Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[eater]

interested. go on.

[slenderfish]

My job responsibilities are out of control. But I'm doing my best. It'll either explode and fall apart (and become yet another startup project that didn't work out for me/us) or it'll be a big success. We will know in a few months. It's certainly adding stress to our marriage.

In the meantime, back to last Sunday.

I waited for about five minutes in the car and then decided to enter the event. I saw on my phone that, a couple hours earlier, SW had indicated the ticket is under her name. No other texts.

I tried to be stealthy without being obviously so, to the other participants. I approached my first wine serving table not based on the wine label, but rather the position in the venue. One that provided a long view without exposing my position. I was looking for the hot blonde with a guy eating out of her hand.

Someone did notice I wasn't paying attention and asked if I needed anything or was looking for something. I gracefully declined, and realized I needed to move and progress deeper into the venue.

I ultimately spotted the back of SW's head, her hair up in a high bun, and again was careful not to catch attention. As I got closer, I then had to approach fully so as to not look like some skulking creep.

And there she was, smiling and giggling with a tall dark and handsome man, also smiling and engaged with her. The same lawyer as the prior year! And his voice matched the one on the phone earlier, encouraging her to go somewhere with him.

I decided that the earlier call was not a pocket dial, but rather that she just wasn't paying attention. In other words, she was intending to call me but decided at the last second not to call, but didn't realize the call had connected. Though she did close that call after about 30 seconds. How could she not know that it was a live call for that period? Not paying attention?

I think that she called me to ask my permission to go somewhere with him, that she wanted to go, and that she'd decided I was not going to show up. Therefore, she wanted to go with him and was calling to come up with a reason that she would be home a bit later, etc. But when I answered the phone, she froze and couldn't find words, etc. and realized what she was doing and lost her nerve.

When she did see me, she gave me this eye roll and didn't really say anything, but walked off and across the venue, and engaged some other women in conversation. She was pissed or disappointed.

I greeted SW's hottie girlfriend who had been there as SW's wingwoman. She and I are good friends now, and have easy conversation. Mr. Lawyer was smooth and remembered meeting me the prior year, etc.

[Wistful]

An exciting evening! Later, once the two of you had the chance to talk, was the motive for her anger or disappointment made more clear to you? And have you discovered your initial guess as to the mechanics of the phone call was more or less accurate, or has SW offered her own explanation?

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Looks she is more brave…

Hope one day you two decide to go somewhere to find someone for her. Or play a game like in short movie:
https://shortfil.ms/film/the-girlfriend-game-2015

[Hawks6364]

Omg that was fantastic. I have no words 🫢

[slenderfish]

Well, if you remember, I'd arrived about 15 minutes before the event was to conclude. So I concluded the pleasantries and spent the balance of the wine drinking time hitting the tasting tables of the five or six wineries I decided were most important to me. I acted friendly to people who were initiating conversations, given that they were all pretty toasted at that time, but moved along with relative haste.

SW had parked herself at a table with two women and they were gabbing.

The people pouring the wine all started packing up and continued to pour the bottles that had been opened but not emptied. SW went back to some of the better tables (better wines) and magically had a collection of four or five nice bottles. I believe the (men?) pouring at those tables deliberately opened a final bottle for her and then could not take the opened bottle with them, and therefore "just had to" hand her the bottle(s).

Two of the wine pouring folks joined our table, bringing a bottle or two (unopened) as gifts for SW.

So we kind of hosted an after-party at our table. The restaurant otherwise transitioned to its normal dinner service. SW's hottie girlfriend drank another couple of glasses with us but then called an Uber and bid us farewell.

Tall lawyer made a quick hello/goodbye and confirmed with SW that they had each other's contact info for whatever reason they were saying they needed it.

We ordered some food and had fun conversation with some people and SW invited herself to sit a someone else's actual dinner table for about 15 minutes.

The restaurant eventually closed and we were the last to leave.

We got home and SW was more "on fire" than I'd seen her in a long time. She immediately took off her clothes and effectively seduced me without delay. She got down on her hands and knees and shook her little heart-shaped ass and said that she's "in the mood for anything and everything" and teased me with her body. I took up the offer without hesitation and we had sloppy drunk sex for at least a half hour. She was wet and enjoying it all, and I finally called uncle.

I knew what had fired her up (Mr. Lawyer) but didn't put it in her face. We slept peacefully, SW buck naked all night, a rarity in all the years I've known her.

[afagehi7]

Well, if you remember, I'd arrived about 15 minutes before the event was to conclude. So I concluded the pleasantries and spent the balance of the wine drinking time hitting the tasting tables of the five or six wineries I decided were most important to me. I acted friendly to people who were initiating conversations, given that they were all pretty toasted at that time, but moved along with relative haste.

SW had parked herself at a table with two women and they were gabbing.

The people pouring the wine all started packing up and continued to pour the bottles that had been opened but not emptied. SW went back to some of the better tables (better wines) and magically had a collection of four or five nice bottles. I believe the (men?) pouring at those tables deliberately opened a final bottle for her and then could not take the opened bottle with them, and therefore "just had to" hand her the bottle(s).

Two of the wine pouring folks joined our table, bringing a bottle or two (unopened) as gifts for SW.

So we kind of hosted an after-party at our table. The restaurant otherwise transitioned to its normal dinner service. SW's hottie girlfriend drank another couple of glasses with us but then called an Uber and bid us farewell.

Tall lawyer made a quick hello/goodbye and confirmed with SW that they had each other's contact info for whatever reason they were saying they needed it.

We ordered some food and had fun conversation with some people and SW invited herself to sit a someone else's actual dinner table for about 15 minutes.

The restaurant eventually closed and we were the last to leave.

We got home and SW was more "on fire" than I'd seen her in a long time. She immediately took off her clothes and effectively seduced me without delay. She got down on her hands and knees and shook her little heart-shaped ass and said that she's "in the mood for anything and everything" and teased me with her body. I took up the offer without hesitation and we had sloppy drunk sex for at least a half hour. She was wet and enjoying it all, and I finally called uncle.

I knew what had fired her up (Mr. Lawyer) but didn't put it in her face. We slept peacefully, SW buck naked all night, a rarity in all the years I've known her.

Y'all could be a reality show... You're quite the socialites.

Tall lawyer - have you asked why the number exchange? You could encourage her to text him? It would be extremely hot to take sexy pics for her to send to another guy. Like playboyfanhottie

[Mark K]

Thinking the next update will possibly be another inflection point, in a good way.

[slenderfish]

The next day I told her of my appreciation regarding her vigor in the bed overnight, and I then suggested it is high time to get a new big black dildo toy i place of one we/she had some years ago that she named Jamaal. I did not suggest a name.

She agreed and asked me to acquire "just the right one" for her.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

The next day I told her of my appreciation regarding her vigor in the bed overnight, and I then suggested it is high time to get a new big black dildo toy i place of one we/she had some years ago that she named Jamaal. I did not suggest a name.

She agreed and asked me to acquire "just the right one" for her.

Sounds great.

Do you have a didlo with sucker to fix it to wall/glass etc.
So you can train SW for a theesome - so didlo in vagina and your cock in the mouth.
During such splitroast you may talk dirty to her that she is so good hotwife that she may go with two men to get more satisfaction !
I can”t imagine what SW would tell you about dealing with two real cocks.

[slenderfish]

Sounds great.

Do you have a didlo with sucker to fix it to wall/glass etc.
So you can train SW for a theesome - so didlo in vagina and your cock in the mouth.
During such splitroast you may talk dirty to her that she is so good hotwife that she may go with two men to get more satisfaction !
I can”t imagine what SW would tell you about dealing with two real cocks.

The one I ordered is a "real look and feel" toy and does have suction cup for the kind of play you suggested!

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Sounds great.

Do you have a didlo with sucker to fix it to wall/glass etc.
So you can train SW for a theesome - so didlo in vagina and your cock in the mouth.
During such splitroast you may talk dirty to her that she is so good hotwife that she may go with two men to get more satisfaction !
I can”t imagine what SW would tell you about dealing with two real cocks.

The one I ordered is a "real look and feel" toy and does have suction cup for the kind of play you suggested!

Can not wait to read about an usage of it.
Hope you would start a warm up before it arived.
So e.g. dirty talking that you want to see her used this didlo like the second man, so kind of preparation before she would go with two men.

[TheHammer]

The next day I told her of my appreciation regarding her vigor in the bed overnight, and I then suggested it is high time to get a new big black dildo toy i place of one we/she had some years ago that she named Jamaal. I did not suggest a name.

She agreed and asked me to acquire "just the right one" for her.

Thanks for posting your updates and her pics, you should ask her to send him a flirty text and the both of you can read the response together.

How long and thick is the dildo?

As far as the name, here are some ideas, Lester, Darius, Luther, Devon, Jalen.

Can’t wait to read about the next chapter of your saga!

[slenderfish]

Thanks for posting your updates and her pics, you should ask her to send him a flirty text and the both of you can read the response together.

How long and thick is the dildo?

As far as the name, here are some ideas, Lester, Darius, Luther, Devon, Jalen.

Can’t wait to read about the next chapter of your saga!

The dildo is one of those throbbing/expanding ones that is controlled via a wireless interface. So it sits at 7 inches but when in throbbing mode apparently goes to 8 inches. Also has internal heating in the upper shaft.

I've procured toys in the past that were just too big for her to even try and enjoy. I could have chosen an inferior one with a shorter wait time, but went this route.

[slenderfish]

So last night SW went to bed early.

It is the holiday season and more social gatherings and more wine. We went over to our neighbor's house for wine and cheese on Sunday evening. This is SW's hottie friend, who looks a lot like Michelle Pfeiffer. She is generally very self-centered and had kind of sided with Ms. K (of pantygate fame) after all that went down. Mostly, we concluded, because they are both single hot women.

Well, this Ms. V is now in a relationship. She is a bit of a gold digger and met this guy in Aspen about eighteen months ago. Once she brought him around us, I immediately took a liking to him and predicted to SW that we would be seeing a lot more of these two, as couples. And so it is playing out.

Ms. V is on her best behavior with this man, also as predicted, and is intent on letting him see that she's sweet and patient and has cool friends (as couples). We are accommodating it all and have introduced them around. He lives a couple of time zones away, and they tend to see each other a couple of times a month. He comes from a wealthy family.

So we were over there and they were generous with lots of delicious red wine, and SW did partake. We only slightly overstayed our welcome and walked home in the cold night. SW was not ready to wind down, so she insisted on starting a program on the television. At around midnight, I excused myself.

She was up until about 3:00 a.m., watching various reruns and drinking more wine. I heard a wine glass crash to the ground, and peeked out to be sure all was okay. She cleaned it up, vacuumed the glass away, and then went back to her program. An hour later, I heard her rooting around in the coat closet, cleaning it out. She was still very sloppy, and ended up breaking some glass serving trays and, yet again, I looked out on her to be sure all was okay. She finally got to sleep at 3:30 and so did I.

My workday on Monday was essentially ruined, I was just too drowsy. Not sure what to do with all this.

[afagehi7]

Heavy is the head of he who wears the crown...

[Tryn]

Does she have a history of insomnia or trouble falling asleep? It seems odd that she does after drinking. I personally have falling asleep issues, so I can understand how she may. Falling asleep when I’m drunk has never been problematic for me though. Not once.

It’s not an uncommon thing, especially among those in your socio-economic circles, to dabble in the powdery stuff. That can definitely keep someone awake after drinking! Some have stated here they think she’s an alcoholic. Maybe, but none of us are privy to the full story, so none of us can really tell. People who are not alcoholics get drunk too, sometimes sloppily. It might be worth digging through her purse to see if she does indeed use the powder. If she does, you’ve got a whole new issue to handle. If not, then maybe she does have a problem with alcohol or something else going on.

Perhaps talking about it at your next therapy session would be prudent?

[afagehi7]

Does she have a history of insomnia or trouble falling asleep? It seems odd that she does after drinking. I personally have falling asleep issues, so I can understand how she may. Falling asleep when I’m drunk has never been problematic for me though. Not once.

It’s not an uncommon thing, especially among those in your socio-economic circles, to dabble in the powdery stuff. That can definitely keep someone awake after drinking! Some have stated here they think she’s an alcoholic. Maybe, but none of us are privy to the full story, so none of us can really tell. People who are not alcoholics get drunk too, sometimes sloppily. It might be worth digging through her purse to see if she does indeed use the powder. If she does, you’ve got a whole new issue to handle. If not, then maybe she does have a problem with alcohol or something else going on.

Perhaps talking about it at your next therapy session would be prudent?

If she is an alkie she'll be drinking daily, earlier and earlier. To me she seems more like a lush. I know alikes well and she doesn't quite fit. With that said, it wouldn't be a far stretch to go from lush to alike.

About her skiing with the nose candy, it's not really that addictive or dangerous as long as not mixed with something. If she was doing powder, she would have been fucking other long ago. In my experience powder is like instant slut... It really drops the panties.

Edit: when I drank I couldn't fall asleep unless I passed out. I don't think it's uncommon

[NewOldCuck]

Geeez Guys,

Give SF a break. Unless you are a practicing psychologist or drug counselor, what qualifies you to make such a observation other than the fact you are a member of this forum. He is kind enough to allow us to see a "sliver", and small one at that, of his personal life and all of a sudden everyone is making his wife out to have some serious life altering health problems. Whatever SF is, he isn't stupid or unaware. He is a kind and caring husband who loves his wife. I would humbly ask that you that, if you insist on offering your opinion on his wife's behavior, at least you could do it in a PM. Just my 2 cents.

New Old Cuck

[slenderfish]

Geeez Guys,

Give SF a break. Unless you are a practicing psychologist or drug counselor, what qualifies you to make such a observation other than the fact you are a member of this forum. He is kind enough to allow us to see a "sliver", and small one at that, of his personal life and all of a sudden everyone is making his wife out to have some serious life altering health problems. Whatever SF is, he isn't stupid or unaware. He is a kind and caring husband who loves his wife. I would humbly ask that you that, if you insist on offering your opinion on his wife's behavior, at least you could do it in a PM. Just my 2 cents.

New Old Cuck

I agree on the lush characterization. She was a fun and light lush, but now it's becoming more of a real lush. Mind you, she's generally a fun drunk and everyone in our group has seen SW in her shiniest and best fun-lush state. I'm okay with the ebbs and flows of it all, but am trying to discern when it is starting to bleed into the problematic range.

I'm certain she has no situation with powdery stuff, or anything else. She also won't touch spirits.

I don't mind the observations, since I did put it out there.

Thanks for your consideration, NOC, and also to others who put their thoughts in writing via their posts.

[william70]

Lush/alkie wtf. As an alcoholic sober for 38 yrs. there is no difference. It's semantics at it's worse. The poor woman needs help! You're all just enabling her.

[afagehi7]

Lush/alkie wtf. As an alcoholic sober for 38 yrs. there is no difference. It's semantics at it's worse. The poor woman needs help! You're all just enabling her.

Some people can enjoy drinking and tying one on without being an alcoholic. You've obviously been to AA, so you know we're different.

[anonymister1948]

I've worried about this from the very begining, way back to the Mr. B night. I've seen the signs and can tell alarming drinking behavior from afar. (I celebrated 30 years of sobriety this past summer) SF, please reach out to me if you'd like to "talk".

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Looks like SW needs therapy.

I was thinking that after ongoing theraphy she become addicted from the bull’s cum but it turns in a wrong directions.

[slenderfish]

Okay, I've concluded she is a "binge" social drinker but is starting to bleed over into concerning territory. She has self-observed and expressed that she is going to cut back, and that she would like me to give her a gentle reminder not to have that "next glass" of wine when we are out. Let's see how that goes.

The therapist also asked her to reduce her "self-medication" via wine.