Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[slenderfish]

Wow. You have more social interaction in a weekend than I have in a year! What a socialite!

I agree with the woman leaving so SW could be queen, quite classy and abnormal. She sounds like a catch.

This party was about SW, not you. You were an excuse.

I don't understand how her reconsilistion with K was a gift for you. Supposedly she had something planned and I assure you, this wasn't what she planned. Maybe she had nothing but she didn't go into this a week ago saying that it would be your present, otherwise she would not have protested to her attendance .

A brief, what happened on pavtygate again, just some flirting and showing off? I searched but the search doesn't like to work for me.

The reconciliation gift was not reconciling with Ms. K but with another woman in our group, who is not named in the story. Her guy is my longtime ski buddy. The Ms. K reconciliation was just a gimme.

Pantygate was Ms. K dancing with me, one on one but in the crowd dancing at one of our summer 2020 house parties, and whispering in my ear that she is not wearing any panties under her short skirt. She then asked me to show her the best tequila (at the bar with everyone around), and then to show her the rooftop deck. It was the venture up to the deck that caught SW's attention, because other girls in the party knew that Ms. K is not trustworthy around husbands, etc. and prodded SW to go up and break up whatever was occurring up there. SW still wonders if used my fingers on Ms. K while up there (I did not). This wondering came up with the therapist during the last two in-person sessions.

I think she's hanging onto this unfounded assertion as a counterbalance to the Mr. B shenanigans.

[slenderfish]

We had another in-person therapy session today, since I won't be around on Thursday.

The therapist continues to move the conversation deeper into SW's sexuality and what turns her on. And is helping to provide me with conversational tactics that will encourage SW to move to her sexiness, to give herself permission to be feeling turned on and sexy.

All the rest is just details.

I agree with the proposition/philosophy of "let's not bicker and argue over who killed who" but rather get to the heart of it all.

[slenderfish]

Any sexy pics from the weekends activities?

Just started viewing these today. Will manage them and post what I am able, but will be traveling the next couple of days on business with Ms. I.

I put up three initial images just now.

[william70]

How old are you?

[Mr Mrs Cream]

So…. Your biggest fantasy is SW reconciling with Ms. K?!?

I have resolved to request of her to call Mr. J (the young, handsome black guy -- her words -- from about a week ago late night dancing and phone number) and meet him for coffee, etc. to see if there is any possibility of chemistry. As an additional birthday gift.

Hope such expectation will works for SW.
If she start with him do you have any additional wishes from her. Eg. an audio recording? E.g. using Apple watch, or just second mobile which will be connected with you?
You need also take care about her safty.

[afagehi7]

The reconciliation gift was not reconciling with Ms. K but with another woman in our group, who is not named in the story. Her guy is my longtime ski buddy. The Ms. K reconciliation was just a gimme.

Pantygate was Ms. K dancing with me, one on one but in the crowd dancing at one of our summer 2020 house parties, and whispering in my ear that she is not wearing any panties under her short skirt. She then asked me to show her the best tequila (at the bar with everyone around), and then to show her the rooftop deck. It was the venture up to the deck that caught SW's attention, because other girls in the party knew that Ms. K is not trustworthy around husbands, etc. and prodded SW to go up and break up whatever was occurring up there. SW still wonders if used my fingers on Ms. K while up there (I did not). This wondering came up with the therapist during the last two in-person sessions.

I think she's hanging onto this unfounded assertion as a counterbalance to the Mr. B shenanigans.

People who cheat usually accuse their spouse of cheating. I'm sure there's a psychologist term for this phenomenon. But yes, there's likely ties to Mr B. Maybe Mr B used his fingers on SW? When she questioned me about fingering K I'd ask her if B fingered her. We know something happened but not what, maybe this is the key? If asked directly I wonder what she would say. It certainly makes sense that she's projecting

[CuriousUK]

Mr J sounds like an excellent gift for both SW, and, in turn, you. Happy Birthday!!

[slenderfish]

How old are you?

Older than SW by nine years.

[slenderfish]

Mr J sounds like an excellent gift for both SW, and, in turn, you. Happy Birthday!!

Thanks, it's my birthday month so I will set an initial goal of getting this add-on gift by the end of June.

It's good to have goals. I'm generally a goal-oriented person.

[slenderfish]

The reconciliation gift was not reconciling with Ms. K but with another woman in our group, who is not named in the story. Her guy is my longtime ski buddy. The Ms. K reconciliation was just a gimme.

Pantygate was Ms. K dancing with me, one on one but in the crowd dancing at one of our summer 2020 house parties, and whispering in my ear that she is not wearing any panties under her short skirt. She then asked me to show her the best tequila (at the bar with everyone around), and then to show her the rooftop deck. It was the venture up to the deck that caught SW's attention, because other girls in the party knew that Ms. K is not trustworthy around husbands, etc. and prodded SW to go up and break up whatever was occurring up there. SW still wonders if used my fingers on Ms. K while up there (I did not). This wondering came up with the therapist during the last two in-person sessions.

I think she's hanging onto this unfounded assertion as a counterbalance to the Mr. B shenanigans.

People who cheat usually accuse their spouse of cheating. I'm sure there's a psychologist term for this phenomenon. But yes, there's likely ties to Mr B. Maybe Mr B used his fingers on SW? When she questioned me about fingering K I'd ask her if B fingered her. We know something happened but not what, maybe this is the key? If asked directly I wonder what she would say. It certainly makes sense that she's projecting

I'm looking forward to getting into this more over the next few sessions with the therapist, now that it's fully in the conversation.

But the therapist seems to have jumped ahead (or back, depending on how you look at it), instead now leading SW into scenarios that cause her to be turned on.

In the last session (Tuesday this week), she really pushed SW to recall a time she felt so turned on that she just had to have a cock inside of her. After initial answers of "I don't know" and "I just can't recall one" she ultimately provided the scenario when I was more fully into the BBC on Blonde Wife porn video mode (some years ago) and had pulled up a video for us to view as part of our foreplay. I'll note that I'd been looking for such a video, at her request, because some of the others I'd brought for viewing seemed "too professional" or "too canned" or that "the wife seems to be overplaying it just for the benefit of the husband" etc. But the one she noted, the woman was obviously very into the guy and into the erotic passion and it really carried SW into the feeling. She was so turned on that she had to have my cock inside of her, and she watched the video and had her orgasm at the same time as the hot blonde amateur woman in the video.

[slenderfish]

I have resolved to request of her to call Mr. J (the young, handsome black guy -- her words -- from about a week ago late night dancing and phone number) and meet him for coffee, etc. to see if there is any possibility of chemistry. As an additional birthday gift.

Hope such expectation will works for SW.
If she start with him do you have any additional wishes from her. Eg. an audio recording? E.g. using Apple watch, or just second mobile which will be connected with you?
You need also take care about her safty.

Thanks for the suggestions.

[william70]

I'd ask you how old SW is, but you'd just say 9 yrs. younger than me.

[Tryn]

SF, how are you handling the “your biggest fantasy granted” not coming close to your biggest fantasy? My wife has played that hand on me many times and it always leaves a very sour taste in my mouth. It makes me doubt her ability to understand me and makes me feel as though I was duped and lied to. I say lied to because in my mind she knew she wasn’t doing what she had “promised” but rather something completely different.

[CuriousUK]

SF, how are you handling the “your biggest fantasy granted” not coming close to your biggest fantasy? My wife has played that hand on me many times and it always leaves a very sour taste in my mouth. It makes me doubt her ability to understand me and makes me feel as though I was duped and lied to. I say lied to because in my mind she knew she wasn’t doing what she had “promised” but rather something completely different.

That’s an extremely interesting point that resonates with me - in that we are sure our wives are aware of the minutest details of our naughtiest fantasy, and when they don’t appear to act on that (when we’re sure they’re about to make the fantasy come true), we tend to feel let down or miss-led (probably by our own dirty minds and no fault of theirs )

[afagehi7]

I'm looking forward to getting into this more over the next few sessions with the therapist, now that it's fully in the conversation.

But the therapist seems to have jumped ahead (or back, depending on how you look at it), instead now leading SW into scenarios that cause her to be turned on.

In the last session (Tuesday this week), she really pushed SW to recall a time she felt so turned on that she just had to have a cock inside of her. After initial answers of "I don't know" and "I just can't recall one" she ultimately provided the scenario when I was more fully into the BBC on Blonde Wife porn video mode (some years ago) and had pulled up a video for us to view as part of our foreplay. I'll note that I'd been looking for such a video, at her request, because some of the others I'd brought for viewing seemed "too professional" or "too canned" or that "the wife seems to be overplaying it just for the benefit of the husband" etc. But the one she noted, the woman was obviously very into the guy and into the erotic passion and it really carried SW into the feeling. She was so turned on that she had to have my cock inside of her, and she watched the video and had her orgasm at the same time as the hot blonde amateur woman in the video.

This is a very valuable topic and one that can help you in leading the games forward. So BBC on blonde, imagining she's the blonde, seems to be something that turns her on. I'd be happy to know these things about my wife.

Out of curiosity, did you save the link to the video? I'm certain we all would like to see what got SW hot...

[slenderfish]

This is a very valuable topic and one that can help you in leading the games forward. So BBC on blonde, imagining she's the blonde, seems to be something that turns her on. I'd be happy to know these things about my wife.

Out of curiosity, did you save the link to the video? I'm certain we all would like to see what got SW hot...

Her revelation during the therapy session was a lightning bolt, and I immediately tried to find in my mind a path to this video. No luck so far.

[slenderfish]

I'd ask you how old SW is, but you'd just say 9 yrs. younger than me.

Yes, you do get the point. Not trying to be a nudge (nudzh) here. Borrowing a term from the Yiddish handbook.

[slenderfish]

SF, how are you handling the “your biggest fantasy granted” not coming close to your biggest fantasy? My wife has played that hand on me many times and it always leaves a very sour taste in my mouth. It makes me doubt her ability to understand me and makes me feel as though I was duped and lied to. I say lied to because in my mind she knew she wasn’t doing what she had “promised” but rather something completely different.

A disappointment. I am going to use this as a catalyst for a hotwife conversation with SW, to refresh the concept.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

According to your additiona birthday gift you expect from SW.
As you had mentioned there is a BBC, which phone number has SW.
Is there an alternative?
When looking for a gift we are searching using internet. How about try look to look for BBC in reddit.
There is a cuckold topic where you can see all part of BBC.
For example you can mention her that you are going to find a candidate in reddit.
An experience one will let you be with her and hold her hand during sex or record a video.
I don't know what is your dream.
Then after you will find few, show her and talk about each of them.
Just for fun - what you think about his body, how about his cock - can you imagine how have he may be in your hand...
I know that for SW chemistry is very important but having multiple candidates it is easyer to get the one.
And it may be a good naughty game with SW.

P.S.
An experienced bull let you record the date from the start in the club to the finish, like this one:
https://www.redgifs.com/watch/knobbycornysturgeon
I can imagine that it was SW…

[slenderfish]

According to your additiona birthday gift you expect from SW.
As you had mentioned there is a BBC, which phone number has SW.
Is there an alternative?
When looking for a gift we are searching using internet. How about try look to look for BBC in reddit.
There is a cuckold topic where you can see all part of BBC.
For example you can mention her that you are going to find a candidate in reddit.
An experience one will let you be with her and hold her hand during sex or record a video.
I don't know what is your dream.
Then after you will find few, show her and talk about each of them.
Just for fun - what you think about his body, how about his cock - can you imagine how have he may be in your hand...
I know that for SW chemistry is very important but having multiple candidates it is easyer to get the one.
And it may be a good naughty game with SW.

P.S.
An experienced bull let you record the date from the start in the club to the finish, like this one:
https://www.redgifs.com/watch/knobbycornysturgeon
I can imagine that it was SW…

I do have the contact information for this guy Mr. J. When she was getting it into her phone that night, she gave me the phone to be sure it was entered correctly (she was a bit drunk). I saw the number with my eyes and put it quickly into my head, and then put it into my phone. Not going to do anything with it, but it reminds me to remind SW to give him a call and meet up with him for coffee or similar.

I also did talk at the birthday party with Mr. G. His wife was glued to his side all night (we are now calling this a velcro behavior). He has become more massive with muscle, etc. I'm going to ask SW to ask him to stop by the house with his street motorcycle, and if he does so, to then take SW for a ride.

[slenderfish]

A quick summary of the big birthday party. Not really that much to report in the way of specific hotwifing, other than (as you may have seen in the images) SW was a very hot wife that night. She was basically the queen of the party. A couple of my friends commented that it seemed to be as much (or more) of a party for her than for me. I reminded them that in my approach it should be more of a party for her.

But it was for me. We had about 55 guests and rocked the place. The food was fabulous; beef tenderloin and roasted salmon served by the chef at a station with bernaise sauce and hollandaise sauce. Passed appetizers, two-tier birthday cake, etc. Balloon arch, photo station, tables decorated with centerpieces of martini glasses. Open bar all night. Then the after party, with about half the group migrating to that sexy bar and essentially taking it over. SW danced on the bar until forced back down by the bartenders. All the girl drama was wiped out that night. I couldn't be happier.

And the following week (last week) was also a bit manic. Sunday was a continuation of the party with mimosa/brunch hosted at our house for those who traveled for the party and stayed at the hotel. Monday was recovery day. Tuesday was a full day of work at my desk (finally)! Wed/Thu was a business trip to Texas, and I dragged Ms. I along. SW went for a solo session late Thursday morning with the couples' therapist. Thursday night was Ms. I's last night before returning home to Europe, so we did it big. Went to top-level sushi for dinner, drank a lot of sake, then meandered over to the same bar as the after-party of the birthday night. SW had brought along another girlfriend for the night (let's call her Ms. A) and I hung out with Ms. A and Ms. I while SW picked up on a handsome dark complexion man on the other side of her. She got his phone number, etc. "for introducing him to one of her single girlfriends" while Ms. A and Ms. I watched her, and then me, with wide eyes. Ms. A wanted to dance somewhere so SW suggested we all go to our house. More wine, I fired up the dance system (including a disco ball) and we opened the big windows and doors and had a great drunken dance festival with the four of us. We quit around midnight when the local police knocked on our door because of the loud music in the neighborhood. A complaint call had been lodged by an anonymous neighbor.

And up early early next morning to ferry Ms. I to the airport for her early flight. Friday was a blur, with so many days in a row of partying, traveling, little sleep, etc. Up early Saturday for a bike ride. And then to a yacht party with Mr. B on Saturday night.

Sunday was finally a quieter day, except that I did wake up early to join my son and SW's niece (and her latest boyfriend) on a hike for Father's Day. SW remained behind, getting some much-needed beauty sleep.

So now on to the matter of hotwifing, the unmet birthday hope/expectation.

[afagehi7]

Wow, you've got more action in a week than I have in a year. It sounds fabulous but draining. I would enjoy watching SW in action... Don't the others ever comment on your wife picking up strange dudes?

[slenderfish]

Wow, you've got more action in a week than I have in a year. It sounds fabulous but draining. I would enjoy watching SW in action... Don't the others ever comment on your wife picking up strange dudes?

Ms. I is now used to it. I may have mentioned in a prior post that I told Ms. I (in all confidence) that my approach to SW and other men is more European (e.g. like her culture) in that I'm okay with SW having a bit of fun from time to time with another man, as long as she comes home to me. I also told her that SW had some kind of encounter with Mr. B, whom Ms. I has known for over 10 years. Of course, Mr. B was at the big birthday party, so I wanted Ms. I to know in advance about that dynamic.

Ms. A is new to SW and to us. So she is the one I do wonder about, regarding SW and her extra friendly attitude to new men. Time will tell on that one.

As for other friends, they haven't seen it except as a one-off here and there.

Except of course the three women who were in attendance at SW's girls' party in late August 2020 when SW also pulled Mr. B as "one of the girls" and he remained with her when the actual girls all went home at the end of the night. Not sure what they think. I'm pretty close to at least one of those two, (Ms. T) the one who was last to leave the house that night, and would be the most likely to wonder. But she's not the type to risk her friendship with SW by having any such conversation with me.

[slenderfish]

It's agreed, I'm going to my buddy's beach house this weekend as a boys' trip. SW agreed without hesitation for me to be away. So quickly, that her newest girlfriend (recently moved in across the street and who was with us out for dinner) did a double take and actually asked her about it.

[OC_Ken]

Hope you got the doorbell cam installed so you can see comings and goings while you're away!