Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

Hey, Reese,

I have a hunch the answer to both your last questions is..., YES!

This IS new to her, and she is probably trying to find a place for D, emotionally, and in her everyday routine, and also make it clear that whenever they get together it has to be on her (ie. YOUR) terms.

She is likely also apprehensive at even considering the notion that you might be attracted to another woman, and that it eventually could lead to sharing YOU. Probably not a part of her original considerations.

Additionally, in that this is still very recent for her, she will be trying to re-establish a strong emotional bond with you, and, at least for the moment, until she finds full control of her feelings, it is good for her to have a little physical/time distance from D in order to get her bearings.

Ms Reese is the best, Reese. I think you are both putting your best foot forward and placing all your cards on the table such that you are reading from the same page and share the same goals.

I hope D is patient with her and understanding, since it is probable that this brief period of separation will make their sex even hotter, and will actually work out for everyone's benefit in the medium to long run.
If he can't wait on her to find her balance and begins to become demanding at a time when Ms Reese requires the space for your marriage, that could be a sign that he might not be an ideal partner for her in her future.
However, from what I've read so far, he sounds as though he is being respectful and observant of Ms Reese's needs (and I sure can't blame him for being hot and impatient to see her again! lol).

If you or Ms Reese feel the desire to share your thoughts with us during the week, even if it is 'uneventful', I assure you you will find a receptive audience here.

I've been very well impressed by the quality and thoughtfulness of the advice you have received here on the forum, and am very happy for you that things are taking such a delightful course for all involved.

(BTW, I'm envious of D, because your wife is a TOTAL BABE! lol)

Cheers, buddy!

[Open2it]

Reese,
Sharing the intimacy of her creampie from D will be such a powerful moment between you and your lovely wife that words will probably fail to describe the full range of emotions you'll both experience. It will be a moving experience of love that can only be followed by intense love-making as she kisses you and tastes the proof of your devotion to her on your tongue. Relax and enjoy it because it will be more intense than everything you've gone through to date
O2

[max preev]

If I may reese,
It really is tough. Trying to make yourself do something that is considered by most, so nasty and so degrading. Before you dive face first into your wife's used pussy, let me share with you some points to consider.

Now I am by no means trying to discourage you from doing it. I can't wait to read the details of you doing so. As a matter of fact this is something I truly adore and don't give so much as a second thought to it.

There are plenty of men that enjoy sharing their wives and have never and would never go down on her after another man has emptied his balls in her. They have been sharing for years and they do love the feeling of sexing their wives while her hole was still dripping. To feel another man's load being squeezed out of her as his own dick is sliding up in her. The gooey mess that it makes on him as it runs down and his balls is something in and of itself quite exciting.

If it is causing a heck of a problem for you try this. Acclamate yourself to it first. Try eating her pussy after YOU FUCK HER. Yes that too is hard but nothing like after another man. Maybe if that dont work for you try this, after one of your own sessions with her have her put her panties on and leave them for a while. Then get between her legs and start nibbling and biting and then licking the gooey spot that is on them. Maybe you could try fingering her hole after you insemenate her as well as finger it after another has.

Play in it, in her pussy. Rub the cum (yours or his) all over the opening. Rub it all over her. Between her legs, on her stomach, on her tits, on her legs. Have fun with it.

[reese]

Good Morning,
Again, great advice from you all regarding the creampie.
I personally know that after I unload into my wife's delicious pussy, I CAN NOT go down on her...whether it is to lick her or touch her. My urge leaves me. I do not like the thought of licking my own cum from her pussy.
I have no idea how I will be able to lick her after her lover fills her...but to make her dream come true, I at least owe it to her to try........she has gone far and beyond the role of my ideal hotwife...she has done that for me, I am sure that I can at least try to lick her pussy...........Again, I owe her that much!

I like the idea of touching her and possibly licking her after I cum in her...taking baby steps.
I will attempt to try that soon.

In regards to D...........we talked this morning again and my HW assured me that she is just testing D....trying to make him want her more! She is busy with me right now...and she re-confirmed her need to make sure that WE are solid.......she will never assume....she realized that her playing with D and E last weekend was a BIG step toward her sexual independence...and our relationship must be treated with more TLC right now!

I am eager to touch her after he cums in her.
Her lover cumming in her is a very new experience for both of us.....so my excitement level is very high.
I told her again that I am good with her calling him when they are not together for phone sex.....I told her if she happens to cum while stimulating herself that I want her panties.....her scent and licking her cum from them will drive me wild.
Since we have a very busy weekend................we finalized some plans.

I told her that it is ok to see D Friday morning....I have some work to finish up...and the thought of her fucking him in OUR married bed is driving me crazy...............she is setting up the plan.
D is taking off work on Friday............as he wants to finalize his apt decision....I believe he is ready to choose one very soon.

My HW and I will be attending a wedding all day and into the night on Saturday....so this will be her last chance to have sex with D until next week.

I am eager to lick her...............only b/c its now or never in my mind!

I am happy that D is choosing an apt close to our home....I have encouraged my HW to spend as much free time as possible with D, whenever she is playing the HW role...she is so much more hornier and assertive with me....WHAT man wouldnt want his wife to fuck another man that she is excited about..........and then have her be very sexual and eager to fuck her husband all the time!

Giving up something and gaining so much pleasure for a little sacrifice is just fine in my world!


More to come soon.

I cant wait to write to you about tomorrow morning.............my hw promised that she will keep her panties deep inside her pussy after he fucks her.......so that I can experience her pussy!

Again, not sure how this will turn out...but I will write about it!

I do know that licking her when I am rock hard...with my sexual buildup...........it may be easier than licking her right after I had my orgasm!


I am rambling..........sorry..........talk to you all very soon!

[reese]

Another thought that I want to share;

This forum is a lot of fun.
It has almost become my therapy.

But I want to make one thing perfectly clear, I know that I still have the final word regarding my hw and her lovers.
If I am every uncomfortable with a lover.........or if my HW wants to stop being with a particular person.....our golden rule........the ONLY rule that can not ever be broken is that if ONE of us decides that a particular situation or person is detrimental to our marriage........WE CAN SAY NO!

I am not a fool............I am not playing russian roulette.........if ever D becomes a threat.......he is out!
My hw and I constantly monitor our hw activity. We are communicating daily.
I do not write about all the times she texts me and tells me how much she loves me....or how much I mean to her....or the times she will immediately tell me that D or E called or texted her..........even the times she tells me that she is thinking about D and fucking him.
SO far we have not lost touch.........we are not caught up in our fantasy world.........we both know that this is ONLY fantasy.............D is real........but he is only a player in our fantasy fulfillment.
He knows that..............I make it perfectly clear that he understands his role.
If ever D becomes a threat and decides to challenge me.............He will encounter a PIT BULL....and I promise that if I am ever writing about a sad situation where my hw and D are together and she left me.........MY PRIDE will take effect..........I will fight..........and I will not back down.
BUT one thing I will never do is sacrifice my pride and integrity!

WHY write this?..............It is fun to write about the SEX and ENCOUNTERS.........but at this moment...I want to tell everyone that WE are in love........we respect each other and we are very honest.
My HW has a perfect life with me................she knows this...........I am a fantastic DAD to her child........I provide for her......I protect her..............and I have taken her to places that she has never been before!

I promise to all of you............WE will be together no matter who is in our lives.......Our goal is to balance our hw activities and our marriage.......we will be like some of the cpls in this forum........the ones who have played for years...the ones who have a solid loving marriage....the ones who have a lot of fun with hw play!


TALK TO YOU ALL SOON!

[watchman570]

Reese I can assure you that licking your wife will be much easier before you've cum. When you're intimate with her and know that she's full of D's warm cum and she's turned on for you, you'll find it much easier to let nature take it's course. I was reluctant at first myself, after all she's full of another man's cum, his essence, his seed. But when Mrs. Watchman was practically begging me I did go down on her and found it drove her nuts. Yes, I could taste it, HIS semen and it oozed from her as I ate her pussy but with her hand on the back of my head and her clit becoming engorged against my tongue it was magic to her. She came very hard, flooding my face with her juices and HIS. Afterwards when I pushed my cock into her wet pussy and felt my balls slap her upturned ass it was a huge turn on to me as well, knowing what she'd done and that I'd cleaned my wife. I lasted about two minutes.

I did it, I'm not gay nor do I have any desire to suck cock. We both enjoyed it quite a bit and now I look forward to her creampie and find it one of the most intimate things we do together. Mrs. Reese is setting the pace here follow her to total intimacy and marital bliss.

Watchman

[reese]

Thankyou my friend Mr Watchman.
I will do just that!

[reese]

My hw just texted me and told me that SHE cant wait to feel me licking her tomorrow afternoon after D cums in her.
I guess this is happening!
I told her.........I hope you have a massive orgasm while I am licking you!
She replied......"oh baby, I cant wait!"

Simple........RIGHTTTTTTT....I cant believe I am doing this.
But again, she has gone out of her way to please me.....MY TURN I guess!

I am so caught up in what is possibly going to happen that I havent given it much thought that D will be fucking my wife tomorrow in MY BED!

That turns me on so much!


Talk to you later.

[BallSpanking]

Dear Reese,

She'll love it when you do!

PS-
Check your PM's please!

Later, buddy!

[reneissance]

I'm just a newbie here Reese, and consider myself to be the least among us, but let me say this. I've been riveted by your story from day one, and to me, you are a Rock Star.

It seems you are a bit hesitant about going down on your beautiful wife after another man has been spent inside of her, and I can't say I blame you, but let me ask you this. Would you have still encouraged her to be a Hot Wife, had you knew she would eventually ask this of you?

And,

If I may be at liberty to say this, but if it is your decision to do this for her, then do it with great enthusiasm. Show her how much you really love, and care for her feelings, and eat her like it's the Last Supper brother. She will know if you are doing it half heartedly, so go for the gusto, and make her know that it's not just about you, but that your love for her has made "this particular act" a total non issue.

yours

- Rene

[reese]

Rene,
I really appreciate your kind thoughts about my thread and especially performing oral sex with my wife after her lover fills her up.
Today, my mind has wondered back and forth.
Tomorrow, even though I am quite nervous, I truly know that I will be so damn excited after she has sex with D on our bed....I promise you and everyone reading this........I will lick her with wreckless abandon!
I should have mentioned, her pussy is the sweetest I have ever tasted...not to sound conceited but before I married my HW...I played around TOO MUCH! SO I do know good pussy!

I am eager to walk this next journey into our hotwife lifestyle with my wife.

I am afraid that I might crave that more that I ever thought possible.

It really isnt about him......ITS ABOUT sharing this wonderful moment with my wife.
It is about re-claiming her as MINE!
It is about experiencing the excitement that WE both share as my wife loses herself to another man.


Thanks again Rene!

[Open2it]

Reese,
You'll be fine and you know that there are a lot of us who would gladly trade places with you Relax, focus on how beautiful she is, how much you love her and she loves you, how she's made your wildest fantasies come true and how much you want to make hers come true. When she pulls your head into her it's her desire and love for you needing you there. You will feel closer to her then ever before and she'll love you even more for it.
O2

[BallSpanking]

Hi Reese,

Interestingly, at a biological level, you are also lessening her chances of conception by ridding her pussy of as much of his seed as possible, to vigorously fill her with your own 'dominant' essence.

Did you know that (and this is mind-blowing), science has shown that the the spermatozoids from donor 1 will actually combat and link themselves in barriers to prevent donor 2's sperm from reaching the ovum, shielding is brothers in the rear who are attacking the outside of the egg to pierce it and fertilize it with ITS' OWN DNA !!

By physically removing his deposit you increase the odds that your cum will be the dominant strain in her pussy that will make her 'conceive' !!

Interesting, isn't it?

[reese]

Mr Ballspanking...very interesting perspective....luckily she is on the pill though, but since it's not 100%effective, I may not want my HW to read your post, she may want me to lick her clean everytime she is with a lover.

Update:
E called me and asked to speak to my HW about an hour ago.
She told me that he really likes his situation with us...and that he is glad that she and D are hitting it off. It takes some of the pressure off him due to his busy life.
She asked if she can see him alone without D soon...he is working on his schedule.
I give that a big thumbs up..... seeing E will break the D infactuation.

D will be at the house at 9am tomorrow.......they will spend the morning together...he wants to make her breakfast in bed. I am ok with all of this.......but I warned D that he better get his apt soon....this wont work when school is finished for the kids. He informed us that he has a deposit down on an apartment and that it is about 2 miles from our house. Perfect for my HW. He asked me if I am ok with her spending nights at his place at times...and if it is ok if she has a key.

What do you all think?
I love losing her...and this is the perfect set up for us....as long as we keep things on an even keel like we have been.

More importantly, my HW told D that she wants him to not cum until tomorrow...she has been so excited about the possiblilty of my licking her clean after he cums in her. He promised her a big load. Him and I did not discuss this...and I won't!
Sharing this with my HW....I dont want him to be in the room.....We have an agreement that once he cums...he will prepare to leave and MY HW will call me to come home..I will need about 30 minutes.........

What do you think about that? Will his load still be warm inside her...and will she be able to share that with me like she hopes if I am 30 min away?

PS...........I am very hard right now...MY HW has me also on NO cumming RULES(lol).

[BallSpanking]

I think it will be an interesting battle of the perms!
LOL!

By the way, I realize Ms Reese is on the pill so her lovers can cum in her without condoms. She loves that. But I didn't mean to imply that the intent in your case involved pregnancy.

Very nice about E, too..., maybe she can begin thinking about working out with a hung fitness trainer too... lol.

Cheers mate, love your post!

[BallSpanking]

Typo:
Not battle of the perms...., battle of the sperms..., LOL

Good thing I'm not a typist for a living.

[reese]

Hey guys, update time!
It is close to 11am........my HW called me about an hour ago and asked that I come home around this time.
As I type, I wish I could put into words what is HAPPENING RIGHT NOW!
This lifestyle is unbelievable.....as I write, I am constantly amazed at the places that we go to!

My wife.......or shall I say my TOO HOT to handle HW is in my married bed with D.
I can hear them.....she is giggling...........and I can hear a lot of kissing.
She and D know that I am here...........and they want me to come into the room as soon as he unloads his cum into her.
THIS IS IT!

I am so fucking horny right now!

Listening to my wife in bed............in my bed.........this is so erotic........I lost her right now......i cant wait to claim her again.

Sorry that I am not typing more...I am leaving now to go to the bedroom door and listen to D fuck my HW.

OMG.............this is so wild!

[reese]

Deep breathe...........We have been in bed together for the past 3 hrs........
I will try to select my words very carefully.........but get to the point!

My HW and D were fucking with a great intensity......I was at the door......she kept calling me......not BABY..that was used for D.....she was calling out my name........I opened the door..........he stopped fucking her...his mouth was centered on her breasts.....she told me............honey.........we are almost ready........I want to share this with you........D never said a word..........I was fucking nervous....but rock hard...looking at this cock inside my wife's swollen pussy...her legs were spread.......that sight alone can last in my mind until the day I die!
She told me to get naked....she wanted my cock....D started to fuck her again....he only looked at me and replied " hey man"......this is awesome or something like that.......I was rock hard....my cock looked good....I wasnt worried....I already saw D's cock a few times once on that first night and then this past weekend when she sucked his cock when he and E came to pick her up for the Memorial weekend trip.
My wife took a hold of my cock........and started to suck it...her face was positioned at an angle that allowed her to keep her legs spread for D....and take my cock by the side of our married bed.
D kept fucking her telling her that her pussy was so HOT...............he kept telling her that this is his pussy....that alone almost made my cock spurt a lot of cum...........then IT HAPPENED!
He told her that he was ready to cum..............she took my cock out and started talking in her dangerous tone....that incredibly sexy tone.....telling him to fuck his pussy.....and shit like.........fuck my married pussy baby......FUCK!
It was so hot...ONE of the reasons why I wanted my wife to be a HW is that she is so sexy to look at when she fucks someone....I never knew how she looked while I was fucking her...and NO we didnt get a video....I wanted to see that in real life with another man............

Please dont label me as gay b/c I am not..............but I finally realized what every man who supported creampies has been telling me............HOW wonderful it is to experience THAT moment when A HOTWIFE opens her creamy pussy to her husband.

HE orgasmed very hard in her....watching her legs buckle...he took her arms and held them....her legs spread as far as she could spread them.............he was spilling his cum in her and I never heard my HW utter the words that came from her mouth.................the way she vocally replied how good his cock feels and how hot her pussy feels with his load in her....he told her to cum for him while his cock is in her....but my wife looked at me while I was standing by the side of the bed and grabbed my cock....telling D to rub up against her clit with his body while she sucked my cock......about 2 minutes later...with my cock engulfed in her mouth...........she started to orgasm....pulling my cock out of her mouth...she screamed that she was cumming.......asking us...or better yet, demanding him and I to call her our dirty little slut....or slutty hotwife...I knew those words would make her cum violently...........immediately after she orgasmed....she pushed D off the bed......gently...and looked at me and told me to lick her pussy............saying, "baby, please lick my pussy, lick my our cum out of my pussy...baby please.....baby this means so much to me"! It almost sounded like she was crying.....as a matter of fact...I think she had tears in her eyes.....

Instinctly, I moved over to the bed and went into a reverse 69 where my cock was back in her mouth....and my face ON top of her pussy.......probably NOT the right position for me to clean her pussy and taste her lovers cum...but I wanted to cum really badly....and this moment was like an instant replay on TV............very surreal....very diliberate were my movements......I tasted her pussy while I remember my cock pumping her mouth.....

I licked her pussy...licking with long strokes of my tongue...licking her sweet sexy butthole which was very gooey with his cum......I decided to go for it......breathing out of my mouth to prevent me from gagging...SORRY but I am human...and I do not like the scent of male cum..........

I licked her with long lapping movements....large mouthfuls of their cum....MY wife's cum is more acidic when I fuck her but when she cums while sucking my cock or clitoris stimulation...it tastes more sweet! Not sure why!
I continued to lick her pussy...tasting both his and her cum....distinct differences....but I tried not to breathe IN......
She sucked me so hard, stopping to moan in pleasure...stopping to tell me to cum in her mouth...and stopping to hold my head FIRM against her pussy as she told me to lick her some more...that she is cumming......
SHE ORGASMED big time! I licked more of her than him at this point...then she started to suck my cock in a way that makes me cum right away.

I cummed in her mouth....MY WIFE who once didnt like to swallow cum...was taking my cum and greedily sucking me hard...taking all of me......

I was spent! Totally exhausted....she pulled me to her and gave me a firm deep kiss.
WOW................what the fuck was happening....licking and sucking out her and her lovers cum was crazy to me...but now tasting my own cum?

I wish I could say that I kissed her forever...but I stopped...jumped off the bed and told her that I was thirsty!

While I was drinking a lot of water....I heard D getting dressed.
Good man!
This is our time!
Walking out. she asked me if I was OK with her giving him a kiss goodbye.
WHAT THE FUCK?
WHERE WAS THIS COMING FROM?
I said...sure baby...and said nothing more.

He left...shook my hand and gave me a man hug and told me thankyou for my hotwife.
I just smiled.

We layed in bed for about 3 hrs.....sleeping.....glad that I took some time away from work to have my first creampie.

We talked and re-confirmed our lover for each other.
SHE told me one thing that sticks out in my mind........
She told me that licking her like I did...FOR HER....that only confirmed how much I love her....that is what she felt.
She told me how lucky she was to have me...and that NO matter who she if hw playing with...that she will always go out of her way to show me how much I mean to her...that I am the man of her dreams!

About the creampie......................next post please.

I want you all to digest this post.
I was very nervous writing this one.

[max preev]

good god it makes my dick hard just thinking about it. i wish i were there with you right now.

[BallSpanking]

No one can say you started in the wading pool, my friend..., you both jumped in straight into the deep end!

Whew!

Cheers!

[Open2it]

Sounds like a great time was had by all!!! Congratulations on your first creampie and may you both continue to share your love in such a unique and meaningful way.
O2

[watchman570]

Reese that was an incredible description of your adventure. I have to admit that in reading it I became rock hard myself visualizing your beautiful wife taking D's cum deep inside her. So now you know exactly what we've all been telling you. There is no experience you can have with your wife that is more erotic and more intimate than giving her this simple act. You are indeed a fortunate man my friend. Welcome to the creampie eaters club my brother.

Watchman

[mdcucked]

Wow, after seeing a lot of ridiculous web sites it is so nice to find one that's intelligent and real!

The conversation here is really intriguing. Our situation seems to be a little different than many of the ones described. I'll explain.

My wife and I are both 51 and on occasion she goes to bed with other men. They're (almost) all ex-lovers of hers who've since married and, in all but one instance, moved away. There's no question that my wife is really fond of these guys. In the case of one of the out-of-town guys, she has told me she loves him -- but that it's not on the same level as what she and I share. She has no interest in my watching her with any of them and I've never pushed the issue. In fact, only one of the men knows I know.

How does it all feel to me? I really, really like it.

First, as a simple matter of safety, I much prefer my wife sleeping with a man who cares about her than a stranger who doesn't.

Second, the fact that she has some history with these guys -- and that they're married -- means that they're known quantities to her and that boundaries are clearer.

Third, unlike a lot of men who are into this, I really savor the moments when I'm alone knowing she's making love with someone else. Just imagining the passion that's going on is absolutely thrilling to me. My masturbation is very intense and my orgasms are very powerful.

Beyond this, though, our marriage has benefitted a lot simply from my wife carving out a part of her life that really belongs to her alone: not the firm where she works, not the kids, and not me. She really appreciates my giving her that space. Also, I feel proud of myself for getting past my neediness and much of my fear. I guess it goes without saying, but our sex life is now better than it has been in many, many years.

Though I'm clearly demonstrating my advanced age by saying this, I often think of the lyric from the Stephen Stills song: "if you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with"

Jim

[reese]

Saturday.......
Great beginnning.
We woke up late after a fun night of 'us' time.
My gorgeous wife laying in bed...tanned body, naked, curled to her side.
I positioned my face in front of her smooth butt......slowly touching her tight silky hole....deliberately kissing her butthole....rubbing her clit....feeling the wetness flow from inside her......my cock very hard again....the morning hard on didnt matter.....her scent from being out all night in her sexy outfit....her hot pink silouette shoes....the scent of her feet....I awakened her with my cock penetrating her pussy.....kissing her neck the way she likes it....within minutes....I orgasmed inside her.

She was quiet....moving her body....moaning in the seductive tone......and finally she said to me,"come for me baby"....and I did!

Having a beautiful wife is wonderful.
Last night, I met a man at a very classy martini bar who approached stating how sexy my wife was.
I was thinking, "does everyone think she has a shared pussy"?
He was very classy...older than I and admiring my wife.
I called her over(she was dancing by herself next to our table...dancing for me) and told her that she was attracting a lot of attention.
She smiled at him and thanked him.
Last night...........my wife gave me herself all for myself!
I love her so much for dedicating herself to me....knowing how much she enjoyed fucking D this past week....she was going to show her gratitude by spoiling me with her sexiness.


About the creampie............I want to do it again.
I want to do it everytime she fucks her lovers.
My cock is so hard thinking about it!
It is such a glorious exchange between the hotwife and her husband.
I never knew how erotic that would be!
I want more....I want it so bad.

I will keep you updated very soon.
Today and tomorrow...family obligations...but we will be together all weekend.....

Our bond is so strong right now!

Have a good weekend everyone.

[reese]

I just posted another pic of reese's weekend with D and E. Look for it at the hotties section...its a new post.
I was told that the pic was taken by E while my hw as asleep.
The bed that she was laying on is the one she shared with D.
This is how my HW looked....it turns me on so much to look at that pic knowing that I lost her that weekend.
Knowing that she was another mans possession.
Knowing that she willingly gave herself to D and E....
I Love being a hw hubby.