Figuring it out

[venus-can99]

And A got treated to dessert for lunch as well

[Seekingmore12]

Hi everyone, have not been on for a while…..has been a busy summer, garden is peaking with produce and the lawn needs mowing….

With this said my thoughts are elsewhere…….you may get to read about it in a few days……this one is going to be a epic milestone that lfa and adventurer have been working on…..

G

[Shystudentonline]

Wow G. That is the way to keep us all in suspense. Such a tease, which I guess is something that many cuckolds in this forum enjoy. Well played…

We’re now all on edge waiting for the story!

[boobman987]

What a wonderful couple of hot update LFA, the wait was certainly worth it. Your description of your pent up desires for G invoked strong mental images for me.

It was a shame A was at work as his pictures would have the whole of OHW viewing them.

I hope things progress with your new gentleman, and he is a great replacement for “Sir”.

[Lookingforadventure]

Wow G. That is the way to keep us all in suspense. Such a tease, which I guess is something that many cuckolds in this forum enjoy. Well played…

We’re now all on edge waiting for the story!

Welcome to my world! G is an excellent tease Fortunately, he also always follows through

[Lookingforadventure]

What a wonderful couple of hot update LFA, the wait was certainly worth it. Your description of your pent up desires for G invoked strong mental images for me.

It was a shame A was at work as his pictures would have the whole of OHW viewing them.

I hope things progress with your new gentleman, and he is a great replacement for “Sir”.

Thank you. A did just post some pics, but they were from a different adventure, which incidentally also has to do with the new gentleman (T) who is our "Sir" replacement. I'll write a short post below.

[Lookingforadventure]

The event G mentions will be taking place on Thursday. I don't want to steal his thunder by saying too much now, but I am thinking it will be very noteworthy. Stay tuned.

In the meantime, I see that Adventurer posted some pics in our Hotties thread, so I can update you about a different type of play date that happened recently. I had mentioned that "Sir" faded into the distance over the past year. Recently we met T, who seems like he'd be a good replacement. His wife doesn't enjoy kink play and is supportive of him exploring that with others. He's 43 (a whopping 5 years younger than me) and just seems like a very nice and genuine guy. Plus, his kinks line up well with mine. The only problem is that he lives more than two hours away.

T suggested a play date for when he'd be out our way, and we decided to go for it...even though it was my birthday. We were meeting him in the afternoon, so it wouldn't interfere with any other birthday plans, and we didn't tell him it was my birthday (we thought that might seem weird). What he didn't know won't kill him. LOL. While it still struck me as a bit of odd timing, we realized that if we didn't snag this opportunity we probably wouldn't be able to again for a few months just because of the distance and busy schedules.

For the date, we decided to play at a dungeon space that you can rent for private play. We had been there before with "Sir" and I actually found myself thinking about him nostalgically when we arrived. Maybe I should feel more resentment about him ghosting me, but mostly I'm grateful for his friendship and all of the fun times we had together.

Adventurer posted a few pics and those might be a better way to paint a picture than me using my words. I can say that I had a good time.

Because it was my birthday, Adventurer wanted to give me a birthday spanking. I agreed, but made it clear that I didn't want T doing anything like that. I don't know him well enough for pain play, plus I just don't think I want him to. It wasn't an issue. T was very respectful of all of our boundaries.

T did cum all over my face, though. Which was something I had requested and enjoyed. He also let me deep throat him. Adventurer not only spanked my butt hard, he also fucked it very well...occasionally while T was in my mouth. Since I love a good spit roast, this was also a great birthday treat.

In between play times, we had good conversation on the couch. All in all, I think it was a successful play time. I don't think we will play with T often since he lives far away, but he can definitely be on the "repeats" list.

Oh, and that night "Sir" reached out to wish me a happy birthday!!! It has literally been months since I had heard from him. It made my heart happy that he remembered me, remembered my birthday, and wanted to reach out. Plus, I found out that one of his elderly parents has been unwell, so he's been busy travelling and caring for them whenever he can. I felt justified in my good feelings for him.

[Lookingforadventure]

As a tease for Thursday, I can say that I've been fixing up an underused room in our basement to turn it into a "guest room". I entirely expect G to be the more regular "guest" to use it. I sent him a pic on Friday night of me in my paint clothes. I'll see if I still have it on my phone and will post it in the Hotties section. The booty shorts were a fun surprise for both G and A.

[coastalkid]

Is the BDSM (or whatever variation of that you indulge in) something that only you an Adventurer do, or does G share that also? That would make a difference in how you "decorate" your guest room. Have you considered having any video cameras set up in your new "guest room" to record your playtime for Adventurer to watch at a later time? I'm glad that "Sir" reached out to you and let you know he had issues with his parents health. That explains a lot towards what appeared to be the ghosting.

[Seekingmore12]

Hi everyone…..adventurer has requested some cuck play for Thursday’s room reveal…

I thought it might be interesting to gather some opinions on activities, no humiliation or lack of respect etc….

If you were in adventurer’s shoes what would you like to have happen ?

G

Ps permission to post this was asked and granted by mistress lfa

[jane]

congratulations LFA and G, those are the only posts i've read lately

[Seekingmore12]

congratulations LFA and G, those are the only posts i've read lately

Thanks Jane, take care…

G

[Adventurer]

Hi everyone…..adventurer has requested some cuck play for Thursday’s room reveal…

I thought it might be interesting to gather some opinions on activities, no humiliation or lack of respect etc….

If you were in adventurer’s shoes what would you like to have happen ?

G

Ps permission to post this was asked and granted by mistress lfa

I also look forward to suggestions and if it's alright for me to interject, some humiliation may not be unwelcome on my end

[coastalkid]

It's an interesting situation. You're all very familiar with each other. In spite of being involved with each other for so long there are probably "buttons" that haven't been pushed before, lines that haven't been crossed. We have no way of knowing what things you have and haven't done. One thing is certain that at this point anything humiliating will be far less consequential than it would have been in the past. It almost feels like you can truly enjoy it now and the way you feel now is different from say 2 or so years ago. Congratulations to both of you for finding your way! I'll be interested to know what if anything does humiliate you. Have fun, you've earned it!

[Lookingforadventure]

congratulations LFA and G, those are the only posts i've read lately

Thanks Jane. You've been in my thoughts and I am glad we could make you smile.

[Late]

G, A, LFA:
You asked for suggestions. I don't know what this would do for any of you, but I know what it would do for me. Before G arrives, LFA puts A on a chair in the corner and ties him up, and gags him. He can be naked. LFA is fully dressed. G arrives and is properly greeted out of eyesight but within earshot. Once in front of A, G properly disrobes LFA, enjoying the journey. Once she is completely disrobed and ravished LFA properly disrobes G. Lots of discussion and teasing, all while A is gagged so cannot participate. At some point in the proceedings it would be discussed that G needs to be harder, so the Gag is converted into a blindfold and A's mouth is used to work on G, and maybe even on LFA. In the course of the evening the blindfold can become a gag again, and then back to a blindfold. The idea is for him to be immobilized and always short at least one of his senses. Having conversations with him while he cannot participate, and having discussions and making noises about things he cannot see, but can talk about.

Of course, he would be re-tied on the bed for clean up duty at the end, again blindfolded.

I don't know if that has appeal, but I sure enjoyed writing about it. Some of that is part of my favorite fantasy, which unfortunately will probably always be just that. Anyway, thanks for asking.

Late

[GenerallySpeaking]

This corner of OHW feels empty lately. I'm sure LFA has something to say about what's going on. I'd love to know her side of the past two weeks.

[Lookingforadventure]

This corner of OHW feels empty lately. I'm sure LFA has something to say about what's going on. I'd love to know her side of the past two weeks.

Hello

Sorry I have been AWOL for a bit. We have been happy and healthy, still involved in the lifestyle, I just haven't written very much. I don't know why.

Maybe part of it is because we have been experimenting with a cuck dynamic recently. That doesn't come very naturally for me, but my husband expressed an interest and I like giving him what he desires. I watched some hot wife porn, read some threads, and improved in my verbal teasing skills, We also added some "rules" for him and got G in on the action and conversation. It is going well, but I have a mental block about posting it here.

I think it is because this isn't "the new norm" of our sex life. It is something we are trying out and playing with.

I also think that I am quite loyal and protective. I don't want anyone reading my post to think my husband is weak or pathetic, or that I consider him second best to anyone. I can tease him about how much wetter I get for someone else, but I don't want other people saying it. LOL

In any case, that is a brief update from me.

I note that I never shared about our last threesome in the guest bedroom. I had worked hard to get it cleaned out, painted, with a new bed assembled. It is part of our new, empty-nester lifestyle and I wanted a special room for when G comes over. He did that before he left on vacation at the beginning of this month. Adventurer took some time of of work and joined us too.

Because A recorded a lot of video from this session, I have evidence that my porn watching has paid off. I was actually quite good at teasing him. I showed him all of the pussy cream that ended up on G's cock as he fucked me. I made him get on his knees close to the bed, so he could watch me get fucked. I smiled at him and told him how great it felt as I was riding G. And I called him over to clean up a cream pie as G and I recovered after round 1.

I think it was successful all around. THEN, G took off on vacation and A convinced me that we should try a FLR for the month of October including denying him orgasms, progressively removing his access to me (first it was no pussy, then no oral sex, then he couldn't even see me naked). I am learning that I am too sexual a being for this level of play. LOL.

G comes home on Wednesday and I am meeting him at the airport. I may very well end up having sex in the backseat of the cab...or, even better, the airport bathroom!! We are spending the night at a hotel and enjoying a romantic dinner out (courtesy of A) to celebrate 5 years since we first met. On Thursday, when I get home, the October trial run of denial will be over and I plan to devour my husband.

[shadowtantra]

Thanks for the wonderful update, I hope you get to devour your husband when the time comes!

[coastalkid]

You truly do melt my heart! It's clear you really and truly love your husband! This opening statement says it all!

...........we have been experimenting with a cuck dynamic recently. That doesn't come very naturally for me, but my husband expressed an interest and I like giving him what he desires. I watched some hot wife porn, read some threads, and improved in my verbal teasing skills, We also added some "rules" for him and got G in on the action and conversation. It is going well, but I have a mental block about posting it here.

I think it is because this isn't "the new norm" of our sex life. It is something we are trying out and playing with.

I also think that I am quite loyal and protective. I don't want anyone reading my post to think my husband is weak or pathetic, or that I consider him second best to anyone. I can tease him about how much wetter I get for someone else, but I don't want other people saying it. LOL

What A wants does not come to you naturally. You want what you think is this best for A and you've come around to understanding that you need to try for him and that's what's best for now. You're willing to step outside your comfort zone to see him happy. That says a lot about your strength of character and the depth of your love.

THEN, G took off on vacation and A convinced me that we should try a FLR for the month of October including denying him orgasms, progressively removing his access to me (first it was no pussy, then no oral sex, then he couldn't even see me naked). I am learning that I am too sexual a being for this level of play. LOL.

This is the thing about the denial and withholding, it always needs some sort of escalation to retain the potency and effect. It's important to you that you are intimate with A. Some compromises are healthy ones that preserve the whole relationship. G can't be there ALL the time and I would guess that you don't really want ALL your sexual satisfaction coming from just G.

On Thursday, when I get home, the October trial run of denial will be over and I plan to devour my husband.

From what you've done to try for A he should understand that you need sex from him too. For you, it keeps your connection alive and safe and secure. Thursday will be as much for you as it will be for A.

I have a lot of respect for all three of you!

[jane]

the thing about cuckolding, it's play between the couple. i find it annoying when if you post about it people will jump in and say degrading things to the husband. no, it's not about the posters.
as far as being too sexual for denial, there's always getting some extra G, or some one timers.

[hornedhubby]

I agree with coastalkid's comments.

Hoping to remain in my lane, I'd also add that there are a gazillion ways to enjoy FLR and tease A's desires to worship a dominant hotwife without using denial at all.

I'm still a cuck wannabe but I've lived in an FLR with a dominant wife for decades. Tease is great and humiliation can add to the fun, but denial never appealed to either of us.

Seems to me that erections and ejaculations in tribute to a goddess like LFA are even more appropriate than abstaining. And the hottest aspects of being cucked is having a wife who feels a need to play with many cocks, with her hubby's dick being one of the many she enjoys.

YMMV.

Best wishes in exploring your fantasies, pleasures and limits. As a couple, you seem to have a gift for having fun with all that.

Thanks for sharing.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thanks for the wonderful update, I hope you get to devour your husband when the time comes!

Me too!!!!

[Lookingforadventure]

the thing about cuckolding, it's play between the couple. i find it annoying when if you post about it people will jump in and say degrading things to the husband. no, it's not about the posters.
as far as being too sexual for denial, there's always getting some extra G, or some one timers.

Exactly. I want to make sure people only say good things about my man

And getting my fill of G will be happening later today!!!

[Lookingforadventure]

I agree with coastalkid's comments.

Hoping to remain in my lane, I'd also add that there are a gazillion ways to enjoy FLR and tease A's desires to worship a dominant hotwife without using denial at all.

I'm still a cuck wannabe but I've lived in an FLR with a dominant wife for decades. Tease is great and humiliation can add to the fun, but denial never appealed to either of us.

Seems to me that erections and ejaculations in tribute to a goddess like LFA are even more appropriate than abstaining. And the hottest aspects of being cucked is having a wife who feels a need to play with many cocks, with her hubby's dick being one of the many she enjoys.

YMMV.

Best wishes in exploring your fantasies, pleasures and limits. As a couple, you seem to have a gift for having fun with all that.

Thanks for sharing.

Thank you. I agree. And we were willing to try denial and I think that he enjoyed it...for a time. I also enjoyed how focused A was on me, how attracted he was to me, how much he wanted me, because he knew he couldn't have me. So there were definite benefits for both of us. But a month without sex is just way too long. So if we dabble in this kind of play again, it will be for a shorter time period.

We might also try some forms of denial (e.g. no blowjobs for a bit. or no orgasms for him, but we can still fuck) but won't completely cut out all sexual activities at the same time. It just doesn't work for us. And, I agree with you, that erections and ejaculations make me feel very sexy. I have said that before about "quick triggers" too. If I accidentally make you cum too quickly, it means you were REALLY turned on by what I was doing. That's a compliment.

The verbal teasing is something that I think I will continue to grow into. A really likes it and I am getting better at it because I know he knows that he is still my favourite person. Play has nothing to do with how important he is to me. That took my brain a bit to wrap itself around.