How do you let a man know it is ok to date and have sex with your wife?

[Long Lurker 34]

Not a horrible idea it might still scare away some. Definitely a much more subtle way of saying it.

WS - That will happen no matter what approach or method is used or by whom.

I agree I think your method is a good approach. My wife is a real estate broker she gives out her cards a lot it is also a easy way to give out her number most guys do use to start more conversation

WS - I would recommend anonymous cards with just her number (using a burner phone too) and if she wants a "name" of some sort.
- You want to keep this air gapped from your personal and business life, I would think.

[cucking88]

I usually get their number if my wife is interested. I text them and subtly introduce the idea of us being in an open relationship and he is invited to join us in a threesome.

[carolinacuck]

C has been hit on by men in social situations....I usually just adopt a very non threatening persona and the other men pick up on that. Of course, some men are just naturally dominant and are pretty bold in chatting her up. One guy did that at an athletic event and pretty much ignored me. They had a very animated discussion and I didn't say a word. When she placed her had on his thigh, I knew they would wind up having great sex together.

[Wifesharing]

C has been hit on by men in social situations....I usually just adopt a very non threatening persona and the other men pick up on that. Of course, some men are just naturally dominant and are pretty bold in chatting her up. One guy did that at an athletic event and pretty much ignored me. They had a very animated discussion and I didn't say a word. When she placed her had on his thigh, I knew they would wind up having great sex together.

this right here is how it happens for us mostly

[Thebestdays1]

My wife had been with her sister's boyfriend for a total of 10 months before he and the SIL had started dating.
The first time I met him was when they stayed with us for a week. He knew I'd been with his girlfriend and that I knew about him and my wife so we both seemed a little awkward when we met.
I found out that the SIL had just started her period so knew that she wouldn't allow her boyfriend to fuck her that week and imagined how frustrated he'd be feeling, especially as neither woman wore a bra under their loose fitting t-shirts, giving us men a lovely view of their boobs on many occasions. On their third morning with us I noticed he regularly had an erection as he stole a glance at my wife's boobs and this was turning me on and I imagined all the times he'd played with her boobs in the past.
In the end I gave in to my lustful thoughts and told him that if he wanted to fuck her in the mornings, whilst I was out for my run then I didn't mind if he asked her. I warned him that she didn't usually feel in the mood in the mornings but he might be able to persuade her.
Sure enough, on two separate mornings, I came back from my run and found my wife still in bed and a creampie waiting for me.

[gruenberg]

In our case it is my wife who chooses whom she lets in.
I'm not present most of the time. Actually never.

[stonemtncouple]

Same process as you do. Wife and I meet with the guy and share our story and expectations. She has never tried to play with a pure vanilla man. Always swingers and known experienced Bulls, or previous Friends With Benefits. I always meet any new guy and share expectations get to know them etc.