Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Fri Mar 25, 2022 3:35 pm

Tryn wrote:
Fri Mar 25, 2022 10:32 am
Appreciate your updates and answers! A couple things to consider.

1) Mr. G’s comment could be based upon your enjoyment of SW’s rocking body as a result of the workouts. I know we all wish it was hotwife related, but more likely not related to the hotwife desires, nor fantasy of SW riding a BBC. Just my hunch.
I think you are probably correct on this, but at the same time, we are all on this Board because we aspire for Our Hotwives to find some action. So much of this is in our heads anyway, I do like to be optimistic and paint the rosy possibilities.

I mean, I'm sure they are attracted to each other, and that they share intimate matters regarding their personal lives, and that he must enjoy (also SW) any of the physical touching via stretching, massage, etc. That's a good foundation for a possible time when one or both of them are ready to jump over the line.

And it's inspirational to me as the husband of a hotwife who is presently on the sidelines. And SW keeps a rocking hard body as a benefit.
Tryn wrote:
Fri Mar 25, 2022 10:32 am
2) Perhaps the angle with Mr. B is to verbally recognize how much SW likes the stipper pole, how hot you think she looks using it, how she asked you to set it up again, and how your voyeuristic nature loves it when you get to watch her work her magic and other guys liking it too. Throw in you’re such a perv that way, but it’s all good as long as everyone is having fun. Then judge his comfort and see if “I bet she gave you a killer show that night I was out of town” seems appropriate. He’s a pussy hound and pussy hounds usually like to brag when they feel the moment is right. Set the tone for making the moment right for Mr. B.
Fair approach. SW nixed my idea of having him swing by the house before dinner. It's still possible, but only if he ends up running early. SW agreed that if he ends up running early, she will leave in advance with the care, and go for a drink at the restaurant and I'm to keep Mr. B here at the house for about a half hour and then go over with him. I would then have that half hour for whatever conversation fits the mood. We'd likely have a nice extra anejo sipping tequila.

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Unread post by slenderfish » Sun Mar 27, 2022 8:52 am

was68845 wrote:
Fri Mar 25, 2022 5:42 pm
What's stopping you from giving him a jingle and inviting him over early to look at the remodel?
SW generally never wants anyone here while she is still getting ready, primping, etc.

I'd originally suggested this exact scenario in a practical way. Mr. B driving up on a Friday traffic day is highly uncertain as to timing. He will leave early to anticipate traffic, and more likely than arriving on time will either be early (lighter than expected) or late (heavier). I'd told SW I was going to suggest he stop by for the remodel, if he's running early. She nixed that.

Of course, it was heavier than expected and he was about 40 minutes late.

It's Sunday and we had a very big night on Friday. Let's just say that SW slept virtually all day on Saturday and we hunkered down at home and recovered.

I'll post the update when I have more time. Running off to work out right now, with SW.

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Unread post by RuleEmAll » Sun Mar 27, 2022 10:26 am

Holy shizzle, I'm at page 17 now after reading through this thread for 2 days, it seems I have a lot more to cover, so I'm not looking for any spoilers, just wanted to let you know I enjoy your journey!
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Unread post by armyguyot1 » Sun Mar 27, 2022 10:36 am

Welcome to the forum RuleEmAll.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by RuleEmAll » Sun Mar 27, 2022 12:04 pm

armyguyot1 wrote:
Sun Mar 27, 2022 10:36 am
Welcome to the forum RuleEmAll.
Thanks, will share my story later on, first I'm fully indulged into this story, made it to page 23 with the big revelation! So awesome and happy for slenderfish!
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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Mar 28, 2022 5:35 am

RuleEmAll wrote:
Sun Mar 27, 2022 10:26 am
Holy shizzle, I'm at page 17 now after reading through this thread for 2 days, it seems I have a lot more to cover, so I'm not looking for any spoilers, just wanted to let you know I enjoy your journey!
Hey REA. Thanks for the shout-out.

Your timing seems to be on point. Mr. B is back in the present conversation; SW invited him to dinner this past Friday and we were out until 2:30 a.m. then SW was not ready for sleep until 4:30 a.m. More when I have time to elaborate.

Also, there is a second string in the Hotties section with images, to add breadth to the narrative. And I sometimes pop some of the narrative over there, when I think it germane to be there.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Mar 28, 2022 5:57 am

I've been mentioning the house remodel from time to time. With supply-chain issues, we've had some unbelievable delays. But pretty much everything is now complete, just a few remaining elements on the outside of the house (new deck tiles, swapping out the safety railing for all glass, rain gutters and roofing in certain places. And someone forgot to connect the electric lines to the new air conditioning compressor unit. Etc etc.

I've been assembling and installing the home theater system. One layer at a time, but it's quite close to completion. On Saturday night, SW went to bed a bit early, still recovering from the big night out on Friday. I was clicking around and went ahead and watched Deep Water, which was called out in this string a couple of weeks ago as having strong Hotwife themes.

I agree it does have strong such themes, but the Hotwife element is part of the back story, the landscape (if you will). It's really a murder mystery.

Unfortunately, the male lead star is quite wooden in this movie, but in my opinion he is best in these such roles, not really having a dynamic style in his playbook. They say it was a stylistic effort for the sake of the movie, but I say that he is wooden anyway and therefore he should (and does) take on roles that accept his acting limitations.

But I stuck with it and it worked for me, overall.

I kept waiting for the Hotwife themes to play out in a more sexy and erotic way, but it was always short-lived and never went far enough to get me fully riled up (if you know what I mean).

SW had popped her head out of the bedroom to ask me a question, as the movie started, and I'd invited her to sit and watch with me. She had declined, but did see the start of it and the actors.

She asked me yesterday about the movie and if I'd enjoyed it, and whether I recommend it for her viewing. Also why I'd thought to watch it.

I told her that it had been noted on this Forum and I'd watched it as a result. She was curious and asked again about the forum. I reminded her that I do come on here from time to time, to write and to read and to learn. Shared experiences, etc. with like-minded people.

This was a perfect on-ramp for me to reiterate that the Hotwifing kink burns strong in me, and that my desire for her to continue remains unabated.

I took the opportunity to say that one's sexual desires are formed at some point in their life and experiences, and that they don't just go away or change. My example is that if she likes men as her preferred sexual partners (e.g. "straight") that desire and preference does not change just because she is not presently sleeping with any man. She still may see or otherwise flirt with a man, and get a bit of a rev up. Same for the hotwife desire. It remains, even if the wife is presently not active having sex with another man. And the rev occurs with me when she is interacting with a man, flirting, dressed sexy, etc. I then heartily thanked her for her gift of Friday night, out with Mr. B., and the serious sexiness and flirting with him, with me, and other men over the course of the night.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by rickyg » Mon Mar 28, 2022 9:07 am

Happy to hear that Mr B is back in the picture. Something about the chemistry with Mr B is more exciting than Mr S or M or G. I think it's because Mr B's just a horn dog who doesn't complicate things. And also because there has been this huge build up with Mr B without the payoff. That video of her dancing for him and getting taken upstairs is a massive tease for me as a follower. I can only imagine what it is like for you!

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Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Mar 28, 2022 9:40 am

rickyg wrote:
Mon Mar 28, 2022 9:07 am
Happy to hear that Mr B is back in the picture. Something about the chemistry with Mr B is more exciting than Mr S or M or G. I think it's because Mr B's just a horn dog who doesn't complicate things. And also because there has been this huge build up with Mr B without the payoff. That video of her dancing for him and getting taken upstairs is a massive tease for me as a follower. I can only imagine what it is like for you!
Yes, my word for the video (which I do revisit from time to time) is Tantalizing.

Perhaps that video is the biggest (albeit unintended) hotwife gift from SW to date. Something about the visual.

It's certainly up there.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by rickyg » Mon Mar 28, 2022 10:58 am

slenderfish wrote:
Mon Mar 28, 2022 9:40 am
rickyg wrote:
Mon Mar 28, 2022 9:07 am
Happy to hear that Mr B is back in the picture. Something about the chemistry with Mr B is more exciting than Mr S or M or G. I think it's because Mr B's just a horn dog who doesn't complicate things. And also because there has been this huge build up with Mr B without the payoff. That video of her dancing for him and getting taken upstairs is a massive tease for me as a follower. I can only imagine what it is like for you!
Yes, my word for the video (which I do revisit from time to time) is Tantalizing.

Perhaps that video is the biggest (albeit unintended) hotwife gift from SW to date. Something about the visual.

It's certainly up there.
I honestly couldn't agree more. Tantalizing is indeed a great word for it.

It's just so unbecoming of a monogamous wife to be dancing for another man alone in her home, cuddling with him and then get taken upstairs. But so hot when it's a hot wife.

I was wondering what I like about Mr B more than any other potentials or past lovers and I think it's this. He sees SW as a piece of ass like he probably sees all hot women. He doesn't worry about you and he doesn't degrade her anymore than that (like Mr S or M would) nor does he put her on any type of pedestal. He has no interest in anything romantic. He just sees a woman who is a certified 10/10 and wants to get laid. And the fact SW is so drawn to that makes it even hotter.

Looking forward to the update.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Mar 28, 2022 10:59 am

So here's the summary from Friday night.

I'd mentioned possibilities of his stopping by the house for a cocktail, so that I might have a conversation with him. Didn't happen because a) SW was against it, and b) he ended up running very late.

The premise of this get-together was that SW has been making new (single) friends in the area. There are a lot of super-attractive, athletic and moneyed people in the area and as a result some of theme are in divorces and these women are looking for new friends, introductions to guys, etc. SW positions her as a married woman who has free time and whose mainstream and decent-looking stable husband (insert smiley face) has guy friends for matchmaking.

In this instance, a new friend of hers, Ms. Tall, was married to a well-known professional athlete and lives in one of the best houses on the best streets around here. Certainly $10M+. She is tall (5'10"), blonde, beautiful, lean and athletic, with excellent shoulders and arms. SW was in touch with her over text and she asked SW for an intro. So SW used this as a reason to call Mr. B.

Fine by me; I'm happy to see the interaction between SW and Mr. B, and also to get to know this hottie for SW's sake (and my sake). Now, I know Mr. B pretty well and he probably is not in this woman's league, but at the same time he's a legitimate introduction to demonstrate that SW does have the ability to pull guys.

And that's how it went.

SW wore a shiny gold wrap-style skirt, and a fitted top with a full inch or two of midriff all the way around. Sexy high stiletto heels. The wrapped skirt is made of a metal mesh, and has a long slit starting from about three inches from the top. It's designed for the slit to go down the outside of the thigh and is very sexy. I figured she was wearing it for many reasons, including a) Mr. B so he knows what he's missing; b) Ms. Tall so she knows that SW can sex it up and attract men; c) for herself because she's in such great shape and is proud of the work; and d) for me. She doesn't often get this sexed up.

I'll post something in the Hotties section when I have a chance.

I dropped SW at the downstairs bar of the swanky restaurant. The plan was to arrive a half hour before Mr. B, to talk and to re-introduce me, etc. Mr. B was running late, so we adjusted the time to a bit later (SW always can use the extra time for extra primping). It took me about 10 min to park and join the girls. Of course, by the time I arrived there were guys circling and buying drinks for SW and Ms. Tall. We did get about 20 min to talk, then upstairs to our reserved table.

Mr. B came in and we made introductions. I'd pre-ordered a vodka martini for him, which is what I'd taken when downstairs. The girls went for another glass of wine, and off to the dinner. The guys were bookends around the girls, so I didn't have a clear path for much conversation with Mr. B without shouting across the table. And the purpose here was for SW to spend time with Ms. Tall, with Mr. B as the potential.

We went through two bottles of Malbec (SW remembered that Mr. B tends to prefer Malbec) and then closed out. Probably 11:15 p.m. at this point. We decided to walk up the street to a new-ish place that is usually difficult for reservations, but is known to become a bit "clubby" at the downstairs bar later at nights. It has a certain Europe/Mediterranean feel.

As we sat down around a cocktail table, again the girls in the middle and Mr. B and I on the far ends. At some point, the girls went to the bathroom and when they returned, SW sat on the far side of Mr. B.

This is when things started to loosen up; that is, the intended structure started to get sloppy. Mr. B turned away from Ms. Tall and engaged with SW. I filled in the gap and found Ms. Tall to also be charming, a good conversationalist, well traveled, and legitimately fun. She told me all about herself and we must have talked like that for over an hour, as more drinks came and we kept going.

Of course, I was also looking from time to time over at SW and Mr. B. They were oblivious. SW had slid closer to him (far side from where I was sitting) and he had his long arm around her shoulders, with the hand out of sight. Exactly the way he'd had it in the security camera video. I remained nonchalant about their energy and continued with Ms. Tall. She was mostly blocked from the sight by a) her facing me and b) Mr. B is a big guy, so SW kind of was lost behind him, from the vantage point of Ms. Tall.

Let's remember that SW is by now quite affected by the wine and is obviously feeling really good, and has found her element.

At one point, Ms. Tall did reach her neck out and looked at them, and said something about "aren't you two cozy" or similar and then looked at me with a bit of a questioning set of eyebrows. I said out loud, for everyone to hear, "SW and Mr. B go way back, they are very close and comfortable friends. And I'm not the jealous type of husband." To which Ms. Tall said "I certainly wish my ex-husband had that approach" or similar.

And we continued the two sets of conversations for another half hour or so. Finally, SW decided it was time to re-energize the push for Mr. B to speak with Ms.Tall, so she got up and came over, and smashed herself between me and Ms. Tall. I then got up so I could see everyone, and I stood while we all talked. SW also was a bit stir crazy, and kept moving around trying to adjust her skirt.

SW asked me to let Mr. B and Ms. Tall talk. So I turned all my attentions to SW. Told her how hot she looked. Complimented her on the styling, and on the guys that bought them drinks after first arriving at the other restaurant.

We were at the outside edge of this bar/restaurant, but of course the restaurant element was long over for the night. She saw a couple of handsome guys (black guys) walking past on the sidewalk outside, and jumped off the chair and went to talk with them. She brought them into our group and introduced all around. We smiled at SW and her outgoing ways, and invited the guys to join for a drink. They were polite and pleasant and did mix with us for about 10 minutes, until SW stopped giving them attention, and went on their way to look for talent in the bar.

It was getting later, probably about 12:45 a.m. The bar announced it would be closing in a half hour. A couple of guys, who had been sitting at the bar the whole time, went outside for a smoke. SW was watching them as the went outside, and was for some reason enthralled with them and their cigarettes. I observed they had Marlboro Whites. SW proceeded to walk the 10 feet over to the outside edge of the restaurant, kneeled up on the bench seat, and leaned outside to address the guys. She asked them for a cigarette, with her ass and the shiny skirt facing the three of us (and the rest of the now-clearing-out bar) and the slit of the skirt showing a lot of leg and some cheek. They of course came over and proffered a new cigarette and lighted it for her. It's against the law to smoke in restaurants here, and the bartender and servers at the restaurant saw what was happening, but SW kept her head just outside enough that one could say she was smoking outside. A consequence of this was that she had to counter balance with her lower body. She was putting on a show.

By now Mr. B and Ms. Tall were distracted by the show. Ms. Tall got up and came over, laughing and smiling at SW's antics. SW offered the cigarette to Ms. Tall and she said she'd not had a cigarette since her college days, but she took it from SW's hands and said "this is how to do it" and proceeded to do the sexiest pull on a cigarette that I've seen in person. SW then tried to emulate it.

They were now smoking inside the restaurant, but just barely. Nobody wanted to stop them. It was 90% men there at that point, anyway.

SW was now sitting up straight, on the cocktail-level bench seat (up high) but in full view of everyone (e.g. not behind a table). The lights had come up in preparation for closing. Everyone could she her, full view.

She then started to fumble with her skirt some more, and anyone looking would assume to position it more to the leg side. I still am not sure how it happened, but she actually shifted around and moved the slit of the skirt more to the inside of her thigh, so that her barely-there panties were on full display for everybody.

To restate, she was sitting up high on the bench seat, long bare legs and sexy shiny heels, a very shiny gold skirt, wiggling around trying to adjust it, in a manner that pulled everyone's attention. And showing her panties right between her legs.

Mr. B couldn't remain seated. He quickly stood up and came her direction, and found the exact position to see her full exposure. Ms. Tall was unaware, as she was positioned next to SW and looking toward the restaurant. It seemed about five minutes suspended in time.

I was the whole time taking photos and videos of SW and Ms. Tall and their efforts to make love to the cigarette.

I only realize after the fact about the panty exposure, from the images. And realize what Mr. B was doing when he stood up to change his location.

The the cigarette burned out, down to the filter, and I took it and disposed it for the girls. It was time to leave, just past 2:00 a.m.

SW took Mr. B aside and asked if he might prefer to stay in our guest room, vs. driving home. He said he had an 8:30 a.m. golf tee time, so had to head home.

And so it went. We said our goodbyes, and I led SW to our car back down the block. She had a hard time walking in the heels on the slope even with my help, and twisted her ankle. We went home and SW was wired from the nicotine and alcohol, and we finally got to sleep around 4:30.

Saturday was a blur for SW. I went for coffee and we had great sex in the late morning. She pretty much slept all day. Sunday more normal, we did a spin class late morning, etc.

She is now at her training session with Mr. G. She scheduled another "special" session, for today, in that she will miss on Friday because we will be traveling.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Mar 28, 2022 11:16 am

I think Mr B has a long wood for SW ...
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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by rickyg » Mon Mar 28, 2022 11:29 am

What a shame that Mr B had an early tee time. Had he taken up SW's offer of staying in the guest room, he could've spent a bit more time alone with her. The only reason he probably didn't is because he figured you would interfere with his intentions. Little does he know.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by TheHammer » Mon Mar 28, 2022 1:20 pm

What a night! Thanks for the detailed recap. Would love to see the pics of either of them sexily smoking the cigarette!

Any plans for another double date?

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Mar 28, 2022 1:59 pm

Ms T seems to have got more attention from SF than Mr B, if the ostensible reason for the meet was introducing the two of them ...
But SF is hard to get, many a young lady have tried, he would rather concentrate his attention on SW, let her have what needs (unbeknownst to her, lol)
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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Mar 28, 2022 2:34 pm

BallSpanking wrote:
Mon Mar 28, 2022 1:59 pm
Ms T seems to have got more attention from SF than Mr B, if the ostensible reason for the meet was introducing the two of them ...
But SF is hard to get, many a young lady have tried, he would rather concentrate his attention on SW, let her have what needs (unbeknownst to her, lol)
Yes, during our review of the evening the next day, SW made an observation that when she asked Mr. B later during that evening if he liked Ms. Tall, he said "But I don't know her" and this answer was confusing to SW. I said that he was likely trying to play it cool, to not look overly into Ms. Tall, and that the reality is he DOES know SW; therefore, he was more likely (and did) spend more time talking to SW and getting very comfortable.

But I think we (the readers here) know what's really going on there. I also believe SW does want to keep in touch with Mr. B (even though I really have no ongoing reason to be in touch with him, for at least the past six months). She keeps referring to him (when speaking with me) as primarily my friend, not hers.

Whatever works!

I really loved the evening and the various levels of energy, communication, body language, etc. SW really did it, and in many ways did more for me than even she is aware.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Mar 28, 2022 2:48 pm

"But I don't know her", also implies, "I know you".
The question was, do you like Ms T, and his implied answer was "I like you".
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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Mar 28, 2022 10:33 pm

BallSpanking wrote:
Mon Mar 28, 2022 2:48 pm
"But I don't know her", also implies, "I know you".
The question was, do you like Ms T, and his implied answer was "I like you".
Yes, as usual BallSpank you see right to the heart of the matter. I said the same thing to SW.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:16 pm

I think his staring at SW's tiny crotch panties kind of gives that away , though ... :lol:
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Unread post by OC_Ken » Wed Mar 30, 2022 2:47 am

She sent Mr B two clear messages:
1. Her panties are available to him.
2. She wants something to suck.

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Unread post by afagehi7 » Wed Mar 30, 2022 12:20 pm

BallSpanking wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:16 pm
I think his staring at SW's tiny crotch panties kind of gives that away , though ... :lol:
Any red blooded straight male would have shifted position to enjoy the view.

It's just such a shame how things went down with Mr B because I think Mr B and fish would be able to conduct a phenomenal mfm.

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Unread post by slenderfish » Wed Mar 30, 2022 10:07 pm

afagehi7 wrote:
Wed Mar 30, 2022 12:20 pm
BallSpanking wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:16 pm
I think his staring at SW's tiny crotch panties kind of gives that away , though ... :lol:
Any red blooded straight male would have shifted position to enjoy the view.

It's just such a shame how things went down with Mr B because I think Mr B and fish would be able to conduct a phenomenal mfm.
I agree. In looking back, and observing SW and the reasons she declined to continue with Mr. S, (and, for that matter, with Mr. M), there are consistencies to Mr. B,

Ultimately, SW was enamored with the concept of another man giving her attention, time, emotion, desire, etc. She was getting this from Mr. B in the run-up (over the year or so of what I observed as the flirtatious mutual pursuit). But after that fateful night with the security video, when he stayed over, he pretty much then moved on to the next conquest. And SW suddenly had no interest in him. Next, she pursued Mr. S (as a legitimate hotwife pursuit) and the issue along the way, and ultimately the deal killer, was that he assumed she was "easy" and/or that he need not put in much effort or work in pursuing and romancing and woo-ing and communicating with her. In this case she was clear to me in expressing her disappointment that he was not and did not pursue her the way she was expecting. And finally, she did seduce Mr. M but he ended up getting freaked out about it, so that was not going to continue. She was at some level hoping he would ultimately iike a NSA relationship, a revisit of their past, with him having a new and extra reason to hang with her when she travels to her home town. But he went the other way, and she did not get the adulation she was anticipating.

Ultimately, SW has positioned herself as a high-value woman who is desirable by men (men like me, etc.). As such, she should be pursued and wooed and all that goes with it. If not that, then she's not ultimately into it.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by afagehi7 » Wed Mar 30, 2022 11:14 pm

slenderfish wrote:
Wed Mar 30, 2022 10:07 pm
afagehi7 wrote:
Wed Mar 30, 2022 12:20 pm
BallSpanking wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:16 pm
I think his staring at SW's tiny crotch panties kind of gives that away , though ... :lol:
Any red blooded straight male would have shifted position to enjoy the view.

It's just such a shame how things went down with Mr B because I think Mr B and fish would be able to conduct a phenomenal mfm.
I agree. In looking back, and observing SW and the reasons she declined to continue with Mr. S, (and, for that matter, with Mr. M), there are consistencies to Mr. B,

Ultimately, SW was enamored with the concept of another man giving her attention, time, emotion, desire, etc. She was getting this from Mr. B in the run-up (over the year or so of what I observed as the flirtatious mutual pursuit). But after that fateful night with the security video, when he stayed over, he pretty much then moved on to the next conquest. And SW suddenly had no interest in him. Next, she pursued Mr. S (as a legitimate hotwife pursuit) and the issue along the way, and ultimately the deal killer, was that he assumed she was "easy" and/or that he need not put in much effort or work in pursuing and romancing and woo-ing and communicating with her. In this case she was clear to me in expressing her disappointment that he was not and did not pursue her the way she was expecting. And finally, she did seduce Mr. M but he ended up getting freaked out about it, so that was not going to continue. She was at some level hoping he would ultimately iike a NSA relationship, a revisit of their past, with him having a new and extra reason to hang with her when she travels to her home town. But he went the other way, and she did not get the adulation she was anticipating.

Ultimately, SW has positioned herself as a high-value woman who is desirable by men (men like me, etc.). As such, she should be pursued and wooed and all that goes with it. If not that, then she's not ultimately into it.
I still don't understand why Mr s and m didn't play her game. A hottie and NSA sex a couple of times a year. I mean it's really minimal effort with high reward. Some texting and occasional phone call... Certainly she'd send pics to make it worth his while. Then a couple days a year treat her like you would any woman you wanted to bed. Even better it's on the QT/DL so it could be a side activity. Only thing I can think is they have plenty of women throwing themselves at them to not need another. I think that may be the case with Mr S but Mr M isn't a great catch (maybe I have them flipped). Plus she likely gave her ass to sweeten the deal...

Speaking of, any developments on whether the ass giving was legit or not? The way she described it makes me think it happened. If she was just teasing you she would have taken a hotter angle as opposed to explaining the premeditated process...

Edit: I'm not really into anal but the idea that she preplanned it is really hot... That she wanted to... If she did would she have orgasmed during?

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by solstice » Thu Mar 31, 2022 1:15 am

Ultimately, SW has positioned herself as a high-value woman who is desirable by men (men like me, etc.). As such, she should be pursued and wooed and all that goes with it. If not that, then she's not ultimately into it.

Unfortunately it would appear her strategy is not working, unless you are being kept in the dark

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Thu Mar 31, 2022 7:33 am

afagehi7 wrote:
Wed Mar 30, 2022 11:14 pm
I still don't understand why Mr s and m didn't play her game. A hottie and NSA sex a couple of times a year. I mean it's really minimal effort with high reward. Some texting and occasional phone call... Certainly she'd send pics to make it worth his while. Then a couple days a year treat her like you would any woman you wanted to bed. Even better it's on the QT/DL so it could be a side activity. Only thing I can think is they have plenty of women throwing themselves at them to not need another. I think that may be the case with Mr S but Mr M isn't a great catch (maybe I have them flipped). Plus she likely gave her ass to sweeten the deal...
She should have just told them the formula and then yes, probably would have gone for it. At least, Mr. S would have gone for it. Probably not Mr. B, and of course SW is keeping that "as if it never happened" so she has been adamantly against even considering Mr. B for an ongoing thing. And I just don't get Mr. M. She says he never did believe her that I'm okay with it.
afagehi7 wrote:
Wed Mar 30, 2022 11:14 pm
Speaking of, any developments on whether the ass giving was legit or not? The way she described it makes me think it happened. If she was just teasing you she would have taken a hotter angle as opposed to explaining the premeditated process...
At this point, and after my considerable reflection, I do believe she did it as she described. My reasoning is that she was so giddy and convinced after she saw him the second time over that week in late Nov/early Dec 2020, that she must have given it to him on that last night before returning home. She was talking about traveling abroad with him, getting together with his traveling her direction a few weeks later in late January to celebrate their birthdays together, etc. When he started trailing off, she was really affected and at this point won't return his texts or other messages. This extra energy against him for lack of following through with all the stuff they'd planned, to me is because she gave him extra when they were together.
afagehi7 wrote:
Wed Mar 30, 2022 11:14 pm
Edit: I'm not really into anal but the idea that she preplanned it is really hot... That she wanted to... If she did would she have orgasmed during?
I'm not sure. I know she orgasms from clitoral stimulation and not from penetration. She said she did orgasm with him while riding on top of him, while he touched her, and enjoyed it a lot. She has generally not orgasmed during anal, but there have been exceptions.

I've found that certain activity in that area while she is heading for a clitoral climax will enhance her build and the climax.

And I do know that the first time she had anal was with me, and she had a huge orgasm while sitting reverse cowgirl with me inside her ass and her fingering herself to the monster climax.

So a first time with him, after his requesting each time, and her finally acceding to his request as a big gift, probably would have provided a powerful result.

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