bed. He was still sound asleep. I enjoyed watching him for a bit.

Then, I grabbed my phone and made sure it was on night mode so that it wouldn't be too bright. I texted my kids (who thought I was on a business trip) to wish them well on their school day. Then I texted Adventurer before he went to work. I filled him on on the highlights of the previous evening. He enjoyed the details and told me how much he loved me and how he couldn't wait until I got home. When it was time for him to go shower and get to the office, I told him to have a good day and added, "I'm going to slide my hand under the sheets and see if I can rouse G."

G did rouse He put his arm around me and pulled me close as he adjusted to the day. I was tracing his body with my fingers and playing gently with his cock, but nothing too aggressive...afterall, I had worn the poor man out the night before. I didn't want to jump him before he was fully awayke! He asked me how I slept and said that it must still be early since our room was so dark. I pointed out that it was already almost 8:30. LOL.

He told me that he had been up at 5 with a large "tent" under the sheets, but he didn't want to wake me. I told him that I had woken up around 6:30 and had been texting home. It was a funny little moment, knowing each had tried to let the other sleep, and had also enjoyed a few minutes of watching the other while dosing.

I told him that I was going to go take a shower. "You can join me if you want to," I added with a smile. Guess what? He wanted to

There is something about steamy, hot showers with lots of soapy bubbles that just do it for me. We enjoyed cleaning each other and pleasuring each other, but eventually had to call it quits because the free continental breakfast ended at 9:30 and I wanted fuel for our next round in bed.

Breakfast was lovely. It was mostly businessmen in the hotel restaurant. In fact, I think that I may have been the only woman there (other than staff). It was nice to sit and have coffee with G in person, rather than our usual text over coffee in the mornings. I also enjoyed holding his hand across the table and talking about what we wanted to do before it was time to go home. He said that what he most wanted to do was get me back up to our room. I agreed that was a great idea.

What followed was maybe my favorite time of us having sex...or at least it is way up there (and there is a LOT of competition). When we got to the room, we each undressed ourselves and got back under the sheets. We kissed and touched each other, and he lifted the cover so that he could slide down between my legs. I lay back and enjoyed the way his tongue explored me. It was kind of perfect.

After I came, he crawled up my body and positioned himself between my legs. He smiled at me as his cock slid inside. At first, it was a regular missionary position, but then he shifted a bit so that his weight was on his arm to the right of me. He also lifted my left leg so that he could push in deeper. In this modified missionary position, I could look into his eyes, kiss him, run my fingers over his back...but he was also very deep, and his cock kept massaging and pushing against my g-spot in the most amazing way. He shot his load deep inside me and I knew that Adventurer would enjoy discovering it later.

G collapsed on top of me (well, a bit to the side) and I held him tightly because I didn't want him to leave just yet. He kissed my cheek and my neck, as I stroked his back. I told him that it had been amazing.

Eventually, his cock slipped out and he rolled over to be beside me. Then, we lingered in bed until housekeeping came to kick us out. LOL. (OK. In fairness, we did notice the time and had already gotten up, gotten dressed, and started packing by the time housekeeping knocked...but it was 20 minutes past checkout time).

We left our bags at the front desk and went for a lovely Fall walk through Toronto. We stopped for lunch at a sports bar (this time, G insisted on paying), and then decided that it was probably time to call it a day. Neither of us had ever used the new UP express train in Toronto (it goes from Union Station to the airport), and thought it might be fun to try.

We picked up our bags from the front desk, took the subway to union station (and had our first kiss in a subway station, and our first kiss on a subway), and got on the UP train. We then also had our first kiss on a train! I'm pretty sure people thought we were too lovey-dovey for a random work day, but I loved it.

From the airport, we each caught our own cabs home.

Altogether, it was a 10 out of 10 experience that I'd happily do again...maybe every year on our anniversary

Oh, and my homecoming was rather epic too!

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the wonderful update LFA. In your posts what I love most is how you describe just the mundane stuff between you a no G. I think that gives the reader a good picture of the relationship that you and G have along with Adventurer.

[Trickydicky69]

You have such a great arrangement, inspiring!

[Lookingforadventure]

Thanks for the wonderful update LFA. In your posts what I love most is how you describe just the mundane stuff between you a no G. I think that gives the reader a good picture of the relationship that you and G have along with Adventurer.

Thank you Venus. I know that there are lots of approaches to the lifestyle out there. My particular approach happens to love those non-sex, couple moments. It is important to me that I share them here.

[Lookingforadventure]

You have such a great arrangement, inspiring!

Thank you. I think it is pretty great too.

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks for the wonderful update LFA. In your posts what I love most is how you describe just the mundane stuff between you a no G. I think that gives the reader a good picture of the relationship that you and G have along with Adventurer.

Thank you Venus. I know that there are lots of approaches to the lifestyle out there. My particular approach happens to love those non-sex, couple moments. It is important to me that I share them here.

LFA -