Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

What a great way to spend a (threesome) Thursday afternoon
As they say “practice makes perfect “ so I hope the three of you take it to heart and practice practice practice

Me too

[Lookingforadventure]

Just so nice to read about your two men who love, adore and respect you.

Thank you. And your post made me smile. I like thinking about being loved, adored, and respected.

[Lookingforadventure]

I don't feel like working today, so maybe I'll post a couple of thoughts here instead

1. Thought 1 - When I wrote up my summary of my latest threesome with G and Adventurer, I neglected to comment on how it ended. It is interesting to me because G and Adventurer are very different lovers. They are both generous and both focus a lot on my pleasure, so I approve of both styles G has amazing recovery abilities and is able to be ready to fuck again, only a few minutes after he cums. As a result, he is more likely to fuck me hard and fast (after he's ensured my orgasms first). The very first time during our threesome, he came on my face at my request. Adventurer has a very nice photo of my smiling, cum-covered face (no, we will not post it). The other times he came in my pussy. I love the feel of him pulsing there as he unloads. Adventurer prefers to edge himself during love-making so that he only cums once. When we sometime splay for 3 hours, this means a long workout for his cock!! He fucks me slowly and deeply, and I love being in sync with him and knowing when he's getting close. He also uses fingers, tongue and toys if he needs a break. I have zero complaints and love the variety of sex that I get with my men.

At the end of our threesome, G was on one bed recovering from his recent orgasm. Adventurer was with me on the other bed. He had been playing with my pussy using his fingers and then he slid down so that he could make me cum with his tongue. He took his time and it was a very slow build to a full-body orgasm. Then he climbed up between my legs and slid inside me missionary style. My legs wrapped around him, my hands stroked his back. He kissed me and looked into my eyes as he slowly stroked in and out of me. I told him I loved him. He said he loved me too. It was very vanilla (in the way that the very best flavor in the world is vanilla) sex between a husband and wife, and I loved it.

I'm not sure if G was watching from the other bed, or if he turned away to give us privacy. In that moment, it was just Adventurer and I. It was the perfect way to end the afternoon.


Thought 2 will have to wait. I'm enjoying thought 1 too much to write more now

[venus-can99]

That's a beautiful thought LFA - lucky to find 2 people who love and respect you whole-heartedly. Cant wait to read about Thought 2...

[snoogaloo82]

Hi everyone. My husband and I are new to "the lifestyle", but I also hesitate to use that term. We are still dabbling to figure out exactly what each of us is interested in exploring and how we want to move forward with that. I think he'd consider himself a stag, but also enjoys a cuckold fantasy. I lean more towards vixen/hotwife than anything that involves humiliation for him. With that said, I do enjoy a good role play now and then

Either way, we are in this together and appreciate having a forum like this to ask our questions and chat with others who have similar interests.

I wholeheartedly agree! It is wonderful to be able to have a place to be able to talk about these things!!

[Lookingforadventure]

That's a beautiful thought LFA - lucky to find 2 people who love and respect you whole-heartedly. Cant wait to read about Thought 2...

Thank you. I feel lucky!

[Lookingforadventure]

Thought #2 - My husband likes to tease me that I'm addicted to G. I am happy to agree that he has a point

In theory, G and I meet each other "once a month" for a during-the-day date at a hotel. I say "in theory" because while we do have those amazing times together, it seems that four weeks between them is too long for both of us.

G lives about 40 minutes away from me, so it isn't like we can run into each other in our every day lives. But it also seems that for almost every month of 2023, we've come up with some reason to see each other in between our official dates

Sometimes we meet at our car pool lot for a quick kiss (and sometimes more). Sometimes he'll have a meeting out my way and will mention that he'll stop by the park where we first met, if I have time to meet him (and I almost always make the time). Lately, he's been running errands one day a week...that happens to be the day that I go into my office, and the errands happen to take him nearby, so I'll pop out and meet him.

This happened a couple of weeks ago. He said that he'd be doing errands near my office around 10. I said that I'd meet him at a nearby rec center parking lot. When I pulled up, he was already there. I couldn't help but smile.

I got out of my car and met him outside of his. We kissed. He hadn't shaved and his face had a couple days of scruff. I stroked it as I looked in his eyes and said it was good to see him. We chatted and kissed for a bit, but it was a bit chilly and windy that day, and I was in a short skirt, so it wasn't for long.

I made some sort of flirty comment and he said, "careful, or I'll invite you into my car to make you follow through." And I said that I'd love to be in his car

I sat on the passenger side and he got behind the wheel. The seat warmers had been on, so it was nice and cozy. We kissed a bit, and I started to stroke him. I gave him a devilish smile.

When I told the story to Adventurer later, I said, "I think I may have been a big aggressive. I certainly hope he consented!"

G assured me when I asked later, that he gives me blanket consent any time, anywhere I just know that within a few minutes, I had his cock out of his pants and in my mouth.

I can also report that I went back to my office a few minutes later with the taste of my boyfriend's cum on my tongue. It made the rest of the work day SOOOOO much better.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thought 3: This thought has captured my mind a lot today, because it happened yesterday

I was at the office and G told me that he and Brian (the friend he visits in Florida, and that I got to meet last March) were going to go to a golf simulator near the highway that afternoon. G asked if I wanted to stop by on my way home and say hello. I certainly did!

When I walked in, I gave Brian a hug. It was nice to see him again. I gave G a quick kiss, and I watched each of them play for awhile. Whenever it was Brian's turn, G would walk over to me and put his hand on my waist (or squeeze my butt). Sometimes he'd sneak in a kiss before he had to go back for his next swing. It was funny.

I probably only stayed for about 10 minutes, then said that I should continue my commute home. I had dinner to make, needed to talk to the kids about their day, get to the gym after dinner, etc. Brian said it was nice to see me and that I should come back to Florida next March. G said he'd walk me to my car.

He gave me a very sexy kiss in the parking lot.

5 minutes later, I got a text while driving. " That's how I'm feeling," G wrote.

The kiss....and his smiling about it afterwards...have had me smiling all day.

[Farmgirl]

I love your three "thoughts"! They made me smile and flush a little .

[regular3]

Perfect example of the perfect hotwife life.
I really can't remember the details but what is Brian's knowledge of your and G's arrangement?

[Lookingforadventure]

I love your three "thoughts"! They made me smile and flush a little .

Thanks friend. I enjoyed thinking them...and, between you and I, they also sparked a little "alone time" for me yesterday. What else is a hot wife to do when her boyfriend is far away and her husband is at work?

[Lookingforadventure]

Perfect example of the perfect hotwife life.
I really can't remember the details but what is Brian's knowledge of your and G's arrangement?

Thank you. Brian is G's good friend. He knows that I'm married and that G is my boyfriend (and has been for 3 years). He hasn't met Adventurer, but I've talked about him around Brian. Brian knows that I'm madly in love with my husband and that my hot wife activities are not me cheating. I'm not sure if Brian totally understands why Adventurer would enjoy this arrangement, but he hasn't been judgmental about it. And I think he thinks I'm good for G, or at least that I make him happy when we are together.

[snoogaloo82]

Perfect example of the perfect hotwife life.
I really can't remember the details but what is Brian's knowledge of your and G's arrangement?

Thank you. Brian is G's good friend. He knows that I'm married and that G is my boyfriend (and has been for 3 years). He hasn't met Adventurer, but I've talked about him around Brian. Brian knows that I'm madly in love with my husband and that my hot wife activities are not me cheating. I'm not sure if Brian totally understands why Adventurer would enjoy this arrangement, but he hasn't been judgmental about it. And I think he thinks I'm good for G, or at least that I make him happy when we are together.

As long as you're happy that is what counts most

[venus-can99]

I probably only stayed for about 10 minutes, then said that I should continue my commute home. I had dinner to make, needed to talk to the kids about their day, get to the gym after dinner, etc.

I think this is one of the cutest updates - captures the perfect hotwife moment - you meet your boyfriend for a few minutes, get lots of affection and then back to the family.

Love how you share this moments with us...

[Lookingforadventure]

As long as you're happy that is what counts most

Thank you

[Lookingforadventure]

I think this is one of the cutest updates - captures the perfect hotwife moment - you meet your boyfriend for a few minutes, get lots of affection and then back to the family.

Love how you share this moments with us...

Thank you. I don't want to sound like I'm using G in any way, but there is also a bit of a dopamine rush from these little encounters. Even if it is just a five minute visit, I end up coming home smiling like a giddy school girl. It is one of the best hot wife feelings.

[snoogaloo82]

As long as you're happy that is what counts most

Thank you

You're very welcome!
I hope everything's going good for you!

[Seekingmore12]

Perfect example of the perfect hotwife life.
I really can't remember the details but what is Brian's knowledge of your and G's arrangement?

Thank you. Brian is G's good friend. He knows that I'm married and that G is my boyfriend (and has been for 3 years). He hasn't met Adventurer, but I've talked about him around Brian. Brian knows that I'm madly in love with my husband and that my hot wife activities are not me cheating. I'm not sure if Brian totally understands why Adventurer would enjoy this arrangement, but he hasn't been judgmental about it. And I think he thinks I'm good for G, or at least that I make him happy when we are together.

Brian knows and thinks you are good ( amazingly ) for me….and so do I each and everyday !

G

[snoogaloo82]

Perfect example of the perfect hotwife life.
I really can't remember the details but what is Brian's knowledge of your and G's arrangement?

Thank you. Brian is G's good friend. He knows that I'm married and that G is my boyfriend (and has been for 3 years). He hasn't met Adventurer, but I've talked about him around Brian. Brian knows that I'm madly in love with my husband and that my hot wife activities are not me cheating. I'm not sure if Brian totally understands why Adventurer would enjoy this arrangement, but he hasn't been judgmental about it. And I think he thinks I'm good for G, or at least that I make him happy when we are together.

Brian knows and thinks you are good ( amazingly ) for me….and so do I each and everyday !

G

a big thumbs up from me, too!

[Lookingforadventure]

Brian knows and thinks you are good ( amazingly ) for me….and so do I each and everyday !

G

XOXO

Also, if I'm so good for you, you might need another dose soon. Doctor's orders

[snoogaloo82]

Brian knows and thinks you are good ( amazingly ) for me….and so do I each and everyday !

G

XOXO

Also, if I'm so good for you, you might need another dose soon. Doctor's orders

Must be a very intelligent doctor! lol

[Trickydicky69]

They were lovely updates, romantic but hot too. Such a great relationship you all have.

[Lookingforadventure]

They were lovely updates, romantic but hot too. Such a great relationship you all have.

Thank you. I think so too. Although right now I'm in a less romantic, more "rip my clothes off and fuck me" mood. I wonder if I can convince them

[snoogaloo82]

They were lovely updates, romantic but hot too. Such a great relationship you all have.

Thank you. I think so too. Although right now I'm in a less romantic, more "rip my clothes off and fuck me" mood. I wonder if I can convince them

I love your way with words!!

[Trickydicky69]

I don’t think they’ll need any convincing!