Concerning opinions and such, I don't think what I said was wrong concerning David leaving. Jane herself said to forget any notion of her not seeing Deron anymore. As far as I can tell he (Deron), not Jane, made the conclusion that they shouldn't see each other anymore. However, like anything else with this lifestyle I think the refrain should be "communicate communicate communicate." As long as this sort of play is what works for them then all bets are off. Enjoy yourselves. Seriously. If it's not, figure out what's not working and see if there can be a compromise. If there can't be then there won't be peace in paradise. But, that's relationship 101 stuff. I think we can all agree on that here. But, when things get tense and judgement gets cloudy it's best to return to basics and focus on what's important.
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I too would like to know what exactly pushed you over the line, David. I'm glad you two are posting again.
Concerning opinions and such, I don't think what I said was wrong concerning David leaving. Jane herself said to forget any notion of her not seeing Deron anymore. As far as I can tell he (Deron), not Jane, made the conclusion that they shouldn't see each other anymore. However, like anything else with this lifestyle I think the refrain should be "communicate communicate communicate." As long as this sort of play is what works for them then all bets are off. Enjoy yourselves. Seriously. If it's not, figure out what's not working and see if there can be a compromise. If there can't be then there won't be peace in paradise. But, that's relationship 101 stuff. I think we can all agree on that here. But, when things get tense and judgement gets cloudy it's best to return to basics and focus on what's important.
Concerning opinions and such, I don't think what I said was wrong concerning David leaving. Jane herself said to forget any notion of her not seeing Deron anymore. As far as I can tell he (Deron), not Jane, made the conclusion that they shouldn't see each other anymore. However, like anything else with this lifestyle I think the refrain should be "communicate communicate communicate." As long as this sort of play is what works for them then all bets are off. Enjoy yourselves. Seriously. If it's not, figure out what's not working and see if there can be a compromise. If there can't be then there won't be peace in paradise. But, that's relationship 101 stuff. I think we can all agree on that here. But, when things get tense and judgement gets cloudy it's best to return to basics and focus on what's important.
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You just have to throw your hurtful little jab in there, don't you?Trifecta wrote:This thread should be renamed "How to fuck up a marriage - 101".
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss
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Hi Jane,jane wrote:the only other thing new to report is i met with a man i saw a while back. he's married, kind of guilty. i wasn't sure what we'd do, but we only ended up talking. he doesn't really want to do this kind of thing anymore. i'm kind of glad for him that he's not going to do any more behind his wife's back.
I’d like to change the channel, if possible.
By saying that you have seen him before I assume you meant that you had sex.
I kind of remember you mentioning this, but I could be wrong.
I also assume that he got in touch with you, not the other way around, and since you agreed to meet him that you would have had sex with him again.
Were you the kind of girl who was always bringing strays home, much to your mother’s
consternation? I ask because regardless of your obvious interest in a good fuck you seem to be quite sensitive to men’s needs, which truth be told, isn’t always the obvious.
I’m willing to bet that although you shared a little chuckle about Mr. 5 x 5, you played it straight with him. There are other examples.
If a movie was made about your life who would play you, and who would play David?
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it is incredible to me that we've stated that deron is out of the picture and we've spent the last week talking and clearing thing's up, yet i continue to get nasty messages sent to me.
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Jane, We apologize for those that wish they had a job in the media where they just created drama. Please hit the ignore button on them.
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Jane, if I were you, at this stage I would enlist the help of site ownership/moderators. you should not have to put up with it. PERIOD.jane wrote:it is incredible to me that we've stated that deron is out of the picture and we've spent the last week talking and clearing thing's up, yet i continue to get nasty messages sent to me.
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I agree! They have both admitted their mistakes and said their I'm sorries. Their just trying to move on. Whoever you jerks are, stop your harassment for crying out loud!SmilingHusband wrote:Jane, if I were you, at this stage I would enlist the help of site ownership/moderators. you should not have to put up with it. PERIOD.jane wrote:it is incredible to me that we've stated that deron is out of the picture and we've spent the last week talking and clearing thing's up, yet i continue to get nasty messages sent to me.
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Dear Jane,
Angry people get angry... about anything at all. It's what they do. At this point, it really isn't anything to do with you... it's all to do with them. If it's any consolation, you're having to deal with their angry thoughts at the moment, but they have to deal with their angry thoughts all the time.
Best wishes,
54321
Angry people get angry... about anything at all. It's what they do. At this point, it really isn't anything to do with you... it's all to do with them. If it's any consolation, you're having to deal with their angry thoughts at the moment, but they have to deal with their angry thoughts all the time.
Best wishes,
54321
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I really don't get why anyone would take pm's from virtual strangers seriously in the first place. If you don't like what someone thinks, delete their pm's. While I love to read this thread, I could care less about the drama.
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You'd have to be pretty unfeeling not to notice snarky, tasteless, mean spirited and in Janes own words "nasty" language. Maybe she is sensitive or perhaps just human. But it is still not nice to attack Jane and JH here, not to mention show a lack of courage and make it more personal about doing so on PM. Seemingly we all have an opinion about their sex life.
She lost something of value, JHs ego must have taken a hit - they should just be left alone to heal and see where things come out with all this.
This represents the best and worst of the LifeStyle - it brings passion and pain.
MrBB
She lost something of value, JHs ego must have taken a hit - they should just be left alone to heal and see where things come out with all this.
This represents the best and worst of the LifeStyle - it brings passion and pain.
MrBB
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JH, according to RuleJanes Husband wrote:We've cleared the air very well. Jane hasn't posted, i think, because of some hurtful comments that were made, some of which were sent out in private messages.
, all Jane needs to do i forward those PMs to Mia or me and they will be taken care of.10) DO NOT use PM's to attack other members or staff. All PM attacks (direct harassment) should be reported and will not be tolerated.
Only a fool test the depth of the water with both feet.
A bigger fool than the fellow who knows it all is the one who'll argue with him.
Read the rules: app.php/rules
A bigger fool than the fellow who knows it all is the one who'll argue with him.
Read the rules: app.php/rules
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I log in ONLY to read this thread. I haven't browsed the other threads for months since I really just want to make sure that Jane and loving hubby are doing ok. I am hoping that this most recent blow up brought the two of them together.
I wonder what make up sex is like between HW and Hubby when the fight was brought on by/through/about another lover claiming ownership over Jane's pussy?
Mr. O
P.S. Get allengt or mia on the case and the pm-ing d-bags will likely experience the swift justice of the ban hammer.
I wonder what make up sex is like between HW and Hubby when the fight was brought on by/through/about another lover claiming ownership over Jane's pussy?
Mr. O
P.S. Get allengt or mia on the case and the pm-ing d-bags will likely experience the swift justice of the ban hammer.
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Isn't this sad? Jane is really a very kind hearted, considerate person.HornyHenry666 wrote:just bumping wonderful Jane back to the top. I certainly don't blame her for wanting to avoid this place judging from the PM's I got just for saying supportive things.
I understand jealousy, and feeling insecure, but that doesn't begin to excuse meanness. I can only assume that the cyber environment encouraged bullying behavior, and closet Heathers to emerge.I think some of the women here are very jealous of the attention Jane gets and can't match her bravery and almost all the men are horrified at the notion of a big black man declaring "ownership" of their wife. It was certainly a difficult situation and stressed Jane and David to the limit but that's no reason to condemn them.
HornyHenry666 wrote:Anyway just sending good vibes to Jane & JH and hoping the adventures will continue whether documented here or not.
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I'm curious as to how many people you PMed harassing them for being supportive of Janes husband in this situation.HornyHenry666 wrote: judging from the PM's I got just for saying supportive things.
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I think its sad how people will post about being supportive when they could care less about Jane and David. All they want is to hear stories of how a bbc owns another man's pussy.
We have fantasy and rollplay but both take a back seat to real life. Just because someone does not agree with the path taken by Jane does not mean jealousy is in play. I for one think its hot when I heard my wife say to her lover who just happens to be a black guy with a large cock that it was his pussy. That was in the moment and ok but if she or he tried that out of the game then I also would of put my foot down. Maybe not of shoved him but I would of been clear that its not ok. If I still felt disrespected then yes it might of gotten physical and I sure as fuck would expect my wife to have my back. If not then our relationship would be over.
I am an alpha male and love my wife being free to do what she wants but once I'm disrespected its game over. If this gets Dave off and Jane knows it then that's great but from what I get from the story this is not the case.
I for one hope they focus on the primary relationship first. There are plenty of other stories on here to read that we should not try and this couple just for our enjoyment. I so wish I could write as well as some of you on this site but I can't. I hope I didn't ramble.
We have fantasy and rollplay but both take a back seat to real life. Just because someone does not agree with the path taken by Jane does not mean jealousy is in play. I for one think its hot when I heard my wife say to her lover who just happens to be a black guy with a large cock that it was his pussy. That was in the moment and ok but if she or he tried that out of the game then I also would of put my foot down. Maybe not of shoved him but I would of been clear that its not ok. If I still felt disrespected then yes it might of gotten physical and I sure as fuck would expect my wife to have my back. If not then our relationship would be over.
I am an alpha male and love my wife being free to do what she wants but once I'm disrespected its game over. If this gets Dave off and Jane knows it then that's great but from what I get from the story this is not the case.
I for one hope they focus on the primary relationship first. There are plenty of other stories on here to read that we should not try and this couple just for our enjoyment. I so wish I could write as well as some of you on this site but I can't. I hope I didn't ramble.
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If you are HornyHenry666's wife I do believe I asked you once to stop bothering me.
When PMing people your harassing crap doesn't work just find a new way to speak to them. Right?
PS> Go back to Middle school with your bullcrap please.
When PMing people your harassing crap doesn't work just find a new way to speak to them. Right?
PS> Go back to Middle school with your bullcrap please.
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mrs_palmetto
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You are a crazy lady that PM's people attacking them privately that has only moved on to try to doing it publically. Nothing more nothing less.
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This will stop now or you will all be banned. This thread is locked to preven the continuous hijacking so you can squable. When Jane tells me she is ready to post I will unlock it but not until then.
Only a fool test the depth of the water with both feet.
A bigger fool than the fellow who knows it all is the one who'll argue with him.
Read the rules: app.php/rules
A bigger fool than the fellow who knows it all is the one who'll argue with him.
Read the rules: app.php/rules
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well it's reopened. two of my friends have left. i only hope people can offer advice in the future instead of mean criticism.
i'm not cheating on my husband, i havn't left him for deron, i havn't spoken anymore to deron. i've seen some wild stuff on ourhotwives, still not sure why we're getting all of this.
i'm not cheating on my husband, i havn't left him for deron, i havn't spoken anymore to deron. i've seen some wild stuff on ourhotwives, still not sure why we're getting all of this.
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Hi, Jane!
Good to hear from you.
54321
Good to hear from you.
54321
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I apologize if I hurt your feelings in anyway Jane... 
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I hope you and David perceive me as a friend and that you can tolerate a little more hashing out of this situation. It was very powerful for me and obviously for many others. More than any other members here you two, and your separate perspectives make me explore my own thoughts and feelings very deeply.Morgan wrote:I don't know why I feel the way I do about you.
I think it must be something about the way you express your self. The style is very spare but after 50 pages you are very real to me.
I posted the above at the beginning of August soon after Sam’s two younger friends surprised you.
I’m sure that I don’t really know you at all.
David’s role follows some of the more familiar characteristics of the cuck/hotwife husband but then again his motivations are a long way from simple and I don’t know him either.
He has boundaries but you guys haven’t discussed them with the forum that I can remember and maybe you don’t discuss them between yourselves. The not knowing seems to be part of his thing.
When Deron had his arm around you and you asked David what he was going to do about it I think you were in the “game.” David could have stayed in the game and crawled into a corner or done any number of submissive things, again staying in the game. But he didn’t. All three of you found a boundary of his.
Most of the hotwives who post, express their emotional fidelity to their husbands. You do, but from my point of view your feelings in that regard are actually posed in your comments on other threads much more than your own.
Of course you chose your husband. I think you always will, but you don’t gush about it.
No offense to those who do (gush that is.)
The concept of the MILF is common. The L stands for like. You are a MILF who does fuck. I am not surprised that a woman like you exists but I am amazed and pleased that both of you share so much and that somehow I stumbled onto OHW.
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thank you morgan. why would we share every feeling we have, when we see this controversy happen in the thread?
anyway, we have set clearer boundaries. boundaries that will be shared with the other men, should there be any.
anyway, we have set clearer boundaries. boundaries that will be shared with the other men, should there be any.
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Hey Jane. When Sam took you from behind in the bathroom was part of your excitement the uncertainty of whether there was going to be anal play involved or was I reading into what you wrote there? And........when is the next date and update? Hope all is well.