A little introduction

[Her number1]

I have begun reading this thread from the beginning as well as the recent. I have been reading on ohw for 14 years and I can honestly say this is my favorite. Seldom have I found both exciting titalation and heart felt gut wrenching honesty all wrapped into one thread.

We have recently being in a tough spot in our 12 year adventure. This thread has offered solid answers to what I have had trouble communicating to my Hotwife. I just wanted the thank you for posting your adventures even during times when comments are few. Personally I prefer one on one than group discussions and I feel I am not alone.

You two are a roadmap for how to do it right. I have read farmgirls posts around ohw and even had an exchange or two with her. Sometimes we disagreed. I guess a strong woman is not my cup of tea lol. But I do admire her wit, insights and love of life. And after a few pm’s I can see why you are a very lucky man indeed.

Thank you! I always hope some of what I write will be of benefit to others. Of course, it's about a sexual journey, but in that journey are many lessons we learned, and hopefully, those help others.

[Her number1]

Farmgirl and I went out to eat last night, we have a date night pretty much every Thursday. The restaurant was busy with a constant flow of people.
After we were seated and our order had been taken, her phone chimed. She picked it up looking me in the eyes with her cat grin and her eyes sparkling, " I fucked one today and I've been sexting with two others ".
I know I smiled broadly, it was the perfect start to a great date night.

[Open2it]

To be followed by a more perfect ending, I hope

[Her number1]

Farmgirl was having fun texting with the two guys, and we continued our intimate conversation as we enjoyed the meal. By the time we were ready to head back home, we were both 'ready'.
Once home, we headed to the bedroom. She undressed as I lay a towel across the bed. I groomed and lotioned her bright pink, gaped prize. I was mesmerized by and fully took in the sight before me, it never gets old seeing the evidence of my wife's lover having been there. As I hardened, I quickly removed my jeans and shirt. She reached for her bottle of lube, reaching down to apply it to her asshole.
Farmgirl looked at me and said, " Allen loved watching his cock sliding back and forth disappearing in my mouth and down my throat. I slurped at it and began to rub my clit as he fucked my face ".
I lined my dick up at her used pussy where I could still see traces of his cream trickling out. I pushed in a little and fucked her with short strokes. She was circling her clit with three fingers, and when I would pull back, she would plunge two fingers into her wet pussy burying them to her knuckles. As I would stroke in again she would go back to her clit. She said, " Allen loves it when I finger fuck myself, he thinks it's so hot ". This time as I pulled slightly out, she jammed two fingers deep inside and pumped them.
I pulled completely out of the way and teased the head of my dick against her asshole. She responded with, " Ram it in my ass....all the way.....hurry, just ram it in.....deeeep ". It didn't take any more persuading, I plunged into her ass until my balls rested against her. " Fuck me " she screamed as her fingers went back to her clit. I fucked her ass hard, fast, and deep as she moaned and bucked up to meet every thrust exclaiming " Fuck my ass.... fill it.... fuck it faster....fill it full ". In short order, her eyes rolled back in her head and she shook and spasmed, her asshole milking my dick. I erupted, shooting deep into her bowels, shaking as I did.
When our breathing returned to normal, she grinned and said, " I love a dick in my ass, it's the one thing I crave ".

Before I pulled out of her, she said, " I had my blankets on the pavilion floor and Allen mounted your wife like She was a bitch in heat ". My dick spasmed and I shot the final little spurt.

[Softclay]

What a date night

[4herpleasure89]

Farmgirl knows how to push your buttons. Recall sex can be the best. Great story!

[Farmgirl]

Farmgirl knows how to push your buttons. Recall sex can be the best. Great story!

I learn to push the buttons of any man I'm with .

[solstice]

Farmgirl writes: I learn to push the buttons of any man I'm with

Whilst pushing the buttons, I have a few buttons that need undoing, I have a feeling you are also adept in that skillset.

[Farmgirl]

Farmgirl writes: I learn to push the buttons of any man I'm with

Whilst pushing the buttons, I have a few buttons that need undoing, I have a feeling you are also adept in that skillset.

If I make it to Scotland, I'll undo all of your buttons.

[solstice]

If I make it to Scotland, I'll undo all of your buttons.

Hope your equally adept with zips, come quickly, but take your time before going back. I hope your darling husband comes too, you may be too much a woman for me to to manage single handed.

[Farmgirl]

If I make it to Scotland, I'll undo all of your buttons.

Hope your equally adept with zips, come quickly, but take your time before going back. I hope your darling husband comes too, you may be too much a woman for me to to manage single handed.

You'll have to stay zipped a little longer, we are planning a trip over there in the early summer of 2023.

[solstice]

Good thing zips are unaffected by rust, but I'm a very patient guy, and the will is strong, although you may have to hold me up with one hand whilst doing what you do best with the other. I would ask you to whisper sweet things in my ear, but you mouth may be better employed.......Is that too cheeky?

[Michaels30309]

She seems rather dexterous.

[54321]

Dear Farmgirl,

I asked a similar question of Parsifal, another poster I follow:
You usually play solo and your husband is a waiter rather than a watcher.
What do you do to include him in the 'drama'?
Do you shop for clothes together? Does he help you get ready? Do you text or phone him on the date itself?
Do you share a 'tell all' on your return? Do you share snippets as the two of you flirt with each other?

I always find reading about hotwives' adventures exciting but I particularly enjoy hearing of the ways
hotwifing husbands and wives use her adventures to intensify their love life together.

Every good wish,

54321

[Farmgirl]

Dear Farmgirl,

I asked a similar question of Parsifal, another poster I follow:
You usually play solo and your husband is a waiter rather than a watcher.
What do you do to include him in the 'drama'?
Do you shop for clothes together? Does he help you get ready? Do you text or phone him on the date itself?
Do you share a 'tell all' on your return? Do you share snippets as the two of you flirt with each other?

I always find reading about hotwives' adventures exciting but I particularly enjoy hearing of the ways
hotwifing husbands and wives use her adventures to intensify their love life together.

Every good wish,

54321

Why, hello, 54321!

I do my own clothes shopping and my own "hunting", and you are right that my Number1 is a waiter rather than a watcher .
He grooms my pussy regularly. I'm lasered,but the lasering only takes care of colored hair, so the blond ones still need to be shaved from time to time, I like a bare look and feel. He also keeps my feet looking their best, I have "come fuck me" feet so he gives me complete pedicures with my toenails always painted red.
Sometimes I tell him of a date beforehand, other times he only hears about it afterward. Both ways lead to excitement for each of us. I don't take pics, etc., I prefer to concentrate on myself and my lover at those times, I'm not putting on a show , I'm having sex with a lover. No phone calls or texts while on a playdate, for the reasons I just mentioned.
I do enjoy sharing bits of my texting /sexting a lover with my Number1, and we talk about it all through the day, and at breakfast and supper. We would talk about it at lunch except at lunchtime we usually have son and DIL present .
We regularly talk, chat, text, and visit about my lovers and my hotwifing. It is a normal part of our lives, though an exciting part that many don't get to experience or are afraid to.
After a playdate, I text my Number1 about it and share bits with him until we see each other. Then I share more. The story usually dribbles out as I process it and remember different things, sometimes over a couple of days. We, 99.9% of the time, have sex after I've been with another man. Having sex with a lover makes me want my Number1 so much more. That reconnection is an integral part of the whole thing for me, and for him. For me, I love the sex with my lovers, it's naughty, steamy sex. When I get back to my Number1, the sex with my lover is like foreplay for the main event; naughty steamy sex with my Number1.

[Farmgirl]

Good thing zips are unaffected by rust, but I'm a very patient guy, and the will is strong, although you may have to hold me up with one hand whilst doing what you do best with the other. I would ask you to whisper sweet things in my ear, but you mouth may be better employed.......Is that too cheeky?

"Cheeky" in an exciting way >

[Parsifal]

Having sex with a lover makes me want my Number1 so much more. That reconnection is an integral part of the whole thing for me, and for him. For me, I love the sex with my lovers, it's naughty, steamy sex. When I get back to my Number1, the sex with my lover is like foreplay for the main event; naughty steamy sex with my Number1.

Hotwifing as foreplay for the main event with No. 1 - such a nice life concept. So what's going on with that? Let me guess. He's No. 1 in the sense of being your No. 1 Mirror, among other things. Seeing yourself as naughty is what makes sex so delicious for you. And because he's capable of compersion, you reexperience that view of yourself through his eyes, which makes the naughty, steamy sex with your spouse of several decades feel so real and fresh. But on top of that he's your soul mate and spouse of several decades, so the reconnect really is the main event in that it seals the whole experience and completes the event for you.

[54321]

I love the sex with my lovers, it's naughty, steamy sex. When I get back to my Number1, the sex with my lover is like foreplay for the main event; naughty steamy sex with my Number1.

Romantic!

54321

[Farmgirl]

Having sex with a lover makes me want my Number1 so much more. That reconnection is an integral part of the whole thing for me, and for him. For me, I love the sex with my lovers, it's naughty, steamy sex. When I get back to my Number1, the sex with my lover is like foreplay for the main event; naughty steamy sex with my Number1.

Hotwifing as foreplay for the main event with No. 1 - such a nice life concept. So what's going on with that? Let me guess. He's No. 1 in the sense of being your No. 1 Mirror, among other things. Seeing yourself as naughty is what makes sex so delicious for you. And because he's capable of compersion, you reexperience that view of yourself through his eyes, which makes the naughty, steamy sex with your spouse of several decades feel so real and fresh. But on top of that he's your soul mate and spouse of several decades, so the reconnect really is the main event in that it seals the whole experience and completes the event for you.

Very well said, my friend. Probably better than I could say, Thank you.

[Farmgirl]

I love the sex with my lovers, it's naughty, steamy sex. When I get back to my Number1, the sex with my lover is like foreplay for the main event; naughty steamy sex with my Number1.

Romantic!

54321

Naughty romantic, probably more naughty .

[Her number1]

I always love the little surprises in life, especially in this lifestyle as Farmgirl does it.
This morning I was still home doing some paperwork and taking business calls. At 8:30 the door opened and in walked Farmgirl. She was reveling in afterglow, she is so cute that way!
As she was shutting the door she said, " I had a very nice romp in the hay this morning ". Not to sound too redundant, but she positively glowed. Smiling her cat grin, she walked over to where I sat and said, " Feel my hot freshly fucked pussy ", as she pulled her pants down to below her lips. I reached my hand between her slightly spread thighs and ran my fingers up her slick and sticky slit.
She began to moan and spread her feet a little more allowing easy access. She started saying, " Want to fuck your sl..ut? ", as her phone chimed. Pouting slightly, she looked at the text and said, " Gotta go and meet DIL ".
I looked at my fingers; she saw what I was looking at and said, " I'm still cream-filled ", then she turned and headed out the door.

[solstice]

I wonder if DIL observes the after glow and muses, I don't know why my mother in law is walking in the air, but I wouldn't mind experiencing what makes her so radiant.

[Parsifal]

I always love the little surprises in life, especially in this lifestyle as Farmgirl does it.
This morning I was still home doing some paperwork and taking business calls. At 8:30 the door opened and in walked Farmgirl. She was reveling in afterglow, she is so cute that way!

The wife's afterglow in that moment is one of those little slivers of life that lights the universe. One of the many moments of the whole allotment of time you want to stop and savor longer. Something easy to wax poetic about...

[early-kink]

I wonder if DIL observes the after glow and muses, I don't know why my mother in law is walking in the air, but I wouldn't mind experiencing what makes her so radiant.

I really believe that women can tell when another lady has just gotten laid. Their upbeat, happy, perky attitude is pretty noticeable. A lady "floating on air" isn't the normal demeanor one encounters.

And that's not a bad thing ...... to see a lady "floating" like that!!!!!!

Her #1 - How much kite cord do you need for Farmgirl as she "floats" around the house?? !!

[Farmgirl]

I wonder if DIL observes the after glow and muses, I don't know why my mother in law is walking in the air, but I wouldn't mind experiencing what makes her so radiant.

I really believe that women can tell when another lady has just gotten laid. Their upbeat, happy, perky attitude is pretty noticeable. A lady "floating on air" isn't the normal demeanor one encounters.

And that's not a bad thing ...... to see a lady "floating" like that!!!!!!

Her #1 - How much kite cord do you need for Farmgirl as she "floats" around the house?? !!

I'm definitely not on a short cord .