Interesting twists to share

[hoping_she_will_1day]

This is my first post. I've read this entire thread and wanted to thank you for sharing your experiences, both good and not so good. I've sat on the edge of my seat with excitement for you both but then also felt the gut punches of disappointment as FB's let your wife down. Your writing style is uncommonly good, and you display an unquestionable level of love and respect for your wife. You articulate the eroticism of your experiences so very well, and after seeing the pictures you shared it's easy to see that you've described your wife perfectly, she looks amazing.
We are not yet a HW couple and may never be one, but if it comes to be I hope that I can use your perspective and positive reinforcement as a model to follow.

[6inches]

Done that,
there are some really good ideas, 2 studs and changing frequency, I say go for it to make up for the ones that have ghosted her in the past!!

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[ericsacto]

I must say I am very perplexed by why older women feel it is wrong to be with a younger man. My wife is similar I think she would like to have a good looking, in shape 25 year old. As a guy who was once a 25 year old I will vouch that he will most likely enjoy it. I don’t feel like he would feel take advantage of at all. This seems like a victimless crime here and I don’t understand what holds women back.

Some women think having sex with somebody younger than their kids are icky.

I knew a separated woman that wouldn’t even think about dating guys younger than her son while another divorced woman had no qualms about it.

[isinlarsa]

I must say I am very perplexed by why older women feel it is wrong to be with a younger man. My wife is similar I think she would like to have a good looking, in shape 25 year old. As a guy who was once a 25 year old I will vouch that he will most likely enjoy it. I don’t feel like he would feel take advantage of at all. This seems like a victimless crime here and I don’t understand what holds women back.

Some women think having sex with somebody younger than their kids are icky.

I knew a separated woman that wouldn’t even think about dating guys younger than her son while another divorced woman had no qualms about it.

My wife never expressed any reservations about being with a man almost half her age. She just enjoyed his hot body,

[DoneThat]

This is my first post. I've read this entire thread and wanted to thank you for sharing your experiences, both good and not so good. I've sat on the edge of my seat with excitement for you both but then also felt the gut punches of disappointment as FB's let your wife down. Your writing style is uncommonly good, and you display an unquestionable level of love and respect for your wife. You articulate the eroticism of your experiences so very well, and after seeing the pictures you shared it's easy to see that you've described your wife perfectly, she looks amazing.
We are not yet a HW couple and may never be one, but if it comes to be I hope that I can use your perspective and positive reinforcement as a model to follow.

I sincerely appreciate your post. I do try to be as brutally honest as possible, because my wife is the real deal. While some here will write wild stories, I find that truth can be more interesting than fiction. This might help someone, or a couple, understand that this lifestyle can involve all kinds of emotions, but it can work because we’re an example of one type of Hotwifing.

In the beginning, my wife and I agreed to keep this “light and fluffy”. We didn’t want this lifestyle to get serious and demanding. Our marriage is more important than anything.

I try to write in an interesting manner, and I appreciate that you feel it’s uncommonly good. I tend to think it’s because it’s real. I have been accused of being overly wordy with things like letters and emails from my own people - but brevity here would produce uninteresting material. This is the place to try and be descriptive because mental pictures are important. Somewhere between descriptive and accurate is where I try to write.

My wife and I have a loving, passionate relationship. I also have a healthy fear of her when she gets angry, so I really try not to screw up. I want her to be happy.

UPDATE:

Kyel texted again, she told him she was interested in seeing him again but didn’t commit to any timeframe.

Chris hasn’t texted that he’s back in town, but I know that’s coming.

She told me that nothing will happen this weekend, but possibly next weekend.

Personally, I’m hoping Chris texts her soon. I think she would see him tomorrow night if he asked.

Then there’s Mark, the new guy. I figure she’ll want to see him again sometime next month, but probably after Kyel.

Kyel has a slightly below average sized cock, but he uses it well and he treats her very nice. He used to be an athlete, but now his body is about 20lbs over an “average” guy. He still has the stamina because he’s young (33). He’s slightly imperfect, and she likes that. In her mind, she’s imperfect too, and she feels more comfortable with Kyel’s “imprefectness” than she does with a guy that has a perfect face and body.

I know I mentioned it before, but Chris is imperfect too. He has a very fun personality, and a great cock, but he’s 42 now and still pretends he’s a kid. While Chris isn’t fat, he isn’t athletic either. He’s solidly average, and again, she likes that. She doesn’t want to feel outclassed and uncomfortable.

If I had to guess, I’d say that her priorities right now are Chris first, Kyel, then Mark. That is unless Alex shows up, then she’s already told me that she would see him any night (not just Friday or Saturday nights), and would see him as many times a week as he would want. She’s on record saying that 3 times in one week would be fine with her. But that’s only for Alex - anyone else has to abide by the two week between encounter rule of thumb. Alex is closer to perfect, being young, athletic, and cute - but she says he really knows how to fuck, and makes her cum every time.

I’ve stopped looking for potential men that she might be interested in. I think we’ve reached the point where there’s enough nice guys who appreciate her that she’ll be busy for a while.

So there’s nothing happening, but it’s just a matter of time. It’s completely up to her as they all text her directly (now).

That’s something I haven’t gotten into before, but until a man meets my wife and she decides that she wants to see him again, the texting happens on an texting App on my phone to protect her number. That texting App has a number different than my phone number too. It allows us to be anonymous until there’s no need for that.

I appreciate the comments. They give me a reason to continue writing.

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[regular3]

Thank you for this fabulous insight into your thoughts and relationship dynamics.
I also appreciate your healthy respect for your wife. Life is good so best not to fuck it up.

[DoneThat]

UPDATE:

Last night while having sex, my wife told me whoever (Chris, Kyel, or Mark) asks first is who she’ll invite over to spend time with her next Friday or Saturday night.

I asked her if she had a preference, and she said definitely Mark. She really liked how he pursued her, made out with her, played pool, and how he was in the bedroom. She said with a little direction he could go from an 8 to a 9 or 10 on her sexual satisfaction scale.

So I suggested she send him a happy new year message, saying that she was impressed with the way he played pool - and to use her private phone number for texting from now on. Before he left he did say that he wanted to play pool with her again.

Perhaps with her sending something mentioning pool it would spur Mark to suggest a rematch, without her looking like she was asking him if he wanted to visit her again - because she would feels like it would look like she’s needy.

She agreed that particular message would be agreeable to her.

When Mark gets her direct phone number, it will be a total of 5 good guys who can deal directly with her. I don’t want to be in the loop anymore. I’ve been trying to reach this point for a while, and feel we’re finally here.

She’s met 17 men over the last 3 years, fucked them all bareback on our bed, many several times. The 5 with her phone number are the winners out of the 17. So overall, she likes roughly 1 in every 3 guys. She’s picky, and can afford to be such.

She hates meeting new men, but once she meets them she’s fine with them. So she finally has 3-4 decent guys who are reasonably local and one who may return from time to time. That’s enough at this point.

You know, it takes time to reach this level. But now that we’re here it’s time for me to sit back for a few months and watch her be a Hotwife. I won’t be in the loop whatsoever. Whatever she does is completely up to her. She now has the power to say yes or no, and make dates without my knowledge. It’s her choice. Always has been, but this removes any sense of coercion from me. It’s what I’ve always wanted, for her to have complete control - and to watch her exercise that power.

So tonight we send Mark the happy new year message with her phone number and I disconnect from the dating process.

Finally.

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[regular3]

What a delicious place to be. Her freedom must give you some angst which is something that I, in particular, am looking for.

[wifeneedn]

That's a great step for her DoneThat! I remember when my wife started emailing and texting on her own with me out of the loop of any
coercion from her cuck. For me it added a whole new dynamic of being cucked.
Sounds like you're in for a "Happy New Year!"

[DoneThat]

UPDATE:

Mark replied to her message, saying that he was eager to play more games of pool with her.

She didn’t want to offer her phone number until after he replied. So now that he’s replied, I await her wording on her response.

In any case, it would appear that he’s won the race to be the first one to message her this year, and coincidentally he’s the one she’s most interested in seeing first.

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[wifeneedn]

Nice! Can't wait for your next update.

[bubbajack]

Please do let us know when they are "seeing" one another and how it goes for her and you.

[DoneThat]

UPDATE:

The reply to Mark’s message was sent, and he now has her direct phone number to send texts to. In the message, she told him to touch base with her during the week to set up their next game of pool.

She’s off on her own now and in a groove. I’m relieved. She’s now liberated, and has the power to play at will. I’m pretty sure she’ll try to stick to her 2 week rule, but who really knows?

She plays pool with every man she meets, and with all the practice she’s getting quite good. I suggested to her that she now has something that I’ll call “Pool Club,” similar to the movie “Fight Club.” And the first rule of Pool Club, is that you don’t talk about Pool Club - and the second rule of Pool Club is that you DON’T talk about Pool Club.

Using the term “Pool Club” will give her a subtle way of mixing her secret life in conversation without coming right out and talking about a fuck date.

She likes that idea.

She’s looking forward to Mark returning on Friday to play pool and fuck her.

We’ll see if she will seal the deal sometime this week.

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[regular3]

And we are looking forward to seeing the results

[elina]

She’s off on her own now and in a groove. I’m relieved. She’s now liberated, and has the power to play at will. I’m pretty sure she’ll try to stick to her 2 week rule, but who really knows?

Congratulations,
Your WIfe is spectacular, so glad to see that She is now fully liberated and that you are supporting Her.
Just make sure to demonstrate your love and support for whatever this wonderful Hot Wife decides to do...

And please keep us posted....

Sincerely
elina

[wifeneedn]

That's great Mark has her number, its so fun when they really get to chatting. Hopefully Mark's a quick study and becomes that #10 your sweetie is looking for in the "pool club."

[DoneThat]

UPDATE:

My wife has been feeling ill the last couple of days, some stomach thing - not Covid.

Kyel sent her a Happy New Year text Monday, which she did not reply to.

Mark sent her a text at noon on Tuesday, and she told him she wasn’t feeling well, but that she was very much looking forward to playing pool again as soon as she was feeling better. Mark ended the conversation by saying he can’t wait to play pool again, and touch her.

Two hours later, Chris texted!!!!, asking if she was free Saturday night. She replied that she wasn’t feeling well, and Chris texted back that he was going to keep Saturday night open for her if she felt better.

She asked Chris how long he was going to be here, and he replied “for good.” So that’s pretty awesome! Her most frequent bull, with the biggest cock, is back to stay.

She has three guys who she really likes who want to fuck her this weekend, and currently she just doesn’t feel very well.

When she gets better, she’ll have choices to make. I know she would choose Mark or Chris over Kyel. Kyle is a good guy to have around when he’s the only guy around. He’s in last place, but is still someone she enjoys having over.

Her decision between Chris and Mark will be very telling - because it’s the difference between the very cute guy Mark who chases her around and treats her exactly like she wants - or the familiar but entertaining guy Chris, with his big dick. Both have the capacity to make her cum. They are both excellent choices.

I’m feeling happy for her that she’s getting all the attention. It makes her feel happy and special.

She has improved greatly since yesterday, but she’s still feeling weak. What I think will happen, is that by Saturday morning she’ll feel better, and she will invite Chris over since it’s been a while. Then the question will be does she stick to her two week pause rule, or will she invite Mark the following weekend?

It’s a real shame she isn’t feeling well, but when she told me Chris was back and staying here she lit up with a brief bit of happiness I haven’t seen since she fell ill.

She has excellent choices. I’m really pleased that we’ve reached this point. I just want her to feel better so she can enjoy life again. I love her so much, and she loves me. I’m encouraged by the improvement she’s made since falling ill, but she’s just not ready to party right now. Hopefully by Saturday night she’ll be back to normal. We’ll see, and I will keep you folks following this “documentary” updated.

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[airhorn]

When she gets better, she’ll have choices to make. I know she would choose Mark or Chris over Kyel. Kyle is a good guy to have around when he’s the only guy around. He’s in last place, but is still someone she enjoys having over.

To quote Harry Stone from the first episode of Night Court, "Yes, I was at the very bottom of the list... but I was on the list."

[DoneThat]

UPDATE:

This update isn’t very exiting.

She is feeling better today, but she had a couple days where she really didn’t feel well.

She texted Chris last night that she still didn’t feel well, and couldn’t meet with him tonight.

She never did get back with Mark, or with Kyel.

Chris, the last guy to contact her, was actually the one who she chose to date - that is if she hadn’t become ill.

Yes Chris, the fun guy with the big cock, that she hasn’t had in 3 months, was the actual winner… not the first (nice) guy to contact her, or the second (passionate/romantic) guy to contact her. It was the guy who makes her sore for a couple days.

So, I expect the coming weekend will be eventful.

Oh and I almost forgot. She did all of the communication with the guys directly, without me being involved whatsoever. Her choices and decisions had zero input from me, as I had no idea what was going on. I know what she told me and showed me after the fact on her phone.

I bought her flowers today, and ordered the special cake that she likes from the bakery. Tomorrow is our wedding anniversary.

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[NewtonBlade]

Well Happy Anniversary. Feel better, good days ahead!

[rascalnvixen]

Enjoy your anniversary as best you can. Hoping she feels better tomorrow!

Rascal

[regular3]

Wouldn't it be sweet if she fucked Chris on your anniversary.

[DoneThat]

UPDATE:

My wife is back to herself after a few days of feeling sick.

Chris had hoped to see her last Saturday night, but that was postponed until a later date. Chris texted her yesterday, asking if she felt better. I know he asked because he genuinely cares about her, nothing was mentioned about setting a new date.

My wife has insinuated to me that she’s likely going to invite Chris this coming Saturday night.

Meanwhile Eric just texted, asking if she wanted to get together sometime in the next week or so.

I know this because she told me. She also mentioned that Eric was a “quickie”, in that his time in the bedroom usually is over in 10-15 minutes - but he’s lots of fun regardless.

I told her to do whatever she wanted. To empower herself, unleash her inner self… to just consider me a permanent roommate.

Up to this point, she only invited her friends over on a Friday or Saturday night. She says it’s because she likes to sleep late the morning after.

So I was very surprised when she just told me that she might invite Eric over on a weekNIGHT “for a quickie.”

Given Eric’s desire to get together with her in the next week, and her desire to see Chris again this Friday or Saturday night, I sense that she is about to break 2 of her “rules.”

First, she’s going to invite someone on a weeknight. And second, she’s going to see someone else just 3-4 days later, rather than wait 2 weeks.

We’ll see, but a big reason for me to have guys text her directly was my observation that when a guy directly propositions her, she usually accepts. That’s opposed to me being a middleman with me telling her what someone else would like, and her then thinking of reasons why that would not work for her.

It’s going to be an interesting week for me. She’s more in control of her destiny than ever, and I can tell that she’s actually thinking about what a powerful thing she has to unleash. She’s finally pondering unleashing her power for her personal enjoyment with full, direct control.

Now that she’s feeling better, I think I’m about to see where her true desires lead her.

One thing I do know about her. She likes to fuck, and be fucked.

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[CuriousUK]

Interesting and extremely exciting

[elina]

Thanks for this wonderful update,

Seems like your Wife is gradually accepting how good it will be for Her if She fully embraces Her potential.
Also from reading several other threads, for many Ladies this is like a "two steps forwards, one step back"...
The Lady must be in control of how fast She moves.

A loving and supporting husband can stimulate Her but it will rarely work to push her.

Please keep us posted Donethat.