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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Fri Oct 08, 2021 6:20 am

omnisex wrote:
Fri Oct 08, 2021 5:14 am
LookingforAdventure: your story of trying to decide between vanilla & kinky rings very true for my wife and I. I trend towards kinky, while she’s typically more on the vanilla side. With 3 kids, our time is super limited and so when we have time alone for hotel sex, I think I get overly excited about packing all my kink time into a short window, which I think adds pressure on both of us and doesn’t allow the mood to develop naturally. I’m like a starving man desperately overeating when the food is laid out before me. The context is that most of our at home sex is vanilla and not very prolonged given the time demands.

I’ve stepped back a bit and just enjoyed letting things develop more slowly and I think it works out better. Given that my wife is less uninhibited- especially initially- I’m finding more pleasure in getting her into a state of super-arousal rather than trying to “jump start” the kink by pulling out all sorts of implements! I do sometimes wish she were the instigator of kinky time, but I we’re more comfortable over all with me being the kinkster in the relationship.

Anyway, thanks to you & Adventurer for sharing details from what sounds like a really lovely & sexy weekend! Looking forward to hearing more!
Could have written this reply word for word myself.

Thank You Lookingforadventure for bringing us along.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Oct 08, 2021 9:13 am

Thank you early-king, omnisex, and Mr. Sexy GILF.

I write a lot of these posts for myself because I find that it is a good way for me to process what we've experienced (the most recent bit about my hotel sex was the exception. I didn't need to process that...it was just hot). At the same time, it is really arousing to think that other people are reading and enjoying my story (and that maybe it gets blood flowing too). So thank you for the kind words and feedback.

Omnisex and GILF, sounds like we have similar relationships. I'd say that D is the more kinky of the two of us, and he tends to pack the sex toy bag for our times away. With that said, we both always have a good time, no matter what.

I will say, thinking back on our 20+ years together, that the kinky sex times make for the better stories to tell others. They are memorable in their titillation factor. But some of my favorite sex times have been more vanilla. There is something very intimate when two bodies know each other so well that kissing, cuddling, penetration, etc. all kind of flow into each other. My point is, there is a reason that vanilla is a classic flavor :)

Hope you all get some good hotel sex soon - in either variety.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by omnisex » Fri Oct 08, 2021 10:04 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Oct 08, 2021 9:13 am
Thank you early-king, omnisex, and Mr. Sexy GILF.

I write a lot of these posts for myself because I find that it is a good way for me to process what we've experienced (the most recent bit about my hotel sex was the exception. I didn't need to process that...it was just hot). At the same time, it is really arousing to think that other people are reading and enjoying my story (and that maybe it gets blood flowing too). So thank you for the kind words and feedback.

Omnisex and GILF, sounds like we have similar relationships. I'd say that D is the more kinky of the two of us, and he tends to pack the sex toy bag for our times away. With that said, we both always have a good time, no matter what.

I will say, thinking back on our 20+ years together, that the kinky sex times make for the better stories to tell others. They are memorable in their titillation factor. But some of my favorite sex times have been more vanilla. There is something very intimate when two bodies know each other so well that kissing, cuddling, penetration, etc. all kind of flow into each other. My point is, there is a reason that vanilla is a classic flavor :)

Hope you all get some good hotel sex soon - in either variety.
You’re absolutely right - those two bodies combining in “vanilla” ways build the deeper foundations on top of which we can add the kinky flourishes!

I greatly appreciate the well wishes for hotel sex sessions in the near future! I need to get a session on the calendar!

Again, I absolutely love hearing about your adventures, regardless of the “flavor!” You may be relatively “new” here, but you have an amazing talent for erotic writing!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Oct 10, 2021 1:51 pm

Thus far, the adventure of D and I including other people in our sex life has mostly been in the “hot wife” category. We’ve chatted with and met men for me to play with, either on my own or as a MFM threesome, but we haven't included women or couples.

D is curious about exploring sex with other women, and I wanted him to have that experience. Now that we just celebrated our one-year anniversary of opening up our marriage, it seemed like a good time to give that a try.

Recently, we met a couple that seemed to have a lot of potential as play partners for us. We chatted for a while online, met for drinks a few weeks ago, and all four of us gave the green light for another meeting. Of all the couples we’ve considered, this couple felt the most right to us. We decided to meet them for dinner on a Friday night with the possibility of playing at a hotel afterwards.

Truthfully, I wasn’t 100% sure that I wanted to have sex with them. This couple is significantly younger than we are (both are 29 and we are 47 and 44)...I thought that might be an issue. One of the big reasons they play is because the wife is bisexual and wants the opportunity to play with women… I’ve never done that sort of thing. Plus, I sometimes struggled during threesome play because I was worried about if everyone was having an equally good time. Now there would be a fourth in the mix!

But I was also curious.

My husband has been super supportive of me as I’ve pursued my desires; I really wanted to do this for him. And it wasn’t entirely selfless either. I have wondered what it would be like to be with a woman. We’ve been listening to some swinging podcasts, and I was curious about what the experience would be like. Playing with a couple could bring a new dynamic to our sex life and it was worth trying to figure out if we liked it.

When Friday arrived, I was super nervous all day. I tried to explain my anxiety to D, but couldn’t quite put my finger on what it was all about. It might be the thought of being with another woman for the first time and not knowing what I’m doing, or about watching him with another woman and figuring out how I feel about that. I think it was just all of it lumped together.

He told me that we could back out. There really was no pressure to go through with it. But I didn't want that either. Ultimately, I decided that I had to think about it as “just dinner” or I would never even leave the house. (And I also shaved my legs and put on some sexy lingerie, because you want to be prepared! :) )

We met the other couple at a restaurant halfway between our houses. For those who like to have mental images, I’ll describe our friends. She’s a redhead with long, straight hair and a beautiful smile. Her skin is a creamy white. She’s probably about 5’6, curvy, and has a warm personality that makes you feel welcomed and comfortable. I’ll refer to her as R.

He’s about 5’10 and plays recreational hockey (I’ll refer to him as H). He looks like a hockey player, if you know what I mean. He has thick, wavy, dark hair that is a bit unruly and the start of a good “playoff beard” going on. His body is trim and athletic, but not chiseled. And his face is really expressive. I think that’s what made this couple stand out from others that we considered. When he looks at his wife, you can see how much he loves her. It made me feel like I could trust him to respect my limits and play at a pace that I was comfortable with.

We arrived at the restaurant at the same time and gave hugs all around. The hostess seated us at our table and we decided to mix things up with D sitting next to R, and me sitting next to H. Conversation flowed well and we enjoyed each other’s company, but it was pretty g-rated. No one brought up the fact that we might soon see each other naked.

I wasn't sure how to make that transition. Now that I was at dinner, though, I wanted to make this happen, especially for D. I thought that maybe it is difficult for guys to make the first move in these sorts of situations. I reached over under the table and put my hand on H’s leg above his knee. I stroked it gently. He was in the middle of telling a story. He didn’t pause or look my way, but did slowly move his hand down and rested it on my leg as well. I’m not sure that R noticed, but D did and smiled at me.

I was wearing a jean skirt and a ribbed sweater that showed off my breasts. Since it was a nice fall day, my legs were bare under the skirt and H’s hand traced my skin both above and below my knee. I parted my legs a bit and his fingers drew shapes on the inside of my lower thigh. It was very sexy.

I saw D across the table with his hands on R’s legs as well. I couldn’t see exactly what was going on, but they were both smiling. We paid our bill and decided to go to the hotel.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by isinlarsa » Sun Oct 10, 2021 1:57 pm

Can't wait for the next chapter.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Oct 10, 2021 2:08 pm

isinlarsa wrote:
Sun Oct 10, 2021 1:57 pm
Can't wait for the next chapter.
Thank you. I'm working on it now, but there are a lot of experiences and emotions to unpack. Stay tuned.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Oct 11, 2021 7:30 am

As D and I drove to the hotel, I asked how he was feeling about the whole situation. The general tone at dinner was friendship and fondness for the other couple, rather than passion. There was still time to back out if he wasn’t feeling it.

He said that he was all in, and was really looking forward to sliding into R’s pussy. I smiled at him and said that we’d make sure that happened.

At the hotel, three of us stood around somewhat awkwardly while D went to the front desk to get a room. Some of the momentum from the under-the-table shenanigans had died away and I was back to feeling nervous. We all took the elevator up to our room. We turned on the lights, put down our bags, and had a few awkward moments.

I really have no idea how these things normally happen. Who is supposed to start the action when couples play together? I decided to be the instigator. (What can I say? I have a compulsion to make sure people are having a good time, and am not good at waiting for others to lead the way).

“I might take off my sweater,” I said. “Some lingerie is not meant to be worn for long periods of time. I went kind of sexy under my clothes and you all should get to enjoy it if I’m going to be uncomfortable wearing it.”

They laughed. I pulled my sweater off over my head and let my jean skirt drop to the floor. I did a little spin to show off the little, black number underneath. It is a body suit of sorts. The bra portion is black lace that attaches behind my neck halter style. It clearly showed my erect nipples. The pany portion is also lace, and shows a lot of butt cheek. The two are attached with some straps across my stomach and back.

It looks hot (if I do say so myself), but typically only stays on for a short amount of time before D takes it off. Now, I’d been wearing it for hours and it was cutting into my skin :)

Our friends appreciated the strip show and the final product. R said that she had worn something special too, and took off her shirt and leggings. She was wearing a pale blue bra and matching thong panties. D told her how gorgeous she was and H slapped her ass affectionately.

The strip show broke the ice and we were able to take that next step. H approached me and told me that I looked hot. He ran his hand over my body and asked if he could kiss me. I agreed. It was a bit strange to kiss someone that I really hadn’t had a lot of flirtatious build-up with, but he was a good kisser and the situation was very arousing.

As we kissed, D and R kissed behind us. Her ass was pressed against mine, so I reached back and squeezed it a bit. She told D that someone was groping her.

“Oh, that’s just me,” I said over my shoulder. “I hope you don’t mind”

She didn’t. We continued with some kissing for a bit, but then R suggested that the men should be wearing less clothes. I helped to undress H and she undressed D. The next thing I knew, I heard slurping sounds behind me and another woman was sucking my husband’s cock!

H asked if there was something I wanted, and put my hand on the crotch of his boxers. I smiled and said I’d be happy to take a look at what he had there. I knelt down as he pulled his cock out and I took it in my mouth. H grabbed my hair and gripped it like a ponytail at the back of my head. He thrust into my mouth a bit as I looked up at him.

D and R had moved over to the bed. He asked if he could taste her, so she lay back with her legs spread. I caught D’s eye and smiled at him. I wasn’t sure how I’d feel watching him with another woman, but it was really hot. I told him so.

H suggested that I get on the bed as well. I lay at a 90 degree angle to R (she was laying with her legs at the edge of the bed, I lay with my head on the pillow). H got between my legs. He’s quite good with his tongue, so I let myself enjoy it for a bit. I also reached over and began to play with R’s breast.

She has large breasts with very pale pink nipples. I rolled a nipple between my fingers as D licked her pussy, and she began to moan very loudly.

I could feel my own orgasm building. In this past year, I have learned that I seem to orgasm more easily than most other women do. This is a great “problem” to have, but I began to worry about cumming too quickly when D and R were right beside me. Would it make anyone feel bad about their own experience?

I tried my best to hold out, but it didn’t work. Soon my back was arching and I was cumming around H’s face.

R said, “Oh, I think someone is having a good time over there”.

I blushed, but couldn’t respond more thoroughly because H was still working at my clit. I ran my fingers through his hair and held him against my pussy. Then, I told him that I wanted his fingers inside me.

Truth be told, I think I was a bit demanding. He smiled up at me and followed my instructions. I told him I wanted a second finger, and then told him to go harder. Soon, I was just telling him, “More. More. More.”

I came a second time. H smiled at me with a look of admiration or awe in his eyes. I thanked him, then asked him to wait just a minute. I got up on my hands and knees and began to kiss R.

H slapped my ass just once from behind. R’s moans were getting louder now. I leaned down and took a nipple in my mouth and played with the other with my hand. D is very, very talented with his tongue and fingers. R came hard.

R said, “I need to get between those legs.”

I heard her, but didn’t really make the association that she meant me. I was feeling bad for neglecting H, so I turned back to him and asked if he wanted me to take him back in my mouth.

“I would never say no to that, but I think my wife wants you,” he said.

I took him deep for a second anyway and then looked up at R. “Shall I spread my legs for you?” I asked.

“Hell yes,” she replied.

She got between my legs as I lay back on the bed. Her fingers explored me gently as her tongue worked my clit. D grabbed his glasses so that he could watch what was happening. H leaned down and began to lick and suck one of my breasts.

D told me that I was beautiful. He reached over and held my hand. That’s when I came a third time. D reached over and placed his fingers in my pussy and began to finger fuck me as I came down from the orgasm. I told him that I was going to squirt. All three of them watched me as I orgasmed again.

I needed a bit of a break to catch my breath. D went back between R’s legs again and I told H to lay back on the bed.

“Yes ma’am,” he replied.

Maybe I should have felt old by that comment, but I thought it was cute. I kissed my way up his legs, licked his balls and ran my breasts over his cock as I kissed his chest. He was moaning and telling me how good it felt. I continued my way up and kissed him on the lips.

“You are so fucking gorgeous,” he said to me. I smiled in return.

I asked him to hold that thought. I slid over to where D and R were playing. He slid his fingers in her pussy. I leaned down and began to lick her clit. D smiled at me. I let him return to pleasuring R, and I went back to H.

I kissed him a bit and told him that his wife tasted good. That’s when I heard R tell D that she needed a cock inside her, now!!! He got up to get a condom.

“I think our spouses are about to have sex,” I said to H. It seemed only fair to reciprocate. “What do you think? Would you like to fuck me?”

“I’d love to fuck you,” he replied.

Both men pulled out condoms and made joking comments about how it had been awhile since they had had to use one. Both women responded by smilingly reminding the men how essential condoms were, and that they had best get them on.

I asked H where he wanted me. He suggested that I lay on my back. I looked over and D was entering R. I smiled at him. H pushed himself inside of me.

“Wow, you are really tight,” H said to me. He paused deep inside me and smiled. He told me again how gorgeous I was. He moved slowly in me. My hunch is that he was trying really hard not to cum. I ran my hand down his back. My other hand stroked his face. I smiled at him reassuringly.

D was fucking R pretty hard and she was enjoying it. R told D that she wanted to ride him. They switched positions so that D was lying next to me. R climbed on top.

H picked up speed. He put his hands on my shoulders, pushing me down into the bed and began to fuck me harder. Then he slowed again.

“Seriously, you are so tight,” he said again. He pulled out and used his tongue on my pussy for a few minutes. He looked at me with what I can only describe as awe, or maybe desire. He entered me again.

I tried to keep my body as still as possible so that he could control the pace. I couldn't help but tease him a bit though. The next time his hands pushed my shoulders down I told him that I liked it.

"Mmmm...I like it hard like that," I told him. "I liked it when you had my hair in your hands and when you slapped my ass."

He smiled at me and just said, "fuck."

Beside us, both D and R were cumming. H looked at them, then picked up his pace. He fucked me hard until he came.

The men pulled out and discarded their condoms. R and I chatted on the bed for a bit about how much fun we had had. The men joined us and we made small talk for a bit. Then we got up, got dressed and headed home.

D and I debriefed as we drove home. Here are a few of my thoughts. R and H really were a great couple for us to do this with. I couldn't have asked for better. They were laid back and made our first time really comfortable.

With that said, I'm not sure that I'm into women. It was fun and I liked her going down on me, but I think I enjoy penises more than pussies. I also think swinging might not be for me. It makes sense that with swinging the vibe should be mostly about sexy fun. But I like lusty passion. This was a good experience and all of us had fun, but I wouldn't say it was great. I like great sex.

So we will see if we do this again, but I'm glad we tried it.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Mon Oct 11, 2021 8:51 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Mon Oct 11, 2021 7:30 am
As D and I drove to the hotel, I asked how he was feeling about the whole situation. The general tone at dinner was friendship and fondness for the other couple, rather than passion. There was still time to back out if he wasn’t feeling it.

He said that he was all in, and was really looking forward to sliding into R’s pussy. I smiled at him and said that we’d make sure that happened.

At the hotel, three of us stood around somewhat awkwardly while D went to the front desk to get a room. Some of the momentum from the under-the-table shenanigans had died away and I was back to feeling nervous. We all took the elevator up to our room. We turned on the lights, put down our bags, and had a few awkward moments.

I really have no idea how these things normally happen. Who is supposed to start the action when couples play together? I decided to be the instigator. (What can I say? I have a compulsion to make sure people are having a good time, and am not good at waiting for others to lead the way).

“I might take off my sweater,” I said. “Some lingerie is not meant to be worn for long periods of time. I went kind of sexy under my clothes and you all should get to enjoy it if I’m going to be uncomfortable wearing it.”

They laughed. I pulled my sweater off over my head and let my jean skirt drop to the floor. I did a little spin to show off the little, black number underneath. It is a body suit of sorts. The bra portion is black lace that attaches behind my neck halter style. It clearly showed my erect nipples. The pany portion is also lace, and shows a lot of butt cheek. The two are attached with some straps across my stomach and back.

It looks hot (if I do say so myself), but typically only stays on for a short amount of time before D takes it off. Now, I’d been wearing it for hours and it was cutting into my skin :)

Our friends appreciated the strip show and the final product. R said that she had worn something special too, and took off her shirt and leggings. She was wearing a pale blue bra and matching thong panties. D told her how gorgeous she was and H slapped her ass affectionately.

The strip show broke the ice and we were able to take that next step. H approached me and told me that I looked hot. He ran his hand over my body and asked if he could kiss me. I agreed. It was a bit strange to kiss someone that I really hadn’t had a lot of flirtatious build-up with, but he was a good kisser and the situation was very arousing.

As we kissed, D and R kissed behind us. Her ass was pressed against mine, so I reached back and squeezed it a bit. She told D that someone was groping her.

“Oh, that’s just me,” I said over my shoulder. “I hope you don’t mind”

She didn’t. We continued with some kissing for a bit, but then R suggested that the men should be wearing less clothes. I helped to undress H and she undressed D. The next thing I knew, I heard slurping sounds behind me and another woman was sucking my husband’s cock!

H asked if there was something I wanted, and put my hand on the crotch of his boxers. I smiled and said I’d be happy to take a look at what he had there. I knelt down as he pulled his cock out and I took it in my mouth. H grabbed my hair and gripped it like a ponytail at the back of my head. He thrust into my mouth a bit as I looked up at him.

D and R had moved over to the bed. He asked if he could taste her, so she lay back with her legs spread. I caught D’s eye and smiled at him. I wasn’t sure how I’d feel watching him with another woman, but it was really hot. I told him so.

H suggested that I get on the bed as well. I lay at a 90 degree angle to R (she was laying with her legs at the edge of the bed, I lay with my head on the pillow). H got between my legs. He’s quite good with his tongue, so I let myself enjoy it for a bit. I also reached over and began to play with R’s breast.

She has large breasts with very pale pink nipples. I rolled a nipple between my fingers as D licked her pussy, and she began to moan very loudly.

I could feel my own orgasm building. In this past year, I have learned that I seem to orgasm more easily than most other women do. This is a great “problem” to have, but I began to worry about cumming too quickly when D and R were right beside me. Would it make anyone feel bad about their own experience?

I tried my best to hold out, but it didn’t work. Soon my back was arching and I was cumming around H’s face.

R said, “Oh, I think someone is having a good time over there”.

I blushed, but couldn’t respond more thoroughly because H was still working at my clit. I ran my fingers through his hair and held him against my pussy. Then, I told him that I wanted his fingers inside me.

Truth be told, I think I was a bit demanding. He smiled up at me and followed my instructions. I told him I wanted a second finger, and then told him to go harder. Soon, I was just telling him, “More. More. More.”

I came a second time. H smiled at me with a look of admiration or awe in his eyes. I thanked him, then asked him to wait just a minute. I got up on my hands and knees and began to kiss R.

H slapped my ass just once from behind. R’s moans were getting louder now. I leaned down and took a nipple in my mouth and played with the other with my hand. D is very, very talented with his tongue and fingers. R came hard.

R said, “I need to get between those legs.”

I heard her, but didn’t really make the association that she meant me. I was feeling bad for neglecting H, so I turned back to him and asked if he wanted me to take him back in my mouth.

“I would never say no to that, but I think my wife wants you,” he said.

I took him deep for a second anyway and then looked up at R. “Shall I spread my legs for you?” I asked.

“Hell yes,” she replied.

She got between my legs as I lay back on the bed. Her fingers explored me gently as her tongue worked my clit. D grabbed his glasses so that he could watch what was happening. H leaned down and began to lick and suck one of my breasts.

D told me that I was beautiful. He reached over and held my hand. That’s when I came a third time. D reached over and placed his fingers in my pussy and began to finger fuck me as I came down from the orgasm. I told him that I was going to squirt. All three of them watched me as I orgasmed again.

I needed a bit of a break to catch my breath. D went back between R’s legs again and I told H to lay back on the bed.

“Yes ma’am,” he replied.

Maybe I should have felt old by that comment, but I thought it was cute. I kissed my way up his legs, licked his balls and ran my breasts over his cock as I kissed his chest. He was moaning and telling me how good it felt. I continued my way up and kissed him on the lips.

“You are so fucking gorgeous,” he said to me. I smiled in return.

I asked him to hold that thought. I slid over to where D and R were playing. He slid his fingers in her pussy. I leaned down and began to lick her clit. D smiled at me. I let him return to pleasuring R, and I went back to H.

I kissed him a bit and told him that his wife tasted good. That’s when I heard R tell D that she needed a cock inside her, now!!! He got up to get a condom.

“I think our spouses are about to have sex,” I said to H. It seemed only fair to reciprocate. “What do you think? Would you like to fuck me?”

“I’d love to fuck you,” he replied.

Both men pulled out condoms and made joking comments about how it had been awhile since they had had to use one. Both women responded by smilingly reminding the men how essential condoms were, and that they had best get them on.

I asked H where he wanted me. He suggested that I lay on my back. I looked over and D was entering R. I smiled at him. H pushed himself inside of me.

“Wow, you are really tight,” H said to me. He paused deep inside me and smiled. He told me again how gorgeous I was. He moved slowly in me. My hunch is that he was trying really hard not to cum. I ran my hand down his back. My other hand stroked his face. I smiled at him reassuringly.

D was fucking R pretty hard and she was enjoying it. R told D that she wanted to ride him. They switched positions so that D was lying next to me. R climbed on top.

H picked up speed. He put his hands on my shoulders, pushing me down into the bed and began to fuck me harder. Then he slowed again.

“Seriously, you are so tight,” he said again. He pulled out and used his tongue on my pussy for a few minutes. He looked at me with what I can only describe as awe, or maybe desire. He entered me again.

I tried to keep my body as still as possible so that he could control the pace. I couldn't help but tease him a bit though. The next time his hands pushed my shoulders down I told him that I liked it.

"Mmmm...I like it hard like that," I told him. "I liked it when you had my hair in your hands and when you slapped my ass."

He smiled at me and just said, "fuck."

Beside us, both D and R were cumming. H looked at them, then picked up his pace. He fucked me hard until he came.

The men pulled out and discarded their condoms. R and I chatted on the bed for a bit about how much fun we had had. The men joined us and we made small talk for a bit. Then we got up, got dressed and headed home.

D and I debriefed as we drove home. Here are a few of my thoughts. R and H really were a great couple for us to do this with. I couldn't have asked for better. They were laid back and made our first time really comfortable.

With that said, I'm not sure that I'm into women. It was fun and I liked her going down on me, but I think I enjoy penises more than pussies. I also think swinging might not be for me. It makes sense that with swinging the vibe should be mostly about sexy fun. But I like lusty passion. This was a good experience and all of us had fun, but I wouldn't say it was great. I like great sex.

So we will see if we do this again, but I'm glad we tried it.
WOW. Once again Im confined to my desk at work until the exciting mental images die down and my pants resume a normal form lol

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Oct 11, 2021 10:57 am

Sorry 😈 (but only a little bit)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by superb101 » Mon Oct 11, 2021 5:31 pm

I wonder if you would feel any different about being with another woman if she were closer to your age , very experienced and you two would play entirely alone the first time? Just my thoughts

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by CurvyNerdMILF » Tue Oct 12, 2021 9:44 am

“It makes sense that with swinging the vibe should be mostly about sexy fun. But I like lusty passion. This was a good experience and all of us had fun, but I wouldn't say it was great. I like great sex.“

Your sentiments are very close to how I felt about our threesome yesterday with one of JS’s ladies. Was it fun? Yeah. I liked seeing how intensely turned on JS was, particularly when he was getting jacked off by the other woman while I was stimulating his sensitive nipples. I liked to see him excited while licking her. But her energy was so mellow and had no urgency to it. I think I might try with a woman who runs hotter, with more raw sexual energy. Otherwise, meh.
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Oct 12, 2021 12:13 pm

superb101 wrote:
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I wonder if you would feel any different about being with another woman if she were closer to your age , very experienced and you two would play entirely alone the first time? Just my thoughts
Interesting thoughts, and not that different from what D said after he read my reflection as well. He thinks we shouldn't rule things out after one experience. So we'll see...but I'm not salivating in anticipation of a second attempt just yet.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Oct 12, 2021 12:16 pm

CurvyNerdMILF wrote:
Tue Oct 12, 2021 9:44 am
“It makes sense that with swinging the vibe should be mostly about sexy fun. But I like lusty passion. This was a good experience and all of us had fun, but I wouldn't say it was great. I like great sex.“

Your sentiments are very close to how I felt about our threesome yesterday with one of JS’s ladies. Was it fun? Yeah. I liked seeing how intensely turned on JS was, particularly when he was getting jacked off by the other woman while I was stimulating his sensitive nipples. I liked to see him excited while licking her. But her energy was so mellow and had no urgency to it. I think I might try with a woman who runs hotter, with more raw sexual energy. Otherwise, meh.
I'm glad to hear you had fun...and while I'm sorry that it wasn't hotter for you, I am also glad to know that you had a similar experience to mine. It makes me feel a bit better about my own "meh" reaction.

Now to move on to some steamy, hot, "rip my clothes off", "let's get to it right NOW" sex :)

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Re: Figuring it out

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Our favourite thread so far 😍😍

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by armyguyot1 » Wed Oct 13, 2021 5:49 pm

Welcome to the forum hotwifeplusone.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Oct 13, 2021 6:36 pm

hotwifeplusone wrote:
Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:26 am
Our favourite thread so far 😍😍
Welcome hotwifeplusone! I'm so glad you found this forum. It has been a huge help to me on this journey.

And thank you for the kind words. I actually have another story to share from this past week. I'll try to write it up soon just for you (and everyone else, lol).

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by hotwifeplusone » Thu Oct 14, 2021 12:36 am

Looking forward too it

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Welcome to the forum hotwifeplusone.
Thank you next step to become a verified hotwife 😉
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Oct 14, 2021 8:09 am

hotwifeplusone wrote:
Thu Oct 14, 2021 4:42 am
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Wed Oct 13, 2021 5:49 pm
Welcome to the forum hotwifeplusone.
Thank you next step to become a verified hotwife 😉
Yes!!! Do become verified! The women in the ladies lounge are amazing, and have been such a great resource and help to me.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Oct 14, 2021 8:17 am

As I mentioned, our play date with another couple was nice and fine. D and I were both glad that we had the experience, but I still felt a bit disappointed in it overall.

The next morning, I got up early to walk the dog. On my walk, D texted me, “Good morning Beautiful. I just wanted to say that you are amazing. Thank you for having sex with another couple with me yesterday.”

I told him it was my pleasure, and we debriefed the experience for a bit, including my “meh” feelings about the sex as a whole.

“You do deserve great sex,” D texted to me. “We haven’t officially checked out of the hotel room yet. You could invite G to join you there this morning. Have some steamy, hot sex first thing in the morning.”

This was impractical for all sorts of reasons. First, we had already come home from the hotel. It was now 30 minutes away (although only 10 or so minutes from G’s house). Second, we had left the room keys in the room and planned to just check-out via a mobile app that morning. I would have to go to the front counter and feign that I had locked myself out of my room and ask for a spare set with just a couple of hours before check-out. Third, our daughter had soccer practice that morning and I had agreed to help out with some team duties.

D acknowledged that this couldn’t happen in reality, but we COULD have a good time talking about the fantasy. So we did :)

I must say that we painted a pretty vivid picture of the fun things that could happen in a hotel room with G on a Saturday morning. By the time I got back from my walk, I was pretty wet…and not just because it was raining outside.

D kissed me good morning and handed me the coffee he had made. I sat down to drink it, while the dog ate breakfast. That was when G texted me, “Good morning Sexy!”

I told him that I had just been thinking about him and wishing we could meet up. He agreed that that would be perfect. Unfortunately, we both had busy days because it was Canadian Thanksgiving weekend. He joked about joining me at soccer practice so we could have a quick grope in the parking lot, but that seemed impractical. I offered to pop by his house and be his dessert after he was done hosting people for dinner. He was very open to that suggestion, he laughed.

“I just got an email,” I texted him. “Soccer practice is cancelled this morning.”

“Really? That’s very interesting,” he replied.

“What’s a horny girl to do when she suddenly has a whole, rainy, Saturday morning free?” I joked. G said he could think of some good suggestions.

At this point, D (who had been following along with my text conversation with G) sent me a private text. “You should go meet G this morning and fuck his brains out,” he suggested. I sent him a devil emoji reply.

“Well if you want to meet up at a cemetery, park, or parking lot somewhere, you just name the time and place,” I wrote to G (we were approaching the hotel checkout time, so it didn’t seem worthwhile to even try to go there). After a couple of seconds, I added. “I’m being serious.”

G didn’t miss a beat. “What about the same car pool lot as last time? I could leave now and be there in 20 minutes.”

I smiled remembering the last time my impatience had gotten the better of me, and I had met G at the lot about halfway between our houses for a quick kiss and blow job during a work lunch break.

“I’ll need about 30 minutes,” I replied. “And my hair will be wet from the shower.”

He didn’t care about me showing up in a very natural state, so the plan was in motion. I hopped in the shower as D gave me a knowing look. After the world’s fastest shower, I toweled off and threw a dress on…no bra, no panties. D kissed me and told me that I was extremely sexy when I was rushing off to see a lover. He lifted my dress and slid his fingers inside me.

“You are soaking wet,” he told me.

I blushed a bit. “Well, I’m a little turned on,” I replied. He kissed me again and told me to get going.

I got in the car, and D texted G to let him know I was on the way. “She’s got the biggest smile on her face, and her pussy is dripping wet,” he explained. G said he was smiling too and would meet me shortly.

When I pulled into the parking lot, G was already there. I parked next to his car and he got out to meet me. It was still drizzling rain, but my hair was already wet from the shower, so who really cared about the weather? He pulled my body into his and kissed me passionately. His hands groped my ass as we kissed.

“I may not be wearing anything under my dress,” I confessed. He said he liked that. I reached down and felt his growing erection. “I can tell.”

We kissed a bit longer and then I asked G how big his back seat was. “Oh, I think it is plenty big for both of us,” he answered.

We climbed in and threw a few things into the front seat to make room. We kissed again, and his hand slid up my leg under my dress. His fingers found my clit and began to rub it expertly as we continued to kiss. I caught my breath. I was really so primed and ready that I felt I was going to cum just from that initial touch. I told him how good it felt and began to moan his name as he worked my clit. It took only minutes before I was cumming hard.

“Shoot, I’m going to leave a wet spot on your back seat,” I told him. G said he didn’t care. I kissed him again and began to stroke him through his shorts. He offered to give me better access and I sat back so that he could wiggle out of his shorts and boxers. I knelt on the back seat and took him in my mouth as his hand pulled my dress up and groped my ass. In retrospect, we might have given someone a pretty good show through the window if they were looking.

“Mmmm…that feels so good,” he moaned as I took it deep in my throat. I licked his shaft, teased his balls, and then bobbed up and down with him fully inside me. I enjoyed how much pre-cum was oozing out for me.

“You’d better stop or you are going to make me cum,” G warned. I smiled at him, sat back and kissed him again.

“Do you want to fuck me?” I asked.

“I sure do,” he replied. He shifted a bit to try to make room for me to straddle him. He had to remove a shoe so that he could get his shorts off. I put one hand on the roof and one on the car door as I tried to find a good spot over his hard cock.

We found a position that worked…kind of…and I tried to ride him. It didn’t really work, but was quite funny in the attempt. We thought we’d try something else.

I leaned back, with my head against the car door. I put one foot up on the back window. The other was heading somewhere towards the front seat. He knelt between them with one hand holding the headrest of a front seat. The other hand was on the back window ledge. He had one foot on the floor and the other on the seat.

I felt like a horny teenager, but much less flexible. We both kept laughing at the awkwardness of it, but were also turned on by our hunger for each other’s bodies. He thrust inside me, and fuck it felt good. He picked up the pace and took me hard. The car was rocking, the windows were steamed up, and we were both hot and sweaty.

After I had cum a couple of times, we took a break to catch our breath. Once again, we had to figure out the logistics of how to maneuver our bodies in the cramped space to disentangle ourselves. We laughed, and enjoyed the ridiculousness of it all.

Once we were situated back on our sides of the back seat, I looked up at him. G was sweaty and flushed with a huge smile on his face. I kissed him and thanked him for meeting me so spontaneously. He thanked me for the most amazing start to his weekend.

He hadn’t cum yet, and his cock was oh so tempting to me. I leaned down to take him back in my mouth. Sometimes, oral sex is slow and sensuous. This was not that. I was hungry for him and wanted to make him cum hard. He put his hands in my hair and guided my head as my mouth fucked him. He groaned and came, with multiple spurts of cum filling my mouth and throat. I swallowed. I gave his sexy cock another quick kiss, and sat back.

“Happy Thanksgiving,” I said smiling at G.

He kissed me and said that he was very grateful for D and I and the fun that we have had together over the past year. I told him that feeling was very mutual.

We got our clothes back on and opened a door to help the windows defog a bit. I told him that his car was going to smell like sex for awhile. He smiled and said he’d enjoy the reminder of our morning activities.

“All the same, I think maybe we should have sex in a hotel bed next time,” I suggested. G agreed that would be a great idea. He walked me to my car and kissed me again.

When I got home, my kids were still in bed (teenagers!). D told me that I was glowing. He took me to our bedroom and admired my freshly fucked body. I gave him a play-by-play of the morning’s events as he licked my pussy and made me cum. I told him how much I loved him. He slid his cock into me and fucked me slowly and tenderly. It was a beautiful end to a wonderful morning.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Thu Oct 14, 2021 8:28 am

Luckiest men alive. Damn your stories...they keep me confined to my desk at work!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by isinlarsa » Thu Oct 14, 2021 10:08 am

I loved the spontaneous sex, and how your husband helped to facilitate it for you. It is so hot when I send my wife off to get fucked by another man, so I can empathize with your husband.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Oct 14, 2021 10:44 am

eventfire wrote:
Thu Oct 14, 2021 8:28 am
Luckiest men alive. Damn your stories...they keep me confined to my desk at work!
I'm pretty lucky too and spoiled by the men in my life.

As for you, maybe I should stop posting during work hours. Lol.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by hotwifeplusone » Fri Oct 15, 2021 5:04 am

Wow your stories 😍😍 I need to find me a G

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Oct 15, 2021 8:12 am

hotwifeplusone wrote:
Fri Oct 15, 2021 5:04 am
Wow your stories 😍😍 I need to find me a G
Every hot wife needs a G 😁

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