Jane' adventure

[Aynsley]

Thanks for the update, Jane.

I second this!

You have a wonderful and uniquely comfortable way of describing your encounters. They're a pleasant and arousing read. Don't be shy

Thanks !!!

[reese]

Jane, I love reading about your encounters..I look forward to hearing about your life and the experiences that you live.
Even the thoughts and feelings of your husband at times.
thanks

[243]

You sound very hot and very authentic to me Jane.

[Arctus]

Thanks for the update Jane... Sounds beyond erotic... As already stated, believable, romantic enough to be completely engaging and HOT!!! I think your idea of keeping yourself open to other men helps keep this guy from thinking he's got something exclusive going on with you irrespective of whether you invite other men into your hotwife life or not. And who knows, there may be more fun on your horizon!

I'm curious about a couple of things. First, you comment about not wanting to be away from your kids too long. Were they home when he came over to your house or were they elsewhere? Also, have you and your husband pursued any of the cuckold fantasies further (e.g., deprivation)?

Keep posting... as a previous poster stated, the whole world is waiting. Thank you for sharing your experiences and feelings. You are definitely a HOTwife.

[jane]

So far this man has been fairly unassuming about the whole thing, and not demanding. As to your questions, yes my children were home. They are quite young, and i felt safe with this man. I'm worried i may get negative feedback about that.
Secondly, no we havn't done a lot of cuckold stuff so far. A little bit of denial.

[Arctus]

Hi Jane... no... I don't think you're going to get negative feedback. Young children pay attention to whether their relationships are genuine and whether they are safe, nurtured and loved - not whether somebody in their life is following somebody else's arbitrary rules of morality. Of course, dealing with children requires sensitivity to how they process information at their respective stages of development. But on the face of what you have said, there is no reason to give negative feedback. On the contrary, you were concerned about being gone from your children too long in a previous posting. Nothing to be negative about.

Regarding the guy being non-assuming, I would assume that any man lucky enough to go to bed with you would assume he had gone to heaven, perhaps beyond <smile>! You're very beautiful and what you write suggests you are a very interpersonally sensitive and erotic woman - hotwife extraordinaire in my opinion.

I look forward to reading more... and hearing how you and your husband decide to use "cuckold stuff" for his and perhaps your arousal and enjoyment. It would be very interesting to have your husband post his thoughts and feelings when the man arrived, while he was gone from the house and when he returned... especially when he looked in on the two of you. Was it erotic for him too? I hope so. I knew the razor's edge of the erotic can cut both ways... painfully and arousingly... but it would be very interesting to hear his thoughts and feelings as well.

Keep posting <wink>!

[Arctus]

Jane... waiting with bated breath for your next post. It has and continues to be a pleasure reading your very believeable and sincere posts about your exploration in the hotwife lifestyle and beginning to toy with cuckold stuff. Keep posting <smile>!!! Thank you. You're hot!

[Rick H]

I went to see if there was something I wanted to print out to add to my collection, which goes back to 1997 (about 3 forums ago!) and this was the first thread I found, and it is absolutely fascinating. More fascinating than erotic, although it's that, too, is a very matter of fact and frank way which adds to the fascination. Ditto the way in which a basically PG-13-rated-type incident in a changing room evolved and evolved and evolved again. It's good that you are both OK with everything - well, almost everything. You take things in stride, and are both cool and concerned at the same time. As for your motivations, that remains not quite clear.

I was not that surprised at what happened with Aaron. Many if not most men can get just as emotionally attached through physical intimacy as women. This guy had had a breakup, he was falling in love with you, and yet he knew he couldn't have you - except for occasional dates anmd sexual encounters. He was ready to make a nest, and he couldn't do it with you because you already had a nest. He made one last ditch grasp at you, it didn't catch, and that was that. Forgive me for asking, but was Aaron, by any chance, Jewish? (like us) Because that is a usually-Jewish name. Jewish guys tend to be pretty focused on settling down and making a family, and if they don't get on with it, their parents will really lay into them about it.

As for the cuckold thing, well, there are so many definitions and so many degrees of it. I think most HW situations, including the ones we had years ago, had a fair element of it. What we went through actually enhanced our marital sex life - I'm not sure if this has happened with the two of you or not - it was unclear. I know if my wife had come to bed with me some night and said that well, the date could have been better this time if he hadn't been so thick, I'd have probably shot off like a rocket.

I will be following this with great interest. You write plainly and clearly and honestly, and that's a very good thing. I wish you both all the best.

- "Rick H"

[jane]

No Aaron wasn't jewish.
I had a couple encounters last weekend, but for the last several days i've been caring a sick husband and child.

[54321]

"My husband came home during the later stages , and he actually looked in on us at one point."

Wow, Jane. That is the hottest! For a husband to walk in on his beautiful wife being fucked by her lover is SO thrilling.
Did you and your husband discuss it later? Was it a thrill for you both?

I love your posts. You just sound so... so nice, in the best possible sense.

Best wishes,


54321

[Rick H]

Best wishes for a speedy recovery for husband and child. They need your attention a lot more than we do. Take care.

[Arctus]

I'm sending nothing but good health vibes your way!!! I want to read more about your explorations and adventures... and perhaps to hear more from your husband about his thoughts and feelings as he looked in on you as you described in a recent post. But only when everyone is feeling healthy (and frisky) again.

[54321]

Ditto

When you're unwell, nothing is fun, so I hope good health is on its way to you and that you'll be feeling great very soon!

54321

[jane]

Thank you for your concern. We're mostly better now, but i don't think i'll be playing in the next couple weeks as my husband is at a seminar for his job, and i'm home with the kids.

[wifewatcher1001]

deferred gratification is killing Arctus...and me.

[jane]

haha. I hope not. I havn't been seeing anyone in the last couple of weeks. Last night my husband and i met a guy i've been chatting with. I liked him. Mostly i've just been considering who i am willing to see . Married vs. unmarried, young vs. not young. White vs. Black.

[wifewatcher1001]

...me vs. Arctus?

LOL

kidding

[Arctus]

Kidding aside, it would not take too much encouragement to entice me to be on the "yes" side of Jane's "vs" dichotomies given her beauty, which appears to be exceeded only by her sweet and sincere personality. In my wildest fantasies, I'd jump in my kayak in a heartbeat and paddle south against the Japanese Current to be granted one night of pleasure in the arms of Jane.

I have really enjoyed reading about her adventures and would love to hear more about how her husband feels about the continuing adventure... How it felt when he looked in on Jane during her recent tryst at home? And how each are approaching the fantasy of cuckold play (e.g., Jane depriving her husband and how each feels about that and other dynamics of the hotwife lifestyle)? I admit it, I'm a bit smitten by Jane's photo and her writings <smile>!

[Janes Husband]

I never really wanted to see Jane with another man, but the fact that i was in the house for once when it was happening was too much for me not to look in for a minute. In a word it was "shocking". Seeing your wife having sex with another man is a real jolt. Me not being there up till then probably always kept it as a bit of fantasy. Slightly unreal to me. In some ways that factors in to the cuckold thing as well. We've been experiementing with denial, and even a cock cage. My feeling is that just her being with another man is cuckolding to me. I know not all, maybe 2/3 of the men she's seen havn't been great. There's the other few though that have been really good, apparently, that does something to me. Knowing that another man has given her that kind of pleasure, and she's even had a bond with at least one of them, is a bit of a blow to my male pride. There is a strange turn on to it--at times. Other times it does hurt. We've already gone places in this neither of us would have thought we would.
There's a lot of different issues in this lifestyle. Some of which Jane hasn't even brought up here because they are complicated. Issues mostly about who she sees. Sometimes we don't agree. (One man for instance was an old boyfriend that she wanted to see) I've pointed out to her reasons she shouldn't see particular men, that she doesn't always think of. It creates friction though. Thankfully not too much.

[Arctus]

Thank you for letting us know your honest reaction to looking in at Jane while she was having sex. Looking back on it now, does the memory provide some arousal for you when it comes to mind? I realize it was "shocking" but as the view shifted to a memory, was there some arousal to be found in it for you?

And have you enjoyed being trapped in a cock cage with Jane holding the key? How long has she sustained your denial? If a hotwife like Jane is able to find release with a "bull" and has access to him regularly, I suppose she could deny for a long long time! Torture of sorts... But perhaps sweet torture in terms of maximizing arousal prior to allowing you to enjoy release.

I am naturally D (dominant) in most of my relationships and my partner is naturally s (submissive). But we enjoy playing with reversing those roles at times in the realm of the erotic. When I gave her a gold anklet and told her this a symbol of my my encouragement for her to pursue sex with a Third - to be a hotwife, she was delighted and aroused. Even an s can find pleasure in taking control of certain aspects of erotic power in a relationship.

[jrandmustang]

My goodness. What an Adventure Jane and Husband are having, indeed! The chastity device is a very interesting development. It seems that Jane may have a bit of devilishness mixed in with all that sweetness and beauty!

[Janes Husband]

Yeah maybe she has a little she devil in her. We met with a new guy a week ago friday. Just a first meet. Then wednesday we met a man at lunch. He lives closer to us. We like to be cautious and meet in a public place a time or two to make sure they are safe. Not that you can ever really know. So she has gone to this guys condo right now. I drove over too, just to let him see i know where she is, but i came home. This guy seems to be into the lifestyle, so he's not a newbie, which i guess is good. She was totally nervous to be with him.

[Arctus]

And, how did it go? Full report Jane <smile>!!!

[allengt]

I wonder if Jane's Husband has thought to, er, bone up on the lifestyle a little.

I mean beyond these pages and into something a bit more systematic to figure out where all the pleasures and frustrations he's experiencing might fit.

David Ley's book
http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/12/06/d ... terviewed/
for instance?

That is an interview with David Ley. He is a member of this site and often makes comments here.

[jane]

I've been a little depressed the past day or so, so i havn't posted. Here's what happend with the new guy anyway:
I went to his condo, i was still very nervous. We talked a while, and then i went to the bathroom to gather my composure. When i got back he stuck out his hand, so i gave him mine. He pulled me in and we kissed for a bit. He began undressing and told me to sit down. I pulled his pants down, and there he was. I was extra intimidated then, because he is super thick and long. I took him in my hand, and began sucking on him, and went on for quite a while before he pushed me back and undressed me, and then he went down on me. He brought me to an O as well. My legs were spread, and he was between them, and i reminded him to get a condom. After he put one on he started to enter me, and i asked him to please go slowly. Thankfully he did, and even when he was all the way in he just stayed there a while, letting me adjust. He never did really give me deep thrusts, he just rotated his pelvis against me, and i began doing that too. When he felt like cumming he pulled off the condom and came in my mouth, which kind of suprised me. He went and got a drink, and then a towell for me. We laid down on his bed together and i just caressed his penis for a while, before he asked me to go down again. I gently cradled his balls and sucked slowly on it. With this guy the whole thing felt a bit surreal. i wanted to be in control with something so big in me, so i got a condom, and got on top of him. I moved on him slowly for a few minutes, but once again he rolled me over, and this time he reallly gave it to me much harder. He lasted as well. We had sex so long. I came multiple times before he did in the condom. Afterward i needed a shower, so i went in. As i got dressed he asked for my panties. I wasn't sure, but i let him keep them. He walked me to the door. Somehow i really felt like a different woman with him. He isn't really someone i can see as a "boyfriend", but the sex was something else. Yesterday i went back again, and it was very much the same, just with different positions.
Right now, i'm feeling a little lost though. Every now and then this lifestyle just leaves me feeling out of sorts. I feel really stressed out about who i am and how i am changing.