My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Jul 30, 2020 10:43 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Thu Jul 30, 2020 9:45 am
Des 31 wrote:
Thu Jul 30, 2020 5:19 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Jul 30, 2020 2:01 am
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The idea of opening the new wall to put a fake vent there so that you can hear the action better, in my mind is a difficult answer to a simple question. How can you hear the words and sounds?? Electronic listening devices are able to give you a much better result and it is not invasive to the walls purpose. It would not be favorable to have guests sleep in that room next to your marital bedroom that could hear the private conversations between Gigi and yourself in bed. The listening device will allow you total control of when it is operational and provide the privacy you want. For the cost to have the contractor come back and install the fake vent, you can spend less than that and get a high quality performance listening device. The devices are easy to install and use as well. Why pay someone to compromise the wall you already paid them to construct?? I hope this makes as much sense to you as it does to me. Spend the money, get the ability to hear what you want and keep control of your private comments. With the money you could save you can afford to install a tissue dispenser on the wall in the guest room!!! :D

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:lol: :lol: Funny. Thanks. The more I thought about it, I don't even know what excuse I could give the contractor. Cutting a hole through the steel sheet in the wall might weaken it anyway. I'll use the bedroom's security cams.

~ Des
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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Jul 30, 2020 11:58 am

Des 31 wrote:
Thu Jul 30, 2020 10:43 am
:lol: :lol: Funny. Thanks. The more I thought about it, I don't even know what excuse I could give the contractor. Cutting a hole through the steel sheet in the wall might weaken it anyway. I'll use the bedroom's security cams.

~ Des
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You know you are not happy with the sound quality from the security cams, you as much as said that previously. Go ahead and at least look into getting some decent listening devices in the area of your bed!! You will have a much better cum as you listen to her and her lover's subtle coos, gasps and groans!!! :D Seriously, I think it would enhance your pleasure much more with a quality device that will allow you to feel like you are right there beside her as she gets what she wants. After all, that is what really gets you going.

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by subtoall » Thu Jul 30, 2020 5:48 pm

Des 31 wrote:
Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:25 pm

Neither of our spouses can handle she and I having intercourse as they do. I’m sure that doing that anyway has crossed her mind, as it has mine, and just not tell them; but honesty and loyalty prevent either of us from crossing that Rubicon. Our marriages are too important to risk that.

~ Des
No, no, no! Don't ever do it! The asymmetry of your arrangement is exquisite. If you and the Boss's wife ever fuck you will lose that forever. Not to mention the betrayal of trust etc. The "unfairness" of their rules for you the boss's wife is just perfect in my book. I love it.

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Unread post by 6inches » Fri Jul 31, 2020 11:40 am

maybe you could ASK if maybe they would get off on once in a while watching you and her fucking!!! maybe they would like it??

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Unread post by Des 31 » Sun Aug 02, 2020 5:47 am

I could edit the following down to a third of what you’ll find here. The activity and surprising revelations have been rather extensive over the past few days. But I have a few things to do before my wife returns home, probably a bit past noon, so I’m copying and pasting most from my ongoing journal updated this morning. I hope some don’t find this to be too much.

* * * * *

My wife’s youngest guy Beau arrived in town Thursday, a day earlier than he intended. He and my wife changed their plans when he phoned early Wednesday evening. That allowed a third night to spend with my wife; but he was also in town to meet with his future landlord and leave a security deposit on the duplex apartment he will occupy the coming school year. Gigi had told me on Tuesday it would be better for her and Beau this weekend if she and I didn’t have sex until he was to return to his family’s home Sunday morning. I agreed that made sense; but she glanced aside and joked, “You can wait your turn.” I liked her enthusiasm.


* * * * *
In anticipation of his visit, my wife and I left work earlier than usual. She showered and, as she was blow-drying her hair, told me to pick out a casual outfit he might like. I chose her short, white wrap-around golf skirt and an abbreviated white blouse that ties beneath the breasts, exposing her midriff. I suggested she didn’t need a bra. She turned, put away the hair-dryer, and said, “Want to dress me?” I’m always eager to help when asked.

I pulled the skirt up her legs and tied the top. She sat in our bedside chair awaiting me to put on her white socks and running shoes. She looked down to my evident erection and smiled, saying, “You like doing this, don’t you?” I responded that I wanted the two of them to have a hot reunion over the next three nights and, yes, I liked preparing her for a date. She stood, her hands on her hips and long legs apart. She ran her tongue slowly over her upper lip and said, “I’m sure he’s as excited as me.” Gancing down to the erection in my chinos, added, “It looks like our holding off sex for a few days has made you ready for when he leaves Saturday morning.” I could have fucked her right at that moment, but she was instead ready for Beau and I didn’t wish to mess up any of what was soon to come for the two of them.

Beau arrived at our place just past six. They were fucking within an hour after the three of us had talked, and I worked on some assignments in our home office. For her benefit, I told her I wouldn’t watch the bedroom's surveillance cam feeds the first few hours of their sexual reunion; I didn’t want her to be thinking about me while he’s fucking her. The bedroom door was closed, so I was unsure what was going on in there. Each was in a high state of excitation by the time they made their way to the bedroom, and Gigi has since told me it was hot for both.

Soon before he had arrived, I asked if she was excited about seeing him again. She didn’t respond with words; instead, she looked at me with a closed-lip, weak smile and her body shuddered in anticipation. Her swollen nipples jutted out noticeably beneath her white blouse. At that moment, I wanted his cock inside her hot cunt so much my dick swelled and pulsated. I don’t think she noticed.

Before they retreated to our bedroom, they embraced and kissed deeply as I sat across from the two on our couch. To give them privacy, I went to the kitchen and unzipped my fly. Stroking my cock, I peered around the wall but by then they were walking to the hallway. Gigi was leading him with her fist curled around his stiff shaft. She said to him in a whining tone, “I need you so much tonight.” I’m sure she meant it; he had definitely been in her lusty thoughts for at least two days.

Their clothes were scattered on the couch and coffee table, so I folded those and left them atop a towel outside our bedroom door before going to sleep in our guest bedroom. Remembering the image of my wife’s excited tone as she and he walked out of the living room, I jerked off wildly as I lay in bed. I was probably as hot as either of them.

On the phone the previous evening, Beau told my wife Sherry couldn’t come with him this weekend. He said she was committed to “something else,” but the good news was that she accepted a proposal for the two to be married upon his graduation. Sherry has decided to accept the position offered by a local aircraft-maintenance company at the airport just south of our town. Beau asked Gigi about the possibility of a permanent position for him at the bank; she told him that had already been discussed between her, the chief financial officer and their boss and he would be offered that position within the next few months if the CFO’s opinion of him remained the same. She asked him not to mention she has told him that.

Before hanging up the phone in her conversation with him the previous night, Gigi asked what his girlfriend was doing this weekend that prevented her from traveling with him. While taking part-time pilot lessons, Sherry had dated her divorced flight instructor off and on a few weeks before Beau had asked if she would consider marrying him when he graduates late next year. He will be fucking her this weekend. She had promised staying these couple of nights with the instructor three weeks previously and Beau agreed she shouldn’t go back on her word. She doesn’t anticipate that casual relationship to last after she receives her pilot’s license in about two weeks. She mentioned she felt a little guilty about having sex with him, but Beau told her he thought it was exciting and encouraged her to go ahead with the date. She was thrilled with that.

Sherry’s two-year airplane mechanics training ends this August. Because of her developing relationship with Beau, she decided to forego active military service as she had previously considered. Instead, she was told by the company for which she will soon be working they’re certain she can get a commission in the Air National Guard, to which another company’s mechanic belongs as a pilot. She is considering that as an opportunity to serve; and Beau thinks she will accept that if the opportunities are what she believes they will be. She thinks she might have the opportunity to fly in that service.

The next morning, I was up at our usual 5:30, fixed breakfast, and called them on our phone intercom. Her huffing told me he was giving her an early morning fuck and her comment, “We’ll be there in a minute,” was followed by “Oh yeah, cum inside me!” He was wearing my terry cloth robe when he and my wife, attired only in my pajama top, joined me.

They plopped into chairs alongside the other. I served breakfast and sat across from them. Both were bushed from their night of hot sex, and neither had combed their mussed hair. He’s always been a good looking young guy with a good build. But I hadn’t paid full attention to how he has filled out since he began exercising and running a few months back. His neck is a bit thicker. His arms are broader, and his six-pack looked good beneath the open folds of his robe. I said nothing about that but privately realized his improved physique most likely adds another thrill for my wife.

Given what Beau had told us about his and Sherry’s planned marriage, I asked whether he had reservations about Sherry sleeping with another tonight. He and my wife laughed at my inquiry. He said, “I hope she’s getting it good. When we left your place a couple of weeks ago, Sherry said she thinks you two have the perfect marriage. I agreed. Your wife has taught me more about life than anyone I’ve ever met. We both hope our marriage is something like yours, but Sherry agreed I could date others like I want her to do.”

Gigi interrupted and said to me, “Maybe you haven’t noticed. Beau is becoming you.” I have since thought about that remark and realize his mannerisms have increasingly been more like mine. I think my wife might have been essentially remaking his personality and way of thinking. That’s something I hadn’t previously considered; I may be wrong in my assumption, but I haven’t yet talked with her about whether she intended that or is even aware of the possibility.

Beau nodded affirmatively and said, “After all, it’s just sex,” then turning to Gigi, added, “But with you two, it’s different. I think of you as family.” I sat quietly a moment and realized my wife and I have come to think of him as just that. She had told me the night before sex with him is different from that with her boss. She said, “I’ve come to love Beau more deeply.” She feels their prolonged affair has made their sex even more exciting than the past, which is saying a lot. I was pleased to hear it and now suspect this relationship may outlast any in her past.

She smiled, turned to Beau, and said, “At one time, I thought of you as a son I’ve never had. Now, you’re something more.” I grinned and said, “When she once told me she thought of you as her son, I told her, ‘Yeah, I can see that if it the son is fucking his mom.’” She didn’t like it when I said that, but now she and he roared in laughter, and Gigi said, “I liked that thought too.” She leaned to kiss Beau fully on the lips and said, “I love you. I want you in our lives permanently.” He responded, “I want that too.”

While they were fucking again, this time in our guest room where I slept the night before, I changed the sheets and pillow-cases and made up our marital bed for their next night.

Gigi had intended to off work Friday but her boss and his family are away a few days, and circumstances at the bank didn’t allow her to stay home. Having that free time, Beau phoned a student from his school who invited him to go water skiing behind his family’s home with a couple of guys and a girl from their school. He hasn’t been on water skis before, but Gigi assured him it’s easy on the first try but warned him novices shouldn’t be talked into performing tricks like reverse side slides or flips and definitely no jumps. He promised with a grin, “Okay, Mom, I’ll be good.”

* * * * *

When he came in after our return from work, he said he followed her safety advice. But at one point the girl operating the boat unintentionally sped too near the family’s boat dock; Beau released his grip on the rope handle to sail in on his skis to the shore. He said, “So, I broke no bones on my first time out.”

We were getting ready to go out for a quick dinner when the phone rang. Gigi noticed the phone’s ID screen identified it as from Liz and Ben. Liz wanted to firm up our trip downriver on their cabin cruiser this month. Gigi said we were looking forward to it and told her Beau is staying with us through Saturday night. Liz said her boyfriend and Ben’s office manager are coming to their place Saturday evening for a four-way swingers’ party and inquired whether my wife, me and Beau wished to join them.

Gigi turned to Beau and me and asked if we wished to go. I realized I wouldn’t allow me to join the sex and declined, saying, “I would like it if you and Beau go without me. I’ll find something else to do.” She awaited Beau’s response, and he said, “Oh yeah. I’m game.” She told Liz they would be there at six o’clock as Liz had suggested as the arrival time. Gigi turned to me and said, “Are you sure it’s okay with you?” I assured her I liked the idea. She and Beau have swapped with them before on the couple’s boat and Beau has had sex with Liz a few times since. My wife had once met Ben’s office manager, but I had not. Ben hired the woman months ago to manage his businesses. She is said to be a good bookkeeper and manager and had once been a dancer at mens’ clubs before moving to our area. I'm told she’s a “very, very” good looking woman. Gigi tells me she looks to be near her own age of 33 but might be older.

We went out to lunch at a fast food place. When we returned, we got naked and took beers to talk in the hot tub on our patio. Beau will again be working part-time at the bank when he returns in August, a week before his school opens for the fall semester. He said to Gigi the way the bank is run reminds him of the way a good car engine runs. It hums along and he has noticed my wife and her boss make adjustments if a part seems to be knocking. She said their boss is responsible for that, and was told by employees who have been around longer than she, it wasn’t always that way. She too has learned from her boss how and when to make needed changes and keep it that way.

She is unsure whether she or Beau first mentioned it, but they agreed his and her sex together is like that too. They fit together well and their fucking is like a well-oiled machine. She says when they’re having sex, it seems to each they’re united as a single entity, with the same thoughts and feelings. I have watched them on occasion and cannot imagine two bodies so well-honed for the other. Like my wife’s boss, his lasting power and stamina are impressive. And, yeah, it’s better than mine. I like that. A lot.

They kissed and fondled in our hot tub across from me while I stroked beneath the water. They finally got out, dried off, and went to the living room to fuck while I watched and jerked off. Neither climaxed, probably because of me as their audience. Gigi led him by his dick to our bedroom. They were fucking behind the newly installed closed door. I watched the camera feed on my laptop alongside my desktop in our home office and happily jerked my dick until I was cumming hard into a tissue.

She was on her knees and he was pounding her from behind as she gibbered excitedly in words I doubt he could understand either. The best I can describe that is that her drooping jaw, half closed eyes and facial expression was like someone drugged on sex - if that’s even possible - as her young fuckbuddy pumped her with a fury. I admire his stamina and lasting power. I don’t think I was that good ever, at any age. My wife said he was always exceptional at fucking, but she thinks he’s better in all ways now than even a year ago.

Last night, they drove separately to Ben’s and Liz’s home where they would be swapping partners with the couple, Ben’s office manager and Liz’s boyfriend. Around 9:00, I received a phone call from Ben. My wife had said she should call me, but Ben said that because he and I haven’t talked for a while, he would phone me on her behalf.

He said Gigi was pretty much the central figure that night. She was in a bedroom with his wife and office manager for a girl-girl event and my wife seemed in control of the women who were howling at whatever Gigi was doing for them at the moment. I knew why she’s would be exceptional with the women. I have mentioned it in the past within these pages. Her tongue is an inch longer than most; when giving oral sex, her tongue penetrates a vagina like a small cock. For that reason, when she 18-19, she was a favorite with her high school FLAG Bunch girls at their monthly lesbian meetings.

By that time, all guys had fucked my wife and his business manager, but Ben hadn’t yet got around to fucking Liz. I’ll need to await my wife to tell me the details.

Ben phoned again this morning to tell me she will be home just after noon today. Beau will leave their place at that time to drive back to his family’s home 100 miles south of town; he told Ben to thank me for loaning me my wife during his visit. The reason for Gigi’s coming home later than typical is that she asked all to join her in watching our church’s online sermon on TV. She rarely misses those programs now that our church has been indefinitely shut down over the coronavirus outbreak. Ben said Gigi pretty much led a sermon to them a few minutes earlier at breakfast about how religion fits works for her with extramarital sex; I’ve often heard her lengthy explanations before and have a good idea of what she told them.

With all that, I guess this makes me at least half a cuck. All I’m missing to totally fit that definition is a desire for humiliation and sucking cocks, two needs that haven’t been of interest to me.

Well, at least not yet. I don’t recall masturbating so often as these past few days since … Oh, I don’t know; maybe since I was twelve. The only times she has been fucked by that many men in so short a time were on Ben’s boat and a night we attended the now-defunct cuckold-hotwife club. And I don’t yet know how many times each fucked her last night.

* * * * *

ONE MORE THING from a moment ago unexpectedly winds up this weekend: I was about to end this narrative when Gigi phoned. Liz had said she and her extramarital boyfriend wanted to sing her favorite religious song as a duet before watching that online sermon. A wall in their media room is a painted mural of a western landscape and a six-foot replica of a covered wagon sets in front of it. Gigi set her mobile phone to visual and let me watch. Liz and her boyfriend sat together in front of the covered wagon and she had a guitar in her hand. Liz wore a tan cowgirl hat, fringed leather Custer-like suede jacket, tan jeans and western boots. The other four sat on the floor in a circle.

Gigi had known all those present from before, but these live images from her cell phone was the first I had seen Ben’s office manager or Liz’s boyfriend. I had been told their ages are somewhere in their 30s to mid-’40s, but each has facial features that make it difficult to accurately guess their ages. The woman is attractive, with long auburn hair. Liz’s boyfriend is a good-looking guy with dark brown hair. Liz’s figure still looks like the young gymnast she once was, and her husband Ben is a big guy with a big personality that reminds of John Wayne in his attitude and mannerisms. No matter what inconveniences may come about at times, as it they do to all of us, neither he or nor she - like my wife’s boss - seems to notice. They just deal with it and seemingly take everything in stride. That’s my best-loved characteristic about those three.

Liz has an awesome talent for mimicking old singers of classic-western and rock music from a time before I was born. She and her boyfriend sang, “How Great Thou Art,” for the group as I watched on my cell phone. I detected gasps and words of appreciation of the performance from some or all listening. I was blown away by the process and began to wish I had gone to their party instead of staying home.

Before clicking off her phone, Gigi said that the program the six were watching would be broadcast earlier, she would be home before noon. Beau will be leaving for his family’s home from Liz’s and Ben’s place for the reason he will be working at his parents’ hardware store on Monday.

I need to get busy and put away my work papers, wash the dishes, and do some housework before she gets home. I’m hoping she’s up for one more fuck when she gets home today. (I warned at the outset this update might be lengthy, so I trust those who prefer no more than four or five sentences per posting won't be sending me the usual PMs to complain about this one.)

~ Des
Last edited by Des 31 on Sun Aug 02, 2020 9:55 am, edited 2 times in total.
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Unread post by anonymister1948 » Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:38 am

What a fantastic update! So many things to think about: Beau getting engaged, Gigi having what can only be described as polyamorous love for him, Gigi taking on more lovers than she ever has, Beau becoming you, You going deeper into you cuckold space. Wow! I wish all the posts on OHW were as thorough as yours!

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Unread post by mundyman » Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:26 am

Thank you for taking the time and effort to remember and document your life. I don’t always get it, but I don’t have to. But I am captivated by your adventures.
What comes through clearly is that you and your wife have built a Strong and wonderful relationship in which you each get what you want and enjoy it thoroughly, and if you’re not enjoying it you communicate relentlessly and continuously.
Whether you were in the lifestyle or not your level of communication is to be admired and duplicated. It is a sign of the love AND respect you have for each other.
So keep on keeping on.
Again thank you for taking the time and care to share your story.
Continued good luck to you and your wife as you travel through this lifestyle.
Stay safe, stay well.

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Unread post by solstice » Sun Aug 02, 2020 8:13 am

I am astonished that anyone has the gall to complain of the length of your update, your detailed report on what transpired must have been a memorable time for all who were fortunate enough to be there.
When you decide not to join the "party" was it out of the desire to conform to Gigi's unexpressed wishes? I can't believe it was because you would feel like a spare cog.
I often wonder if your lifestyle is the model of future relationships and if fucking one partner is on the way out. Although being a member of a forum such as this maybe skewering my view of a growing level acceptability
I enjoyed the act of you dressing your wife for her date, looks as if she enjoyed the experience too.
Sherry obviously does not have doubts about Beau sleeping with others, interesting the differences of opinions, but once a wife forms a position on sharing her husband it may be set in stone.

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sun Aug 02, 2020 8:54 am

Des,

A GREAT update!!! My advice for you if others complain about the length of your update is to say to them "Fuck Off!!!!". Sorry to be so blatant about that but there obviously been many complaints for you to mention them here. I believe it is not in your nature to say something as crude as that but to complain about you taking your time and effort to write these adventures and updates for them to masturbate with is just simply ridiculous and and crude in itself!!! So, with that out of my head.... Like the others have said, sooo many new aspects in the story line!!! As I was reading, the only thing that gave me any concern at all was when I read that you were not going to join them at the party. That is because I don't see you as a cuck! I do see you as a HWH and you shouldn't be too concerned about not being allowed to fuck anyone while everyone else is. For me, it would be a problem, but it is a life choice you and Gigi have chosen and almost everyone there knows about your arrangement and wouldn't be concerned with it at all!!! Who knows, Gigi could see you alone and bring one of the women over that she knows isn't going to make designs on you in the future and tell her to rock your rocks!!! I'm glad to see that you later said you wished you would have gone. After all, you and Gigi are a couple and should be seen as a couple at events like this where it isn't a public party. Anyway, just my perspective on that issue, fwiw!!

It will be very interesting to see who gets to fuck the newlyweds on the wedding night first!! Gigi with Beau and you with Sherry???? I know it's a stretch, but those of us with active imaginations can't help what thoughts float out of our minds. Maybe they go first and you and Gigi swap with them after they have their first marital fuck that night to consummate their marriage!!!! That would surely create an emotional bond between the couples that could be very long lasting.

As for the rest of the update, I found it very interesting how things are developing in your world. Your updates are a GREAT read!!!! They are not always grammatically perfect (sorry, but I had to say it) but that is what says to me it is a very spontaneous report very fresh from your memory, and that makes it very compelling. Please don't ever worry about your readers!!! Just write as you feel it!!! Thanks again for all you write for us!!!!!!!

Rascal

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Unread post by solstice » Sun Aug 02, 2020 9:47 am

Grammatically correct? Well Des did say this was a cut and paste job, I'm not smart nor finicky enough to spot errors in the grammar, but I'd rather have the full version, as I love the background detail to set the scene for all the delicious houghmagandies, and you can have that word with no additional charge.

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Unread post by samlowen » Sun Aug 02, 2020 10:29 am

One thought I had after reading this update revolves around the mother/son relationship between Beau and Gigi. Gigi does have a fondness for tutoring the young ones, identifying areas of personal growth for them and helping them achieve said growth, whether sexually or non. You've never really touched on if you and Gigi might have pursued children if her body had allowed that to be a possibility (or maybe I don't remember you doing so). The deeper feelings that Gigi and Beau have versus the feelings between Gigi and Bossman can be explained, at least in my mind, by this pseudo mother/son bonding they have. The feelings with Bossman could be colored by the employer relationship. After all, you have said many times that the Bossman doesn't get turned down often. Up until this update I had assumed that Bossman and Gigi would end up being the closer, longer term relationship simply because of the best friends nature of the two couples. I still feel that will be a long term poly-light relationship but now I can see the one with Beau superseding the one with Bossman because it doesn't have the work overtones that can create a sense of obligation, not simply a pure wanton lust.

I agree with Rascal that you should have gone, something that you recognize. Normally I agree with most of what Rascal says but I have slightly different take on the HWH vs Cuck demarcation. I've feel you are searching and poking around on the cuck side, testing the waters because that is more your true nature but you are uncomfortable right now taking those larger steps to solidify that. The fact that you are eager and willing to delay penetrative sex between you and your wife, constantly deferring to any other situation that presents itself, leads me to assume you are more cuck husband than hotwife husband. You are mentioning the humiliation and cock sucking aspects of cuckoldry as steps you aren't interested in but I think you also recognize that they aren't necessary to being a cuckold. You are leaning more and more into the cuckold space with your butlering of her and her lovers.

You have mentioned time and time again how martial sex becomes commonplace and not nearly as exciting as with new or other men. For many couples this is true. For others this is not always the case. Several couples, both in and out of this kink, continue to have hot and steamy erotic couplings that are far from boring or routine. When other's have lamented the fact that you downplay or briefly discuss the interactions between you and Gigi, what I think about is this...we do not hear you talking about your desire for your wife. It is always about your desire for other's to be with your wife. If there was more from you about your overwhelming desire to be with Gigi, more from you about any desires she has to be with you, other than via a hand job or blowjob, then I might agree more with Rascal about you being a HWH. My thoughts are EXTREMELY colored by my own relationship with my wife. I have mentioned to you a few times that I feel you and Gigi most closely mirror the ways my wife and I played prior to starting a family. The difference between my relationship and yours that I can see is that I feel my wife and I have a greater need for penetrative sex between us than I see between you and Gigi. It's part of our connection that helps keep us grounded. I'd love to see you come home from a trip and have Gigi tell you how much she's missed you and wants you inside her. I'd love to see you tell that to Gigi as well. Some of that could very well be going on behind the scenes and you could be choosing to keep that out of the thread, as it's about her hotwife history first and foremost. If I saw more yearnings for each other between you two I would lean more towards you being a HWH. Please don't read this as a criticism or a request for more from you. I love what you share and it is more than enough of your personal life with Gigi. We are all thankful that you continue to share with us.

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Unread post by Tracey52 » Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:09 pm

I love the long posts as well. Man your and Gigis’ lives are so busy especially in these CoVid times.

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Unread post by Scotch98 » Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:18 pm

Great update Des. The longer the better!!!! Quite an outing w/ Beau, Liz and her BF, the office manager, And Ben. Sounds like one heck of a time.... Thanks for sharing

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Unread post by solstice » Sun Aug 02, 2020 12:47 pm

There is many shades of a hotwife's husband's preferences, I am of the opinion that Des is quite satisfied in the knowledge of Gigi's love for him, and she gets pleasure in meeting his particular needs: Theirs is a relationship that appears not to be under pressure, which is not universal in the lifestyle.

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Unread post by solstice » Sun Aug 02, 2020 3:29 pm

Another great avatar, I particularly enjoy the sideways thrust of Gigi's hips, I hope that is a short skirt she is wearing but lament that it could be shorts, which are not my favourite thing, whereas with a skirt there is always a little more that can be revealed. :oops:

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sun Aug 02, 2020 6:10 pm

Samlowen,

I agree with most of what you have said. I see your point about cuckish behaviors on Des' part and I have seen them evolving as well. The domestic things he does around the house, especially when she has a lover with her at home, changing the sheets between their romps, making breakfast for them, listening at the door, the deferment of penetrative sex with Gigi and the willingness to accept the hand job as a substitute for PIV sex all look like cuck behavior. These things are things that I would do for Vixen any time she has visitors at the house. But the way I see that is that every man who's wife fucks other men wonders about these things especially when the hang around this type of forum and hears other things as I just described, has to wonder if that is exciting or not. That is how we determine who and to some degree what we are and our personal identities. It just appears to me that Des is looking at things he reads about and wonders like most of us, "Is this for me?". So I do see your points but I still see him as a HWH at least until his approach to the entire lifestyle as they practice it changes to a more submissive character. I just think Des is a very even tempered gentleman who won't tell people who very much deserve it to "Fuck Off!" Just because he doesn't portray an ALPHA character doesn't mean he is a cuck. And I also know that is not what you said either. Just an additional thought of my own. So, now that we have psychoanalyzed poor ole' Des like he can't read all that we have said about him, I hope we haven't made him feel disaffected by our comments. Hi, Des!!!!!!! :D

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Unread post by solstice » Mon Aug 03, 2020 4:23 am

rascalnvixen: Des is a very even tempered gentleman who won't tell people who very much deserve it to "Fuck Off!

We shouldn't take his even temper for granted, he could easily think, "that's it I've had enough", and just disappear before our very eyes,
We seem to think we have Des sust, and have him stitched up like a kipper, to use limey slang. This is my revenge for all those Southern red neck expression, that leave me mystified. :D
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Unread post by Des 31 » Mon Aug 03, 2020 4:24 am

Gigi responded to some above questions and comments but I thought they were a bit off the mark, so she deleted her comments here.

Her comments were right in that she and I talked about the responses and agreed that every comment is on target. I can't disagree with any of the opinions expressed following my last post. I've written before that I don't understand that much about my motivations. I'm pretty good at judging others but not so much about myself.

Rascalnvixen wrote, " So, now that we have psychoanalyzed poor ole' Des like he can't read all that we have said about him, I hope we haven't made him feel disaffected by our comments. Hi, Des!!!!!!!" So, no, I'm not disaffected, Rascal. I enjoyed that and the other analyses. You're probably all right in your assumptions. I thought all were good insights. Thanks to all for responding.

And I haven't received a single Private Message complaint this time. I'm somewhat amazed at the traffic in responses, PMs and number of readers the past few months at this thread. All that makes it worthwhile sharing our lives here, which I enjoyed anyway from that first post a few years back. Some have written they have been reading it from the beginning. One frequent respondent said he once recommended to two guys with who he works and it's become a topic of conversation on their lunch hours. One of those is only about three-fourths through our history and the respondent said he's probably jerking off when reading the narratives as a reason he's slow in getting up to date at this thread. That was funny.

Added on later: Gigi said I made an error in that last longer post but I don't think it's as relevant as she does. I wrote that Beau hadn't been on water skis before. She said it wasn't typical water skiing, it was a slalom, which is like water skiing on one board rather than two. She said he has water skiied behind his parents' boat on the lake behind their home. So, okay, that's corrected in order to satisfy my wife.

~ Des
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Unread post by solstice » Mon Aug 03, 2020 4:28 am

Des, your last comments made my last remarks obsolete

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Mon Aug 03, 2020 1:02 pm

Des,

As I read the part about Beau water skiing in your last update, I thought it very unusual that he would not have water skied in that lake behind his parents house and that they enjoy spending time in that lake. I have to take Gigi's view in that correction. Although I'm sure it was unintended but it was a bit misleading. To me, there is a significant difference between just water skiing and slalom. Although similar there is a different skill set in technique the fun is all the same!! The difference is very similar to that between snow skiing and snow boarding! I'm sure many understand those differences but some may not. Thus ends today's lesson!! :D

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Unread post by Des 31 » Mon Aug 03, 2020 1:25 pm

rascalnvixen wrote:
Mon Aug 03, 2020 1:02 pm
Des,

As I read the part about Beau water skiing in your last update, I thought it very unusual that he would not have water skied in that lake behind his parents house and that they enjoy spending time in that lake. I have to take Gigi's view in that correction. Although I'm sure it was unintended but it was a bit misleading. To me, there is a significant difference between just water skiing and slalom. Although similar there is a different skill set in technique the fun is all the same!! The difference is very similar to that between snow skiing and snow boarding! I'm sure many understand those differences but some may not. Thus ends today's lesson!! :D

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Yeah, I get that now but I'm sure I heard the words "water skiing" at least once in their conversation. She said if I had, one or the other of them misstated something. She says it's something like surfing, which she has done as a teen, but said the waves in the Gulf area where she then lived aren't that challenging. She tells me a difference is that surfers have no rope to hang onto, but I had figured that out. My error is a good example of ignorance of a topic being written about. (I'm glad I mentioned it now; I had doubted anyone would have noticed. You proved me wrong.)
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Unread post by Tracey52 » Wed Aug 05, 2020 1:10 pm

Man Gigi keeps her body tight. It’s a testament to all the physical exercise she does. Her lovers are truly lucky guys.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Aug 05, 2020 5:19 pm

Just an update: (perhaps of limited interest, but some here ask about our daily lives):

My wife convinced me we needed more security to keep our private lives from being inadvertently found out. Soon, she can be fucked by her guys at home without concern about unannounced visitors.(And she is now at one of her guys’ homes for a few hours; so I’ll be hearing about that later.)

She arrived home from work about 4:45 yesterday afternoon while I was still at the office with a client and my secretary. When I was wrapping up and about leave, my mobile phone buzzed. Gigi wants a metal gate installed for the driveway space between the eight-foot-high stone wall surrounding our home. That height is rare in our county but I like that none can see over it. Walls and fences are now limited to six feet in height for homes but ours had been constructed along with the home in the early 60s.

That’s the only project we had discussed to have near-total security but I was reluctant so soon after having our home refurbished. But when I arrived home, she said a fence company’s representative was on his way to our place. He was here for an hour, and my wife chose a spiked metal-rod, dual-swing gate with remote openers and an intercom for visitors to request our opening the gate.

I went along with her plan when she reminded me that if someone comes by at an inconvenient time and we don’t answer the intercom, they’ll assume we aren’t home. Uninvited visitors are infrequent for us, but it happens and neither of us wants others to inadvertently uncover the hidden components within our private lives.

Our remodeling contractor had joked a few days before, “It should now hold up against anything short of an asteroid impact,” but I can imagine a few more unlikely happenings. Gigi responded to the contractor’s joke with, “How would it do against a space alien invasion?”

After the fence company’s rep left, she reminded me she would be at Fred’s place after work the following evening. She had already told me she wouldn’t be there more than a couple of hours. She laughed when I responded, “Like I would forget that.” She had phoned him from work Tuesday to ask if he was free Thursday night. I liked that for the reason it’s usually the guys who call her, not the other way around. Knowing she set it up instead of him, I realized she’s enthusiastic about her newest guy.

His other married girlfriend Jean has been accepted for officer’s candidate school but hasn’t yet received a convening date. When that comes about, my wife will be his only monthly-or-so date. Jean has told her she wants to visit with us before she leaves if not sooner but she and Gigi haven’t yet set up a date for that.

I had asked my wife why she didn’t go to Fred’s place Tuesday night when she had made the call. She said with a grin, “I had a busy weekend. I’ll be more ‘ready’ by Thursday night.” She said, ”You can have too much sex, you know,” and told me this joke:

~ ~ A woman told her doctor she had a problem,“You have to help me. Every evening I have sex with my husband, then again in the middle of the night. And in the morning, we have sex again and I go out for a walk and have sex with a neighbor. I go to the park, spot a guy in the park and have sex with him too.” The doctor said, “When did this start?” The woman said, “Tomorrow.” ~ ~

I wish I had thought to ask what particularly interests her about Fred, but I assume I’ll learn that when she gets home. I had mentioned I would like to meet him, but she says he wouldn’t be comfortable with that, at least yet.

* * * * *

His dick should be fully implanted by now and both happily fucking. Assuming she doesn’t stay later than planned, I anticipate her telling me all about it when she and I are having sex later tonight. Her detail narratives while we’re having sex are my favorite thrills, and she relives the sex in her mind as she tells me about it.

~ Des


* * * * * Last minute update: She phoned before I hit “send” and was on a break from fucking while he was getting drinks from the fridge. He wanted her to stay until morning, but she told him I expected her home no later than nine. She looked at her watch and realized she was already a bit late. But she and I have learned it's difficult to keep on schedule when in new relationships. On two occasions in the past when with new guys, she and the guy fell asleep after fucking; she was in a panic when she awoke early the next morning. She phoned me and profusely apologized. I didn't mind and don't worry now about her being later than she planned.

She added it would be better for him to be at our home if he prefers overnight dates. He agreed to that. They might set something up again in three or four weeks from now, so I’ll get to meet him after all unless I’m on the road for an assignment at that time. She expects to be leaving for home in about an hour but won’t stay past nine-thirty. When he returned to the room, she said she would phone me from her car when on the way home. She was saying something to Fred as she clicked off her mobile phone.
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Unread post by samlowen » Wed Aug 05, 2020 5:42 pm

Will this be your first time inside your wife's pussy since before your trip two weekends ago or did you get an opportunity Sunday after Beau left?

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