Jane' adventure

[Arctus]

My husband and i have been talking during the past week about cuckold type situations. I still don't really know what to make of that stuff. It seems to turn us both on , at least a little, but it really isn't in our background, so we're approaching it slowly.

Jane: This is the very first time I have written anything on "ourhotwives.org." I have read your "adventure" and have enjoyed it a lot. My partner and I are moving forward, step by step, toward her pursuing some hotwife exploration. I am curious about your comment regarding "...cuckold type situations." I have read what you have done so far and am wondering what you and your husband are talking about with regard to "...cuckold type situations." What specific new activities or involvements would you two pursue in that regard?

Thanks for responding. And thanks for sharing your adventures.

Arctus

[Janes Husband]

I guess Jane will get into that in her next post. Maybe i should now, but i'm watching the kids. Jane left about a half hour ago on a date, so i'm waiting with trepadation.

[Arctus]

I guess Jane will get into that in her next post. Maybe i should now, but i'm watching the kids. Jane left about a half hour ago on a date, so i'm waiting with trepadation.

Being a parent, I understand your need to focus on the kids. But, I am especially interested in your views given that I am the male in a couple who is inching forward toward territory you are now traversing. What is your "trepadation" about? Are you struggling with fears that nothing will happen or perhaps that Janes will return with too many stars in her eyes following an intense tryst? Just curious about your experience and am very curious what activities in the "cuckold" vein you two wish to explore. Jane might enjoy reading what you have to say

In any case, thank you for responding to my post and I would sincerely appreciate your answer and Jane's perspective as well. And, by the way, Jane's photo is extremely hot. You're a lucky guy to be married to such a hottie and she's a lucky woman to have an encouraging partner who is open to her exploring her sexuality with other men. I presume you are enjoying the erotic energy generated from her explorations. On the other hand, perhaps you desire to be deprived from sexual access to Jane as part of your "cuckold" fantasy that you two are exploring. I remain curious and would enjoy each of your thoughts about what "cuckold" activities you fantasize pursuing in your relationship.

Arctus

[Janes Husband]

As to her date tonight, i don't expect it to be that hot. She went to a concert. She was not planning to do anything of a sexual nature. I'm not entirely sure he knows she's a hotwife at this point.
As to cuckolding, we've just started talking about it in the past week or so. She's told me some of her fantasies, we've talked about denial or chastity devices. That's real new to me, and not something i'm sure i want. But for Jane, maybe i will try. I started her in this , mostly, but it's going in directions i didn't foresee.

[Arctus]

Interesting. I too can take credit for introducing my partner to "external boundary pushing." We have read extensively and have had many discussions, shared many fantasies, etc. We are not entirely clear which path
we will take forward. We are thinking about visiting a couple's lifestyle club (e.g., New Horizons in the Seattle area). But truth be told, at present I find the idea of her being with a male Third more arousing than me being with another female. I like the idea of watching her during a tryst, maybe even holding her hand while she is pleasured to and through orgasm by a dominant male. She has a very clear submissive streak in her erotic personality but also has been exploring some dominant tendencies more recently. Who knows where this will lead. I have had ample experiences with various female partners over the years. I don't feel any need to push that boundary further. I like the "hotwife" fantasy, although it is always tough to know how one will actually feel when fantasy steps across the line and becomes reality.

Do you have any regrets about introduced Jane to these ideas? I think one of the things we must all recognize is that we never control another. And, when we allow our females partners the freedom to roam, the relationship rewards can be significant... or so it would seem. From what I have read, Jane is enjoying exploring but she also loves you deeply. That seems to be clear from what she has written.

[Arctus]

Jane: My apologies if I have asked too many questions or made too many comments on your "adventure" thread. I have enjoyed reading everything you (and your husband) have written. I am new to OWH and have just been reading but felt brave and decided to post my question to you about "cuckold" activities you have been discussing with your husband. Anyway, your adventures are interesting. Thank you for sharing. And, the photo of you is very hot . I hope I was not inappropriate by asking the questions I asked.

[Janes Husband]

Do i have any regrets about bringing this up to jane? From time to time. Mostly no. Jane has been great about it. I've never felt neglected, even at times when she was very much into someone else. I will tell you guys out there that want this for your wife, that it's not a game, and it'll never play out exactly as you might think.

[legs11]

I'd luv to see a bigger version of Janes avatar picture

[jane]

So i went on a date saturday night. The man took me to a concert, and it was really nice. He treated me like a lady. He wasn't as flirtatious as he usually seems, but we got to know each other a little. Not enough i'd say. He gave me a few quick kisses at the door. Monday he sent me some white carnations. Really pretty. Today he has asked me to lunch, so i'm going, and hopefully i can lay everything out clear as far as hotwifing.

[Aynsley]

So i went on a date saturday night. The man took me to a concert, and it was really nice. He treated me like a lady. He wasn't as flirtatious as he usually seems, but we got to know each other a little. Not enough i'd say. He gave me a few quick kisses at the door. Monday he sent me some white carnations. Really pretty. Today he has asked me to lunch, so i'm going, and hopefully i can lay everything out clear as far as hotwifing.

Cool!
Sounds like a great start!

[panzer969]

Hello!
What a great thread this is! Arctus, I too fell under the spell of Jane's avatar when I first discovered OHW. Legs11, I'm sure you're not the only one who would love to see it full sized! Sadly, Mrs. Panzer and I are on the other side of the country from Mr and Jane. Perhaps one day we can all of us sit down to a drink or a meal at some future OHW gathering because it would be quite interesting to meet you all.

We all owe a debt of gratitude to Jane and MrJane for their straightforwardness and honesty to one another and to all of us regarding the ups and downs and twists and turns of the HW lifestyle. Thanks to them and to everyone who has posted for helping Mrs. Panzer and I in understanding this interesting path.

Mr. Panzer

[Arctus]

I agree to all you have said Mr. Panzer. And if that is your lovely hotwife in your avatar, you too have a partner who is most lovely!!! I have thoroughly enjoyed reading Jane's adventure(s) and will enjoy reading more as her adventures continue to unfold (hopefully, including the experimentation with cuckold activities).

[Arctus]

And how did lunch go, Jane? He sounds like a gentleman... flowers!
I hadn't thought about the challenges for a hotwife when she tries to explain hotwifing to a potential FB in the context of a date. If the male is found via AFF, then much easier. But when somebody is identified within your social circle or through daily interaction, perhaps a very big challenge indeed.

[wifewatcher1001]

I too am curious as to the reaction.

[Janes Husband]

From what she said it went well. Jane's been very sick today, so she'll have to get on when she can. Seems like the guy had a decent reaction to the hotwife stuff, and said he'd seen wives before, though apparently he wasn't looking for them.

[Arctus]

I'm sorry to hear Jane is feeling ill. Here's to a quick recovery! And I'm glad she had a fun time and that her HW explanation did not cause her friend to run for the hills!

[Arctus]

From what she said it went well. Jane's been very sick today, so she'll have to get on when she can. Seems like the guy had a decent reaction to the hotwife stuff, and said he'd seen wives before, though apparently he wasn't looking for them.

Jane's Husband... I appreciate the thoughts/feelings you have shared. I just posted some of my thoughts/feelings as well as our plans for the coming weekend on the "Trying to find out more about myself" thread in the "Hotwife Forum." I would be interested in your reactions given the fact that you have more experience on this trail than me. Thanks and enjoy! Hope Jane is feeling better. Not fun to be ill.

[jane]

So i met my new guy last wednesday. I laid out the hotwife stuff, while trying not to sound like a slut. He seemed understanding. He has a couple experiences with wives, but it doesn't seem like he was explicitly looking for that. As i left he gave me a nice hug. I was supposed to see him saturday, but i was sick this weekend. I don't think i'll see him till after Christmas. Still too weird to play around that time for me. The closer i get to being intimate with him, the more shy i feel about it. I mean, getting to know a guy in person for a while, it just hypes the situation up more.
My husband and i have discussed a lot of fantasy lately, and at the same time, some times i am just not into the hotwife stuff. The desire comes and goes. What does the future hold? sigh

[panzer969]

Jane, your complexity is very endearing. Of course it would be wonderful to get down and dirty with you, but I get the feeling the quiet times before and after would be just as nice. Your husband and your lovers are very fortunate men indeed to enjoy your company and your charms.

To you and your family, have a wonderful holiday season and thanks again for sharing yourself with us!

Mr. Panzer

[fridayam]

Like everyone here, I love to hear from you Jane and read about your steps to being a hotwife. You write so well about your conflicting emotions. Have a good Holiday.

[barneyfife]

Jane, for God's sake, please tell us something....the world is waiting!!!!

[Aynsley]

Jane, for God's sake, please tell us something....the world is waiting!!!!

[jane]

Okay you guys. I'm never sure whether to continue. So i've been seeing a new guy the last few weeks. I did become intimate with him. We were supposed to go out to a movie, but it was sold out, so we ended up at his condo. One kiss led to another and we were in the bedroom. I only stayed about an hour because i didn't want to leave my kids for two long. I'm kind of paranoid about that. At least at the ages they are at the moment. Long story short, he was a really good lover. More of the romantic style. He was also the first man i've been with that is uncircumsized, so i was kind of suprised by the way it looks.
This past weekend we decided to spend time at my house. My husband went out, but he was there when the man arrived. I was a bit late getting ready. We were able to spend a lot more time together. We did just about everything (at least i think we did). Tried different postitions. I very gently performed oral on him . My husband came home during the later stages , and he actually looked in on us at one point.
I like this guy very much. It seems comfortable with him. I'm keeping things open though about seeing other guys.

[panzer969]

Thanks for the update, Jane. What a lucky guy! I'm glad he's being good to you, you deserve a few good men.

Mr. Panzer

[Matt2]

Thanks for the update, Jane.

I second this!

You have a wonderful and uniquely comfortable way of describing your encounters. They're a pleasant and arousing read. Don't be shy