How long do your lovers last?

[stevens62]

My wife's last long-term lover would go 5 minutes, sometimes more. She was sometimes annoyed by that, but in the same breath would say how exciting it was to her, to make him lose control and cum. He had other virtues, including being able to go several times overnight, and being a somewhat heavy cummer, so it was good for all of us. One night as I was lying on my back stroking myself slowly, he was using his tongue on her - no discussion of "duration" then! :-)))) That's one of the reasons he was a long term relationship. She'd start getting wet just thinking about him coming over and eating her.

[Wifesharing]

I never really timed it enough to know. I mean if you counted foreplay and repeats some can fuck for a few hours.

Straight enter the vagina and pump away lasting hard to tell as I lose track of time. I know sometimes a guy will lose it and get to excited like myself and cum way fast and it feels like just a moment or a minute. Other times I can get on and get into a groove and I get sweaty and feel like i just fucked her for a hour and she will be like omg that was like 40 minutes but when I look at the clock it has been maybe 13 minutes since I slid in. I don't know if I could come up with a average , hell sometimes quick fast sex is just as good as long sex at least my wife thinks so. Actually if he goes to long pounding away my wife actually starts to feel like why the hell is this guy not cumming.

[sara c]

As long as I want. Sometimes I’ll revisit them after a month or even year, and they’re always willing.

[SteelRidge]

What you also did not share from the medical literature is that the average time from intromission to ejaculation is somewhere between 5.4 minutes (median time) in one direct observational study of 500 couples in 2005, with variation by age, country, but not circumcision or condom use -- and 7 minutes according to a 2008 study with variation from man to man and for the same men from session to session. Time of menstrual cycle also predicted faster ejaculation closer to ovulation. Overall, 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes at least half the time, according to a 1991 Kinsey study.

These studies tend to be with stable partners. Experience with new sex partners may vary. And your mileage may vary.

No wonder many women aren't satisfied!

[36DDwife]

What you also did not share from the medical literature is that the average time from intromission to ejaculation is somewhere between 5.4 minutes (median time) in one direct observational study of 500 couples in 2005, with variation by age, country, but not circumcision or condom use -- and 7 minutes according to a 2008 study with variation from man to man and for the same men from session to session. Time of menstrual cycle also predicted faster ejaculation closer to ovulation. Overall, 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes at least half the time, according to a 1991 Kinsey study.

These studies tend to be with stable partners. Experience with new sex partners may vary. And your mileage may vary.

No wonder many women aren't satisfied!

Agreed. I’ve never been a two pump chump!

[SteelRidge]

Well I'm been all over the map. I've cum after a few thrusts, and I've lasted two hours.

Most of the time I fuck until I feel like I'm about to cum then pull it out and do something different. Then when I feel I can sustain fucking again I put it back in, most of the time changing positions. I think it of as my solemn duty to fuck my wife to plenty of orgasms. That means we have sex sessions between 1 to 2 hours long.

[calicolombia69]

I tend to think that cuck husbands last the minimum just because we are so turned on by the whole series of events. Lovers in their position (new or illegal pussy) will be able to get a hardon twice or 3 times. And each round lasts longer. This was the case when we started dating.

Also found that if I go slowly, and enjoy the sloppy seconds, I cum faster. If I go hard and fast, I can last a few minutes longer. Probably numbing the head a bit vs the titillation of it feeling thick cum from her lover.

[SteelRidge]

I guess this is a good question but seemingly most paramount to my wife is simultaneous orgasms. She has lots before I do but when I have mine she really wants to have one too.

[pixwellguy]

My wife has always selected her men for stamina and endurance, she likes to fuck long and hard. She also prefers men with quick rebound ability...she considers any date where she doesn't get fucked at least twice to be almost a waste of time. From the beginning, she made it clear that she looked for these things in her men because I had so little stamina and endurance. We used to joke that it wouldn't take more than a few minutes....now on the very, very rare times that I'm actually allowed in her, the most I can manage is about 30 seconds.

[pixwellguy]

I guess this is a good question but seemingly most paramount to my wife is simultaneous orgasms. She has lots before I do but when I have mine she really wants to have one too.

Back when I was allowed in her, my wife and I would rarely orgasm together. Now, she orgasms simultaneously with her lover all the time!

[wifedateshubwaits]

My wife has always selected her men for stamina and endurance, she likes to fuck long and hard. She also prefers men with quick rebound ability...she considers any date where she doesn't get fucked at least twice to be almost a waste of time. From the beginning, she made it clear that she looked for these things in her men because I had so little stamina and endurance. We used to joke that it wouldn't take more than a few minutes....now on the very, very rare times that I'm actually allowed in her, the most I can manage is about 30 seconds.

That sound a lot like my wife and me. Besides just the general excitement of being with another man, my wife likes her boyfriends to last longer and fuck harder than me. My wife has never really sugarcoated things and she freely admits she wants her lovers to be taller, more muscular, longer lasting and better endowed than me. That said, I’m lucky because my wife loves me and puts up with my hair trigger stamina and smallish endowment, even if she prefers other men when she wants a “good fuck.”

[1luckyone]

The googled national average of sex act between couples is 5.4 minutes....just saying !

[SteelRidge]

The googled national average of sex act between couples is 5.4 minutes....just saying !

I guess that's why wives need bulls.

[Farmgirl]

How long do my lovers last? Generally as long as I want them to. Other wise what would be the point.

[afagehi7]

I guess this is a good question but seemingly most paramount to my wife is simultaneous orgasms. She has lots before I do but when I have mine she really wants to have one too.

Men are like a drag race, fast and furious for a short distance. Women are like a diesel truck. They take awhile to warm up and get going but then they can go a long distance... well past our 1/4 mile. There is some biology there as mating has to be fast because we are vulnerable to predators during mating.

I was reading about what it takes to be a male porn star. No, for those of you thinking that A7 would make a good porn star with his average penis and average looks, it wasn't for a profession change. These guys have to be hung obviously but also have complete control over their orgasm and able to last as long as necessary and cum on demand... And be able to do it multiple times. It's kind of like a gifted athlete. It really gave me a new appreciation of their work. I mean, they are true studs. I always wonder if they have women flocking to them outside of porn, before they do porn, and after porn ends. What woman wouldn't want a hung hot guy that can last as long as she wants and cum when she wants him to. Then do it again if she wants. He seems like the perfect guy... Outside of the bedroom he's probably a chump I reckon.

[ckathrill]

Interesting... We have had a lot of experience and almost all guys we have been with cum only 1x. And after 1 - 1 hr 15 min. everyone seems to have had enough. And that time includes a 10 minute break in the action.

of course there are some guys who cum 1 x but never go down so they can go on for some more.

[annsman]

For my wife it depends on the situation. Sometimes it’s s a quickie lasting a few minutes, and sometimes even less, but other times prolonged love making. However, if it goes on too long she gets sore, and sometimes bored, so her ideal would probably 10 to 20 minutes, but that depends on how rigorous he was.

The biggest turn on for Ann is emotional not physical, with him cumming inside her, so she enjoys him being overexcited and cumming quickly even if she doesn’t cum herself. Anyway she knows she’ll get physical release from me when she gets home.

[Iwatchherplay]

She settled in on a favorite. There was no need to "try" other men. He seems to last forever. I was jealous at first watching and waiting so I could take my turn. I was happy for her that he was lasting long enough to satisfy her. I have been embarrassed many times, after taking my turn, that I cum after only a few strokes after I watched him go for what seemed like forever. I am usually so excited from watching them and its exciting to feel that he has cum in her. She is so wet that I can barely feel her.

Most times he will go back for seconds. Again I am watching and waiting. He will roll her around into different positions.
When he is finished with her I'll take my second turn. This time I can go for a lot longer. I can rarely cum a second time. I'll roll her around into different positions also. I guess you might call it a kind of competition. Sometimes we'll both be on the bed with her and double team her.

So I can say that he can last longer than I can at first. I never timed it. But after I cum that first time I can go for a lot longer and so can he.

[CoupleFun555]

My wife, Cordelia, is a shy, kind, and courteous soul. She did not want to post about her main bf because she feels like it would be bragging. I assured her this is the forum to be blunt and honest yet she still gets uncomfortable doing so.

I’m not bragging for her but just to add to the information on this poll. Her main bf is at least 8 inches long and over 6 inches thick and lasts, always, until she has an orgasm. The PIV part of it always lasts more than an hour and can last over 2 if he wants to last that long. I’ve seen it myself in each of our MFM meetings.

She’s really fortunate to have this bf. She did vote “over an hour”, but wouldn’t comment.

[sara c]

If I’m in a gang bang with 7-8 guys they’ll usually last 5 minutes each at most the first time, the second time, within the hour, 10 or more minutes. It’s all good.
In an orgy the first guy is 3 minutes, the second if hadn’t cum yet the same. Usually after the first hour in an orgy the intercourse is prolonged, sometimes lasting over 10 minutes, and by the third hour unless I get a fresh guy it lasts to the point where I focus on myself cumming rather than the guy.

[blind sided hubby]

I have managed to last 45 min to 1 hour with the wife but that is not often, usually it goes 30 min to 40 min.
However she has had lovers that have lasted over an hour , sometimes when she has 2 lovers at once the screwing goes on for hours, she has the ability to keep cumming as long as they keep fucking her.