Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
You are the luckiest guy on the planet!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi,
I loved what my husband did for me.
Just wanted to let all of you know that.
If it wasnt for this web site, we both would have no idea how to play in this lifestyle.
Thank-you,
Mrs reese
I loved what my husband did for me.
Just wanted to let all of you know that.
If it wasnt for this web site, we both would have no idea how to play in this lifestyle.
Thank-you,
Mrs reese
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Kudos to you Ms Reese, you are the one making it happen!
Even if the purpose of this all was your husband's desire to see you 'liberated' in your sexuality, it is YOU that has made it all happen.
You are to be congratulated!
Even if the purpose of this all was your husband's desire to see you 'liberated' in your sexuality, it is YOU that has made it all happen.
You are to be congratulated!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Echoing what BallSpanking just said Mrs. Reese you made it a reality. Thanks to Hot Wives like you and my wonderful Mrs. that we husbands are able to enjoy your adventures so very much. We appreciate you more than you know.
Watchman
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Reese and Mrs Reese,
Congratulations to you both and thank you for sharing your thoughts and emotions with us. Life is all about risk and reward and you documented all of your concerns of losing your beautiful wife to another. It was a risk you took and now you've experienced the reward for taking that risk in a closeness and love that vanilla couples will never understand.
O2
Congratulations to you both and thank you for sharing your thoughts and emotions with us. Life is all about risk and reward and you documented all of your concerns of losing your beautiful wife to another. It was a risk you took and now you've experienced the reward for taking that risk in a closeness and love that vanilla couples will never understand.
O2
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Last night, we had a wedding to attend.........we had a lot of fun.
But something happened later in the evening.
If I may back up a little..........my hw and I enjoyed the afternoon by finding time to have some very good sex on 2 occassions before we had to get ready....she orgasmed a few times...and was very happy to lay in my arms.
At the wedding, she was smoking hot....very short dress....a lot of cleavage exposed....sexy tanned body and open toed brown leather shoes. Simply put.............I couldnt take my eyes off her and I have been with her for years.
As I wrote earlier in this post.....something happened.
We had a long drive to our home, and as the DD, I didnt worry about my wife drinking too much since I was the one safely driving home. As we were driving, she told me that she is going to call her ex. This man really isnt an ex...they dated before we met...but he turned her down at one time...they reconnected....then she turned him down when she met me. Basically, they never had sex...then I entered the picture...and that was the end of their relationship.
Anyway, she called him at around midnight. He answered. They spoke about the normal bs....then myhw told him that she missed him. HE told her the same...speaker phone was on. She told him that she still wanted him....wanted to know how it felt to have sex with him. HE was basically shocked..telling her that he was married....but he missed her too.
She teased him...telling him to come to her house last night. HE eagerly accepted. That surprised me that he would accept her invitation so freely. Next. he asked about her husband...ME!
My hw told him that she is free to have sex with whoever she chooses. Like any smart man...he didnt ask any more questions.
I was thinking...........good girl..........YOU must really not be that infactuated with D if you are making attempts to fuck another man.
I am still not that good with watching my wife openly become the assertive ONE in finding a man. I did that stuff before she went solo last weekend with D and E.
They teased each other on the way home..but my wife mustve sensed my puzzled look....I wanted her last night. There isnt ONE man alive that could have watched his wife look as sexy as mine did last night and willingly wouldve given her UP to another man that easily. I WANTED HER!
She told him that she will keep in touch....she basically kept him hanging out there.
After a real FAST QUICKY.......she told me that her pussy is so sore.....I got off very fast thinking about her taking another lover.
But again, something strange happened last night after sex......my HW told me that she wouldnt do anything with this man whom she called unless I call him and set it up for her.
I was thinking....that is so cool...you want me to be involved with your hw play again.
Then I started to think........she wants me to call him.....embarrass myself and tell him that I want him to fuck my wife....and then allow him to take her out on a date!
I have been the assertive one on many occassions setting up my wife with potential lovers....E is one for example.
But there is something different this time..............
My HW was the assertive one when she called him.............T.
Now she wants me to call him today and tell him to fuck her.
Is she cuckolding me?
I wonder!
More to come later.
But something happened later in the evening.
If I may back up a little..........my hw and I enjoyed the afternoon by finding time to have some very good sex on 2 occassions before we had to get ready....she orgasmed a few times...and was very happy to lay in my arms.
At the wedding, she was smoking hot....very short dress....a lot of cleavage exposed....sexy tanned body and open toed brown leather shoes. Simply put.............I couldnt take my eyes off her and I have been with her for years.
As I wrote earlier in this post.....something happened.
We had a long drive to our home, and as the DD, I didnt worry about my wife drinking too much since I was the one safely driving home. As we were driving, she told me that she is going to call her ex. This man really isnt an ex...they dated before we met...but he turned her down at one time...they reconnected....then she turned him down when she met me. Basically, they never had sex...then I entered the picture...and that was the end of their relationship.
Anyway, she called him at around midnight. He answered. They spoke about the normal bs....then myhw told him that she missed him. HE told her the same...speaker phone was on. She told him that she still wanted him....wanted to know how it felt to have sex with him. HE was basically shocked..telling her that he was married....but he missed her too.
She teased him...telling him to come to her house last night. HE eagerly accepted. That surprised me that he would accept her invitation so freely. Next. he asked about her husband...ME!
My hw told him that she is free to have sex with whoever she chooses. Like any smart man...he didnt ask any more questions.
I was thinking...........good girl..........YOU must really not be that infactuated with D if you are making attempts to fuck another man.
I am still not that good with watching my wife openly become the assertive ONE in finding a man. I did that stuff before she went solo last weekend with D and E.
They teased each other on the way home..but my wife mustve sensed my puzzled look....I wanted her last night. There isnt ONE man alive that could have watched his wife look as sexy as mine did last night and willingly wouldve given her UP to another man that easily. I WANTED HER!
She told him that she will keep in touch....she basically kept him hanging out there.
After a real FAST QUICKY.......she told me that her pussy is so sore.....I got off very fast thinking about her taking another lover.
But again, something strange happened last night after sex......my HW told me that she wouldnt do anything with this man whom she called unless I call him and set it up for her.
I was thinking....that is so cool...you want me to be involved with your hw play again.
Then I started to think........she wants me to call him.....embarrass myself and tell him that I want him to fuck my wife....and then allow him to take her out on a date!
I have been the assertive one on many occassions setting up my wife with potential lovers....E is one for example.
But there is something different this time..............
My HW was the assertive one when she called him.............T.
Now she wants me to call him today and tell him to fuck her.
Is she cuckolding me?
I wonder!
More to come later.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Reese,
Don't worry about labels! If it feels good for both of you then do it, if it doesn't - don't. You're both still finding out what turns you both on. Worrying about what label others may attach to it is useless. All that counts is if the two of you are happy. She may want you to set it up as a form of proof that she's not crossing any boundary with you. Keep communicating.
O2
Don't worry about labels! If it feels good for both of you then do it, if it doesn't - don't. You're both still finding out what turns you both on. Worrying about what label others may attach to it is useless. All that counts is if the two of you are happy. She may want you to set it up as a form of proof that she's not crossing any boundary with you. Keep communicating.
O2
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
No, she's not making you a "cuckold" because you still have a say in who she fucks, can object to the men and are still allowed to have intercourse. You still have some control.
Now if she fucked whoever she wanted,whether you liked it or not,thats different. Of course,that would be the turn on.There's more to that lifestyle than that though. Someone who relishes in that relationship can better describe it.
Its good she's showing interest elsewhere.
Like open2it said,forget the labels. Whatever you two enjoy.
Oh,did you have some good conversation/discusion with that hotwife couple Friday night?
Now if she fucked whoever she wanted,whether you liked it or not,thats different. Of course,that would be the turn on.There's more to that lifestyle than that though. Someone who relishes in that relationship can better describe it.
Its good she's showing interest elsewhere.
Like open2it said,forget the labels. Whatever you two enjoy.
Oh,did you have some good conversation/discusion with that hotwife couple Friday night?
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We never met the hw cpl....b/c they could not find a sitter for later in the evening.
We WILL get together very soon.
Today..........we just had a normal husband/wife day.
A lot of fun...just us!
I am very intrigued with this new man.......her ex.
I am very interested to see where this is going.
My hw called D tonight at my urging.
He moved into his apt yesterday.
They did not talk b/c it was our weekend..and my HW wanted our time together not to be interrupted by D.
She is tucking her kid in bed....and guess what?
Yes, she is going over tonight to spend the night...and setting her alarm clock for about 5am...to wake b/f her kid wakes up around 7am.
I am so excited for her to be spending the night in his bed.............
I had her all weekend....I am somewhat sad to let her go tonight...but she wants to see his new apt and told me that she wants to feel his cock in her.
How could I refuse?
She is leaving me very soon.
She promised to text me when he is fucking her.
She showed me her text that she received a few minutes ago......
HE told her in his exact words......'I want my pussy very soon, be ready for my hot cock that is full of 2 days of cum".
Before she went to take care of her kid....she stuck her hands in her pussy...and made me lick her wet fingers...telling me that this is WHAT HIS MESSAGE DID TO HER.
WOW!
Life of a HW hubby!
We WILL get together very soon.
Today..........we just had a normal husband/wife day.
A lot of fun...just us!
I am very intrigued with this new man.......her ex.
I am very interested to see where this is going.
My hw called D tonight at my urging.
He moved into his apt yesterday.
They did not talk b/c it was our weekend..and my HW wanted our time together not to be interrupted by D.
She is tucking her kid in bed....and guess what?
Yes, she is going over tonight to spend the night...and setting her alarm clock for about 5am...to wake b/f her kid wakes up around 7am.
I am so excited for her to be spending the night in his bed.............
I had her all weekend....I am somewhat sad to let her go tonight...but she wants to see his new apt and told me that she wants to feel his cock in her.
How could I refuse?
She is leaving me very soon.
She promised to text me when he is fucking her.
She showed me her text that she received a few minutes ago......
HE told her in his exact words......'I want my pussy very soon, be ready for my hot cock that is full of 2 days of cum".
Before she went to take care of her kid....she stuck her hands in her pussy...and made me lick her wet fingers...telling me that this is WHAT HIS MESSAGE DID TO HER.
WOW!
Life of a HW hubby!
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Wow indeed. Reese this is a very hot new twist. I can't wait to here what happens. You guys are THE hot couple here right now.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi Reese,
I thought the developments regarding T were interesting..., somewhat puzzled by her asking you to set it up for her. Was the motivation to include you and turn you on..., or was it to embarrass you (and maybe turn you on? If that works...).
Important to stay in touch with what is most profound and real in the relationship, and how the game does or doesn't change that.
Humiliation is enjoyed by some, a few, whatever, but it can be harmful to a relationship that does not seek it.
Not passing judgment on those that do, it's just my observation.
It's all a matter of your personal perspective.
I thought the developments regarding T were interesting..., somewhat puzzled by her asking you to set it up for her. Was the motivation to include you and turn you on..., or was it to embarrass you (and maybe turn you on? If that works...).
Important to stay in touch with what is most profound and real in the relationship, and how the game does or doesn't change that.
Humiliation is enjoyed by some, a few, whatever, but it can be harmful to a relationship that does not seek it.
Not passing judgment on those that do, it's just my observation.
It's all a matter of your personal perspective.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Mr Ballspanking....talking to my hw, her intention with T is to allow me to be in control. She is afraid that she is being too assertive and leaving me behind. From our past experiences, I have been the person who set everything up.
Mr. Watchman...you are always kind and I do follow your threads as an inspiration to me.
But there are many cpls here that are hot as well.......thankyou.
Last night.......another night of duelling emotions.
When will it get easier for me?
I am still not finding that balance of peaceful excitement when my HW is away.
When am present with her....I can watch and stay excited....
I will admit one thing though....NOT KNOWING..........even though it sucks....it is somewhat easier dealing with a HW who is out alone with her lover than watching her give herself to HIM and completely blow you off at times!
She came home about 430am.
She woke me......I wasnt in a sound sleep anyway.
How many HW hubbies actually fall into a R E M sleep when their HW's are away fucking another man?
I have probably orgasmed too many times to count this past weekend.
Most with my wife.
Last night....while trying to sleep....I was thinking about my wife laying in his arms....thinking about his cock filling her pussy...keeping it sealed inside her sweet pussy for me.
Of course my cock grew with excitement...vaseline time!
It's so incredible.....masterbating at times and fantasizing about any other situation ISNT even close in the intense arousal department when I compare it to fantasizing about my HW fucking another man.
That intensity is extremely unbearable.
The intense pleasure only re-confirms that this lifestyle is better that any mood altering drug.
430am.......I checked the clock.
I remember feeling very jealous.
My comments were that of a jealous husband.
I asked her if she had fun with the NEW Love of her life....I thanked her for giving me a few hours of her time right before my day started.
She was her usual graceful self.
Telling me"baby, if you dont like me doing this, I told you I will stop"!
She brought me back!
Jealous husbandry is a no no with HW play.
We fear this emotion at times.
Committed wives will act on this and give us an option that most DO not ever want to hear!
If you cant handle this, I will stop!
Ohhhh...NO way do I want to go back to vanilla sex!
Anyway........we spent about 15 minutes doing ONE thing..........I asked her to sit over my mouth..OMG.......her silky pussy...dripping wet...tasting her cum, her wetness and definitely his cum oozing from her inner depths into my mouth and on to my lips. She was rubbing her clitoris while I licked and sucked her pussy.
I never thought I would say this, but I truly DO understand the dynamics of licking a hw after she has fucked another man.
I do not give a shit about him..........about D's cum........about D's fluids............about D's cock....but I am suddenly becoming more eager to lick her clean...to taste HER SEX.........and to re-claim her as MY WIFE!
I did not cum.....too sore...my HW didnt even try...after orgasming...she rolled off me and collapsed in my arms.
I held her in my chest......and stroked her hair...thinking to myself, "what the fuck have I gotten us into"?
This lifestyle is beating me up..........I cant get enough of it!
T is next on our list.
D is actively pursuing my HW to be with him a lot...so far NO resistence from me....I like all of this too much...watching her leave me last night was one of the most difficult moments of my marriage.....just like the one last memorial weekend.
But I am getting used to the intense jealousy/hurt pangs. It is different than if YOUR wife is leaving you for the night and YOU know that she is cheating on you. This time, I feel the emotional hurt that I aggressively encourage myself to act out upon! I love losing her....I love the feeling of knowing that when she walked out our door last night...SHE wanted D...she didnt want me....and no matter what, she was not stopping...she was going to fuck D last night and I could not have stopped her!
We woke this morning...and carried out our morning like any other morning.
We are very good at separating this lifestyle from our normal life!
Life of a hw husband.....its so much fun!
talk to you all soon.
Mr. Watchman...you are always kind and I do follow your threads as an inspiration to me.
But there are many cpls here that are hot as well.......thankyou.
Last night.......another night of duelling emotions.
When will it get easier for me?
I am still not finding that balance of peaceful excitement when my HW is away.
When am present with her....I can watch and stay excited....
I will admit one thing though....NOT KNOWING..........even though it sucks....it is somewhat easier dealing with a HW who is out alone with her lover than watching her give herself to HIM and completely blow you off at times!
She came home about 430am.
She woke me......I wasnt in a sound sleep anyway.
How many HW hubbies actually fall into a R E M sleep when their HW's are away fucking another man?
I have probably orgasmed too many times to count this past weekend.
Most with my wife.
Last night....while trying to sleep....I was thinking about my wife laying in his arms....thinking about his cock filling her pussy...keeping it sealed inside her sweet pussy for me.
Of course my cock grew with excitement...vaseline time!
It's so incredible.....masterbating at times and fantasizing about any other situation ISNT even close in the intense arousal department when I compare it to fantasizing about my HW fucking another man.
That intensity is extremely unbearable.
The intense pleasure only re-confirms that this lifestyle is better that any mood altering drug.
430am.......I checked the clock.
I remember feeling very jealous.
My comments were that of a jealous husband.
I asked her if she had fun with the NEW Love of her life....I thanked her for giving me a few hours of her time right before my day started.
She was her usual graceful self.
Telling me"baby, if you dont like me doing this, I told you I will stop"!
She brought me back!
Jealous husbandry is a no no with HW play.
We fear this emotion at times.
Committed wives will act on this and give us an option that most DO not ever want to hear!
If you cant handle this, I will stop!
Ohhhh...NO way do I want to go back to vanilla sex!
Anyway........we spent about 15 minutes doing ONE thing..........I asked her to sit over my mouth..OMG.......her silky pussy...dripping wet...tasting her cum, her wetness and definitely his cum oozing from her inner depths into my mouth and on to my lips. She was rubbing her clitoris while I licked and sucked her pussy.
I never thought I would say this, but I truly DO understand the dynamics of licking a hw after she has fucked another man.
I do not give a shit about him..........about D's cum........about D's fluids............about D's cock....but I am suddenly becoming more eager to lick her clean...to taste HER SEX.........and to re-claim her as MY WIFE!
I did not cum.....too sore...my HW didnt even try...after orgasming...she rolled off me and collapsed in my arms.
I held her in my chest......and stroked her hair...thinking to myself, "what the fuck have I gotten us into"?
This lifestyle is beating me up..........I cant get enough of it!
T is next on our list.
D is actively pursuing my HW to be with him a lot...so far NO resistence from me....I like all of this too much...watching her leave me last night was one of the most difficult moments of my marriage.....just like the one last memorial weekend.
But I am getting used to the intense jealousy/hurt pangs. It is different than if YOUR wife is leaving you for the night and YOU know that she is cheating on you. This time, I feel the emotional hurt that I aggressively encourage myself to act out upon! I love losing her....I love the feeling of knowing that when she walked out our door last night...SHE wanted D...she didnt want me....and no matter what, she was not stopping...she was going to fuck D last night and I could not have stopped her!
We woke this morning...and carried out our morning like any other morning.
We are very good at separating this lifestyle from our normal life!
Life of a hw husband.....its so much fun!
talk to you all soon.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Honey, I just read your post and if you are reading this, I got your message and decided to write to you here instead of leaving you a text.
I love you.
I love turning you on like I do.
Whenver this is too much for you to handle, just tell me and you know I will stop.
Last night, when I came home, I could not wait for you to lick me. I told d last night that this is the one thing that I look forward most when I see him; to feel my husband touching me, to feel him lick me.
I love you.
xoxoxo.
I love you.
I love turning you on like I do.
Whenver this is too much for you to handle, just tell me and you know I will stop.
Last night, when I came home, I could not wait for you to lick me. I told d last night that this is the one thing that I look forward most when I see him; to feel my husband touching me, to feel him lick me.
I love you.
xoxoxo.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
A man does love this new found independence and confidence.Ya'll both bring out the best in one another.
It makes things much easier that D is close by. One thing you have to be careful about is when she gets home that your jealousy doesn't turn into a fight which i'm sure you've discussed thoroughly.Thats when you have to control your emotions.
I would suggest to not jack off so much while she's gone so you're not so sore in case she wants to suck on your dick and/or fuck you.
The different scenerios you've been playing out make it exciting. D coming over for an early lunch fuck or she's staying through most of the morning with him.
I know D wants to see her a lot,yet watch whether he gets to clingy which no signs or evidence have shown that so far. I may be wrong but it sounds like D isn't fucking any other ladies. Is that a decision your wife and D came up with?
Right now,you mentioned it can be easier to have her off alone than when you are watching and she gives him everything and you feel left out in the dust.One thing i wondered are MFM with you,D and your wife out of the question anymore or are you building up to that again or is it something that has to just happen or is that something D doesn't want to do with you that often.If thats to personal,you don't have to answer.
Since this is new the amt of play will be pretty frequent.After playing a while,the routine gets easier and doesn't have to be less exciting and intense. It varies per couple,some do it only a few times a year,some a few times a week. You gotta find your balance and what works best for ya'll.
Its logical to be able to seperate family/work,alone time,time for one another and hotwife play. Doing things together several times a week is something you have to make time for.
Keep us informed because its still as interesting as ever.
It makes things much easier that D is close by. One thing you have to be careful about is when she gets home that your jealousy doesn't turn into a fight which i'm sure you've discussed thoroughly.Thats when you have to control your emotions.
I would suggest to not jack off so much while she's gone so you're not so sore in case she wants to suck on your dick and/or fuck you.
Those feelings are temporal. I think she always wants you and she wouldn't leave if you wanted her to stay.I know you enjoy fantasizing about her fucking and being in the arms of another man.She knows this so all it does is increase her desire for D. At times,it can be almost unbearable and when she's off,for a few hours or overnight,like you've done before,go out with some friends or go somewhere alone.I mean you don't have to go out whenever she's out but its good to be somewhere out of the house without her.I love losing her....I love the feeling of knowing that when she walked out our door last night...SHE wanted D...she didnt want me....and no matter what, she was not stopping...she was going to fuck D last night and I could not have stopped her!
The different scenerios you've been playing out make it exciting. D coming over for an early lunch fuck or she's staying through most of the morning with him.
I know D wants to see her a lot,yet watch whether he gets to clingy which no signs or evidence have shown that so far. I may be wrong but it sounds like D isn't fucking any other ladies. Is that a decision your wife and D came up with?
Right now,you mentioned it can be easier to have her off alone than when you are watching and she gives him everything and you feel left out in the dust.One thing i wondered are MFM with you,D and your wife out of the question anymore or are you building up to that again or is it something that has to just happen or is that something D doesn't want to do with you that often.If thats to personal,you don't have to answer.
Since this is new the amt of play will be pretty frequent.After playing a while,the routine gets easier and doesn't have to be less exciting and intense. It varies per couple,some do it only a few times a year,some a few times a week. You gotta find your balance and what works best for ya'll.
Its logical to be able to seperate family/work,alone time,time for one another and hotwife play. Doing things together several times a week is something you have to make time for.
Keep us informed because its still as interesting as ever.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Mr Reese, you've got the best! (and she also vies for the hottest ere! Whew!)
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Mrs. Reese aren't you such a sweetheart. You just made me melt. Reese, you are the luckiest man here to have such a beautiful wife who is giving you exactly what you want and more importantly what you need. I'm there too with Mrs. Watchman just in a slightly different way. Reese is so much better at showing us his inner thoughts and feelings than certainly myself. Reese it's odd that I can feel so much of myself in your writings my friend.
Blue skies.
Watchman
Blue skies.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Good Morning,
Mr Onedayat a time, in regards to your question of a possible mfm encounter with D.....we have not ruled out that possibility, I am not sure how I would handle this one. I am not nervous about being in the same room with him nor sharing my beautiful wife with him, but there are individuals that I WANT to share together with my wife and there are some like D that I am content not being involved with.
Part of the thrill with her lover D is that I am not involved, I have encouraged my wife to treat him like her only lover....to want him more than just a fb....to flirt with him more.......this allows me to feel those extreme emotions of jealousy and lust for my wife when I know she is being intimate with him and not me.
I like his role this way......I have somewhat encouraged my wife to act out with him in a manner that will bring out those intense feelings of jealousy. Living on the edge with (D) in her life I guess!
Mr Ballspanking and Watchman....again and again, I thank-you for your generous feelings about us.
Both of you are great!
Last night,
We were very busy with family obligations again.
When we were alone late into the evening, my hw asked me if everything is ok with her situation with D.
She sensed some type of nervousness I guess.
I told her that this situation is perfect for me and fulfilling my fantasy...the way she visits him...the amount of times that she has sex with him....but I also told her that this is difficult for me at times and to be patient and in time I will make the necessary adjustment to cope with those lonely, jealous moments.
I asked her when she would see D again.
She told me that E will be coming over on Friday. This is something that she wants more often to break the one on one situation with D. She asked me if it would be ok if D came over again to join her and E.
My cock was very hard and is right now as I write this...knowing my hw is actively pursuing this with both of these men....knowing she set this up...to fuck them in 3 more days. I encouraged her to do whatever made her happy!
I love it!
Tonight...........we plan on putting the kid to bed and spending some erotic moments. My hw wants a big time massage...and whenever I do that.....she is so damn horny!
I will keep in touch!
Mr Onedayat a time, in regards to your question of a possible mfm encounter with D.....we have not ruled out that possibility, I am not sure how I would handle this one. I am not nervous about being in the same room with him nor sharing my beautiful wife with him, but there are individuals that I WANT to share together with my wife and there are some like D that I am content not being involved with.
Part of the thrill with her lover D is that I am not involved, I have encouraged my wife to treat him like her only lover....to want him more than just a fb....to flirt with him more.......this allows me to feel those extreme emotions of jealousy and lust for my wife when I know she is being intimate with him and not me.
I like his role this way......I have somewhat encouraged my wife to act out with him in a manner that will bring out those intense feelings of jealousy. Living on the edge with (D) in her life I guess!
Mr Ballspanking and Watchman....again and again, I thank-you for your generous feelings about us.
Both of you are great!
Last night,
We were very busy with family obligations again.
When we were alone late into the evening, my hw asked me if everything is ok with her situation with D.
She sensed some type of nervousness I guess.
I told her that this situation is perfect for me and fulfilling my fantasy...the way she visits him...the amount of times that she has sex with him....but I also told her that this is difficult for me at times and to be patient and in time I will make the necessary adjustment to cope with those lonely, jealous moments.
I asked her when she would see D again.
She told me that E will be coming over on Friday. This is something that she wants more often to break the one on one situation with D. She asked me if it would be ok if D came over again to join her and E.
My cock was very hard and is right now as I write this...knowing my hw is actively pursuing this with both of these men....knowing she set this up...to fuck them in 3 more days. I encouraged her to do whatever made her happy!
I love it!
Tonight...........we plan on putting the kid to bed and spending some erotic moments. My hw wants a big time massage...and whenever I do that.....she is so damn horny!
I will keep in touch!
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
One more thing that I forgot to mention.
I texted T....no answer right now.
Not sure if he is confused by this lifestyle.
My hw told him last weekend that we play.....so I am wondering if he thinks we are some sort of freaks.
LOL..........as perfect as our Hw lifestyle has been lately...I just thought I would throw in a negative moment.
Talk to you all again soon.
I texted T....no answer right now.
Not sure if he is confused by this lifestyle.
My hw told him last weekend that we play.....so I am wondering if he thinks we are some sort of freaks.
LOL..........as perfect as our Hw lifestyle has been lately...I just thought I would throw in a negative moment.
Talk to you all again soon.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Haha,
My hw texted me to tell me to read a reply to Mr.Watchmans thread.
So she wants to cuckold me!
This lead me to most of you here in this forum.
I want to ask some of you for any ideas on how my HW should cuckold me.
She and I are very curious about what some of you think!
She tells me that she and D have some ideas of their own.
She wanted to suprise me but she let the cat out of the bag I guess.
I told her that if someone in this forum can come up with a good idea...than I might be willing to try it.
Buy there is NO WAY that I can be denied her incredible pussy....SO DONT GET AND SILLY IDEAS about that one...LOL!
Seriously, she is getting into this forum...I love that!
She is reading a lot of stuff...and she likes the idea of doing this to me.
She just needs some ideas....and of course, I have to be in agreement.
SO please feel free to tell us HOW!
My hw texted me to tell me to read a reply to Mr.Watchmans thread.
So she wants to cuckold me!
This lead me to most of you here in this forum.
I want to ask some of you for any ideas on how my HW should cuckold me.
She and I are very curious about what some of you think!
She tells me that she and D have some ideas of their own.
She wanted to suprise me but she let the cat out of the bag I guess.
I told her that if someone in this forum can come up with a good idea...than I might be willing to try it.
Buy there is NO WAY that I can be denied her incredible pussy....SO DONT GET AND SILLY IDEAS about that one...LOL!
Seriously, she is getting into this forum...I love that!
She is reading a lot of stuff...and she likes the idea of doing this to me.
She just needs some ideas....and of course, I have to be in agreement.
SO please feel free to tell us HOW!
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I'll be the boring one and suggest not going the Cuck route. You don't seem the type and why screw around with the good thing you have going? No need to keep pushing the envelope until it tears.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
thank you kcpa for that.
Sometimes we love living on the edge...me more than her...she is content with a NO WAY...and that is the end of that....but I always seek more.....so this suggestion of cuckolding is a very grey area....and since she convinced me to try the creampie...I was open to the thought of cucking me for a one time scenario.
I am open to suggestions and or opinions one way or the other.
Every post will be taken into serious consideration.
Thanks again kcpa....
Sometimes we love living on the edge...me more than her...she is content with a NO WAY...and that is the end of that....but I always seek more.....so this suggestion of cuckolding is a very grey area....and since she convinced me to try the creampie...I was open to the thought of cucking me for a one time scenario.
I am open to suggestions and or opinions one way or the other.
Every post will be taken into serious consideration.
Thanks again kcpa....
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Reese & Mrs Reese,
Setting the stage is important in cuckolding because it is her and her lovers fucking with you mentally while she is fucking with her lovers physically.
One option would be for her to have you call both D & E and tell them that you are your beautiful wife's cuckold and invite them to come to your house to pleasure her as only they can. You are not allowed to cum in her until after they have finished with her. As you are talking with them she ties a pink ribbon around your cock and balls to remind you that she is now your cuckoldress and your cock belongs to her.
On the night of the cuckolding you are to make sure the house is clean, fresh sheets on your bed, than bath her, shave her pussy, help her with her make-up and help dress her in her sexiest lingerie while nude and she teases you about how she can't wait to feel their cocks in her, filling her, making her cum over and over. She also tells you how much she loves having you as her cuckold and allowing her to have FB's who really know how to satisify a girl.
When D & E arrive, you meet them nude at the door (wearing only your pink ribbon), lead them to your beautiful wife and take their drink orders. Your job is to serve them, refilling their glasses and as their clothes come off, folding the clothes neatly.
When it's time to move to the bedroom, you turn down the sheets and make sure the drinks, lube, etc are ready for a night of hot passion. Then kneel beside the bed and beg them to give your cuckoldress the hottest sexual experience of her life. Your wife should then blindfold you and admonish you not to play with yourself while her men play with her.
Whenever one of them cums you should lick her clean. When they're finished you need to properly thank them and then lay on the bed as she mounts your face for some more deep cleaning. Afterwards, you make passioned love as equals.
O2
Setting the stage is important in cuckolding because it is her and her lovers fucking with you mentally while she is fucking with her lovers physically.
One option would be for her to have you call both D & E and tell them that you are your beautiful wife's cuckold and invite them to come to your house to pleasure her as only they can. You are not allowed to cum in her until after they have finished with her. As you are talking with them she ties a pink ribbon around your cock and balls to remind you that she is now your cuckoldress and your cock belongs to her.
On the night of the cuckolding you are to make sure the house is clean, fresh sheets on your bed, than bath her, shave her pussy, help her with her make-up and help dress her in her sexiest lingerie while nude and she teases you about how she can't wait to feel their cocks in her, filling her, making her cum over and over. She also tells you how much she loves having you as her cuckold and allowing her to have FB's who really know how to satisify a girl.
When D & E arrive, you meet them nude at the door (wearing only your pink ribbon), lead them to your beautiful wife and take their drink orders. Your job is to serve them, refilling their glasses and as their clothes come off, folding the clothes neatly.
When it's time to move to the bedroom, you turn down the sheets and make sure the drinks, lube, etc are ready for a night of hot passion. Then kneel beside the bed and beg them to give your cuckoldress the hottest sexual experience of her life. Your wife should then blindfold you and admonish you not to play with yourself while her men play with her.
Whenever one of them cums you should lick her clean. When they're finished you need to properly thank them and then lay on the bed as she mounts your face for some more deep cleaning. Afterwards, you make passioned love as equals.
O2
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I think I'm with kcpa. Take your time moving in this direction. It seems to me like you've had enough trouble with where you've gone so far. Give that time to digest before taking bigger bites.
Having said that, you've already done better with things that I thought you would. Good luck, whatever you decide.
Having said that, you've already done better with things that I thought you would. Good luck, whatever you decide.
Two words that should rarely be used when discussing human behavior are 'always' and 'never'!
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Good Morning to most of you,
After a long discussion, we finally decided to stop with the idea of cuckolding.
I have taken into serious consideration the ramifications of denial and possibly dedicating herself to D.
Once I calmed down, I thought about how jealous that I still become when she hotwife's.
It would be too difficult on me and our marriage if we were to actively pursue this lifestyle...even on a temporary basis.
My wife told me that reading this forum has allowed us to take bigger steps in the lifestyle of hotwifing...and reading some of the posts regarding the cuckold lifestyle has given her the courage to take the initiative to attempt to cuckold me for a temporary period. But after listening to me and my concerns, she realizes why WE can not go down that path. Her hope was that this lifestyle would further enhance my fantasies....she assured me that cucking me was more of a fantasy to her and nothing more. Her thoughts were based on denying me her pussy....nothing feminine or degrading. SHE knows how crazy I become...how aggressive and forceful I become when we havent had sex for a few days. SHE Loves when I act like that and that is why she wanted to attempt to cuckold me. Another belief of my wife was that licking and preparing her for D would be a huge turnon for her. SHE liked reading how the cuck would prepare the wife for her lover...fluffing?? Not sure if that is the terminology.
She liked the idea of coming home to me...and making me stroke my cock...and beg to lick her fucked pussy.
Again....that was her fantasy of cucking.
Not to talk on her behalf..but OUR sex is wonderfully exciting.....denial would cause too much torment on our marriage.
WE have something set up with E on Thursday night.
CAR SEX...........we are to meet him at a distant bar....and later after much flirting from both of us(my wife loves the attention and the wandering eyes upon her as everyone attempts to determine if she is with E or me or both of us) WE will take our SUV to a parking garage and have sex...E and my wife will be fucking...and I will be holding her down and if I can maneuver my cock in her mouth, she will suck me. SHe asked if I can lick her pussy while she is sitting on top of E. She is hoping he can orgasm in her while my mouth is at her clitoris...and once that moment of orgasm happens, i will be there to lick her clean.
We are staying busy with this lifestyle..........MY WIFE is Ok with our active involvement.
She did not see D yesterday.
She told D that she may be able to come to his apt tonight after work..but she is not sure.
She assured D that everything is ok.....but she is focusing on ME for a while.
I love her for that.
SHe really wants to involve me in the 3some with E on Thursday.
I am hoping that she will visit D later tonight....I will be watching her child late tonight...nothing is more sexy to me than my HW coming home after being freshly fucked by D and being allowed to re-claim her.
I want that tonight.
Sorry to all who were confused by our cuckold idea......we are not perfect...and we both appreciate the advice that we received....both positive and negative.
Talk to you all soon.
After a long discussion, we finally decided to stop with the idea of cuckolding.
I have taken into serious consideration the ramifications of denial and possibly dedicating herself to D.
Once I calmed down, I thought about how jealous that I still become when she hotwife's.
It would be too difficult on me and our marriage if we were to actively pursue this lifestyle...even on a temporary basis.
My wife told me that reading this forum has allowed us to take bigger steps in the lifestyle of hotwifing...and reading some of the posts regarding the cuckold lifestyle has given her the courage to take the initiative to attempt to cuckold me for a temporary period. But after listening to me and my concerns, she realizes why WE can not go down that path. Her hope was that this lifestyle would further enhance my fantasies....she assured me that cucking me was more of a fantasy to her and nothing more. Her thoughts were based on denying me her pussy....nothing feminine or degrading. SHE knows how crazy I become...how aggressive and forceful I become when we havent had sex for a few days. SHE Loves when I act like that and that is why she wanted to attempt to cuckold me. Another belief of my wife was that licking and preparing her for D would be a huge turnon for her. SHE liked reading how the cuck would prepare the wife for her lover...fluffing?? Not sure if that is the terminology.
She liked the idea of coming home to me...and making me stroke my cock...and beg to lick her fucked pussy.
Again....that was her fantasy of cucking.
Not to talk on her behalf..but OUR sex is wonderfully exciting.....denial would cause too much torment on our marriage.
WE have something set up with E on Thursday night.
CAR SEX...........we are to meet him at a distant bar....and later after much flirting from both of us(my wife loves the attention and the wandering eyes upon her as everyone attempts to determine if she is with E or me or both of us) WE will take our SUV to a parking garage and have sex...E and my wife will be fucking...and I will be holding her down and if I can maneuver my cock in her mouth, she will suck me. SHe asked if I can lick her pussy while she is sitting on top of E. She is hoping he can orgasm in her while my mouth is at her clitoris...and once that moment of orgasm happens, i will be there to lick her clean.
We are staying busy with this lifestyle..........MY WIFE is Ok with our active involvement.
She did not see D yesterday.
She told D that she may be able to come to his apt tonight after work..but she is not sure.
She assured D that everything is ok.....but she is focusing on ME for a while.
I love her for that.
SHe really wants to involve me in the 3some with E on Thursday.
I am hoping that she will visit D later tonight....I will be watching her child late tonight...nothing is more sexy to me than my HW coming home after being freshly fucked by D and being allowed to re-claim her.
I want that tonight.
Sorry to all who were confused by our cuckold idea......we are not perfect...and we both appreciate the advice that we received....both positive and negative.
Talk to you all soon.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi Reese,
I thought it was interesting, because technically cuckolding means that a wife is cheating on her husband with other men, seeing them behind his back..., 'hoodwinking', so to speak.
Whether or not the original definition still holds today is arguable, because for those in the 'cuckold lifestyle', many of the husbands seem to be active participants in the wives' infidelites, with such activities as include 'fluffing or primping', creampies, setting up her dates, etc.
Some activities are also shared by couples in the HW lifestyle, but I guess it all depends how you define yourself and your marriage.
In the end, however, I think the terms are not too useful, as they tend to involve some degree of social stigma and reproof, and may not at all relate to the couple themselves and the emotional dynamics of their own relationship.
In my book, if it works for them, then great, so long as no harm is caused by their activities and they take place between consenting adults (it's really no one else's business, so why adhere to others' concepts of what IS or what SHOULD BE ?).
Have fun you two (or three...................., or four..., lol).
Cheers!
I thought it was interesting, because technically cuckolding means that a wife is cheating on her husband with other men, seeing them behind his back..., 'hoodwinking', so to speak.
Whether or not the original definition still holds today is arguable, because for those in the 'cuckold lifestyle', many of the husbands seem to be active participants in the wives' infidelites, with such activities as include 'fluffing or primping', creampies, setting up her dates, etc.
Some activities are also shared by couples in the HW lifestyle, but I guess it all depends how you define yourself and your marriage.
In the end, however, I think the terms are not too useful, as they tend to involve some degree of social stigma and reproof, and may not at all relate to the couple themselves and the emotional dynamics of their own relationship.
In my book, if it works for them, then great, so long as no harm is caused by their activities and they take place between consenting adults (it's really no one else's business, so why adhere to others' concepts of what IS or what SHOULD BE ?).
Have fun you two (or three...................., or four..., lol).
Cheers!
Schwiiiiing ... Thud! (Projectile erection becomes vicious uppercut KO!)