How often with your husband?

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More or less with Hubby?

When I have a lover(s), I have sex with my husband less often than in the times when I do not have a lover(s)
104
31%
When I have a lover(s), I have sex with my husband as often as in the times when I do not have a lover(s)
54
16%
When I have a lover(s), I have sex with my husband more often than in the times when I do not have a lover(s)
176
53%
 
Total votes: 334

Her number1

Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by Her number1 » Fri Jan 15, 2021 6:50 pm

Sometimes almost more often than I can stand. ;)

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by Andreilly » Sat Jan 16, 2021 4:00 am

The more my wife has sex with other men the more she has it with me. Between the reclaim, the euphoria of an encounter w someone else and just being super horny in general after I reap the benefits

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by stevens4fun » Sat Jan 16, 2021 5:19 am

Same here.

Andreilly wrote:
Sat Jan 16, 2021 4:00 am
The more my wife has sex with other men the more she has it with me. Between the reclaim, the euphoria of an encounter w someone else and just being super horny in general after I reap the benefits

SteelRidge

Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by SteelRidge » Sat Jan 16, 2021 6:04 am

I don't know what would happen if my wife started having sex with other men. Right now the only limiting factor on quantity of sex is me. So it would really depend on my physiological/psychological response to her fucking other men.

I guess it would be reduced as her new sex partner takes the load off me.

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by afagehi7 » Sat Jan 16, 2021 10:20 am

SteelRidge wrote:
Sat Jan 16, 2021 6:04 am
I don't know what would happen if my wife started having sex with other men. Right now the only limiting factor on quantity of sex is me. So it would really depend on my physiological/psychological response to her fucking other men.

I guess it would be reduced as her new sex partner takes the load off me.
I think you'll be hot and want her more.

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by zorro » Sat Jan 16, 2021 10:41 am

Farmgirl wrote:
Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:43 pm
I normally play a couple of times a week, and the more I get fucked, the more I want it. My husband gets me anytime I'm with one of my guys, and because I get more randy, my husband gets even more. :D
You are a tribute and example that illustrates how wonderfully sexual women are born to be.
I admire you.

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Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by Farmgirl » Sat Jan 16, 2021 7:02 pm

zorro wrote:
Sat Jan 16, 2021 10:41 am
Farmgirl wrote:
Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:43 pm
I normally play a couple of times a week, and the more I get fucked, the more I want it. My husband gets me anytime I'm with one of my guys, and because I get more randy, my husband gets even more. :D
You are a tribute and example that illustrates how wonderfully sexual women are born to be.
I admire you.

Z
Thanks for the so wonderful compliment!

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by early-kink » Sat Jan 16, 2021 7:41 pm

"You are a tribute and example that illustrates how wonderfully sexual women are born to be." ^^^^^- Zorro

I'd just like to get hold of the ones who get young women to believe that sex is - (get a load of THESE words .......) dirty, filthy, disgusting, sick, perverse, evil, hoggish, your "OBLIGATION IN MARRIAGE", "what you have to put up with", "all men want you for", "a tool to use against men", "something you ONLY do to have kids", and other silly-assed nonsense like those words and phrases.

It's NO WONDER so many marriages fail with warped, F-ed up perceptions of sex!!!! The one thing that bonds any man & woman at the most intimate & personal level is portrayed as ANYTHING BUT positive. Then .......... once married ........... how can they instantly become a willing sexual goddess with an unbridled libido ............. after being mentally "pickled" with years of horrible negativity??? The shame and guilt are soaked into them like dill pickle brine!! Sooooooo F-ed up.

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by masculinecuck » Tue Jan 26, 2021 7:21 am

I guess I"m the exception on this post, I get MUCH less as my wife has had 2 steady bulls for the last 4 years or so, I get a blowjob about once a month.

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by tit4atat » Tue Jan 26, 2021 8:19 am

When my wife has something going on, it is all about sharing the ride. She is eager to come home and share the details and of course there are big benefits for me. We end up enjoying a lot more than usual and it is so much better. Of course nothing like sloppy seconds! When she doesn't have anything going, things quickly get back to the normal slow routine.
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=61677&p=1182099#p1182099

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by parklife » Tue Jan 26, 2021 11:01 am

I absolutely have sex more often when she’s playing. Her sex drive increases when she has another partner and I get to enjoy the benefit. For most of Covid we’d fallen into an every two week rut. As she flirted and started getting close, her sexual interest gains and since she she had sex with another guy two weeks ago, we’ve had sexual encounters much more often than that.

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by Des 31 » Tue Jan 26, 2021 11:08 am

We have had sex more often since she began dating other men. There are times when she has sex with others more than me, like when I'm traveling for work, and she has two regular guys who frequently fuck her. If she is with each on successive nights or within a couple of nights of the other, then at those times they have sex with her more than me. When that comes about, it isn't a problem for either of us. She is 32 and has been dating other men since she was 28 but had sex with two other men before then and one was without my knowledge. I consider her as having been a hotwife for six years but I suppose some here would consider a more accurate number would be a bit more over four years.
Our hotwife history from its beginning at viewtopic.php?f=5&t=50057

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by early-kink » Tue Jan 26, 2021 11:57 am

Concerning what the prior posters have alluded to ......... I've stated this in other threads here, but ......... I think women just LOVE attention from NEW guys. Ladies LOVE NEW!! NRE with a guy they find hot & attractive is a powerful attractant.

I'm not saying that makes them bad or evil ......... I think it's just how women are wired. When a NEW guy comes into the picture, their sexual "juices" get flowing much more than with their husbands or long-term boyfriends. I don't believe for a minute that the ladies no longer LOVE their husbands or LTBF's. They can deeply love their "regular"-relationship guys, and still have powerful sexual attraction and NRE with a NEW GUY(s) that adds greatly to their happiness and overall mood. A new guy isn't the "same-old, same-old." He provides an exciting break from the lady's everyday routines, ruts, doldrums .......... whatever we may call them. And from my own life-long observations & experiences - ladies react much more strongly to anything "NEW" than men do. Men will wear the same shoes until they fall off their feet, the same jeans & sweatshirts, eat the same foods, watch the same sports, hang with the same guys.

Ladies are much more apt to seek out new people, places, foods, experiences, shoes, clothes, jewelry, interior decor of their homes, etc. Women shop for ............. FUN!! For happy excitement. For NEW things!! - - - - - Men shop when .............. something breaks or wears out & necessity forces their hand. Ladies just like change ......... something (or someone) new gets them "jazzed-up" !!! Ducks like water ....... it doesn't make them bad ducks. Ladies just get excited around/with a new guy. If having a FWB/BF for occasional fun "on the side" makes them happier - and thus happier in their marriage/LT relationship = hubbies getting more erotic sex ......... the husbands in the above posts don't seem to be complaining.

Obviously - my observations of ladies being attracted to "new" don't apply 100% to all people .......... but the preponderance of evidence suggests they apply to the majority of people on most days.

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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by DedicatedHubby2013 » Wed Jan 12, 2022 6:28 am

My wife has 2 lovers currently, and my wife and I are having sex 3 or 4 times a week.
When she doesn't have lovers we have sex about once a week.
(This is all due to my own libido. She has sex with me whenever I ask for it. Her activities with other men and anticipation of her activities are both a huge turn on for me.)
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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by vmb69 » Wed Jan 12, 2022 4:28 pm

I would say overall the sex between my wife and I greatly reduces when she has someone on the side.
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Re: How often with your husband?

Unread post by natasnaikul » Mon Jan 17, 2022 9:01 pm

This cuckold does not get any sex

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