Figuring it out

For hotwives and the men who adore them.
Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Dec 25, 2021 4:06 pm

Whosbeensleeping wrote:
Sat Dec 25, 2021 2:51 pm
Love it! Happy for you! :)
Thank you! Me too 😁

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Dec 25, 2021 4:08 pm

bubbajack wrote:
Sat Dec 25, 2021 2:57 pm
I really - er - enjoyed the word-picture of your tits out with the snow falling on your puckered nipples. It was a real treat for my mind's eye and my mind's tongue and fingers!*
:whip: :whip: :mrgreen:

Thank you very much indeed! :D

*My cock of course has a "mind" of its own and a habit of responding physically to very sexy descriptive writing - which it did! :twisted:
Sounds like a very Merry Christmas over there as well. 😉

Thank you for letting me know just how much you enjoyed my share.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Dec 26, 2021 11:54 am

I decided to post a picture of my Christmas Eve flashing. 😉

User avatar
eventfire
Player
Posts: 373
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:16 pm
Location: Near Philadelphia/ south Jersey

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:07 pm

Congratulations

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:21 pm

eventfire wrote:
Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:07 pm
Congratulations
Are you congratulating me on my posting abilities? Or maybe my ability to solicit a reaction from some readers? 😉

I'm going to assume the congratulations are for how I sated my sexual appetites with multiple partners on Christmas Eve. Thank you.

Hopefully it was a nice, sexy Christmas for you too.

User avatar
eventfire
Player
Posts: 373
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:16 pm
Location: Near Philadelphia/ south Jersey

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:24 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:21 pm
eventfire wrote:
Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:07 pm
Congratulations
Are you congratulating me on my posting abilities? Or maybe my ability to solicit a reaction from some readers? 😉

I'm going to assume the congratulations are for how I sated my sexual appetites with multiple partners on Christmas Eve. Thank you.

Hopefully it was a nice, sexy Christmas for you too.
Mine sucked while the rich get richer.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:26 pm

eventfire wrote:
Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:24 pm

Mine sucked while the rich get richer.
"Sucked" you say? 😉😈

Sorry, I shouldn't tease, but that word has me thinking all sorts of things that could have made your day better.

User avatar
Trvlman7
Experienced
Posts: 242
Joined: Tue Nov 15, 2011 11:18 pm
Location: Atlanta

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Trvlman7 » Thu Dec 30, 2021 8:06 pm

Just read your entire thread, very enjoyable and quite erotic. Hope you will continue to share the luscious details of your encounters. They are always fun to hear, I love getting them from my wife or listening in when out of town and she is entertaining.

I am sure D wants every detail when you get home and the wonderful reclaiming session is in full swing.

Please keep posting sexy lady.
Few things are more beautiful then a sexy loving wife spread wide open for all!!!!!!!!!!!

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Dec 31, 2021 11:37 am

Trvlman7 wrote:
Thu Dec 30, 2021 8:06 pm
Just read your entire thread, very enjoyable and quite erotic. Hope you will continue to share the luscious details of your encounters. They are always fun to hear, I love getting them from my wife or listening in when out of town and she is entertaining.

I am sure D wants every detail when you get home and the wonderful reclaiming session is in full swing.

Please keep posting sexy lady.
Thank you! I actually had a hotel date yesterday. I'll try to share details about it soon.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Jan 02, 2022 10:46 am

Happy new year everyone. I have a few things to share on this thread but have been a bit lazy about writing them lately. I’ll try to catch you up.

First, a few people have sent private messages or commented here with your support as I figured out the “Sir” situation. Thank you. I’m happy to report that once things slowed down for him at work, he’s been much more available. I don’t think we’ll play in person anytime soon because of the omicron variant, but we’ve been chatting and doing some online play again.

I really consider him a friend, and I’m glad he hasn’t disappeared. Plus, during one of our play sessions I topped my “total orgasms in one day” record, so that’s something to be grateful for as well. :)

Secondly, I had a wonderful play date with G last week. Both D and I took a couple of weeks off of work over Christmas break. G had some availability on December 30, so we had tentatively made plans to get together. Then omicron began to spread like crazy in Ontario and I began to wonder if we should cancel our plans. I also had some guilt about doing something for myself during a week of “family time.”

My handsome husband reminded me that seeing G in a hotel on December 30th would be no more risky than when I had a quick rendezvous with G in a carpool parking lot on December 24….we’d just have more time and space to have fun!

D would stay home and entertain the kids – board games, wintery walks, some pho for lunch. We’d tell them that I had to go into the office for the day, and no one would be the wiser. He’s a very wonderful man.

I drove to the hotel, checked in at 9 am and texted G the room number. He said he was on his way and would be there in 10 minutes. Since the room was ridiculously warm (someone had set the thermostat to 80 Fahrenheit), I decided to strip down to my lacy bra and panties. I turned on the lights, shut the blinds, and generally paced around in nervous anticipation.

G texted again. He had gone to the wrong hotel. Oops! (But also LOL). Fortunately, he knocked on the door of an unoccupied room. I gave him the correct hotel information and he said he’d be there in another 10 minutes.

D texted me to ask how eager I was for G to arrive. I told him that I was wet already and he hadn’t even arrived at the hotel yet. Then I lay back on the bed and sent D a photo of my current state of dress (you can see that photo in our “illustrated” thread, although I’ve cut my face out of the posted version. viewtopic.php?f=9&t=64674&start=100). Then D and I sexted a bit longer with a few additional sexy photos.

G texted to let me know he was in the parking lot. D told me to have fun and reminded me that he “really likes videos.” I promised to see what I could do.

G knocked on the door. I opened it and let him take in my nearly naked state. “Oh. Wow,” was all he really said. We let the door close and he took me in his arms and began to kiss me. His hands were a bit cold from being outside and felt very good against my bare skin. He grabbed my butt and pulled me close to him. I ran my hands down his back and tugged on his sweater a bit so that I could feel his skin underneath.

The kiss was passionate, hungry and eager. We only broke it so that I could pull his sweater and then his t-shirt over his head. He groped my breasts and kissed my neck. I ran my fingernails over his chest.

Eventually, I took a step back and smiled at him. “Hi,” I said. “Welcome to the hotel room.” He chuckled and said hi back.

I sat at the foot of the bed and leaned back a little. He took off his shoes and socks and I told him that he was a very sexy stripper. He leaned down to kiss me and fondled my pussy through my panties and it nearly made me orgasm.

He undid his jeans and let them fall to the floor. His penis was making a huge tent in his boxers, and it was inches from my face. I looked up at him and smiled as I stroked it through the fabric. Then I took G’s cock out and engulfed it with my mouth. I heard him moaning as I used my tongue to massage him.

“I would like you to fuck me,” I told him.

“You would, would you?” He asked with a smile.

G kicked the boxers off his foot, and turned me so that I was laying on my back with my butt at the foot of the bed. He slid my panties off and ran his cock between my pussy lips. The feel of his cock rubbing my clit is absolutely amazing. I think that I may have begged at that point for him to go inside me, but he was pretty eager too. Soon, his cock was buried in my wetness.

He fucked me softly and slowly, telling me how good it felt. I agreed that it felt pretty incredible. He picked up speed. I began moaning. He kept going, and I came.

G asked if I wanted him to eat my pussy for a while, but I wrapped my legs tightly around him. I didn’t want him to leave. He kept fucking me.

His cock was rubbing my gspot with every thrust. I told him I was going to cum soon. He kept the pace going and it sent me over the edge. My back arched, my thighs clamped around him, I let out a gasp as my body spasmed. It was very intense.

G pulled out. The feel of me cumming around him must have felt pretty good, because his cum was soon splashing onto my pussy and stomach. We took a photo to send to D. “It appears that I’m already sticky and cum covered,” I wrote.

G slid his cock back into me. Despite cumming, he was still hard. I squeezed him with my pussy walls and he began to fuck me again.

“See what you do to me?” he asked. “I’m still hard for you and can’t stop fucking you.”

“See what you do to me?” I quipped in response. “I’m a sticky mess”

He laughed. He fucked me until I came again, then kneeled down to taste me. His tongue eagerly lapped my pooling pussy juices and then teased my clit. My hand reached down and played with G’s hair as I pulled him in a bit deeper and came around his face.

Then he stood up and slid his cock back into me and fucked me hard. He asked if I wanted him to cum.

“Yes. I want to watch you cum,” I said looking into his eyes. “I want you to tell me how good my pussy feels and how much you like fucking it.”

“It feels great and I love fucking it,” he said as he continued to pound into me.

“Then cum for me. Fill me up. Let that cock explode inside me,” I commanded with a smile. My own breath was getting heavy again. He was fucking me really hard and it felt very good.

His eyes rolled back a little as he thrust deep inside me and shot his load. His weight was leaning forward on my legs and it took him a few seconds to catch his breath. I love watching a man cum. It is so sexy.

“Wow. That was…wow,” he said.

I agreed that it had been very wow.

We sent D a photo of cum dripping out of my pussy. He responded by saying that my pussy looked very happy.

“Oh it is!” I replied.

G and I got under the sheets to kiss and cuddle for a bit before round two.

I think that’s all I’ll share for right now. I should point out, however, that this particular date ended up lasting for five hours and five rounds. I should also add that we did get D some of the videos he requested.

Thank you to both of these men for being so awesome. It was a great way to end 2021.

Fox
Pervert
Posts: 509
Joined: Sat Oct 24, 2020 5:42 pm

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Fox » Sun Jan 02, 2022 11:26 am

You’re so good at relaying your dates that it’s making me get closer to wanting my wife to go on a solo date. Love reading your updates.

weluvtoodoit
Experienced
Posts: 136
Joined: Mon May 28, 2007 5:16 pm

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by weluvtoodoit » Mon Jan 03, 2022 4:10 am

I think many of us said the same words he used after cumming. Wow, that was......wow!! Thanks for sharing your wonderful day!

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jan 03, 2022 4:53 am

Fox wrote:
Sun Jan 02, 2022 11:26 am
You’re so good at relaying your dates that it’s making me get closer to wanting my wife to go on a solo date. Love reading your updates.
Thank you Fox. A solo date is a big step, at least it was for us. Initially (when being a hot wife was still an idea being considered), I didn't think I'd ever want to do it. When we did decide that solo might be ok, we did a trial run first with G and I meeting in a cemetery for a walk and makeout session. D and I wanted to see how that felt for each of us.

In the end, we decided that we like it...but it might not be for every couple. It definitely takes trust, and also some deliberate consideration about how to include the partner at home (I send photos, texts and videos....others share the story when they get home).

If you decide to try it, I hope it goes really well.

In the meantime, thank you for enjoying hearing about our experience.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jan 03, 2022 4:54 am

weluvtoodoit wrote:
Mon Jan 03, 2022 4:10 am
I think many of us said the same words he used after cumming. Wow, that was......wow!! Thanks for sharing your wonderful day!
Thank you weluvtodoit. You made me smile 😁

User avatar
eventfire
Player
Posts: 373
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:16 pm
Location: Near Philadelphia/ south Jersey

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Mon Jan 03, 2022 5:12 am

Of course I chose to read this at the office. Once again you've managed to confine me to my desk. I might as well read it again!

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jan 03, 2022 11:31 am

eventfire wrote:
Mon Jan 03, 2022 5:12 am
Of course I chose to read this at the office. Once again you've managed to confine me to my desk. I might as well read it again!
Did you enjoy it the second time as well? 😉

User avatar
eventfire
Player
Posts: 373
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:16 pm
Location: Near Philadelphia/ south Jersey

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Mon Jan 03, 2022 12:20 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Mon Jan 03, 2022 11:31 am
eventfire wrote:
Mon Jan 03, 2022 5:12 am
Of course I chose to read this at the office. Once again you've managed to confine me to my desk. I might as well read it again!
Did you enjoy it the second time as well? 😉
I enjoyed it about 2" more!

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jan 10, 2022 9:08 am

“Kinky or vanilla?” is not a question that needs to be asked when it is my husband’s birthday weekend. :) Hotels bring out the kinky in him, and I’ve learned to expect a lot of naughty fun when he’s in charge.

This past weekend was exactly that….with a lot of romance, intimacy, and couple time thrown in!

My handsome husband turned 48. Our custom has been to try to go away for at least one night every time it is his birthday, my birthday, or our anniversary. It is great to leave the kids and other responsibilities behind, even just for a short time, and reconnect as the man and woman who fell madly in love decades ago!

Last year, we had to cancel his birthday weekend because of COVID lockdowns. This year, the province of Ontario announced restrictions during his birthday week yet again! But we were determined to go anyway. It turned out great.

We stayed at an inn about an hour’s drive from Toronto. It was originally built as the “country manor” for a wealthy family in the 1800s, and sits on 75 acres of forest and gardens. We booked a suite in the refurbished stables with a bedroom, two bathrooms, and a large sitting area with a wood-buring fireplace.

We arrived a bit early, but our room was ready so we dropped off our bags and decided to enjoy the wintery sunshine before it got dark. We set out to explore the grounds and walked by a young couple getting their wedding photos taken. They looked so happy despite the bride wearing a short sleeve gown, standing in the woods on a freezing January afternoon. We were much less glamorous in our winter coats, sensible boots, gloves, and toques! LOL.

We were the only ones in tropical greenhouses on the property, so we snuck a quick kiss. We also had a wonderful hike in the woods – talking about the kids and work, but also about the growing media empire of the New York Times, the challenges facing the Toronto Raptors, and anything else that came to mind.

We got back to our room an hour or so later. D put on some tea while I went to our car to pick up the wine we had forgotten to bring inside. Romance was in the air all around. A couple were sitting under a blanket at one of the outdoor campfire pits, and the bride and groom were now taking photos by their cake in the “winter tent” (a permanent structure with a wood roof and wood burning fireplace, but three open sides with canvas curtains that can be closed for privacy). Wedding guests were also starting to arrive (a maximum of 20 for outdoor events in Ontario right now) and were all decked out and gorgeous too. I congratulated the couple and told everyone that I hope they had a great evening.

When I got back to our room, the tea was ready and hotel staff had set up a cute little table in our sitting area. This inn has one of the best restaurants in Canada, but COVID restrictions meant that the restaurant was closed. Instead, the inn was offering in-room dining. We placed our order and they said they’d deliver drinks, appetizers and main courses in about an hour. Dessert would follow 30 minutes after that.

What should we do with the next hour? D had some ideas.

He sat down in one of the two armchairs facing our fireplace and told me to strip. I did as the birthday boy instructed. I got naked and first gave him a nice long view of my ass as I leaned on the fireplace mantel. Then I turned and did a sexy dance to the music playing in the background. I walked forward, and leaned down to kiss D, my hands on the armrests of his chair. He spent a long time ogling my chest, before making eye contact. I kissed him and said, “Happy birthday!”

My parents tend to give D cash for his birthday. Being the naughty man that he is, D likes to spend their money on sex toys and really slutty lingerie for me. I suspect they have underwritten half of our sex toy collection! LOL. This year was no different and D asked me if I wanted to see what he had chosen.

We went to the bedroom and D opened the sex bag he had packed for our time together. The new toys were all from a small business in Toronto. The owner uses a 3-D printer to make what he calls “terrible toys.” The shipment even came with a handwritten note to D saying that the owner “hoped these are even more painful than you anticipated.” LOL.

There were two “meat hammer” nipple clamps that could be adjusted to different levels of intensity. There were two toys that looked like mini bear traps. These were also intended for my breasts. And there was a larger bear-trap contraception that was intended for my labia! D was chuckling a little at my face as he unpacked them.

It was his birthday, though, and birthday boys should get what they want. I took a deep breath and told him that he was lucky that I love him. He laughed and said that was true.

I lay back on the bed and spread my legs. D used his expert tongue to play with my clit and bring me to orgasm before any terrible toys were put to use. Then he winked at me and picked up the first toy.

It was oval shaped, made of blue plastic, and consisted of two layers held together by a post and screw at each end. Each layer had one smooth side (facing out) and one side of “teeth”. As the screws are tightened, the teeth move closer and closer together.

The intent of the toy is two-fold – to spread my labia wide, and also clamp them in the teeth. It was a very different kind of sensation. It was more pinchy than painful, although there was also an element of pain to it. I was a bit of a wuss and wouldn’t let D clamp it too tightly.

To distract me from my labia sensations, D grabbed the “meat hammer” clamps and put them on my nipples. I have some experience with nipple clamps, but these spread out the clamping over a wider area than our regular clover clamps. And the “meat tenderizer” texture on the clamps provided an additional new sensation.

D alternated between tightening the clamps on my nipples and then tightening them on my labia. With my pussy lips spread so wide, my clit did begin to poke out. When I wasn’t paying attention to the pain, I enjoyed the sensation of cool air, D’s hot breath, and the occasional tongue flick on my exposed clit.

“Your pussy looks beautiful spread like this,” D told me.

I rolled my eyes a bit but also thanked him. He took out his phone to take a photo and noticed that Sir had sent him a text to wish him a happy birthday and his hopes that we’d have a great time away.

D couldn’t resist showing him my current state. He shared a close-up view of my spread pussy, a full body shot with all three toys, and then a photo of the impressions on my nipples when the clamps were removed.

Sir thanked him for the photos and said that it looked like the weekend was off to a fine start. He wished us well again.

D put his phone away. He removed the labia clamps, then pulled me to the edge of bed and slid his hard cock inside my dripping pussy. I was so aroused that it didn’t take long to make me cum hard. He leaned down to kiss me and said that we should probably get dressed. Dinner would be here soon.

D hadn’t orgasmed yet, but he reminded me that the night was young. He also handed me my remote vibrator and told me to make sure that it was inside my pussy and turned on before dinner arrived.

I did as instructed and was dressed with the vibrator set to low when the staff knocked on our door. I put on my face mask and let them in. They put our drinks and appetizers on the table. Lit the center candle and left the main course under a cloche on the coffee table. They said they’d return to clear the table and bring dessert in about 30 minutes.

D lit a fire in our fireplace and we enjoyed the romantic dinner.

“In room dining is kind of nice,” D said to me after feeding me a sample bite of his food. “Not only do you not have to make small talk with the waiter, but you can also ask your dining partner to show you her breasts and she’ll be free to do so.”

I laughed but lifted my sweater to show him. “They’ve mostly recovered from the clamps,” I told him.

“For now,” he replied with another grin.

We cleared our appetizer plates and set up the main course. “Before we eat, I think you should turn that vibrator on high and let me watch you orgasm,” he suggested.

I rolled my eyes at him again, but also smiled. I grabbed my phone, adjusted the settings and slid a hand down my leggings so that I could hold the external part of the vibrator right against my clit. It didn’t take long to make myself cum.

“See? You can’t do that in a fancy restaurant either,” He said.

“Well you probably CAN do that in a fancy restaurant, it would just be frowned upon,” I responded.

We finished our meal. The staff returned to clear our dishes and deliver dessert. We put the “do not disturb” sign on our door and decided to settle in for the rest of the night. I won’t share all the details, but will say that the birthday boy did get everything he wanted that night :)

dorsetben

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by dorsetben » Mon Jan 10, 2022 10:31 am

You two sure know how to live - well done!

solstice
OHW Addict
Posts: 1595
Joined: Sat Sep 30, 2017 12:32 pm

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by solstice » Mon Jan 10, 2022 11:45 pm

There is one thing I like more than you the relating sexy details of your dates with your lovers and it is you lavishing love and attention to your husband, your erotic shenanigan's is heart warming to me when compared to the denial practiced by many HW's but where was the erotic stimulus in discussing the growing media empire of the New York Times? :D

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Jan 11, 2022 5:17 am

dorsetben wrote:
Mon Jan 10, 2022 10:31 am
You two sure know how to live - well done!
Thank you. I'm a big believer in making birthdays special. After a few years of COVID, I'm also a believer in taking any opportunity to do things outside of our home! LOL. We had a great time.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Jan 11, 2022 5:27 am

solstice wrote:
Mon Jan 10, 2022 11:45 pm
There is one thing I like more than you the relating sexy details of your dates with your lovers and it is you lavishing love and attention to your husband, your erotic shenanigan's is heart warming to me when compared to the denial practiced by many HW's but where was the erotic stimulus in discussing the growing media empire of the New York Times? :D
Thank you. I adore my husband and think he's the sexiest man alive. I love getting the opportunity to express that without any kids or other responsibilities around.

As for the New York Times, is the fact that journalists can still make a living in today's internet world not a turn on? LOL

My husband is a sports enthusiast. I am a casual fan, but enjoy sports documentaries or coverage that does a deep dive into a specific athlete or team. I want the sports pages to tell me the story, not just the score. So the NYT's acquiring The Athletic is rather interesting to me. I guess it comes down to the fact that D and I are nerds, and it is a turn on to talk nerdy things together :)

User avatar
Matureone2560
Experienced
Posts: 186
Joined: Sun Mar 11, 2018 9:25 am

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Matureone2560 » Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:35 pm

May i ask what the "total orgasms in one day” record is?

User avatar
Des 31
OHW Addict
Posts: 3632
Joined: Thu Oct 05, 2017 11:20 pm

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:53 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Mon Jul 19, 2021 9:40 am
Hi everyone. My husband and I are new to "the lifestyle", but I also hesitate to use that term. We are still dabbling to figure out exactly what each of us is interested in exploring and how we want to move forward with that. I think he'd consider himself a stag, but also enjoys a cuckold fantasy. I lean more towards vixen/hotwife than anything that involves humiliation for him. With that said, I do enjoy a good role play now and then ;)

Either way, we are in this together and appreciate having a forum like this to ask our questions and chat with others who have similar interests.
This takes time and experience for all of us. Once my wife agreed and took that first step, I had no idea my fantasies were far different from the reality. With good communication comes trust, and it should all work out in time.

Des
Our hotwife history from its beginning at viewtopic.php?f=5&t=50057

Adventurer
Experienced
Posts: 174
Joined: Tue Sep 14, 2021 8:26 am

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Adventurer » Wed Jan 12, 2022 4:25 pm

Matureone2560 wrote:
Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:35 pm
May i ask what the "total orgasms in one day” record is?
56!!!
Married to Lookingforadventure

Our story:viewtopic.php?f=47&t=63148

Post Reply