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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Teensy1 » Wed May 21, 2025 8:12 am

I think so. As a pussyfree cocksucker my experience has been that most men, especially chubby bears, are below average.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Bnc63 » Thu May 22, 2025 4:01 am

I’m a little less than 4” hard and around 1” diameter.

When we were dating I held off on any sexual contact for nearly 6 months because I really wanted a chance with her and was afraid if she found out how small and how lousy I was at giving a woman pleasure that would kill our relationship. At this point in our relationship we weren’t exclusive but she told me later that she made the other guy she was dating wait for sex until after she had it with me because she really wanted an exclusive relationship with me. As you might imagine it drove him crazy but he was patient because she truly is an amazing woman with a body built for sex.

Well long story short we ended up having sex on an overnight trip out of town and it was as I expected, awful for her, but she was kind and told me not to worry about it. I had cum before I fully penetrated her. I told her to give me a few minutes and I could get hard again. She gave me a kiss and said not to worry about it and rolled over to go to sleep.

We got home the next day and I dropped her off at her home around lunch time and then I went to my home. I called her later in the evening but got no answer. I called the next day several times with no answer. I thought that my performance had did me in and was bummed. After about 48hrs of not being able to reach her she finely answered. I apologized again for my poor performance and asked if everything was ok. She said it was. I didn’t come right and ask her where’d she been but got her to at least tell me that she had been with the other guy she had been dating. I asked if she had been with him the whole time and she said yes that they had been boating. She said they had spent both nights on the boat. I asked her if she had slept with him and she said yes but nothing happened because it was a tight fit with two other couples on board.

I was naive and believed her but later in our relationship she confessed that they had sex virtually the whole time. I asked if she had sex in front of the other couples and she said no that the other couples didn’t spend the night on the boat. I knew of the other couples and they of me but we were acquaintances more than friends. I asked her if they were discreet and she told me she didn’t think they were as naive as I was.

As it turned out she continued to have sex with him with my encouragement for another year or so before she decided she wanted to settle down and gave me an ultimatum either marry her or she was moving on. We were married 8 months later….

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Colliercuck » Thu May 22, 2025 1:31 pm

I have a small dick, but also very very thin, I am just under 4 inches rock hard and thin enough to fit inside an empty toilet roll with 2 pencils inside also.

I guess deep down I always knew I was smaller than other guys from PE in school, we would hit the shower and it was obvious, but I overrode that and told myself that, it was just a couple of guys and I’m a good size.

2 different girlfriends cheated on me (and one specifically asked my roommate and best friend to fuck her).

But the thing that really hit it home, was when I met my now wife……….she is beautiful and I couldn’t believe I was with this gorgeous girl, our second night together, we made love, and I was impressed with myself to say the least, so as we lay there, holding each other, sweat soaked and heart pounding, I asked, “how was it “……..she looked at me, and said “Jeff is Bigger “ (he was her ex/fiance)
I was hurt, but so hard again, and I won’t lie, I imagined Jeff fucking her and making her cum, and I continued imagining it for the next 36 years.

How it made her react, well she has reminded me that I am small, at times she will remind me that I have never made her cum, sometimes she tells me how she can’t feel me while I’m inside of her, she asks how I can enjoy it when she knows I cannot feel a thing, and she has told me that sex with me does absolutely nothing for her.

She did have a lover for about 8 months

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by NorthOpen » Thu May 22, 2025 3:06 pm

Back in the early 2000's my wife had a fling with a guy that had been hitting on her so hard. She thought he was cute and so decided to give him a chance.

She came back later that evening and just laughed, held up her pinky and said "Ya, about this big. I should have figured that based on his height [he was short]. I can't do that again. Size matters... a lot."

I asked if he had any redeeming qualities and she said "Oh, I put his tongue to good use. He was fantastic at that, but ya, I need to be filled."

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Archie457 » Sun May 25, 2025 8:42 am

No.

According to the wife, about average length but much fatter.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by sconesy73 » Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
1st post I think from me so hi 😊

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by namitha157 » Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am

sconesy73 wrote:
Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
1st post I think from me so hi 😊

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.
Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by BT2 » Sat May 31, 2025 9:18 am

My wife's clit' is about the same size when erect.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by sconesy73 » Sat May 31, 2025 1:02 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am
sconesy73 wrote:
Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
1st post I think from me so hi 😊

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.
Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.
My partner has pointed out something very similar on several occasions 😂
And the same to you- it's a pleasure 😊
Partner of S. Here's our story 😊

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=76276

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by sconesy73 » Sat May 31, 2025 1:03 pm

BT2 wrote:
Sat May 31, 2025 9:18 am
My wife's clit' is about the same size when erect.
But probably harder - and certainly more useful 🫣😂
Partner of S. Here's our story 😊

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=76276

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by namitha157 » Sun Jun 01, 2025 5:27 am

Sounds cute.
I actually don't mind sucking little ones.
Never seen such a small one though.

 
sconesy73 wrote:
Sat May 31, 2025 1:02 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am
sconesy73 wrote:
Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
1st post I think from me so hi 😊

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.
Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.
My partner has pointed out something very similar on several occasions 😂
And the same to you- it's a pleasure 😊

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by sconesy73 » Sun Jun 01, 2025 8:23 am

namitha157 wrote:
Sun Jun 01, 2025 5:27 am
Sounds cute.
I actually don't mind sucking little ones.
Never seen such a small one though.

 
sconesy73 wrote:
Sat May 31, 2025 1:02 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am
sconesy73 wrote:
Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm


1st post I think from me so hi 😊

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.
Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.
My partner has pointed out something very similar on several occasions 😂
And the same to you- it's a pleasure 😊
I've posted a pic in the pictures forum if you want a laugh! My wife has tried sucking it - she said it reminded her of soft piece of candy- or a big clit 😖😂
Partner of S. Here's our story 😊

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Judgementkazzy » Sat Jul 26, 2025 7:40 pm

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Sun Apr 20, 2025 4:34 am
My husband is really short. Less than 2" long I'd say. And another 2" round.
Sadly, it is the smallest I've had.
This may sound funny, but I'm almost the same length as him. A bit longer if I pump.

He is aware that he is on the small size. We don't talk about it too much. Its fun to masturbate through our panties the same way.
I doubt he would ever be able to cheat on me with a penis like that.
I think most Indian men and Asian men are small like this.
One of the reasons why they are not really highly desired.
I've had others when I was younger. I'd say they were mostly in the 3-4" length range. Some of the bigger ones were closer to 5"
Don't really spend time with them anymore for this reason.

My bf on the other hand is a nice 8" and a good handful.
And it feels even better inside.
Yup I am an Indian with 3.8 inches, my girlfriends lovers are all above 7 inches mostly black but her favourite bulls have been white

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Southerncuckboy » Sat Jul 26, 2025 8:17 pm

I'm just under 5" Hannah admitted I am smallest she's had
She honestly doesn't seem to mind hut is slowly trying to get more into the sph for me.
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by ktcouple » Thu Jul 31, 2025 9:30 pm

Not really. I’m above average in length (7”), and average in thickness. My wife never complained, in fact she always said that mine is perfect. But at one point when talking about her previous experiences, she did admit that an ex-bf had bigger. Later she admitted that she’s been longing for experiencing that again. Thickness matters more for her than length and most men she’s been involved with since were thicker and bigger than me. So no matter what you have, some women will always want more.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by PANTIES » Fri Aug 01, 2025 10:18 am

My MIL measured me for a jail bird cage and when was measuring me she commented she has never seen a penis as small as mine. She measured 1 1/2 inch’s x 2 inches. The when she finished MIL said it’s no wonder her daughter has a lover.

I got the jail bird because my wife’s lover didn’t want me to have sex with her. The one he bought was too big. My MIL paid for both jail birds.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by sml_peterBR » Fri Aug 01, 2025 5:08 pm

I realized it very early, when I was still a teenager.
I was in the dressing room with some friends after swimming and I saw one of them naked and he was much bigger than me, I got really impressed.
I thought that was the normal size and since them I always avoid situations that people could see me naked, including casual sex.
Later I found out that, in fact, my friend was big and that was not a normal size.
Now living the cuckold lifestyle, I can say I finally got proud of being small.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by D+D » Sun Aug 03, 2025 6:26 am

I’m 5.5” length x 4.5” girth when hard. Pretty average. It has always given my wife pleasure. Of course when we go to nude resorts it’s just a little acorn because flaccid it’s almost non existent most of the time. Even though it grows when aroused, I still feel very unmasculine when it’s viewed flaccid. Guys sometimes have a more aggressive and confident attitude towards my wife after they see my little guy flaccid. I think my desire to be a cuckold is partly due to this but mostly it’s just the way I’m wired. I love my wife but I also love for other men to be with her sexually.
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by D+D » Sun Aug 03, 2025 6:47 am

sml_peterBR wrote:
Fri Aug 01, 2025 5:08 pm
I realized it very early, when I was still a teenager.
I was in the dressing room with some friends after swimming and I saw one of them naked and he was much bigger than me, I got really impressed.
I thought that was the normal size and since them I always avoid situations that people could see me naked, including casual sex.
Later I found out that, in fact, my friend was big and that was not a normal size.
Now living the cuckold lifestyle, I can say I finally got proud of being small.
Yes, I too now show my small flaccid penis with pride when in a situation where I can whether it be with a group or just with an alpha guy having sex with my wife.
See our pics in the Hotties under My Wife Debbie

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by truesub » Sun Aug 03, 2025 8:36 am

D+D wrote:
Sun Aug 03, 2025 6:26 am
Even though it grows when aroused, I still feel very unmasculine when it’s viewed flaccid.
One of my mates had a similar 'grow not show' situation. His willy was absolutely tiny when flaccid, so tiny none of us guys even cared to make fun of him at the gyms, as was customary among us back then. However, the rumor somehow got around, and one of the girl students decided to seduce him for the sake of a guffaw, purely to ridicule him, as was said.

The next day she came with eyes like saucers and a stupid smile. Turned out the lad's willy grew very big when erect (can't tell the inches, but it was the biggest one she had tried at that time, allegedly). They graduated as a couple and got married soon after.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by D+D » Sun Aug 03, 2025 11:35 am

truesub wrote:
Sun Aug 03, 2025 8:36 am
D+D wrote:
Sun Aug 03, 2025 6:26 am
Even though it grows when aroused, I still feel very unmasculine when it’s viewed flaccid.
One of my mates had a similar 'grow not show' situation. His willy was absolutely tiny when flaccid, so tiny none of us guys even cared to make fun of him at the gyms, as was customary among us back then. However, the rumor somehow got around, and one of the girl students decided to seduce him for the sake of a guffaw, purely to ridicule him, as was said.

The next day she came with eyes like saucers and a stupid smile. Turned out the lad's willy grew very big when erect (can't tell the inches, but it was the biggest one she had tried at that time, allegedly). They graduated as a couple and got married soon after.
My wife has never complained and still doesn’t. She has been with many men since becoming a hotwife. I know though that she must be at least little embarrassed when we are in a situation where everyone is nude and my little guy is just a little bump settling on top of two balls. At first I was very embarrassed but now I just walk in like I have a big one. As already stated, I’m not ashamed anymore. I’m a cuckold plain and simple and I love it. My wife enjoys the variety of different cocks as much as she enjoys the size. She loves me and that’s all that matters….proud cuck :whip:
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by love84 » Wed Aug 06, 2025 3:29 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?
In my prime I'd guess a bit smaller than average. About 5 3/4 inches, slightly less than average thickness. As a young man I did have much concern at times about how I measured up but never got the notion that any lovers or ons were disappointed. I did get a laugh out of it the few times a young woman said "It's so big!"

My wife and I got together when she was 18 and I was 25. I'd experienced many women by then. She admitted to having been with 10, but I suspect there may have been a few more. Nonetheless she was very tight. Other than one sometimes high school girlfriend who had given me her virginity my future wife was by far the tightest. Funny thing about that HS girlfriend. I was 18, she 19 when she gave me her cherry. We drifted apart but got reacquainted 3 years later. When I took her to bed then I was amazed at how much her pussy had been opened up and wondered what kind of monster cock she'd been taking since I last saw her. But I digress.

My wife remained tight, and I believe faithful for many years. When at age 40 she entered the hotwife lifestyle that began to change.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by MrGirthy » Fri Aug 08, 2025 11:00 am

Penis size largely doesn't matter. Remember, any vagina can fit half an entire arm up to elbow.
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Dwightdalwood » Sat Aug 09, 2025 12:42 am

5 and quarter....wish it was smaller. Like embarrassingly small.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by GreatPlains » Sat Aug 09, 2025 11:04 am

I was 5 3/4 inches long, 4 1/2 around, but since getting Peyronie's I'm more like 4 1/2 long. Lost some girth also, but I haven't measured.

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