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Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Jan 30, 2021 8:23 am

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Can I ask why haven't you accompany Gigi to her parents? Do you actually plan in the next period of time to have some vacation with Gigi, just you and her? I know because of the pandemic options are limited, but it seems to me it's been awhile since you and Gigi had some days just for yourselves. Did you and Gigi actually had sex before she left?
About going with her - I thought I had mentioned that but just noticed I had instead responded about my reason for not accompanying her in a reply to a private message. I had work to get out Friday and this morning had been scheduled for an in-office meeting with two men and a woman representing a client. Even had I been free, I need to be back in the office Monday and prepare for work travel this coming mid-week. My work doesn't allow for personal options like many, and my former job as a reporter was similarly demanding. Similar responsibilities prevent her from traveling with me. The answer to that second question is "no" for reasons explained in the update.

* * * * * But I could have mentioned in that update a joke as she was about to get out of the car at the airport terminal. She commonly says, "I like everybody," and had just repeated that as I was pulling into the drop-off station. Having recalled a couple of insufferable jerks we have encountered, I said, "Really? Everyone?" She laughed and said, "Well, maybe not every person on the planet. Some people make me realize why Noah only took animals on the Ark."

~ Des
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Unread post by Tracey52 » Sat Jan 30, 2021 10:07 am

I really enjoyed that insight into Gigi’s thought processes and actions. She is wise beyond her years. I have to wonder if Mr B arranged to have Mary away this weekend for more reasons than just to see the kids?

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Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Jan 30, 2021 12:44 pm

I thought until this afternoon I had responded to some questions posted Jan. 27. Distractions kept me from doing much other than work this past week. I had an appointment with our physician friend for what he diagnosed as carpal tunnel syndrome, probably caused by repetitive office functions. (Gigi joked, “It’s probably from jacking off.”) The doc said a simple surgical procedure can correct it but instead, for the reason surgery often isn’t a permanent solution, suggested hand-stretching exercises over the next few weeks. The pain in my wrist and thumb has already lessened, so that’s working.

My responses follow below. Gigi's last workday this week was Thursday and she flew out early Friday morning to visit with her parents and a couple of high school friends this weekend and will return late Monday. On Thursday, she went over to Beau’s duplex apartment - for the obvious reasons - before coming home. Her boss and his wife are visiting their kids at the academy. Beau is visiting his parents this weekend while Sherry is working at the airport. As for me, I have some household chores and plan on going into the office for a few hours Saturday morning.

Q & A follows:


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Hi Des,

I have a number of questions: Did the Native-American nurse get married to her doctor fiancé? It was scheduled for February last year but then COVID-19 came about. - Do you & Gigi keep in touch with her former secretary? - If so, do you still have social dates with the former secretary or is that a thing of the past? - Is the former secretary husband still having the ongoing affair with the school principle?


Yeah - I had answered that in either in a PM or somewhere here sometime back. I don’t recall the marriage date, but they’re now married and doing well; she now works as nurse and office manager in his private practice. Gigi and she phone the other now and then and I often talk with her at those times; when the two women are talking, they’re on the phone for an hour or more (I typically don’t talk on the phone with anyone more than a few minutes; I’m not fond of long phone conversations). Her husband knows about my wife and me, and he has begun encouraging her to think about having sex with other men. She says she may take him up on that in a few months, but for now their sex is still good at home. They intend to visit us at some time in the future but we don’t know when that may be. If their vacation plans don’t change, they may stop off to see us a few days this summer. About the retired secretary, see the following.

Freemans892 wrote: ↑
Wed Jan 27, 2021 6:31 am
- Do you & Gigi keep in touch with her former secretary?
- If so, do you still have social dates with the former secretary or is that a thing of the past?[
/i]


She and her husband are now retired. We occasionally see them socially or talk on the phone. I think the school’s vice-principal is a thing of the past but it could be ongoing; his wife had no problem with that relationship. They know Gigi and her boss are still having sex, but that or their sexual activities isn’t commonly a topic in our conversations.

I don’t recall whether I mentioned it here but soon after the woman’s retirement, Gigi stopped by a day after work to visit with them. She had sex with both, and that occasion could have been another reason the four of us have remained friends. That hasn’t again come about, and none of us has since mentioned their one-time threesome.

- Now that you had a solo date / trip with Mary, are you allow to have solo dates with Sherry?


Neither I nor Sherri has considered that, so I suppose the best answer would be, “Yet to be determined.”

~ Des
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Unread post by solstice » Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:25 pm

This last post of yours was a wonderful illustration of how special Gigi is, many women are so caught up in themselves that they have not worked out the advantages of pleasing others, the benefits are certainly worth the effort.
I wonder if your wife will ever feel relaxed enough to set you up with a lady who will keep you "amused" on the lonely nights when she is absent.

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sat Jan 30, 2021 3:25 pm

Des,

Thanks for your recent update!! I can understand having a job that demands not only your attention but at unusual times and in different places others would find imposing. I'm sitting here with a part of the sound track of the song "The Entertainer" running through my mind as a result of your comments about Gigi's need to entertain her men. I'm sure those skills she has inculcated have been a large part of her rapid elevations in her banking career! It is a valuable talent to be able to relate to others in a likable manner that helps to gain their support for her agendas.

It is about 7:30 pm right now and I wonder if Gigi is having dinner with her flag sisters right now, all of them dressed to kill at a local restaurant and teasing the hell out of the local guys and maybe a few women there watching them. Or maybe they have finished dinner and are now in the heat of "Beaver Fever" between each other's legs. The three of them licking each other in a hot triangle of sex with fervor and lust. I'm sure they are having a wonderful time reliving several significant memories and probably making a few new memories as well. I'm wondering how late they will keep at it. I guess that depends on how many different variations of the three of them they can imagine. I wish I could be the proverbial fly on the wall!!!!! I'm looking forward to hearing her stories of their fun as told to you. Do you think you will get the entire story or will she withhold some of the fun for a future time when she jerks your dick before bed?? In the meantime, you should have copious amounts of video of her with her men in the bedroom to keep your urges under control till she returns. As she would probably tell you, don't jerk off too much!! :D

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Des 31 wrote:
Sat Jan 30, 2021 12:44 pm
I thought until this afternoon I had responded to some questions posted Jan. 27. Distractions kept me from doing much other than work this past week. I had an appointment with our physician friend for what he diagnosed as carpal tunnel syndrome, probably caused by repetitive office functions. (Gigi joked, “It’s probably from jacking off.”) The doc said a simple surgical procedure can correct it but instead, for the reason surgery often isn’t a permanent solution, suggested hand-stretching exercises over the next few weeks. The pain in my wrist and thumb has already lessened, so that’s working.

My responses follow below. Gigi's last workday this week was Thursday and she flew out early Friday morning to visit with her parents and a couple of high school friends this weekend and will return late Monday. On Thursday, she went over to Beau’s duplex apartment - for the obvious reasons - before coming home. Her boss and his wife are visiting their kids at the academy. Beau is visiting his parents this weekend while Sherry is working at the airport. As for me, I have some household chores and plan on going into the office for a few hours Saturday morning.

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Hi Des,

I have a number of questions: Did the Native-American nurse get married to her doctor fiancé? It was scheduled for February last year but then COVID-19 came about. - Do you & Gigi keep in touch with her former secretary? - If so, do you still have social dates with the former secretary or is that a thing of the past? - Is the former secretary husband still having the ongoing affair with the school principle?


Yeah - I had answered that in either in a PM or somewhere here sometime back. I don’t recall the marriage date, but they’re now married and doing well; she now works as nurse and office manager in his private practice. Gigi and she phone the other now and then and I often talk with her at those times; when the two women are talking, they’re on the phone for an hour or more (I typically don’t talk on the phone with anyone more than a few minutes; I’m not fond of long phone conversations). Her husband knows about my wife and me, and he has begun encouraging her to think about having sex with other men. She says she may take him up on that in a few months, but for now their sex is still good at home. They intend to visit us at some time in the future but we don’t know when that may be. If their vacation plans don’t change, they may stop off to see us a few days this summer. About the retired secretary, see the following.

Freemans892 wrote: ↑
Wed Jan 27, 2021 6:31 am
- Do you & Gigi keep in touch with her former secretary?
- If so, do you still have social dates with the former secretary or is that a thing of the past?[
/i]


She and her husband are now retired. We occasionally see them socially or talk on the phone. I think the school’s vice-principal is a thing of the past but it could be ongoing; his wife had no problem with that relationship. They know Gigi and her boss are still having sex, but that or their sexual activities isn’t commonly a topic in our conversations.

I don’t recall whether I mentioned it here but soon after the woman’s retirement, Gigi stopped by a day after work to visit with them. She had sex with both, and that occasion could have been another reason the four of us have remained friends. That hasn’t again come about, and none of us has since mentioned their one-time threesome.

- Now that you had a solo date / trip with Mary, are you allow to have solo dates with Sherry?


Neither I nor Sherri has considered that, so I suppose the best answer would be, “Yet to be determined.”

~ Des

Clearly Gigi is the social butterfly out of the two of you, which is a good thing. It can be challenging keeping ‘out of town relationships’ going unless they are nurtured, which Gigi seems to do naturally.

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Unread post by Freemans892 » Sat Jan 30, 2021 6:42 pm

solstice wrote:
Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:25 pm
This last post of yours was a wonderful illustration of how special Gigi is, many women are so caught up in themselves that they have not worked out the advantages of pleasing others, the benefits are certainly worth the effort.
I wonder if your wife will ever feel relaxed enough to set you up with a lady who will keep you "amused" on the lonely nights when she is absent.
There is one lady who would love to keep Des “amused” on those lonely nights, Libby (Des’s secretary). I can only assume this will continue to be a big “No-No” from Gigi.

Jean is a possibility, if and when she comes back to live full-time in town. I remember reading that Gigi and Jean talking of doing foursome over the Christmas period with both hubbies, which I took to mean that Gigi is now comfortable with Des and Jean having sex. Jean is a trusted friend and she is more aware that Gigi sees multiple men thus less explaining is required.

I would love to hear about a fivesome with Gigi, Jean, Des, Jean’s husband and Jean’s husband bookkeeper. There’s another option, Jean’s husband bookkeeper. If the bookkeeper is still impotent due to his accident, he may allow her to have another guy on the side. She is a married hotwife who is around 23 / 24 years old. I get the feeling that Gigi is less concern about the hotwives who are in their 20’s than the older hotwives.
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Unread post by solstice » Sun Jan 31, 2021 1:16 am

Freeman writes: There is one lady who would love to keep Des “amused” on those lonely nights, Libby.

Blame it on my age, but I've forgotten who Libby is: The couple who own the boat have slipped under the Radar, and what could be more pleasant than a foursome on the water?

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solstice wrote:
Sun Jan 31, 2021 1:16 am
Freeman writes: There is one lady who would love to keep Des “amused” on those lonely nights, Libby.

Blame it on my age, but I've forgotten who Libby is: The couple who own the boat have slipped under the Radar, and what could be more pleasant than a foursome on the water?
Libby is Des’s secretary / personal assistant. Des only started to refer her as Libby in one of his more recent post. It’s in one of his post on page 105, I think he has only refer to her as Libby in one post so far, so it’s easy to over look it.

Ben and Liz own the boat

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Unread post by Scotch98 » Sun Jan 31, 2021 2:36 am

Great update Des, Sorry Mary or Sherry isn't around this weekend. While I love the details I also like you telling about the inter-workings of Gigi's mind. She definitely understands men and she is such an incredible woman. If more women thought and understood men as she does there would be fewer divorces. You really hit the jackpot w/ Gigi and I feel the same way about her winning the lottery finding you. you guys are truly perfect together.... I think your journey together is only starting and will grow and get better and better. I dearly hope you will continue to share your experience and insights w/ us......

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Unread post by aguy4pleasure » Sun Jan 31, 2021 6:36 am

Des 31 wrote:
Sat Jan 30, 2021 5:49 am
Saturday morning:

This update isn’t as sexually graphic as most, but my wife and I had an enlightening conversation before she left Friday on a flight to her hometown. Gigi is visiting her parents and a former high school friend on the Gulf and will return Monday evening.

After work the day before, she followed her young fuckbuddy Beau to his apartment, where they had sex. She arrived home with enough time for me to help her pack for the next morning’s trip. She laid out her black, double-breasted pantsuit, ankle-high black boots, a black turtleneck sweater, and white trench coat. We set the alarm for 4:30 a.m. and went to bed an hour early. There wasn’t time that evening for me to hear the details of her afternoon with Beau.

I know no one can know all that goes on in the mind of another or what others might do when away from another. Yet, at times, I feel I know all about my wife there is to know. As I was driving her to the airport that dark morning, I again realized I can never know everything about her motivations, ways of thinking, or even all she does when we’re apart.

On our drive to the terminal, I mentioned - referring to her previous afternoon with Beau - I’m glad she still enjoys sex with others and how exciting that is for me. She grinned, seemingly suppressing a giggle, and said, “Sure, I like that, but there’s a lot more to it than the joy of sex.” She went on to say she thinks of herself as something of an entertainer. I assumed I knew what she meant but asked anyway. She said, “As examples, that’s why I memorize jokes to tell others at appropriate times. It’s why I enjoy telling you about my sexual adventures; it entertains and excites you. I like giving talks to appreciative groups or enjoy the reactions of others when talking with them.”

I was told that sort of self-image began when she was inducted to the FLAGs, her high-school private club. The members presented a public image of the FLAG group as nothing more than the school’s secret and most prestigious girls club; but it was actually a sorority of LUGs (“lesbians-until-graduation”). Other students and faculty members had no idea of its true purpose. Before being given the opportunity to be inducted into the group, she had never felt any sexual attraction toward other females; but to become a member, she was required to become an active sexual participant. Having observed the encounters among the club’s members, she realized all enjoyed watching other girls having sex. She thought of ways to improve upon their sexual performances so the others could more enjoy her in action. She went on, “And I soon found I liked it.”

It subsequently occurred to her that idea could be incorporated into any social interaction. She searched the internet for jokes and methods of how professional comedians deliver jokes to audiences. You probably know some of those; among other techniques, they pause a moment before punch lines, apply hand gestures and inflection in their voices – similar to techniques I was taught in debate classes. During that senior year, others began to see her not just as one of the school’s better swim team members but also as the class comedian.

I was aware that when Gigi agreed to fucking other guys at my encouragement, she studied her men’s behaviors and came to learn what they like sexually and socially. Among those were varied differences in personalities and interests. More often than not, she now understands others rather well even if they don’t consciously reveal their concerns, hobbies and personal interests. She typically recognizes what men and women most need or want.

I realized I haven’t before comprehended all the reasons I like watching or hearing her have sex even if I’m not in the same room. I have listened outside our bedroom door, peered around the door jamb from the darkness of our hallway, and watched on my computers as the images of her and another are transmitted by our bedroom surveillance cameras. I had never considered any of that was self-taught behavior on her part.

In response to another of my questions, Gigi said, “Like most everyone, I like having sex. But it’s better for me if the way I do it is better for a partner. Fucking is better when I act in ways I consider they want. She went on to say most people surround themselves with company for their own needs. She doesn’t think most women and men are mindful of that. Because almost everyone is self centered, they don’t think about working at entertaining others as much as they want to be amused by someone else. She opined that most comedians, singers and actors understand others’ needs if they’re to be successful at their craft. When she and a guy are fucking, her learned endeavors make their sex even better.

I mentioned it seems manipulative. Her reply essentially was her characterization of manipulation is what some do only for personal benefit. She considers her efforts to be for the benefit of others, like someone performing a favor without expecting a reward. I almost responded that pleasing others also brings an award to the giver but let it go. After all, her logic makes sense and I’m not one to openly judge others’ actions. If it works for her and her guys, I have no reason to question what she does in those circumstances.

Her occasional comments in the past should have given me clues to that, but I didn’t then recognize those as such. When she and Beau were recently having sex on another afternoon in our bedroom, she turned to our bedside Alexa and told the device to play “On the Road Again” by Canned Heat. That’s nothing like the Willie Nelson version. She and he were hotly fucking in rhythm with the rocking beat. He said upon leaving, as much as he always enjoy fucking her, that was one of their best sessions ever.

I wasn’t yet home at the time; but when she got around to telling me about it that night, she said she knew before his dick entered her that he would feel that way. I asked how she could be so certain. She grinned and said, “Because I understand men.” Her tone was only half serious; but after thinking it over, I think maybe she’s right about that. Maybe she should be considered an entertainer. That could explain why some men don’t seem to tire of sexual relationships with her. I inquired if I too am being “entertained” when she and I are having sex. She laughed and said it isn’t the same with me, “I have sex with you because I love you.” She paused and added, “But I’m aware of entertaining you when I tell the details of other guys fucking me.”

I pulled alongside the drop-off driveway at the airport’s terminal and handed off her rolling duffel bag from the car’s trunk. Always aware of security, she buttoned her purse’s shoulder strap beneath an epaulet of her white trench coat. Bussing me on the cheek, she turned and strode to the terminal’s door. Driving away, I wondered why we had not before had that conversation and again realized a lot is always going in her mind and behaviors I will ever know.

Earlier in the week, I had intended to phone Mary - the wife of Gigi’s boss - and invite her to our home for a night during my wife’s absence. But she and her husband are out of state visiting their children at their JROTC academy. Beau’s fiancé Sherry is working this weekend and will be leaving Monday for job-training at an out-of-state facility the next two weeks.

I wouldn’t normally take up this space with conversations like that above but have nothing else of urgency to do during my wife’s absence. I hope most won’t find any of the above comments boring.

~ Des

Des,

Thanks for sharing this post. It suggests to me some of the themes that make Gigi tick. I've read your posts wondering what it was that truly connected Gigi's life into a more meaningful whole. I guess my preoccupation with her sexual appetites got in me way of seeing what probably should have been obvious.

My first thought was Gigi loves "power," however that term, while having some relevance, doesn't do justice to her totality as you have described her here.

I've considered "pleaser," yet that term didn't connect for me either.

What does connect is Gigi, enjoys and is a master at "empathic connections," the sensing of what another needs and desires to positively engage that need to mutual benefit. That ability would suggest the emotional and social intelligence (along with some noted academic ability) to succeed so well in business, social life, married life, and in her sexual encounters. She is what for myself, you, and (I'm guessing) many of your readers is a "dream woman."

I apologize for my ramblings, but there are some thoughts I liked to bounce off people to see if I'm on target.

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Unread post by solstice » Sun Jan 31, 2021 9:37 am

Yet another futile attempt to analyze a well respected HW couple's lifestyle
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As far as this thread concerned it would appear that Gigi only takes a perfunctory interest in what we write, yet we know so much about her, thanks to Des's chronicling details, It is still difficult to tie Des's wife's behaviour down, she is not particularly submissive: Yet with her boss she behaves almost with terror when he first mounts her, surprising as he is her most frequent lover, so you would think nothing that he did would startle her, she is straight as a die, so I rule out deception.
Gigi is always considerate to Des and keeps him in the picture of all her HW activity. I sometimes observe in a long running thread, that many HW start out telling their husbands all the juicy details, but as time goes on, an amount of secrecy creeps in,
Sorry Des if many of my assertions miss the mark,

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Unread post by TangoKing4u » Wed Feb 03, 2021 12:09 am

Just binge-read these 110 pages (a few days). Wow! My mind is mush and my bedding, soggy. Any plans to hook back up with Gigi's cousin in the foreseeable future? Will Gigi ever hook up with the sheriff she met while boating with Ben and Liz (I think the same trip she rode a mechanical bull)?

Who will Gigi be fucking on Valentine's? Several, scheduled throughout the day/evening/night? Flying in her martial-arts instructor and a hotel room for the weekend?

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Feb 04, 2021 9:46 am

I don't know Des and Gigi personally, but I think you guys don't really understand their relationship at all. I can't imagine Gigi not spending some quality romantic time with Des on Valentine's Day. Their relationship is a strong loving marriage with a twist that most marriages don't have. Theirs isn't a cuckold relationship, but one where Des enjoys seeing Gigi doing what she loves, and that happens to be fucking different guys. Des is still her #1 guy, as far as I know, and I feel sure she will find time for him that night. That's not saying she won't fuck another guy that day as well but I'm sure they will have good couple's time together. Just my thoughts, not saying you're wrong, but I think you are! :D

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Unread post by Tracey52 » Thu Feb 04, 2021 11:56 am

I agree with you rascalvixen but I also think that Des would find it hot if she did have someone come over with a red rose and fuck her on Valentines.

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Unread post by Freemans892 » Thu Feb 04, 2021 9:08 pm

Gigi specifically did so for her birthday, so I don’t why not for Valentines Day. Remember that Bossman wanted fuck her on her birthday but she turned him down.

Pretty sure both Mary and Sherry want their men focusing on themselves on Valentines Day, unless it is an agreed foursome.
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Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Feb 06, 2021 2:43 pm

I was out of town a couple of days last week. I have some updates but first some explanation is in order to avoid another PM or post complaining that my wife seems to show others more attention than me.

An occasional question appears at this website about whether a wife can “quit” being a hotwife if her husband wishes her to do so. My wife says it would be difficult, but apparently it’s even more difficult for a husband to ask her to stop having sex with other men. Yet, I don’t recall encountering the inverse of that question, “How difficult would it be for the husband?”

A popular book, available at Amazon and elsewhere is Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them by clinical psychologist and author David J. Ley. Among the more intriguing observations is that, once a wife has been having sex with other men a while and with her husband’s approval, their husbands begin to undergo permanent brain changes. My personal experience seems to affirm that. Within our marriage, I have come to feel others fucking my wife is literally a need for me, not some sensual desire I can easily cast off.

Not long ago, a member expressed disagreement when I mentioned my wife’s “need.” he pointed out that extramarital sex is a desire rather than a “need” like food, shelter, and clothing. I agreed but didn’t then know the physiological and psychological end product upon hotwives’ husbands. I realized I felt that way but had no idea about the reason; I thought it was “just me.” I’m sure I would request she discontinue her varied relationships if I found it was damaging our marriage in some way, but that hasn’t been a problem for either of us.

Because her sexual adventures have now become what each of us consider our normal way of life, perhaps our brains are permanently wired that way. I would accept her wish if she were to change her mind but have no doubt that I would miss what we now have for years to come. I don’t know with certainty whether many other husbands with active hotwives think that way but suspect it’s intuitively common. If so, those here who call themselves wannabes might with to think hard before asking their wives to consider it as so many of us have. I only know it works for the two of us, and neither of us would change a thing if we had it to do all over again.

At one time, I chronicled here I once suspected my wife of sexual addiction when she was relatively new at this. Dr. Ley penned another book, “The Myth of Sex Addiction,” in which he pointed out that pop-psychology expression has no scientific basis. No such addiction exists. It’s true that many have emotional disorders they believe are temporarily resolved by having sex. But “sexual addiction,” as often referred to by guest celebrities in TV interviews, isn’t the cause of their disorders.

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I left on assignment Tuesday night with the intention of returning Saturday morning but finished up my work with the clients Thursday around noon and rescheduled my flight home. I phoned my wife from the departure airport to let her know that evening but received no answer and rented a car overnight upon arrival. When I opened the gate to pull into our driveway, I noticed all lights in our home were out. That indicated any one of three possibilities - Gigi wasn’t home, she went to bed early, or was in bed with someone. Assuming either of the latter two was more likely, and to avoid disturbing whichever might be going on, I didn’t open garage door. Instead I pulled in alongside the stone wall surrounding our home and quietly entered our front door.

With my keychain’s mini-flash-light, I made my way through house but found no one in any room. I was about to turn on the kitchen light when I heard my wife moaning, “Uh huh! Uh huh!” from the garage, and the door to the garage wasn’t entirely closed. I pushed it further open. The only lighting was that of the red indicator lights emitted by each of the wall-mounted heaters at each side of the garage.

Assuming they were fucking, I remained out of sight alongside our water heater. Her excited tone continued but all I first spotted was her car and her 22-year old fuckbuddy Beau’s old Honda where I normally park. He has owned that car since she first met him at a night class three years ago and it was aging then. He recently told my wife he was ready to trade for a new model but she instead convinced him of the financial advantages of having it repainted its original color and drive it a couple more years. He’s a good amateur mechanic and keeps its engine and parts in cherry condition.

Peering around the water heater, I saw her sitting atop the nearest side of her car’s hood and Beau standing at the wheel cover as he pummeled her cunt. He was naked. My wife wore only her pajama top; her pj bottoms lay atop our washing machine. Murmuring fevered utterances, she stared at his face as he fucked her in rapid thrusts. Neither noticed me at the water heater alongside the doorway.

Gigi stroked her clitoris with a finger. She whimpered, “Oh yeah, you fuck so good.” He slowed his cadence, rotating his hips a moment and then speedily jack-hammered her. Mostly hidden, I unzipped my fly, pulled out my dick and stroked. I leaned my back to the wall to avoid being spotted by either and jerked off to their sighs and moans.

He muttered, “It’s so good.” I was about to spurt at the moment she let out a fervent squeal, “Oh fuck yeah! I’m cumming again!” The rapid sound of his flesh slapping her soon subsided and he groaned as his seed evidently jetted in to her cuntal cavity. After a moment’s silence from beyond the water heater, my semen gushed into my handkerchief.

I silently closed the door, turned on the living room lights and waited in a living room chair for them to come out of the garage. As the door opened, I blurted out in my friendliest loud voice, “Honey, I’m home.” Surprised, she yelped, “Yikes,” and held her hand over her mouth. Beau immediately followed her through the door as all of us laughed at my unexpected intrusion.

Gigi walked around the bar separating our living room and kitchen and leaned her elbows back onto the bar. Her pj bottoms were draped over a shoulder and she was bare from the waist down. Beau stood alongside her. She explained she had encountered him on the elevator to the first floor at the end of the workday. She told him I was out of town through Saturday morning. His fiance Sherry is out of state two weeks for a training session. She invited him to spend the night and he followed her home. They had been in bed a half hour or more before Beau was again fucking her atop her car. I told them had I known those circumstances, I would have stayed at the hotel another night; but the timing had not allowed neither of us to notify the other. Gigi intended to phone me at the hotel when they came in from the garage.

Beau said now that I was here, he would leave. I insisted they do what they had planned and I had no problem with him and her having the night together. Gigi grinned and said to me, “I promise to make it up to you tomorrow - and all weekend.” I expected them to go straight to the bedroom; instead we talked for a half hour in our living room. Gigi mixed drinks and they sat on the couch as I sat in a chair across from them.

My wife turned to kiss him on the lips. He turned onto his back and lay the back of his head on her lap. She looked down at him, smiled, and whispered, “Ohhh! Do you want to nurse on mommy’s tits?” He softly stuttered, “Y-Y-Yes.” Gigi leaned forward and held a hand beneath a breast. His lips closed over the nipple. She rolled her eyes up to me a moment and nodded toward the lamp. I got the message. I plugged in a night light into a socket and turned off the lamp as his mouth devoured a breast. His dick began to swell as he moaned and sucked.

She has told me they sometimes roleplay mom and son. When they first began fucking at the time he was a 19-year-old student, he occasionally called her “Mom” while having sex. Now, that game reoccurs intermittently. Stroking his face, she whispered, “Mommy knows you like this. I feel the same what when I’m sucking your cock.” He moaned, “Mmmm!” and eagerly gulped the fullness of her breast. I was fascinated with the scene and could imagine the thrill of his young mouth on my wife’s soft tit.

My cock stiffened as I curled my hand around its circumference. As I pumped, my rod ballooned to full staff. This seemed to go on for a long time but I couldn’t again cum. Gigi reached to gently stroke Beau’s pole. He switched breasts and enthusiastically sucked. My wife’s jaw gaped and she moaned noisily in excitation. She said, “Oh please, fuck me.” He knelt, urged her back to the couch, and kissed her fully on the mouth. He grasped his cock and guided it to her opening. She let a shrill squeal as his dickhead parted her pussy’s lips.

His stalk sank fully into her cavity and her legs wrapped around his waist. He thrust slowly for a moment, then fucked her rapidly. She screamed joyfully. He groaned in response. At that moment, I didn’t think either remembered I was still in the room. I wanted to remark how thrilling all this was but bit my lip and instead watched in wound-up voyeurism. I went on jacking off as I got up from the chair and made my way to the hallway where I stared quietly. She won’t admit it, but it seems to me that another guy fucking my wife must surely be more exciting than if I had instead fucked her when I arrived home. After all, I’m the husband and he’s the “other guy” she doesn’t live with every day.

At the moment he moaned he was cumming, her heels kicked his buttocks, and she wailed, “Oh fucking yes! Cum inside me.” He let out an “Ahh!” and his seed jetted into her cunt. Each took in a deep breath as he dismounted. She said, “That was so good,” and turning to me, she said, “Your showing up unexpectedly made it even better.”

Not wanting to alter their plans, I said I was glad about that and I would sleep in the guest room. Gigi responded that wasn’t necessary, that I could join them; but I insisted and headed for the guest room. I waited at the bedroom door until the two entered our master bedroom. She left the door half open, perhaps as an invitation should I want to join them later. Hearing no sounds from them, I assumed they had gone to sleep.

I was awakened sometime later that night or early morning by my wife’s moans of “Oh! Oh!” I crept to their bedroom door and peered in. Beau was going down on her. Her fingers dug into his thick hair. Her body shuddered at his tongue’s manipulations until she cried out, “I’m cumming.” He looked up as she turned to her knees and braced her hands against a pillow.

Beau entered her cunt from behind. He said in a low tone, “I’m gonna fuck your brains out.” He thrust rapidly in staccato motion. She whined, “Yes! Yes! Oh fuck it.” I returned to the guest bedroom, laid in bed and stroked as they fucked. I think the two were at it about fifteen minutes until he groaned in evident orgasm. I wanted to cum again, but I was done for the night.

I was up at our usual five-thirty, but when I walked into the kitchen, Gigi had already prepared a breakfast of eggs, toast, and turkey bacon and was setting the table for Beau and me. Beau reached to shake my hand and offered, “Morning, Bro.” Gigi kissed me as I sat down at the kitchen table. They sat across from me on the bench as we ate. He said he would need to leave for class in a half-hour. He is taking classes two nights a week and Saturdays working on his master’s degree in accounting. He thinks that by attending that many classes and going summers he could finish up at the end of next year.

Gigi said she is thinking of taking an adult night class in astronomy the university is offering when the next quarter begins. There’s no credit given for those classes, but the subject interests her. As a kid, one of her hobbies was scanning the night sky with her telescope. She had previously taken a class in the subject but says this one is a bit more advanced. I suggested that, if she wants, we could go out this weekend to a big box store near us and look at telescopes. Her eyes brightened and said, “Yeah, I would love that.”

Beau soon dressed and left. She and I showered, dressed and went to work but left our places after lunch, took the day off and came home.

We went to bed had sex. We went out for an early lunch. As we were eating, her enthusiasm about getting a telescope became more evident. I suggested that instead of shopping at the big box store we could go to the mall’s optics store Monday night to see what they have in telescopes. She liked that. We worked on office projects the rest of the day and Saturday.

This morning, we went to church and have since stayed home, talking and doing household chores. We haven’t made any other plans for the coming week, but she said her boss wants her to stay at the office late Wednesday when they will prepare a presentation for the board meeting Thursday night.

I inquired, “And sex at the office after that?” She laughed and said, “Maybe, but that wasn’t mentioned.” At times in the past, he has fucked her on his office couch, his desk, and her desk in her adjoining office. So I think I know how that will turn out.

A couple of board members have before commented the two work remarkably well together. I sometimes think, “If they only knew why.”

~ Des
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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sat Feb 06, 2021 3:16 pm

Hey Des!!!

It's great to see you've come up for AIR!!!! :lol: I didn't know if you had been eating Gigi's hot pussy the entire time since you returned!! Although I'm sure that is not a bad thing to consider as I'm sure it is quite sweet. I think having so many different cum cocktails mixed her hot cunt keeps it tasting very sweet each time you dive in!! About jerking in the garage doorway while they fucked, I would have just let the cum shoot out onto the garage floor right in front of the door so that they would have stepped in it on their way out, and wondered what is that? They would have no idea you were home and it could have been interesting to watch and listen to them try to figure it out. After all, I think that would have been a cool way to let Gigi know you were home. :D I think it is a hot thing that you all can sit in the living room, he naked, she almost naked and you with your dick sticking up out of your pants and all be so cool with that. Even better that they both didn't have a second thought about fucking again right in front of you and I'm sure they took a quick glance to see you stroking your dick as they fucked. You know that is part of their thrill, to watch you watching them and stroking!!!!

Good to have you back, my friend!!

Rascal

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Unread post by ericsacto » Sat Feb 06, 2021 3:29 pm

An astronomy class sounds fun. I took one in college where once a week we were on the roof of the building at night looking at stars. Maybe she can find a partner in the class where they can both enjoy what the night sky brings.

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Unread post by TangoKing4u » Sat Feb 06, 2021 7:10 pm

Telescopes vary wildly. My recommendation is to wait until getting into the class and finding out what you want to be able to do with it. A $500 telescope. isn't a good value if it takes a $1,000 telescope to do what you want to do. The class will undoubtedly provide guidance.

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sat Feb 06, 2021 9:54 pm

Tango,

I agree about the waiting. She can also learn new things to consider about how to evaluate the benefits of one type of telescope vs another. What kind of eyepiece she prefers and what powers she will need to get the results she wants. Does she want an electric drive to keep up with the Earth's rotation so that some of the more distant stars don't keep floating out of frame or just a simple terrestrial scope for more general viewing. There is a lot to consider. Her instructor will probably offer to give her supplementary instruction at night in his backyard. :D

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Unread post by Tracey52 » Sat Feb 06, 2021 9:58 pm

Great update as always Des. You never have to worry that Gigi will be lonely when you’re away. I would be I interested to read about the reunion when she came home from her parents’ I assume you had Sunday and Monday nights together before you went away.
Finally, I don’t know why you worry so much about what some people question about your marriage. You don’t have to defend yourself to anyone. Having said that, I found your explanation about why it would be more difficult for you to stop the arrangement very interesting. You are quite insightful.

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Unread post by afagehi7 » Sat Feb 06, 2021 11:26 pm

One would think that after 100 pages of adventure the haters would back off. If gigi was doing anything other than sport fucking I'd be the first to proclaim concern. She's not doing anything typical of the train wreck we see in other threads whereby the other guy starts replacing the husband emotionally in addition to physically.

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Unread post by yielding william » Sun Feb 07, 2021 8:31 am

All you wrote in that last piece was very good. I think the psychologists report that the husbands brain changes after a wife begins having sex with other men can be carried further. It seems to me that it began soon after I started thinking about it. It had become an obsession even before my wife finally agreed to try it. Both of us agree we would have a hard time quitting unless maybe when we just become too old someday.

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Unread post by Scotch98 » Sun Feb 07, 2021 9:32 am

Great to see you back Des. What a wonderful surprise when you got home. Gigi and Beau are so great together and I know you sitting there watching Beau suckle those beautiful tits and then fucking her in front of you was amazing. That would be such an incredible sight. It was wonderful that Gigi invited you to join but I do understand how watching them would be very erotic as well. You guys have such a great relationship. I know I keep saying that over and over but I just don’t have the words to adequately describe how that must feel. I hope you guys have a great day and enjoy the Super Bowl. Cheers

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