Do you prefer to watch or to hear about it?

[Sanman]

Both, getting at least an occasional viewing of wife having boyfriend sex makes when she tells you about it that much hotter.

[Sanman]

Both, getting at least an occasional viewing of wife having boyfriend sex makes when she tells you about it that much hotter.

[Sanman]

Both. Getting at least an occasional viewing of wife having BF sex makes it even hotter when she tells you about it.

[C+DofNJ]

I would Always choose to watch! however in order for her to have the freedom of making opportunities actually "Happen" there has to be the ability for her not to drag me along in person or otherwise. then a detailed account of her rendezvous is a close second!

[Her number1]

I never understood how hearing details, which are the same details for each encounter, could ever match being there.

Imagination.

Things left to the imagination can be even more erotic than the things you can see.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being there too - and I'm really glad I've been able to do that, sometimes. But, not being there is a little bit hotter for me. I enjoy a bit of the proverbial 'angst'.

[Marksmall5]

More the mind fuck of knowing things are going on.

[DylanTd]

I prefer hearing about it. It allows me to imagine endless possibilities

[UkCuckHubby]

I used to watch, then she said she felt less inhibited when I wasn't there and that it felt more natural and intimate with other guys when I wasn't there. However I get pics and texts and love to hear about her experience whilst her cum filled pussy rides my face.

[Wooster]

I've never watched, and never will. The point of this for both of us is for her to get what she wants. From the beginning, she made it clear that she wanted her dating life to be a separate thing, and she had no interest in threesomes or putting on a show for me. This is fine with me. As long as she is getting what she wants out of it, I'm happy.

[All4Jenna]

Hearing, but not seeing, should possibly be an option.

[JaBe]

I answered "hear about it" as my girl has said she'd feel self-conscious if she knew I was watching or could watch later, which would stop her being "in the moment", and I would want her to enjoy the experience - after all, it's all about her having fun if she's letting a strange guy into her body. The one time she did play away I wasn't there.

But if I'm honest I wouldn't mind watching someone rock her world if she didn't know I could see. I wouldn't want to sit in the corner of the same room with my dick in my hand as another guy made the earth move and was glancing over at me, though

[BT2]

I'm of the same opinion as the majority of respondents to this question.

I love watching her "in action", e.g. what positions she takes, hearing what she says, her facial expressions, her urgency when she is getting close, etc. On the other hand, when I hear about it she tells me what she was feeling, what she was wanting, when she wanted him to penetrate her, etc.

Both are a wild turn on in their own right.

[MistressVixenMrStag]

Watching for two reasons

1. I love watching her cum, the facial expressions and noises she makes (my cage is full), if it’s with another person even better

2. Reconnection sex (if I’m allowed) as soon as they leave, so hot knowing the ‘space’ has only just been vacated.


She has played away once while when I was away on business, it was hot (especially as I didn’t know beforehand) but the camera work was terrible (which she acknowledges) but getting a unexpected picture of a full and leaky pussy when a couldn’t do anything was sweet torture

[WSCuck]

I love both.

When I’m there I love just seeing her happy face as she’s fucked. The way she looks at me. And of course I love what comes after. The clean up, the occasional snow ball, thanking the bull.

When I’m not there I get the angst, the stomach churn, knowing but not knowing what is happening. One particular favourite is when her bull takes my place and takes her to a party. (Except he’s not caged obviously).

[Foxglove]

Listening is the best for me. See my "Bed Sounds" post in the fetish section for more on that.
The first time I watched, my girlfriend's lover could not stay hard for her so I left to let them to go at it.
I listened from the next room as the bed squeaked and thumped up against the wall!

I also like text and the ways in which she describes what happened or is going to happen. It's fun to play
with words and describe the action with slang and old style expressions. Is anyone interested in that?

[BT2]

The post from Foxglove in which he describes listening to his girlfriend and her lover go at it and he listened as "the bed ... thumped up against the wall" reminded me of a fairly regular fb my (hot)wife had when we lived on the 20th floor of an apartment before we moved a dozen years ago. He was an intense lover and when he was approaching orgasm he really went at it and the headboard on our bed LOUDLY thumped up against the wall. Only problem was, as I said, this was an apartment and the neighbor's living room wall was on the immediate other side of the wall against which to bed was thumping. I'm sure the elderly woman who lived there thought I was a greater stud than I really was.

[foxylcfc]

MY wife has had 4 HW encounters, all of them 1 on1s. 3 have been in hotel rooms and one in the guys house whilst I waited in the car outside. Loved the hotel meets best and waiting for my wife to come back and tell me what she got up too. This could change next week though as I have told her she can have a daytime session in our bed at home. Can't wait for that if it happens.

[rypmar7]

Both are hot, so I like some of each.

[irishstag41]

Depends on whose she with. Black guys most definitely watch. Her permanent boyfriend hear.

[Foxglove]

The post from Foxglove in which he describes listening to his girlfriend and her lover go at it and he listened as "the bed ... thumped up against the wall" reminded me of a fairly regular fb my (hot)wife had when we lived on the 20th floor of an apartment before we moved a dozen years ago.

We now have a situation where my wife entertains her lovers in a guest room. There is an older squeaky four poster bed there and I make sure it is right up against the wall before she's going to get screwed. The sounds are incredible and hint at what position she's in from moment to moment. There is a pair of short antlers mounted on the wall above the bed for hanging her panties after
the deed is done. It's also arousing to be told by her friends that they know when she is fucking and when, on trips together, they can hear her bed!

[sanny]

Prefer to watch. Tomorrow is my wife's first date with someone since before covid. Since then she has not been all that interested in getting back to the lifestyle but out of nowhere, she met someone online a few weeks ago. It's only going to be a lunch date while I am at work. I recently got her a pair of leather thigh high boots which she said she will wear. The familiar feelings are returning now on the eve of this date. Wish I was there for it.
Work tomorrow will be torture.

[loving_hubby]

Being able to watch her is amazing. Also, giving her space to be one on one is important in our situation too. Plus, she likes to push buttons and seeing which things she says just drive me crazy.

[Tank Turner]

Watching is learning. I can watch her responses to what's being done to her and what she's doing. Often, when we're alone, she'll tell me what she liked and what she liked less.